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Joined: 6/28/2005

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Agh.....am I THAT out of practise?! Posted: 7/17/2005 3:22:06 PM
No,I think it's the classic twist! Don't call,act interested anything for a week or 2! Make her think about me,want me,need me! he's playin you !!!

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Why Do I See More Caucasian Men Dating Asian Women? Posted: 7/17/2005 1:50:56 PM
It is because we can! North America is the melting pot of the world! It's not looked badly upon us who we couple up with! I think it's truly a great thing.We are creating a whole new race of people.I think we will call it the uni-race. On Topic I really don't think it's any more prevalent than before,It's just that you seem to pick out a couple with different skin tones more quickly. If you remove the rose colored glasses and look only at contrasts(black,white and gray) you will quickly be able pick out the gray subject matter from the other 2 contrasts! Anyway,have fun an keep mixing it up!!!!!!!

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true disgustingly hilarious story Posted: 7/17/2005 1:42:30 AM
heard that one before an yes it's still funny

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Fun One Liners Posted: 7/17/2005 12:38:30 AM
Lord give me patience,but I want it right ****ing NOW!!!!!!

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Fun One Liners Posted: 7/17/2005 12:36:42 AM
Rehab is for quitters,I'm not a quitter

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Fun One Liners Posted: 7/17/2005 12:16:43 AM
Heres one for the pool: I don't swim in your toilet,please don't piss in my pool

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Fun One Liners Posted: 7/17/2005 12:01:08 AM
TOURISTS;If there in season then why can't we shoot'em FLORIDA;came down on vacation,left on probation,came back on violation I'm not as thunk as you drink I am

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license plates Posted: 7/16/2005 11:34:27 PM
I8UB4 andI8UB42

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You know you've been single too long when... Posted: 7/16/2005 10:01:12 PM
when you forget who gets tied up!

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Advice Please... Posted: 7/16/2005 7:54:40 PM
The animosity will only diminish with time"Time Heals All Wounds" but the scars remain forever. As for the mommy's friend thing don't worry about that too much. I would definetly get some more opinions from other lawyers as to custody agreements.It sound as if there was some form of molestation in her childhood or at least severe neglect.This could follow over into your sons well being.Watch that very closely.A journal or notebook is a very good idea so that all incidents can be recorded in a chronological timeframe.Date each entry no matter how trivial it may seem write it down.It is also good therapy for you! Don't let your son see this book or even you writing in it.Can you remember what happened on this day last year? I can't,see my point?It's going to be another year if either of you contest the custody agreement!A restraining order could prevent you from seeing your son if she feels threatened in any way by you or she could just lie about it thus infuriating you even more.Any witness that speaks on your behalf is biased an vice-versa,but her an him over just you an click go the bracelets an a free ride downtown!Do Not ever put yourself in this position!!!!!!!!!EVER!!! A pi is expensive an cannot see what goes on inside the house.Forget that,just make sure to tell your son that you are his parent also an he can tell mommy anything about what goes on when he is with you and make him feel it's ok to talk to you about anything that happens when your not around him.Kids will open up very quickly if they feel secure in your trust not to tell on them.Don't violate that trust!!!!Ya know,they say if you give a monkey enough rope it will eventually hang itself. Walk in a straight line an you will get wherever your goin much faster! Chill out dude,things will get better for you an your son

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Small Breast Lovers Anyone? Posted: 7/16/2005 6:35:37 PM
While I have had the pleasure to experience small,medium and large breastissis (lol) and enjoyed them all! There are a few things to consider;large breasts look very attractive when trussed up in a bra,are more fun to handle when standing behind her,small breasts seem to be very sensitive to the touch(a good thing) and she can go braless more often allowing for easy access,medium breasts make great playtoys whether she is standing,lying down facingup or down!!!! I prefer a woman with a nice round aereola not any larger than say a silver dollar.I have found that they are the easiest to stimulate thus making her increasingly hornier! I think goldilox said it best"Ahhh Just Right". I like'em all,bring on the boobies

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Advice Please... Posted: 7/16/2005 3:46:04 PM
Rich: Take a deep breath,exhale,repeat as necessary!!! The anger you are feeling is natural,a result of the failed relationship.Be very careful in how you release it! Physical excerise is a controllable way to get it out.Also you can just go outside ALONE an just scream it out.But never let it just boil inside you as it will rear it's ugly head at the worst time.Your life has changed,you are a parent now an must always keep that foremost in your mind!Don't be confrontational with her,it doesn't help you or her or the child.As far as the batters box thing goes,yes it happens all the time,your not alone there,that boat is way over full. Face it,women cheat too.Get over her now.It's not about her anymore,it's all about the child and what you can do best for him as a father.Your vacations will have to wait.Without some kind of custody agreement she can just up an leave at any time without telling you.Get a lawyer,this doesn't look bad on you,it just shows that you want to protect your rights to your son and his welfare.Do not try to elict information from your son about her or her relationships with others.Concern your efforts with showing him how much you care and love him.Do not go inside her house,stay outside in the car if possible to see him safely get inside.You could be setup for a restraining order if anything happens without your having a reliable witness on your side!!! Be happy that you get time with your son an make sure he knows that he is number one in your life.Be proud in knowing that you can get along just fine without a woman in your life right now.Without knowing any of the particulars,it appears that she needs someone to provide for her.Things will get better,just chill out for now.

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Do women mind single dads with kids Posted: 7/16/2005 1:59:22 PM
Wisteria,Did you see the part that said (most).Your situation is somewhat unique in that you were equal breadwinners and now have equal custody.Sounds like a fair deal for both. Going dutch(50/50) is definately not the norm and will seldom get a man a second date with her! Even more rare is the woman that insists on paying for dinner!In all my years that has happened only once.I was 18,she was 32 and we were just friends.I agree that money is not what makes a relationship but dating is a process that requires money.I'm not here to argue any point of view,merely stating what appears obvious to me. By the way,I'm free next week if you'd like to fly down to Fl. and take me out to dinner!!!

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What's in a (last) name? Posted: 7/16/2005 11:26:06 AM
My son has his mothers last name,we agreed on this at the time of his birth.We were not married and having severe financial difficulties.It was in his best interest so that the gov't would help with welfare assistance.My name is not on his birth certificate.We thought that we were married by common-law (cohabitating for more than 7 years).That turned out not to be as that practice was abolished in the mid-sixties.I feel great remorse that my son will have to deal with being called a **stard-child.I also deal with being called Mr. (her last name) by the folks at school and by some of the kids.His mom an I have discussed it an she is willing to let him have my last name.I also have custody of him.We split when he was 6 an I regained him at 8.He is now 12.I now wonder what is the best thing to do?Change it immediately,while he is young enough to adjust or wait till he is old enough to better understand why I think it is best for him to change it to prevent any further awkward moments? The thought of taking her to vegas and marrying her for the day did come to mind!His best interest is what's at stake here not mine! Any Thoughts Welcomed

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Do women mind single dads with kids Posted: 7/16/2005 8:44:33 AM
Ok,here is my take on the question;after reading several pages of this thread it is very easy to see that their are women that admire men raising their children on their own or even shared. They,for the most part all have children of their own. They seem to say they are having the same problem as us men are! There is a big difference here. I'm not here to say anything sexist,but in most of these cases the man was the main breadwinner an they are now getting child-support or gov't help. We,as the main breadwinner are not afforded the same help! It takes a lot to raise any child on your own.It is even harder for us in that we must be able to provide for our children and when going out on a date provide for the entertainment of the woman in company!If she has children of her own,she may accept this with great understanding!If the relationship grows then a new dilema may present itself,the possibility of a new marriage!In most states her alimony will cease if she remarrys,a reduction in child-support can be pressed by the exhusband or gov't agencies.Any of this can cause financial difficulties for both parties involved.This leads to further stress of all concerned!!! Now if we move on to the single women without children our chances are even further depleted.Reguardless of their age,mostly they do not want to be second seat to anyone that may interfere with where they are in their life;childless,partial custody,grown children,no children,etc. We all want an need attention in our lives;but due to the society norms,the woman is still given the advantage in the dating/(looking) arena.AKA-(A good man is hard to come by,A hard man is good to come by) All this,an we still haven't got to the SEX part of a new relationship yet! Yes,Sex,whats sex got to do with it? EVERYTHING That is why we are here. If the woman desires to have sex,it is easily done upon her willingness;whereas the man must prove his ability to provide for all her pleasures at the possible expense of his childrens attention an financial well-being. My personal experiences with women that have had children is that they put sex on the low end of their scale of most desirable things to do in their free time.As a man over 40,my desires for sex have not at all decreased! Still searching for a great woman!!!!!

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