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barbie98765

Joined: 6/29/2005

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can sex to early destroy a relationship? Posted: 8/3/2006 7:54:01 AM
I think it can in many cases. I've had quite a few discussions about this with friends. Being older, men my age and slightly younger somehow feel that if you have sex with them early it somehow means you do that with every man you ever met. They are totally wrong, but they seem to be able to totally forget they were a willing partner as well. The stigma is on the woman. Some day I hope to find an adult male who if we really click and something does happen... he'll be happy about feeling the same way. Until then I avoid the mental man/children whenever possible. And I don't have sex early in getting to know someone. It did only happen once. And that was recently...and he's been on this site every day since trying to find someone who won't. At least that's my take since he's not writing to me. So I made a mistake...it really is his loss since there is a lot about me he'll never know. And he was a very willing partner.

barbie98765

Joined: 6/29/2005

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The Beautiful Mind Of Barbara Bush Posted: 9/12/2005 7:21:07 AM
"Dallas, You called her old..I called her a racist..I wonder what would piss her off more...? " old She's the poster child for the uncaring, nasty, elite in this country. You do participate by making up the taxes her son and his rich friends and corporations don't pay. He's even given them two more tax cuts this year on top of the ones they've been getting every year he's been in office. Had to cut funds for levees, soldiers pay, housing and health insurance, same for all veterans, food stamps, welfare and medicaid for the poor to pay for the cuts but hey these people don't count. Not to him or his mother.

barbie98765

Joined: 6/29/2005

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The top phrases said in a personal ad Posted: 8/23/2005 10:52:25 AM
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barbie98765

Joined: 6/29/2005

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Re: how kinky are you? Posted: 8/5/2005 1:39:38 PM
What's the difference between erotic and kinky? You use a feather when you're being erotic.... Kinky, you use the whole chicken..

barbie98765

Joined: 6/29/2005

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Ladies - Describe your soul mate.. Posted: 8/5/2005 9:45:29 AM
I have 5 simple qualities I want in a man..... 1. He must be breatheing. Don't laugh....it's important! 2. He must be employed. 3. He must be able to eat in a restaurant and not embarass me or himself. 4. He must not scare small children. 5. He must not do strange things to small furry animals. And I'm not real rigid on number 2.

barbie98765

Joined: 6/29/2005

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the pof i dated.....and now i feel like crap Posted: 8/5/2005 7:40:15 AM
Men use love to get sex and women use sex to get love. That's pretty much how it works. Just as men will fall in love with women they're attracted to and women are attracted to men they're in love with. Just shows how men and women are just different sides of the same coin so to speak.

barbie98765

Joined: 6/29/2005

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Fight Terrorism.... Posted: 8/4/2005 7:39:17 AM
We all know that it is a sin for an Islamic male to see any woman other than his wife naked, and that he must commit suicide if he does. So next Sunday at 4:00 PM Eastern time, all U.S. women are asked to walk out of their house completely naked to help weed out any neighborhood terrorists. Circling your block for one hour is recommended for this anti-terrorist effort. All men are to position themselves in lawn chairs in front of their house to prove they are not terrorists, and to demonstrate that they think it's okay to see nude women other than their wife and to show support for all American women. And since the Koran also does not approve of alcohol, a cold six-pack, or jigger of martinis at your side is further proof of your anti-terrorist sentiment. The U.S.Government appreciates your efforts to root out terrorists and applauds your participation in this anti terrorist activity. God bless America

barbie98765

Joined: 6/29/2005

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Favorite joke... Posted: 8/4/2005 7:11:37 AM
Ethel was a bit of a demon in her wheelchair, and loved to charge around the nursing home, taking corners on one wheel and getting up to maximum speed on the long corridors. Because the poor woman was one sandwich short of a picnic, the other residents tolerated her, and some of them actually joined in. One day Ethel was speeding up one corridor when a door opened and Kooky Clarence stepped out with his arm outstretched. "STOP!" he shouted in a firm voice. "Have you got a license for that thing?" Ethel fished around in her handbag and pulled out a Kit Kat wrapper and held it up to him. "OK" he said, and away Ethel sped down the hall. As she took the corner near the TV lounge on one wheel, Weird Harold popped out in front of her and shouted: "STOP"! Have you got proof of insurance?" Ethel dug into her handbag, pulled out a drink coaster and held it up to him. Harold nodded and said: Carry on, ma'am." As Ethel neared the final corridor before the front door, Crazy Craig stepped out in front of her, stark naked, holding a sizable erection in his hand. "Oh, good grief," said Ethel, "Not the Breathalyzer again".

barbie98765

Joined: 6/29/2005

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I will OBEY you??? Posted: 6/29/2005 1:06:06 PM
In the days that those vows were written, women were considered "chattel" little more than furniture. Many were treated like children. And a woman was "required" to obey her husband. There are still laws on the books in some states that have no problem with a man beating his wife as long as he uses something with less width than his thumb. In Indiana,a cop once told me the best way to "tame " a woman was to spank her. Since no woman would want pictures taken of her a$$ to show everyone. So there are still men who treat women like children.

barbie98765

Joined: 6/29/2005

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Open mouth insert foot.... Posted: 6/29/2005 12:53:49 PM
I learned a long time ago.....a closed mouth gathers no feet.

barbie98765

Joined: 6/29/2005

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Fun One Liners Posted: 6/29/2005 12:44:26 PM
"They call it PMS because Mad Cow Disease was already taken....lol" You know why men don't get Mad Cow disease? Because they're all pigs.

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