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LIWOMAN56

Joined: 2/11/2008

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Why Do women dump men who are nice to them. Posted: 8/30/2009 5:00:03 PM
Being nice is a relative term....dated a man who thought he was nice to me because he didn’t beat me like his father did to his mother

LIWOMAN56

Joined: 2/11/2008

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Might throw in the towel Posted: 8/29/2009 6:37:05 PM
So true my fellow long islander LOL

LIWOMAN56

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Good date idea? Posted: 8/11/2009 8:24:35 PM
You can try some of the ideas my last few dates had wait .... never mind they all sucked

LIWOMAN56

Joined: 2/11/2008

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Nigerian Scams Posted: 8/3/2009 4:26:52 AM
First of all I am sorry this has happend to you. Second of all ....... or maybe should be first....is how many times can you hear these stories and read DONT SENT ANYONE MONEY . You paid for an education ....just not the one you wanted or needed

LIWOMAN56

Joined: 2/11/2008

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Is it ok to for a guy to window shop whilst out on a date? Posted: 7/26/2009 7:53:20 PM
Went out once with this man that flirted with every waitress & barmaid that we came in contact with. Normally this would of really bothered me , as I find that to be very disrespectful , but in his case I was actually embarrassed for him. He was old enough to be their grandfather. Did I mention this was one and only date with him?

LIWOMAN56

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Msg: 28 (view)

stood up! Posted: 7/26/2009 7:09:11 PM
So many times I wish that I was stood up

LIWOMAN56

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How do I do this now? Posted: 7/17/2009 2:37:09 PM
My suggestion and mind you only a suggestion is to forget all about POF and looking for another man on here just yet. I say that in all sincerity. Every pervert that ever answered an ad on here will be hunting you down after reading your post IT IS NOT OK FOR A MAN TO VIDEO ANYONE IN A SHOWER least of all his own children OMG im floored!

LIWOMAN56

Joined: 2/11/2008

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Deceptive profile text Posted: 7/12/2009 8:01:58 AM
IDOC let it go...every message you write in the forums is about that woman you dated that you claimed deceived you about her looks. Just maybe she wasnt so impressed with you either Maybe consider her feelings

LIWOMAN56

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She asked for money at the end of the date! Posted: 7/8/2009 5:40:51 PM
Never realized they gave out free samples..... great marketing ploy

LIWOMAN56

Joined: 2/11/2008

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having fun with scam come-ons Posted: 6/24/2009 6:00:54 PM
I had some fun once....I waited till right before he was getting ready to ask me for money and asked him.... Hmmm wonder why I never heard from him again...he did say I was his soulmate

LIWOMAN56

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My First Date With Patricia (im 59 she's 53) Posted: 6/22/2009 4:52:48 AM
Such a sweet date ....Dont listen to these negative people.... believe me we are all envious Best of Luck to you and Patricia

LIWOMAN56

Joined: 2/11/2008

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Tear Jerker Movies Posted: 6/17/2009 1:33:40 PM
City of Angels...Nicholas Cage and Meg Ryan...a story of unconditional love for sure Can watch it 5 times a day and 5 times a day cry like a baby

LIWOMAN56

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Lip gloss Posted: 5/26/2009 1:42:37 PM
Guess you just cant please everyone

LIWOMAN56

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Is it worth it to pursue someone or a dream Posted: 5/23/2009 7:31:28 PM
Money doesnt keep you warm at night

LIWOMAN56

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Seeing Double Posted: 5/19/2009 5:46:33 PM
There is a local man that has a semi decent picture up looking for a woman One day while hanging out with a gay male friend I tell him to check out pof what do you know the same man...same picture looking for a man Never once in either profile does he mention he is bi sexual....so unfair to both sexes

LIWOMAN56

Joined: 2/11/2008

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Often misunderstood, I think Posted: 5/8/2009 5:56:47 PM
Perhaps this questions isnt appropriate but cant help but ask...are you 50 or 58? Ok non of my business

LIWOMAN56

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Are we to demanding? Posted: 5/7/2009 5:32:12 AM
Last year met someone for coffee...While discussing music likes and dislikes I have to admit when he mentioned his favorite artist was Tom Jones ....Yep Tom Jones of "Whats new pussycat" I was speechless. Wondered if he ever dreamed of throwing his panties up on stage . Now I respect all artists and have to say Tom Jones sure had something years ago but immediately thought of my mother " rocking" to him Now im a Pink Floyd fan and knew immediately we were definately not a match . BTW this man was around 10 years younger than me

LIWOMAN56

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Dumbest question you've been asked on 1st date? Posted: 5/2/2009 7:04:42 AM
Yes spiker..no respect...no class and certainly no date Hate that us New Yorkers have that rep Didnt stick around to see if he was a pervert.....sure seemed like it to me

LIWOMAN56

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Msg: 308 (view)

Dumbest question you've been asked on 1st date? Posted: 5/1/2009 6:16:57 PM
Wasnt first date but first phone call to arrange the date He suggested that we would meet directly after work at my house ( yea right) and because we were just home from work we should take a shower together to get cleaned up WTF???????

LIWOMAN56

Joined: 2/11/2008

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Did You Get Your New York State Tax Refund? Posted: 3/18/2009 7:16:51 AM
Nope.....was asking around myself....I dont know of anyone yet that received theirs ..

LIWOMAN56

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How can anyone get over a broken heart?? Posted: 2/16/2009 5:55:07 AM
No disrespect intended but first picture should go as well

LIWOMAN56

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The Toilet seat thing!!! Posted: 1/2/2009 2:10:24 PM
In the grand scheme of things ..its only a toilet seat I raised 2 boys and I got tired talking about toilet seats...I was more concerned about their aim

LIWOMAN56

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Why im i not crying? Posted: 12/30/2008 7:47:21 PM
Sweetkisses Sorry for the pain you are feeling You mentioned that it was a short illness...That in its self is a blessing. LI

LIWOMAN56

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You girls or guys ever chatted with weirdos on msn? Posted: 11/14/2008 2:10:09 PM
Shouldnt the question be " Has anyone chatted with someone normal on msn"

LIWOMAN56

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Worst clothes to wear on a first date... Posted: 11/6/2008 6:40:09 AM
wife beater is a tank top tee shirt

LIWOMAN56

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Do you miss me? Posted: 10/22/2008 5:24:58 PM
I sure do miss everything about you ... I know your in a better place but im not without you in my life Rest in peace my beloved

LIWOMAN56

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A man who only takes you to Starbucks & had already been there that same night with another woman? Posted: 10/16/2008 5:06:53 PM
hmmm hope he drinks decafe ....might get a bit jittery after a few days

LIWOMAN56

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Really Weird Experience Posted: 10/10/2008 2:19:21 PM
Not as weird as you may think Howdeee I use to consider my profile the kiss of death....few emails..... few im's and poof they were gone. Thought maybe I was gonna be asked to resign from here

LIWOMAN56

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Stand Up If You've Been Stood Up! Posted: 10/8/2008 6:00:59 PM
There have been a few coffee dates that I wished I was stood up

LIWOMAN56

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Giving out your phone number Posted: 10/6/2008 1:31:29 PM
HMMMM Interesting ..... do you remember these womans names, cause I would report them here... sounds like spamming Its stuff like that that gives POF a bad name , or perhaps the woman on here a bad name

LIWOMAN56

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Have you ever dumped someone after three weeks? Posted: 9/30/2008 6:35:15 PM
After 5 months and a hidden garbage pail filled with empty vodka bottles I thought it was probably a good idea to start dumping .....him and his empty bottles

LIWOMAN56

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POF has done what I requested Posted: 9/30/2008 3:51:08 PM
I dont think Ed is implying that he settled, or that we should settle ,I think he is saying sometimes we meet someone and maybe they arent as tall, dark and handsome as we imagined they would be so we pass on them. Maybe we should give the person a chance to prove them selves. Best of Luck Ed

LIWOMAN56

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First meeting and long distance relationships Posted: 9/27/2008 7:40:34 AM
Isnt it bad enough when they lie in profiles? Whats the point of making up stories in forums ...... Never realized I was so naive till I joined POF

LIWOMAN56

Joined: 2/11/2008

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IM clueless to this Girl Posted: 9/15/2008 3:43:12 PM
Yep sorry scrappy you were played Woman like that makes men think we are all gold diggers Just make sure you take good care of your little girl

LIWOMAN56

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little luck on this site Posted: 9/4/2008 4:20:59 PM
Just my opinion but I wouldnt want to be considered someones replacement

LIWOMAN56

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Man seems to only want online sex/relationship? Posted: 9/4/2008 5:25:31 AM
Yes and such a meaningfull conversation it was Im sure.

LIWOMAN56

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How do you tell a someon you don't find them attractive? Posted: 9/3/2008 3:01:16 PM
What if a guy looks bad but smells like bacon? Wouldn't you love to hook up with a guy like that? Even worse what if he looked GOOD but smells like bacon

LIWOMAN56

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Man seems to only want online sex/relationship? Posted: 9/3/2008 1:37:03 PM
You only met one so far...lucky you

LIWOMAN56

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I give up Posted: 8/27/2008 1:01:16 PM
If thats the case snakewhisperer in there too LOL so now there will be atleast 2 of us Gotta love the odds

LIWOMAN56

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Being single sucks Posted: 8/7/2008 7:48:15 AM
Just remember someone can always loose weight if they so desire......but if your ugly that cant be changed..OP is a very pretty young woman Also keep in mind Every body hurts ....sometimes

LIWOMAN56

Joined: 2/11/2008

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Question about married people and POF Posted: 8/7/2008 6:45:11 AM
Being contacted on here by married men is what completely turned me off from ever meeting anyone from here Doesnt matter that they state they are single...after one date ( in the afternoon because there are very few who can manage a night meet) You can almost always tell they arent telling the truth....

LIWOMAN56

Joined: 2/11/2008

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His mobile is switched off! Posted: 8/3/2008 3:38:11 PM
Wait just one minute........... OP was suppose to move closer to him just cause he asked? After only 6 months I dont think someone should up root their lives and move , and if that was the issue he should of told her that .

LIWOMAN56

Joined: 2/11/2008

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Transition from dating to boyfriend/girlfriend Posted: 8/2/2008 7:22:09 AM
Oh do we now have another rule? The three month rule?

LIWOMAN56

Joined: 2/11/2008

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Should attraction be on the first date. Posted: 7/31/2008 5:24:44 AM
Most definately...I think we have to get to know someone first to see if there is an attraction.. Why dont people go on a few dates you ask....cause they are shallow indivuals

LIWOMAN56

Joined: 2/11/2008

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How has dating become what it has???? Posted: 7/29/2008 6:50:56 PM
WOW averagejoek thats a mean thing to say Where would a "lady" go to meet a gentleman than?

LIWOMAN56

Joined: 2/11/2008

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Goodbye POF Posted: 7/29/2008 3:29:40 PM
Ok now I get it....thats why we get so many flakey emails ...cause they are sent from fake profiles ....thats just mean and inconsiderate

LIWOMAN56

Joined: 2/11/2008

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broken heart Posted: 7/24/2008 4:49:45 AM
Spiker....BE CAREFULL havent you heard about russian woman? I hope im wrong and she is exactly what she said she is but just use some caution . LI

LIWOMAN56

Joined: 2/11/2008

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How do you turn it off Posted: 7/23/2008 5:07:37 PM
Careless...If you find the answer to that question PLEASE share it with me I also have full life.....wonderfull family, loads of cherished friends but there is a time when I would just like to sit down with a good man and share some of the day with him, even something as simple as a phone call to say "hey I was thinking about you" LI

LIWOMAN56

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new car vs old car Posted: 7/21/2008 4:33:59 AM
Agreed Vulf.......I feel same way with a new outfit ...new shoes... new haircut Your happy and it shows I lease a new car every 3 years cause I myself like the way I feel in a new car....I feel safe and yes happy. But thats just for me BTW love my new 2008 Honda Civic

LIWOMAN56

Joined: 2/11/2008

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Favorites List????? Posted: 7/21/2008 4:12:57 AM
I vote we ban favorite lists..... Never understood them and never will Think some people keep them on there to make themselves feel good, wow there are 300 men that think im beautiful... ok if that works for you

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