I cant seem to get over the fact that she dumped me and was out fishing around behind my back.

Me too! Even when I was broke in my twenties and none of us were going out to high class restaurants, we'd eagerly take turns buying a "round" for eachother in the bar. These days I can afford more and will pick up a restaurant tab and I know most of my friends will do the same at some point in the future. I have one friend who doesn't and she is stingy in*all* aspects of life. Personally, I think there is something internally wrong with those who are focused on what they spend on others and all the posts regarding this topic stymies me!

purchasing a book to score pus.sy? pathetic.

purchasing a book to score pus.sy? pathetic.

That's the same thing I tell her; I say to her, "If you loved me, you would."

Still...I can't get no seatisfaction.
But I try. And I try.

Chivalry was originally a way for gentlemen to show respect and appreciation for ladies, not something done with an eye towards what it might "earn" him.

Has anyone got any advice?

Yes, in my experience with the women I know, we discuss sex quite more frequently with our friends then men do. We examine every detail, gush over a new trick our lover did, complain if it sucks, talk about techniques, problems, issues that we are worried about, my close friends are a wealth of information for me and a great support system.

That is kind of a shame cause by renting people are paying someone else's mortgage.

It's my opinion that men have only themselves to blame for woman who are high maintenance and guilty of any of them. Why? Because they tolerate it. They encourage it, and allow it. Otherwise? It wouldn't work for women. And clearly it does work for some women.

Men who give to these women? Are feeding the breed.

She deserves complete honesty from you, regardless of how painful it may be.

Do you honestly think any woman would intentionally put on weight because she'd already 'trapped' a man?!

put on some lbs over the past couple months (side effects from a prescription)

So now she's fat and your feelings towards her have changed. It's pretty simple your love is and was very conditional.
The perfect woman wasn't so perfect after all. But if you really loved her leaving would never be an option to you. The perfect woman could always end up in a wheelchair one day, or lose an arm in a car wreck it's part of life's challenges.

: i know alot of people not only can but do remain quite freindly with exes..

Maybe she doesn't want to feel that if she falls in love with you, she can be replaced. Maybe a sense of insecurity took over and she's searching for the one who she believes will cherish her, could only cherish her, for a lifetime. Which, I guess, we all want to believe.Maybe a sense of insecurity took over and she's searching for the one who she believes will cherish her, could only cherish her, for a lifetime. Which, I guess, we all want to believe.

My Father thought literally nothing of the fact my Ma only had one boob, you wanna know why?? Because he was a REAL man. He was simply grateful that the love of his life and the mother of his child was around and alive and well.

I think scrubs look like P.j 's not sexy at all .

This thread is just further proof that Devid DeScamgelo is full of sh*t and a liar. I think some of the fools that seem to worship him should read this thread and some of the others popping up. I see more and more threads like this by women that prove what a moron he is. NOBODY LIKES A CO*KY JERK.

I've been told that my pictures don't do me justice (I am not very photogenic lol) , but I have never been told I don't look like me. I think that when people do not look like their pictures they were projecting something different than what they were, or really outdated pictures.

I have been taught by my grandparents that the guy always pays and he always opens the door, etc. That is the way it should be! I am tired of women getting ticked off because I want to pay for every meal. I have alot of women break up with me because I paid all the time. I won't change!

I think big, tall men want a petite women, because they have control issues. They think it is easier to control a small, little body.

Guys have their own code, but it is VERY simple. A grunt or a look here or there and we get it. Just because your girlfriends get these "hints" does not mean men will!

I have to wonder, how many women miss out on meeting great guys because they "expected them" to "pick up" on their subtle "female language" hints that they were interested??

Wow and people tell me I am crazy to say that when us men hit our 40's, the dating life is done for us. This is proof right here.
I am not in the financial status to get botox, and I sure as hell am not getting plugs for my hair. It is thinning and it runs in my family with all the men. So be it I can't change it. Gray hair, sure we can dye it, which alot do. But sorry if I age to look my age, that is life, but it is true, women most times think we men over 40 are jaded, have baggage, are unattractive etc.

What is happening now could happen to anyone, any class

A blowjob has a somewhat degrading energy about it, especially when you cum in someone's mouth. You get down in front of someone, beneath them and suck; not good. Much worse if they pull out and cum on your face, or made a fuss if you don't swallow. There is a domination element involved.

I email him and tell him not to contact me.