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digitalfever

Joined: 2/6/2008

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Any way to find + herpes people on this site? Posted: 9/29/2009 8:36:51 PM
Because I am STD free unlike alot of you nasty degenerates,whatever you are digitalfever.That answers your question,simple as that.You have no idea how sick your question is.I'll bet money you have herpes too,God you nasty mofos I'm STD free thank you. I get tested every 6 months! It doesn't take someone to have herpes(or any other kind of STD) to see you're an ass.

digitalfever

Joined: 2/6/2008

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guys who like girls with tummies Posted: 8/31/2009 3:33:35 PM
I didnt say no woman should be skinny, read again and open your narrow little mind mr army man. I love how you’re promoting free thinking through instruction. Hmmm. Yeah but army life, i can grow my hair long, i dont have to wear green, i dont have to talk with a funny voice and stick my chest out shouting yes sergent major sir. So i made a typing error, so what, at least im free to do this Wow. Aren't we just SO kind and thoughtful and non-generalizing. Not. I have family and friends within the Military… What you’re saying is disrespectful, mean and incredibly ignorant. Pull your head from your ass and smell the roses for a bit, it’ll be a nice change of scenery.

digitalfever

Joined: 2/6/2008

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Any way to find + herpes people on this site? Posted: 8/31/2009 2:48:55 PM
Take your nasty self away.People such as yourself do not deserve to be here. What makes you so sure you’re part of the deserving population?

digitalfever

Joined: 2/6/2008

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Whats the single most important quality in a man Posted: 8/19/2009 6:23:06 PM
Uh, his personality. Looks fade!

digitalfever

Joined: 2/6/2008

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Why aRe MORE Black Women Against Interracial RELATIONSHIPS? Posted: 8/19/2009 4:08:06 PM
As a mixed woman who dates outside of her race i’ll have to say the racism is pretty much equal. There are countless times when I’ve been out on a date with a white man and we’ll get looks and sometimes even rude comments. I’ve never understood it because I’m a product of an interracial relationship, I just so happen to have a preference towards white men. When in relationships I’ve had black men insult, hit of me ignoring my ever present boyfriend and even tell me to leave him. I’ve been threatened and even once told that I was a disgrace to my race! All the while these people usually black ignore the fact that I’m both. I’m both black and white and don’t consider myself more or less of one or the other! It frustrates me to no end!

digitalfever

Joined: 2/6/2008

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has female seen this problem besides me? Posted: 8/12/2009 11:48:17 PM
If you were in a bar and a guy came up to you and was referring to themselves in the third person like "You want a piece of the Nick-ster?" Would you seriously be interested? Isn't that socially awkward? I don’t think it would be awkward. I think I’d have a good little chuckle, throw out a little remark and have a brief exchange of banter then move on.

digitalfever

Joined: 2/6/2008

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Do you Give as Good as you Get/Want ? Posted: 8/12/2009 8:58:42 PM
I haven’t figured out what I’m seeking specifically yet so I give what I can which is my interest in getting to know other people and to see where that goes... if anywhere.

digitalfever

Joined: 2/6/2008

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Good or Bad speed dating question? Posted: 8/12/2009 8:54:07 PM
Speed dating is simple: Make a lasting impression on the person your attracted to in the 5 mins that your given. Aim for good, light a funny conversation over a question that really has to have a lot of thought put in to it. They’ll probably still be in thought by the time the buzzer goes off.

digitalfever

Joined: 2/6/2008

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Non-traditional students and dating Posted: 8/10/2009 9:51:10 PM
I'm older than the OP and back in school. I'm doing much better at the school part than right after HS but much worse socially - I actually feel uncomfortable sometimes, like the creepy old guy at the house party. You shouldn't. In alot of my classes there are a few mature sudents and they make the classroom a much more interesting place. They bring alot to the table... Now, unless you are the creepy old guy at the house party. I'm gunna say its all in your own mind.

digitalfever

Joined: 2/6/2008

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Why is there so little dating between white men and black women? Posted: 8/10/2009 9:32:59 PM
Please don't flatter yourself! There might be a few black women who are interested in dating white men and are posting questions like this, however, the majority are not interested at all. So for the most part it is mutual. Uhhh, who made you spokes person for the black single female population? I sure as hell did not vote you in. Many (like myself) love white men and all other men for that matter. I figure it's chocolate. I like white, milk dark and kosher chocolate and any other variations that may come to my attention.

digitalfever

Joined: 2/6/2008

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My first experience with someone hiv positive thru POF Posted: 8/9/2009 9:31:37 PM
http://aids.about.com/od/legalissues/a/hivdating.htm It should have been brought up to your attention but you fail to even consider the guts it probably took to even TELL you he had HIV/AIDS. I don’t think that there should be a line on profiles since everyone is entitled to their privacy. This would have gone down the same way even if you were to have met him in person rather than POF.

digitalfever

Joined: 2/6/2008

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what would you think? Posted: 8/9/2009 5:50:39 PM
My question is though wouldn't a man who is interested, respond to my message, even if it wasn't what he wanted to hear. I told him I was hurt, he was online and hadn't gotten in touch with me all day. He hasn't even responded. I'm trying to find out if this guy cares at all about me or not OP, he's not interested. You sent him a message saying you didn't want to be his **** buddy (when it kinda looks like that's what you were) and so he doesn't respond because there is nothing more to be said.

digitalfever

Joined: 2/6/2008

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what would you think? Posted: 8/9/2009 5:16:40 PM
I am so confused. should I be the one apologizing or should he be at least concerned and trying to talk to me about this? Heh, there are alot of things he could do but he doesn't have to do anything. If what you told him is how you honestly feel... why apologize... There's no need to.

digitalfever

Joined: 2/6/2008

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tearing down what texting built Posted: 8/9/2009 4:21:37 PM
My cell phone is rarely on or present while I’m out with other people. I personally think people who text while hanging out, are at the dinner table, having friends over ect... are rude. If you are spending time with people spend time with them. Put down your little security blanket and have conversation!

digitalfever

Joined: 2/6/2008

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Do women cook anymore?? Posted: 8/9/2009 4:03:23 PM
I can and even enjoy cooking sometimes. But do i jump for joy every time I’m expected to whip a dish up. No.

digitalfever

Joined: 2/6/2008

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WHATS THE WORST DATE YOU HAD ON POF Posted: 8/8/2009 9:22:58 PM
Then another time i chatted to someone who was listed as a child predator....and being a single mom, i knew i could not meet him. He seemed nice but well thats what guys do, they suck you in then tell you whats really wrong. Most people who are trying to manipulate and toy with you seem nice. Being nice get's you much further than acting like a jerk off.

digitalfever

Joined: 2/6/2008

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Is he really not that into me? Posted: 8/5/2009 6:54:17 PM
It would be nice if he said something. However, his actions SCREAM not interested.

digitalfever

Joined: 2/6/2008

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How much should a man chase you to show he is interested? Posted: 8/5/2009 6:20:40 PM
I don’t want to be chased after. If someone likes me or is interested in getting to know me then cool – we should talk, hang out whatever to see where it goes.

digitalfever

Joined: 2/6/2008

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How do you feel about Interracial Dating ? Posted: 8/3/2009 5:50:00 PM
truthfully its easier to date someone who is the same ethnic background as you are - same culture, same language, same religion, beliefs and values... That's a false assumption. If you were to meet a white guy from South Africa I highly doubt you'd have similar cultural backgrounds. Your ethnicity in no way determines your cultural association.

digitalfever

Joined: 2/6/2008

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NOT shy and NOT NERVOUS about first dates/meetings. Posted: 8/3/2009 4:22:15 PM
You think God is up there saying, "hmm.she's a bit shy so I'll provide her only with laid back types". Why doesn't God just make you not nervous? Considering all the credit He's given all the time you'd think he would do things in a more logical way. It's sort of like when someone thanks God for rescuing them out of a fiery car wreck at the hands of some heroic fireman. Why not just wave His hand and prevent the car crash in the first place? While I wasn't serious. Sure, why not.

digitalfever

Joined: 2/6/2008

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What is too easy? Posted: 8/3/2009 4:10:52 PM
OP, be selective with you who sleep with. Don’t sleep with a man just because he asks, or to try and maintain his interest. If you find yourself wanting to sleep with the guy then by all means go for it.

digitalfever

Joined: 2/6/2008

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Why are you looking for the one, Posted: 8/3/2009 4:05:06 PM
I don’t believe in the whole “the one” concept. It seems rather far-fetched that out of the billions of people on this earth only one person could be your match. There are many men out there who could be your potential “one”.

digitalfever

Joined: 2/6/2008

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NOT shy and NOT NERVOUS about first dates/meetings. Posted: 8/3/2009 4:00:16 PM
I'm usually nervous. So i usually thank to God that my dates are usually the laid back types. Or it would be one high strung date...

digitalfever

Joined: 2/6/2008

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New HIV strain discovered.... Posted: 8/3/2009 3:51:12 PM
But it can be accurately detected by tests within 3 months of exposure. I thinkk she may be reffering to the fact that HIV can remain dormant in your system for years.

digitalfever

Joined: 2/6/2008

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What am I doing wrong in conversations? Posted: 8/3/2009 2:57:04 PM
Yes all very true, it's odd really, get me at work and I'm super confident and always cracking jokes(and usually getting laughs). I guess it's just knowing what to say to move things on. Time, practice and persistence are needed me thinks. So, let that translate into your messages! If you know that your holding back a bit and feel that it’s hindering your ability to connect and communicate with women on here…well you know how to fix the problem! If you have something to say… say it. The only one your hurt here is you.

digitalfever

Joined: 2/6/2008

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New HIV strain discovered.... Posted: 8/3/2009 2:48:38 PM
Unprotected sex includes oral sex. I know they have sex education in schools in the US, but if 3rd world countries have problems feeding children, you know they aren't receiving any education. The kids in this country don't understand how oral sex spreads herpes, the 3rd world countries don't get it at all. Again, when will it end? It all is so scary. I can confidently say it will NEVER end.

digitalfever

Joined: 2/6/2008

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Starter husbands... Posted: 8/3/2009 2:38:18 PM
I remember Glamour or Marie Claire having an article on “Starter Husbands” basically a man you marry to see what you want/don’t want in a marriage. Once you’ve been married and have figured out what you want in your “REAL” marriage you ditch him, and move onto your second marriage.

digitalfever

Joined: 2/6/2008

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Should you lie....? Posted: 8/3/2009 2:31:08 PM
It’s none of his business at that point. A simple “I don’t really want to discuss this subject.” would have been sufficient.

digitalfever

Joined: 2/6/2008

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Why do women not like guys with kids, Posted: 8/3/2009 2:13:07 PM
I wouldn’t even consider dating a man with children. The baggage and drama that will follow… well I don’t want that part of my life.

digitalfever

Joined: 2/6/2008

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willing to move to a distant country Posted: 8/2/2009 8:17:30 PM
Right now? I’m 19 and in university. My education will always come before a relationship. I would not move until my goals pertaining to my education were over and done with.

digitalfever

Joined: 2/6/2008

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whats up with women and being confused? Posted: 8/2/2009 8:15:40 PM
Some where in between the “click” and pursuing them further they decided you weren’t what they were looking for.

digitalfever

Joined: 2/6/2008

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Just who are these supposed, CREEPERS? Posted: 7/30/2009 7:43:50 PM
Hmm let me take a shot. Creeper A user who consistantly lurks on a fellow users profile but has yet to contact A user who msges more than once in attempt to get attention from another male/female user (msges are usually unwanted.)

digitalfever

Joined: 2/6/2008

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Is Intelligence A Curse In Relationships? Posted: 7/30/2009 7:39:36 PM
DeepLuv09, Did I ever use the word liability? No. I am not implying that socially awkward types are liabilities to society. That is your interpretation of what I had previously stated. I know many proclaimed “nerds” who are charismatic, outgoing and socially aware. I would hate for everyone to be the same; how fun would the world be if we were all the same. Someone who obviously has something to offer to a relationship…but clearly has trouble even making a connection…I see that as a waste. I’m sure there are tons of women who would LOVE to meet these men but don’t get the chance to.

digitalfever

Joined: 2/6/2008

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Is Intelligence A Curse In Relationships? Posted: 7/30/2009 1:12:35 PM
Intelligence is more than just your academic capabilities. It’s great that you can do long division in your mind; you’ve come up with theories, and have a Nobel Prize sitting on your mantel. However, if someone lacks emotional, social and street intelligence I’d have to say they are pretty ill equipped to survive within society. Having a man who is academically brilliant but lacks in all other area’s… is such a waste.

digitalfever

Joined: 2/6/2008

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Thin Overweight Average Posted: 7/3/2009 5:27:09 PM
"If you mean Marilyn Monroe, then she definitely WAS plus sized because I believe she was a size 14 - and plus size models start at size 14. My personal experience is that men prefer chubby girls. Chubby and short. I am by no means skinny - I am athletic. But I find that most men (at least those I met) seem to be threatened by athletic women. Dunno. I never wanted to arm-wrestle my partner so I really don't understand it." http://www.npr.org/templates/story/story.php?storyId=1385806 http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2009/04/14/was-marilyn-monroe-really_n_186633.html That does not look like the body of a size 14 woman :)

digitalfever

Joined: 2/6/2008

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I have to give my boyfriend space but I can't!!! Posted: 7/3/2009 3:12:16 PM
How do you go about letting the love of your life go do something more imports t than u You get a life of your own. Your life should not revolve around another person.. Whatever happened to spending time with your OWN friends, family, and hobbies? Do your own thing to get some good personal quality time with others and yourself! He needs his space... so give it to him. You can ‘be’ without him... Right now you appear to be needy, selfish, clingy and above all self centered. You know the answer to your question; leave the poor man alone. Have a life of your own and stop letting someone else determine how you feel about yourself!

digitalfever

Joined: 2/6/2008

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Thin Overweight Average Posted: 7/3/2009 3:03:17 PM
Miss. Manroe was NOT plus sized. Anyone with OK vision can see that she clearly slim but had an hour glass figure. She was NOT a size 15 by any means. My personal definition of curvy is of a woman who is SLIM, in shape but has either an our glass or pear shaped figure. Curvy meaning skinny but has banging booty and thights to go with it. Ex. http://images.tribe.net/tribe/upload/photo/939/937/939937df-f3f3-4684-ac47-cf9e979b5ff7 Anyways I like my men fairly inshape..... anything from average to fit.

digitalfever

Joined: 2/6/2008

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Should men pay half of the expense of women's birth control? Posted: 7/2/2009 9:44:30 AM
Uh, I would say before you ditch the condoms you should both get tested. It may be only you and him in the bed; but technically your sleeping with him and all his past partners. It would be best to know what's going on down there before you expose yourself to such a risk. I'd say look into another form of birth control. One that is less frequent and is more sutible to your currrent relationship/situation.

digitalfever

Joined: 2/6/2008

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Is it cool to bring friends on a first date? Posted: 6/29/2009 2:54:40 PM
Probably scared. There are alot of worries that come up with a first date. "Will he like how I look?" "Am I too fat?" "Does my outfit look good?" "Is he going to be cute?" "Will I like him?" Bringing a friend makes the situation less intense and alot easier.. But specify that you'd like it to be just the two of you. Although I always thought a date implied it was a one on one deal.

digitalfever

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Fellas, how would you honestly react to this? Posted: 6/29/2009 2:33:44 PM
Well at least yout getting your moneys worth.

digitalfever

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Rejection (sorta) because of... Hobbies? Posted: 6/29/2009 2:32:15 PM
Sometimes. I prefer for a guy to have hobbies different than mine. But if his hobby was raping women and cutting their bodies into little pieces, he wouldn't have a chance. Because a vast majority of men enjoy doing such things.

digitalfever

Joined: 2/6/2008

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Rejection (sorta) because of... Hobbies? Posted: 6/29/2009 2:29:24 PM
No, they don't really matter. I like when a guy has differing hobbies it would give me a chance to experience something new. Who know's maybe i'll even...dare I say.. like it.

digitalfever

Joined: 2/6/2008

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How much time do I need for you? Posted: 6/29/2009 2:27:45 PM
That differs from person to person. Also it depends on the dynamic you have going with that person... Although being attentive and taking interesting in their life is usually a good start.

digitalfever

Joined: 2/6/2008

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Well, I've never done this before..... Posted: 6/29/2009 2:25:57 PM
She doesn't sound like a feminist. She sounds like a total piece of work...

digitalfever

Joined: 2/6/2008

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Something ALL women on pof should put in their profiles Posted: 6/29/2009 2:19:42 PM
If you ask someone out to dinner... you are expected to pay. If you don't want to pay for dinner.. don't ask.

digitalfever

Joined: 2/6/2008

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Jarheads and people's first impression... Posted: 4/18/2009 3:08:29 PM
I think of discipline, tattoos and drinking.

digitalfever

Joined: 2/6/2008

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FEELING INTIMIDATED BY THE GUY IM DATING Posted: 4/17/2009 11:24:23 PM
If you like where you are and you have no problem with where are are at in your life then his ambitions shouldnt be the reason why you end your relationship.

digitalfever

Joined: 2/6/2008

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Nice Guy Syndrome Posted: 4/17/2009 11:15:03 PM
Just because someone says their nice doesn't mean that they really are. So what if you think your nice? It doesn't make it so. To be nice is to have the actions that prove it to others.

digitalfever

Joined: 2/6/2008

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Why are so many attractive people divorced? Posted: 4/17/2009 11:11:26 PM
Since when did ones level of attractiveness assure that they'd actually be successful in dating/marriage/life.

digitalfever

Joined: 2/6/2008

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Whats best to say in the first message Posted: 4/17/2009 10:59:27 PM
Just introduce yourself. A nice "Hey" never hurt anyone..

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