Ironing chat & forums.

Posted In Forum:

Home

MyForums

Show ALL Forums

Author

Thread: Ironing

daynadaze

Joined: 2/11/2008

Msg: 14 (view)

Ironing Posted: 11/22/2009 10:57:49 PM
You can shrink 100% cotton but it will most likely shrink more in lenght than in width, but both ways will shrink at least a bit. Wash in hottest water then dry on hottest setting, but beware, often that will also put in almost permanent wrinkles if you aren't careful. It's really the over drying that shrinks most cottons. Mostly what happens is the part you want to stay the same size will shrink like the****ns while what you want to shrink will stay the same....or get bigger.

daynadaze

Joined: 2/11/2008

Msg: 15 (view)

Going alione Posted: 11/22/2009 10:41:38 PM
Yeah, I've had so-called friends ask me how I could eat out alone, much less let people see a fatso like me eat in public. Fluck 'em, I like company to dine with sometimes but I am just find eating alone too. I do try to not eat when taking a whole table during times when lots of families are eating out, so that I waste a whole table, but other than that, I don't care what others think, personally I like eating alone, it's relaxing.

daynadaze

Joined: 2/11/2008

Msg: 47 (view)

Realizing ALOT! Posted: 11/22/2009 10:37:56 PM
I entered into therapy with a good therapist, someone I could work with but not buffalo, and then I did the hard work of really looking at myself and changed the way I acted & reacted to my own personal problems and projecting that onto others. I took a couple of years, it was hard, but it was more than worth it. Had I not gotten the professional help I did I would be on here whining about why I always end up in the same place and being truly perplexed by it all. Now I know, I was making the choices that kept getting me in the same relationships.

daynadaze

Joined: 2/11/2008

Msg: 30 (view)

sticking to your own 'kind' Posted: 11/22/2009 10:31:00 PM
I didn't know I had a kind, but I don't date outside the human race so I guess I'm safe. I don't date bigots either, so there shouldn't ever be a problem. Has the Internet changed the way bigots think & act, probably not, stupidity tends to stick with people.

daynadaze

Joined: 2/11/2008

Msg: 33 (view)

How Much Should I Disclose? Posted: 11/22/2009 10:14:30 PM
Tell her you'll have a friend of a friend that you had some same friends with, pass a note to some more friends who'll past it to Dirk, then you'll meet her behind the gym with some friends and let her know if Dirk passed a note back to her.

daynadaze

Joined: 2/11/2008

Msg: 7 (view)

Ironing Posted: 11/21/2009 11:44:33 PM
First, use distilled water so you don't get crud in your steam ports, and clean your iron as per instructions on the cleaner package. Always test your steam to make sure it's not leaking some crud and will need cleaning, before you apply it to any clothes. I don't know what the steam cloud with circles means either, but never use plain old tap water, unless you want to spend a lot of time cleaning your iron. When I was a kid we ironed sheets, boxer shorts...you name it, it had to be sprinkled, then rolled, then put on a bad to get it all moist, then iron them right away or they would mold. Today's fabrics are amazing! Then there were the pants stretchers and ironing, and scrubbing the necks of shirts with a stiff brush & detergent because of all the oil that people put in their hair....life is so much easier today.

daynadaze

Joined: 2/11/2008

Msg: 7 (view)

posting your general location on your profile Posted: 11/21/2009 10:14:33 AM
I think it's a good idea if your area is usually unknown to everybody but the locals. I often hit the maps just so see where the place is and I'm not good at it, it takes time to find out just where the heck the place is (I know, my own personal problem) but yeah, I like your idea. I happen to live in the second largest city in my state, but still hardly anyone knows where it is even if I tell them it's about 40 miles from El Paso...most people don't know where El Paso is.

daynadaze

Joined: 2/11/2008

Msg: 21 (view)

How and when do you know when you're with the one you wanna settle down with? Posted: 11/21/2009 10:08:33 AM
If someone told me it drained them to meet my needs, I'd be moving on along. What's going to happen if you stick around hoping to be the one ? Will he suddenly, one day, find you non-draining? I highly doubt it. I think you will find, at some point in the future, that this was not anything like the relationship you think it is now.

daynadaze

Joined: 2/11/2008

Msg: 4 (view)

Do you ever feel like you belong in a different place or in a different time? Posted: 11/20/2009 11:09:20 AM
Keep in mind you are talking about social mores not how people actually acted. It's like a TV show from the 50s, people weren't really that innocent and well behaved, it's just a facade.

daynadaze

Joined: 2/11/2008

Msg: 5 (view)

Is this a Hate Crime ? Posted: 11/20/2009 10:21:46 AM
Yes, it's a hate crime, maybe not a big crime but no one should have to put up with someones immature aggressions either. People like the woman who pulled on the scarf after making a rude comment earlier is the same kind of person as those who attack like the man doing the shootings at Fr. Hood. They hate and they are full of bile and they take it out on innocent victims. There's level of attack may be widely different but their mentality is the same.

daynadaze

Joined: 2/11/2008

Msg: 21 (view)

Meant to be alone Posted: 11/20/2009 10:07:40 AM
There isn't a balanced number of people for there to someone for everyone, unless you want to be with someone who has more than you...which is fine for some people. It's not just the male vs. female ratio, but there are poly relationships, there are gay/lesbian relationships, there are people who do not have an once of desire to be in a relationship, there are nun & priests.....of course there is not someone for everyone. People who say that are either lacking in statical reasoning or hoping there is someone for them and not wanting to face they could be alone all their lives, it happens. But there are a lot of people in the world and your chances are probably better that you will find someone than not. As for the cats, don't do it if you are only going to toss them out if you get a man. Pets are a lifelong commitment.

daynadaze

Joined: 2/11/2008

Msg: 3 (view)

Does this ring true for anyone? Posted: 11/20/2009 10:01:50 AM
I half agree with you, I'm not looking for anyone but if they came along I could certainly make time for them. On the other hand, if the time is wrong, it's wrong and just how would a person go about faking it without being deceitful? It would really depend on the situation and the people, your view is a bit too generalized.

daynadaze

Joined: 2/11/2008

Msg: 26 (view)

Men and self esteem Posted: 11/20/2009 9:59:03 AM
You know the government didn't go out and kick men from the home and leave children fatherless. These fathers chose to leave, leaving the children without that support and government programs have been set up to try to shore up that hole left. Sure some women & men use the system, but mostly if a child is fatherless, it's because his/her father left.

daynadaze

Joined: 2/11/2008

Msg: 16 (view)

couple arrested for not tipping.,, Posted: 11/19/2009 11:30:19 PM
I thought it was 8 people, these two who got arrested and their 6 friends.

daynadaze

Joined: 2/11/2008

Msg: 23 (view)

Oprah show ending - Arrogant to the end. Posted: 11/19/2009 11:19:46 PM
I'm guessing for some it's that she's a rich, black, successful woman, for others it's that she promoted Obama and then he had the nerve to win the election, for others they just may not like her personality as seen on TV since I doubt any of us know her personally. I use to like her show, now I don't find it interesting but I wish the woman no ill will, she is after all someone who came from nothing and made a hell of place for herself. She's also quite giving to those in need, can't fault the woman for using her success to help others. I don't get the intense hate for a celebrity who has done no harm to anyone that I can think of, so you don't like her, change the channel, it's not like she's a criminal using her fame to get away with anything. She's worked hard and made it big, other than jealousy, what's wrong with that? As for the date of her last show, I have no clue what went into that choice. BTW, her use of I'm Every Woman, she's related to Whitney Huston and promoted that song along with Whitney some years ago. I don't think they are close, but she did not hijack the song. LOL

daynadaze

Joined: 2/11/2008

Msg: 72 (view)

Walmart sets its sights on ruling the retail world. Posted: 11/19/2009 5:39:47 PM
We live in a world of diversity, we also live in a wide-open world where you can get to there from here and back without a whole lot of trouble. If you think there is much being made int he USA anymore you aren't living in reality, even the things you think are made here probably aren't or at least some of it is done elsewhere. One thing we did was price ourselves right out of jobs, another was to think we had it all and didn't need to do the grunt work. We are now mostly a nation of service-type workers, manufacturing is pretty much gone, and those who do have jobs in it aren't going to give them up. Mom & Pop stores were going out of business when I was a kid, that's nothing new, and people wanted the bigger stores to come to their town for employment and for goods to buy without having to make that monthly or yearly trip to the 'big city'. People will whine about anything and tell you it didn't use to be that way, and a whole load of bullshit, but the truth is, things mostly go forward, at least until they collapse, and Walmarts are what the majority wanted and they got it. Support your local mom & Pop if you have one but I know very few people who aren't shopping at the bigger stores even if they don't go to Walmart, they go to Walmart clones. As for Thanksgiving, it's not just Walmart that's open, more stores than ever will be open on holidays this year, the economy sucks right now, retailers are tying to make a buck, it's how capitalism works.

daynadaze

Joined: 2/11/2008

Msg: 10 (view)

Difference between job and career Posted: 11/19/2009 5:26:25 PM
I've always had jobs, like working in a factory. Length of time didn't matter, a career would have been if I was in management, working my way up or at least been skilled like say a welder but I'm not sure if welder comes under career or not. Anyway, that's my worthless opinion. Now had I worked in the field of the majors I took in college, then I would have had a career.

daynadaze

Joined: 2/11/2008

Msg: 48 (view)

2nd chance... yes or no Posted: 11/19/2009 5:17:02 PM
Someone who blew the rent money and left me hanging, maybe even used the fight to get out of paying their half of the rent, no how no way would this person be contacting me again. There are things that can be forgiven and there are things that show a person's true character. It's your choice but no, I would have blocked him. It's not the money, it's the bind such a thing would have left you in and the kind of person who would do that. Pay attention because people show you who they are by their actions.

daynadaze

Joined: 2/11/2008

Msg: 2 (view)

Is love enough? Posted: 11/19/2009 5:11:27 PM
The hobby thing would only be a concern if one or both of you harassed each other about it, expected the other to be interested or made the other feel stupid about it. You don't have to like or do the same things all the time, some very good marriages have been between people who trust & respect each other but do have things they don't do together. Also if you are in it, both of you, for the long haul and do not see divorce as the answer to most disagreements, then you will have a much better chance. Love may not be able to keep you together if your problems involved disrespect, different values & morals, or abuse. You are never going to be one person, there will always be two separate people making a life together, but the more you have in common such as values, goals and morals, the more likely you will stay together over the years.

daynadaze

Joined: 2/11/2008

Msg: 12 (view)

Evan Chandler Commits Suicide Posted: 11/19/2009 4:14:00 PM
Michael Jackson didn't have to have actual sex with young boys to be a child molester, although personally I think he did have sexual meanings to his action, but he admitted to sleeping with boys -- to having young boys around him and to paying the parents to let him at their children....that by itself is molesting young boys for his own benefit. Yes, it's terrible what the young Michael Jackson had to live through, but as an adult he made his own decisions, there's no blame for his adult actions except that his own feet.

daynadaze

Joined: 2/11/2008

Msg: 7 (view)

how do you get promoted Posted: 11/19/2009 4:01:36 PM
Depends on where you work and who you work for. I think it's 6 of this and half a dozen of the other. If you really think you are being taken advantage of, talk to HR, but if you are a chronic whiner, don't say a word, they probably already have your number and jobs are scare right now.

daynadaze

Joined: 2/11/2008

Msg: 27 (view)

Coincidences or Not? Posted: 11/19/2009 3:54:36 PM
Having had a basic stats course, Kerbby has it correctly, there is some order to randomness but it's not some power from some ruler of the universe. If one is to believe that things happen for a reason, other than because we all cause events to happen and our cause & effect bump into others' actions, then you would have to believe that someones destiny was to be tortured/raped/beaten, etc. for some greater cause. To me that's some damn sick thinking and I sure wouldn't be worshipping something like that, but to each his own. Things happen because we don't live in a vacuum. BTW, people who don't believe in some cosmic controller are control freaks, now that's the laugh of the week. That doesn't even make sense. I know for me, control is the last thing I want, I don't need the hassle nor the burden, let others control the world I just want to relax. LOL I'm too damn lazy to be controlling.

daynadaze

Joined: 2/11/2008

Msg: 26 (view)

Why can't I just move on? Posted: 11/19/2009 2:42:24 PM
I'm with the poster that wondered what changed just by helping him move. I'm jumping to the sex conclusion too, since that's the most common reason people think there's a connection and then are hurt when they find it didn't make a friendship into a romance. It also makes a difference as who initiated the sex, did you offer it and he thought it was no strings or did he pursue it and you thought it meant something more than FWB? Of course you are not required to answer such personal questions. But if you are only feeling stupid over liking someone who doesn't like you the same way back, then time will move forward and you will feel better about the rejection after a while, unless you choose to dwell on it and rub your own face in it. But if sex was involved and you feel stupid for thinking it was more romantic than it was, time will heal but it will take a lot longer if you continue to think sex meant something it didn't or if you are dealing with your religious views vs. your actual actions, in which case you may want to deal with why you went there against your own good judgment so that you don't find yourself there again. The two things may seem the same but for many sex is a hot button and sends them into despair or desperation. Add in religious taboos and guilt and you can end up trying to make the relationship work just to not have to deal with the remorse of doing what you feel is wrong. Sorry for rambling, but it's hard to know what to say with so little info. The best thing you can do is distance yourself from the person so that you can deal with your feelings and think straight.

daynadaze

Joined: 2/11/2008

Msg: 22 (view)

why do people feel like they need someone in their life . Posted: 11/19/2009 11:10:46 AM
I have no idea why you would need to give up your chick card because you want/need someone in your life and not be alone, but not everyone does, there's no right or wrong way to be when it comes to wanting a relationship or not. I think it's normal biology for humans to want to be together, it's part of the reproductive process for humans. We are social beings who mate and are suppose to raise our young as a team. When I was younger I did feel a need to have a man in my life, I married twice had a couple of serious relationships without marriage and then stood back and looked at what a mess I had made and decided to look into what I was doing wrong. I have found that I'm pretty much a loner and am not a good wife/girlfriend. It's not that I would treat a man badly, it's that I love my solitude more than what is usually workable in a relationship. You want to be with someone even though you have a good life without someone, I don't find that unusual or uncommon at all, it's how you feel, I wish you luck in finding that special person.

daynadaze

Joined: 2/11/2008

Msg: 26 (view)

What should i do? Posted: 11/18/2009 10:59:36 PM
You're 21, what would possess you to already be in a 2 year relationship and tied to a lease with her too. This is why you don't get so serious until you are older, this is why you should be out having fun, meeting new people, dating lots and getting experience, now you are hung up on someone else. You will be hung up on lots of girls/women before you are ready to settle down, live your youth in freedom. But you have backed yourself into this corner and you will have to be responsible for the next six months of that lease. Do the right thing, tell your present GF what's up and together you can decide how to proceed with this apt. There are options, like has been said, sublet or you move out she gets a roommate, or the other way around, or you suck it up and live together for the next six months. But don't go another day with her thinking all is well, be a man, admit to her that you don't want to be her boyfriend any more.

daynadaze

Joined: 2/11/2008

Msg: 6 (view)

Should I hang in there Posted: 11/18/2009 10:48:21 PM
You are hung up on the health thing to not have to face the rejection and moving on, he's not interested thing. I could be wrong, of course, you know him I don't, but reading your post, he's trying to ditch you and you keep begging. Even if he's sick, he doesn't want you in his life, shouldn't you respect that request?

daynadaze

Joined: 2/11/2008

Msg: 11 (view)

Wants to know about past relationship Posted: 11/18/2009 10:42:17 PM
... if the OP was a guy talking about his Ex who was in jail, every woman on here would be DEMANDING to know every detail... Oh bull, EVERY women here wouldn't do anything, since we are not all the same woman, that's just ridiculous. I don't really care if some women might have had sex by the 5th week or told a new man where she lives, etc., the answer I gave was from my perspective, you can agree or disagree but get over thinking you know every thing about what I should or shouldn't do. The OP asked for opinions, we all gave ours, this is not about your need to tell me how to post, you were asked for your opinion on the OPs post. How hard is that? How would you knot what women here have any trouble getting men, based on you not liking their posts no less.

daynadaze

Joined: 2/11/2008

Msg: 2 (view)

Evan Chandler Commits Suicide Posted: 11/18/2009 8:22:49 PM
Evan Chandler was the father of Jordy, the first boy to come forward and accuse Jackson of molestation. I think Evan Chandler had his own demons but surely it was Michael Jackson who ruined the lives of the Chandler family. I have no doubt in my view that Jackson sexual molested young boys for his own perverted reasons. Being talented does not erase one's actions, especially when children are harmed.

daynadaze

Joined: 2/11/2008

Msg: 4 (view)

Wants to know about past relationship Posted: 11/18/2009 8:11:17 PM
Five weeks? I wouldn't even tell a man where I lived after only five weeks. PPFFTTT!! I'd tell him to back off or go away.

daynadaze

Joined: 2/11/2008

Msg: 23 (view)

What does he mean? Does it even mean anything at all? Posted: 11/18/2009 11:27:28 AM
Ask him and tell him the truth about how you feel, don't leave him just hanging there. You've been having sex and spending time with the guy for a year, and you can't just ask him???

daynadaze

Joined: 2/11/2008

Msg: 13 (view)

Where is your personality from? TV land? Posted: 11/18/2009 10:20:30 AM
I was born this way. I do believe your environment has something to do with who you are, like your accent and view of the world, until you reach adulthood, have some real life experiences and then you become your own person. But even when young I did not get the prejudice that I was surrounded with, I had my own views that seem to fill in as I experienced life more. I'm kind of Roseann/Darlene too but I'm also a bit Mary Ann/Gilligan, but mostly Daffy Duck. Truth is, I've always confused my parents, I swore I was adopted, I didn't fit in, and neither did my brother although his personality is nothing like mine, we both are nothing like the environment we grew up in. My brother is kind of a cross between the professor & Donald Duck. I believe we are born with our own personality, sometimes that fits in with our family's and sometime we are 180 from our environment.

daynadaze

Joined: 2/11/2008

Msg: 27 (view)

I am breaking up with BF Today! Had ENOUGH Posted: 11/18/2009 9:55:57 AM
Good for you, but from your other posts and this one, I have a feeling he won't know you are gone, I don't think he sees you as someone he's in a relationship with. He's not interested, I don't think I would bother to break up, you are the only one in the relationship, I think you should pick your dignity up off the floor and move on, he won't notice you are gone. Find someone who wants to be with you and treats you well.

daynadaze

Joined: 2/11/2008

Msg: 3 (view)

Oh, its to soon to have sex... yah, blah, blah, blaw Posted: 11/18/2009 9:51:12 AM
So did that work, did some insecure woman read that and think, oh my I must have sex with him to validate myself!

daynadaze

Joined: 2/11/2008

Msg: 13 (view)

Guys, Ready for the Christmas favorites rush? Posted: 11/17/2009 4:02:13 PM
Wow! Really that happens? That's a new one on me. I wonder if it works for them

daynadaze

Joined: 2/11/2008

Msg: 3 (view)

school first or relationship first? Posted: 11/17/2009 3:48:00 PM
You are only 24, no do not get married, go to the best school for you and get your degree. You can stay in touch but don't give up your dreams for someone you've known three whole months and who would suggest marriage at such an inappropriate time, that alone says to RUN!

daynadaze

Joined: 2/11/2008

Msg: 17 (view)

Complicated Girl Question Posted: 11/17/2009 3:33:06 PM
Sounds like you need more contact than she does, so you would need to decide if that works for you. I sometimes go a week before I check any messages on the phone, I hate getting phone calls or voice mails unless I'm waiting to hear from someone. Some of us don't like daily communication, etc., especially early on. It's not right or wrong, it's does this person fit into my lifestyle or not and am I happy with how we work together.

daynadaze

Joined: 2/11/2008

Msg: 2 (view)

Is being yourself really good advice? Posted: 11/17/2009 3:29:18 PM
I don't know how to be anyone but myself, but I can't imagine what good it would do you be someone else, in the end you are going to be found out. Only an idiot would stay with someone who turned out to be faking a who they are.

daynadaze

Joined: 2/11/2008

Msg: 11 (view)

Actress Heather Graham star of PoliticalAction Campaign Posted: 11/17/2009 12:15:14 PM
She has just as much right to state her opinions publicly as you do OP, nobody says you have to agree. So she has a bigger audience than you, life isn't fair. I don't know who Heather Graham is, but wheter she was paid to make a statement or she felt she wanted to make it because of her personal views, what business is it of anyone else. I'm pretty sure we don't have a 1.3 Trillion dollar debt because of Heather Graham, look for real problems and real solutions.

daynadaze

Joined: 2/11/2008

Msg: 42 (view)

No-one likes him except me Posted: 11/17/2009 10:57:36 AM
You've only known him for 4 months, take your time, enjoy what you like about him but keep your eyes open. You barely know the guy, and you probably don't know if what he told you is true, then again, you don't know that it's not. As long as you aren't giving him money or your possessions, I don't know why you shouldn't date him if you like him. But do keep in mind, you are just getting to know him, don't assume anything other than so far you like being with him. There is the fact that if everyone sees him the same way, could they all be wrong? There's nothing wrong with being open minded, as long as your brain doesn't fall out. You haven't been with him long enough to know him well yet, so take your time and have fun.

daynadaze

Joined: 2/11/2008

Msg: 73 (view)

honest answer... Posted: 11/16/2009 11:46:10 PM
I disagree with you OP, if you both love each other, only date each other, only sleep with each other....how's that a FWB instead of a dating relationship, and exclusive dating relationship? It seems that the term FWB has been changed to mean dating someone exclusively.

daynadaze

Joined: 2/11/2008

Msg: 28 (view)

Hooked on having a FWB? Posted: 11/16/2009 11:21:31 PM
I don't know, I suppose it's kind of 50/50 depending on the person. I'm not interested in men who have been in FWB relationships because it goes against what I look for in a person, it' something that rubs me the wrong way. But it does seem that if someone will screw their friend(s) when without someone they want to date so aren't getting sex, that they just aren't the type of person who is going to find being faithful that big a deal, nor do they seem to be people who can manage to go without sex which is a whole 'nother problem. All my own personal problems. Considering all the posts about FWB and the whining in them, I'm not so sure that a lot of FWB relationships are all frills with no headaches. They seem to be full of headaches and misunderstandings. But then again, I guess if people are having good FWB they probably aren't posting about it.

daynadaze

Joined: 2/11/2008

Msg: 19 (view)

How long does it take for you to get sick of people? Posted: 11/15/2009 10:28:57 PM
So you've switched addictions or were you always clingy? I do know what you mean, take it in small doses, only allow yourself to think of him (while you are away from him) for a certain amount of time, then go on with what you should be doing. At first you will fail, of course, but over time you will have less & less problems with obsessing. But as you know, it's up to you, you aren't really controlled by this neediness, you are doing it because it's worked for you. You have to want to change, otherwise it's just using addiction to not do what you know you should.

daynadaze

Joined: 2/11/2008

Msg: 3 (view)

Receiving a message. Posted: 11/15/2009 10:21:33 PM
I read the message first, I don't often response, depends, and I hardly ever look at the profile till later, or not at all.

daynadaze

Joined: 2/11/2008

Msg: 14 (view)

Christmas already? For Christ's sake... Posted: 11/15/2009 10:20:24 PM
I celebrate the holidays and I'm an atheist, I like good will toward men and Santa Claus and all the pretty decoration, etc., I love it, it's beautiful, it's fun and I'm poor so I don't get to shop as much as I'd like but I always have enough to take a name off the tree at the stores and buy some child a nice gift, I have a dollar for the bell ringers, etc. I love this time of year! Go bah humbug but stop feeling like you are holier than thou, get out there and do some volunteer work for a soup kitchen or buy some children some gifts (like a warm coat) or give to a food bank, don't just sit on your asses feeling superior and ranting on.

daynadaze

Joined: 2/11/2008

Msg: 38 (view)

Religion Posted: 11/15/2009 10:12:54 PM
How can you be Jewish by birth? It's a religion, unless one fits into some sort of look considered to be ethnic, one is not seen as Jewish or black or Asian, it's only when you can pick out slanted eyes, or dark skin, etc. My son-in-law is half-Korean, but many people think he's Hispanic, I don't see it but then I know what he is, so I'm not guessing and trying to place his looks. My brother, on the other hand, is Jewish, since we are mostly Irish/English/French/German, you would never meet him and think, oh he's Jewish. My brother wasn't born into a religious family, he became Jewish because of the religion he chose as an adult. His DNA would never show you any sort of religious affiliation, but it might show you some places where our ancestors once lived, even then that would be a guess without some detailed history. A person can call themselves whatever they want, but in reality, you aren't any religion unless you actually follow the dogma of that religion.

daynadaze

Joined: 2/11/2008

Msg: 18 (view)

I saw my ex's new woman/I don't know what I feel Posted: 11/15/2009 9:52:52 PM
I'm fat, I've done all the BS people who aren't fat think fat people should do to lose the weight, you know what, fluck them and the skinny ass they rode in on. I'm done. I'm fat, I'm going to be fat, it's not going away, so once a man tells me to lose weight or how to do it, he's gone. Been there, already tried that, STFU. I'm not interested in dating a man who is dating me but hoping for something else, that's his stupidity, I'm not adding mine to the mix, I won't date someone in that situation. If a man wants a size 14 woman, then he should be smart enough to find one, not try to make one. I don't feel inferior when someone doesn't like my looks, I feel bored, what planet do they live on where I should have to make them happy? Besides, what kind of side show is she to have brat who would point \|& laugh at someone, how insecure is she?

daynadaze

Joined: 2/11/2008

Msg: 12 (view)

How long does it take for you to get sick of people? Posted: 11/15/2009 9:38:34 PM
everyday would drive me nuts, once or twice a week is fine, then again, I could go a month and be pretty darn happy. Obviously I'm not the norm.

daynadaze

Joined: 2/11/2008

Msg: 16 (view)

Dating A Single Child Posted: 11/15/2009 9:31:02 PM
I can't imagine that thought ever entering my mind....I did tend to date, when I was young, guys with larger families because I was looking for a family back then, but still I don't think I've ever not wanted to date someone because they were an only child.

daynadaze

Joined: 2/11/2008

Msg: 6 (view)

Christmas already? For Christ's sake... Posted: 11/15/2009 10:54:38 AM
Some people need a long time to buy all the gifts they can't afford. What does it really matter, why do people have to bythch every single year about how early Christmas shopping begins? It does, every single year, get over it already. And really, what does shopping for presents for the various holidays this time of year have to do with religion? Nobody is shopping for Jesus, they are shopping for Santa, get with the program! :wink:

daynadaze

Joined: 2/11/2008

Msg: 40 (view)

bf has bad time management Posted: 11/15/2009 10:49:14 AM
Why should anyone change for you? In your own words, you should know as an adult that you have major personality problems and fix it.

Show ALL Forums