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nekeul_70

Joined: 2/12/2008

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Do you believe you can meet someone online? Posted: 5/7/2008 1:12:00 AM
I view the whole online dating thing as another "tool"...its not my only means..but it adds into the broad spectrum of things...aides in getting to know people....and especially if your a quiet//reserved type...its very useful~

nekeul_70

Joined: 2/12/2008

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Going on a date...as is, would you do it? Posted: 5/7/2008 12:57:24 AM
Yes...I'm the type that would jump in feet first...and go with it...of course I would probably throw on some Deordant....and some cologne.....and a fresh shirt...and...and...well you get the idea....but rather quickly....no primping...

nekeul_70

Joined: 2/12/2008

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is there really someone for everyone? Posted: 5/1/2008 10:01:35 PM
~Let's Hope So.......

nekeul_70

Joined: 2/12/2008

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Numberology? Posted: 4/26/2008 3:33:44 AM
Numberology....Do you personally believe in the line of thought that 8's will only be w/ 8-10's..or 5's w/ 5-7's??...whatever your number is...you will only date those of a equal//higher stature? I would like to think what "WE" as a species have evolved beyond this...YES ...i understand that there has be to be a certain degree of physical attraction...but are we "limited" by this line of thought...... sighs.....I really need to get off the night shift lol....too much time to think....

nekeul_70

Joined: 2/12/2008

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Are strong independent women a turn off? Posted: 4/22/2008 10:53:22 PM
I would rather enjoy finding a woman that would be like that...but why stop at just 1/2 the date...why not "all" of the date?---i mean if we're all really trying to be equal...let's take turns....same way w/ drving....i'm open to letting a woman be herself!!

nekeul_70

Joined: 2/12/2008

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empowered women and casual sex... Posted: 4/22/2008 10:50:54 PM
My thoughts are: Where are they? why haven't I found them? How many are there? Is there enough to go around for me? LOL...okay so i slipped off the deep end here LOL

nekeul_70

Joined: 2/12/2008

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The Kinky Test Posted: 4/22/2008 10:43:36 PM
I only scored 556 and I thought that was low...I thought I was a lil more adventursome than that...i could go on and on asking about the validity and reliability...or t-score or the populations type stuff...LOL but no its all good it was fun taking..... Hmmmm wonder if I could get a gov't grant in atttempt to raise my score????

nekeul_70

Joined: 2/12/2008

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Why do guys always do this to me? Does anyone else have this problem?... Posted: 3/27/2008 12:00:32 AM
Well I don't think its "guys" only....I have several "women" do this to...so I think its a "people" thing.....why...well let me consult my magic 8 ball and i'll get back to you on that!~

nekeul_70

Joined: 2/12/2008

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would you be jealous? Posted: 3/26/2008 11:52:59 PM
I'm w/ you ....I would be flattered....and I would have enough confidence in who I am as a person NOT to be jealous...i mean after all there are reason why she's with me and not w/ someone else (hypothetically that is LOL) I think there's a fine line between jealousy and protective...but that's another thread~

nekeul_70

Joined: 2/12/2008

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A girl in an adult career Posted: 3/26/2008 6:05:41 PM
Personally for me I wouldn't have an issue w/ it at all....as long as the woman communicated w/ me...and it didn't come to me completely off guard...I'm not saying like the 1st date...but...somewhere along the way.... but then again.....I'm having a hard enough time finding a date anways....lol

nekeul_70

Joined: 2/12/2008

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Sexy vs Looking For Sex Posted: 3/23/2008 3:00:51 AM
~Keep in mind that Men are "visual" creatures.....and when a stimulus enters the central nervous system they start thinking w/ the lil head and as someone else has put it they begin "hoping" that the woman is "looking" for sex.....However you need to also factor in the quality of the man in how he processes this stimulus...do they act upon it (how they react is another discussion) OR do they just file it away as a visual memory for storage ?~

nekeul_70

Joined: 2/12/2008

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Could you go 11 months without sex? Posted: 3/14/2008 9:53:34 PM
I have it was called "deployment".....but back to reference to the question when I was married...by wife didn't want to be touched while she was pregnant...so yeah...I guess that's another time.....so if you calculate....3 kids + 1 deployment = sobs never mind...

nekeul_70

Joined: 2/12/2008

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Any men over 35 seriously looking to get married? Posted: 3/14/2008 9:47:54 PM
Well I won't rule out the possibility....but I wouldn't say that I'm "specifically" looking to get married....for me its a step by step process.... IF i do get married again....I wan't to make sure this time around....

nekeul_70

Joined: 2/12/2008

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Matchmaking Services. Anyone ever tried them? Posted: 3/14/2008 9:32:45 PM
My experiences....have "almost" made me want to turn Gay Together (of Houston).... 0 for 8 (they have the habit of re-matching you...I've had this happend 3x's already...so it could be 0 for 11 (most expensive) E-harmony....0 for X (won't say how many matches i've burned through...but too many NOT to have a great match by now) (moderate expensive) Y Personal.....(waste of time)....lots of foreign scammers...just how many women are stuck in W africa? and where's the UN when you need them LOL I think I might have better luck going to the local store and asking every woman at random (hey you wanna go out?)

nekeul_70

Joined: 2/12/2008

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Women do you mind your man watching porno? Posted: 3/14/2008 3:26:37 AM
My only QUESTION is.....Where the Heck have all you ladies been all my LIFE??? :)

nekeul_70

Joined: 2/12/2008

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why guys ask for your pic? Posted: 3/11/2008 11:58:42 PM
Very simple answer is that Guys are Visual Creatures...its just how we're wired...where as women tend to be wired to the other sense "more" than men are...so its simple physiology/biology take your pick

nekeul_70

Joined: 2/12/2008

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The Freeze Out... Posted: 3/11/2008 11:56:38 PM
Thanks to ALL for adding thier .02 it was something that I already knew in the back of my head...but just wanted some confirmation...alas HER loss...not mine....someday...some woman will finally realize all the GREAT qualities i have to offer...until then...I guess i will have to try some different bait lol okay that was an attempt at humor...no really it was...i'm serious....gasp

nekeul_70

Joined: 2/12/2008

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What do guys think about a girl contacting them first? Posted: 3/11/2008 4:37:54 PM
No Not at all in this modern day of everything being equal...I think its perfectly okay for a woman to contact me first....actually i would find it flattering!

nekeul_70

Joined: 2/12/2008

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The "Freeze" Out... Posted: 3/10/2008 5:49:36 PM
Okay ladies...can you explain this phenomenom? Talk for a while w/ a woman.....go out on date....then they tell me that they don't feel any chemistry but would like to remain friends....HOWEVER...after that they never respond back to Emails, TXT msgs, phone calls.....and NO not all at the same time...spaced out over the course of like 10-14 days......should I just lose the contact information and move on? can anyone explain this?

nekeul_70

Joined: 2/12/2008

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How would you feel about a WOMAN with a GUN? Posted: 3/9/2008 4:03:02 PM
Personally...I find it Sexy....its shows the woman has the confidence to carry...and she's responsible in taking care of the weapon....

nekeul_70

Joined: 2/12/2008

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why don't more guys give massages? Posted: 3/6/2008 2:26:01 AM
Personally for me I enjoy giving massages to the special someone...as my way of saying this is something different/unique about ME :) plus it shows the woman that you're will to take the time/effort/attention to detail...in helping her relax...etc...

nekeul_70

Joined: 2/12/2008

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should I lie about my job? Posted: 3/6/2008 1:43:00 AM
well if the guys are intimdated...then perhaps...you're trying to meet the wrong guys? just be patient....and one will come along who won't care what you do or how much you make ooh oooh pick me pick me LOL*

nekeul_70

Joined: 2/12/2008

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Do you look at the shoes? Posted: 3/6/2008 1:39:37 AM
For me YES...i like a woman in some sort of heel....nothing outrageous...2-4" is good for me...i think it makes a woman look more sexy, sensual, feminie...etc..etc...then again...men are "visual" creatures....

nekeul_70

Joined: 2/12/2008

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Anybody been on a singles cruise? Posted: 3/5/2008 9:19:06 PM
Thought about it....but still haven't taken that plunge...so to speak

nekeul_70

Joined: 2/12/2008

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What brought you to POF Posted: 3/5/2008 9:17:45 PM
Just New to the Houston area...don't know anyone...and I'm tired of the bar scene...so i thought i'd give this a chance...

nekeul_70

Joined: 2/12/2008

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What are the rules, booty call or friend with benefits...? Posted: 3/5/2008 1:24:21 AM
My suggestion is communicate....let each other know what's acceptable...and what's not acceptable.....and just keep it light.....everyone has that need for physical fullfillment from time to time...w/o wanting/need the emotional baggage.....so just be honest and upfront.....it doesn't work for everyone or every situation....but at least you know you're doing your part!

nekeul_70

Joined: 2/12/2008

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losing erection with a condom Posted: 3/5/2008 1:20:59 AM
Well i will go off on a different direction...and perhaps your using the wrong size condoms? I know there are sites in which you can get "custom" fit condoms..and are reasonably priced.....personally for me...I can't use the majority of "generic" off the shelf condoms..b/c I had the same thing happend to me...but now...I tried different sizes and have found some that work for me....key thing is keep trying...don't give up!

nekeul_70

Joined: 2/12/2008

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Houston Area....Newbie Posted: 3/5/2008 1:02:57 AM
I'm Mark....been on for just a few weeks now...still trying to get my feet wet....thought I'd give the forums a shot.... Was in the army for 12 yrs...and have been in the houston area for just over a year now....haven't had too much opportunity to get out and mingle...open to suggestions/ideas/etc

nekeul_70

Joined: 2/12/2008

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HOUSTONIANS!!!! PARTY THIS MONTH!!! Posted: 3/5/2008 12:59:48 AM
Well....i would luv to get out and meet some new people...and heck i'll even take my monthly bath early if need be :)

nekeul_70

Joined: 2/12/2008

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Queen of the first date... Posted: 3/5/2008 12:41:50 AM
Well if you're the Queen...then I must be the Prince.....I too have been in the same situation....gone thru the date thinking all signs are good....and then poof...they seem to vanish into the Witness Protection Program.........well i do have at least one thing going for me...I live near a city of 4 million....so somewhere in 2 million populations....is got to be a 2nd date for me.....perhaps even a 3rd or more... Just don't give up....and be true to yourself!

nekeul_70

Joined: 2/12/2008

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How to get over 1st date-itis Posted: 3/5/2008 12:29:52 AM
Well my sense of humor is Army Issue....hence made by the lowest bidder...and subject to fail when i need it the most... i have all my teeth...I keep them in a glass right next to be bed.... but alas on a serious note....i'm not sure what the "problem" is...but I think I will keep the first dates to just coffee/drinks...or actually allow them to go dutch when they offer....when that happens...i think that's a pretty good indicator of things NOT to come LOL

nekeul_70

Joined: 2/12/2008

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men in uniforms Posted: 2/28/2008 9:51:22 PM
Hmmmm maybe i should go to the local bar w/ my uniform on...might increase my chances LOL

nekeul_70

Joined: 2/12/2008

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Do you find yourself becoming apathetic about finding love? Posted: 2/28/2008 9:27:54 PM
Yes...i'm starting to get to that point where I do agree w/ you...after being shot down time after time after time...the big o for X....it get frustrating....i enjoy going out on the 1st dates..but when they don't turn into anything other than the first dates...i begin to wonder....

nekeul_70

Joined: 2/12/2008

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Impatient To Meet? Posted: 2/27/2008 11:45:14 PM
M.A.D~ well I guess i'm more like you in that I too go thru the 3 step process....I want to be able to tell if there's a "real" chance of chemistry before I decide to ask someone if they want to meet...and plus...going thru the other 2 lets me know if they are really interested or just going through the motions~~

nekeul_70

Joined: 2/12/2008

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How to get over 1st date-itis Posted: 2/27/2008 11:41:59 PM
well I usually try to talk w/ each a few times before meeting and then when the first date comes along I try to put some thought and creativity somewhere in the date..... i'll give you an for instance...this one girl...really luv the color pink...and we joked about awarding each bonus points...and she said that she wanted hers to be "stars" so...I brought pink stars w/ on the first date...and when she said something funny or something i really enjoyed...i pulled one out...and "awarded" her one...???

nekeul_70

Joined: 2/12/2008

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How to get over 1st date-itis Posted: 2/27/2008 3:07:31 AM
Over the Past year...i've gone on many many 1st dates...and very few have turned into 2nd dates....Okay....can anyone give me some insiders info? Yes...I know that NONE of you were w/ us on the first dates lol...but I can assure you that I was polite, courteous, flirty, witty....and from my perspective thought we were clicking....more often than not I get responses like..." I had fun", I had a great time", " I'll call you in a few dates"..and then...POOF...nothing, nada, nichts, nein, null, zip, zero, insert silence here......and you can't tell me that many women have gone into the witness protection program LOL...see i have a sense of humor....its just frustrating

nekeul_70

Joined: 2/12/2008

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I need Help....Let me have it!! Posted: 2/27/2008 2:42:55 AM
Yes...I'm asking for your honest opinions...... so yeah...i'm a relative Newb that just fell off the turnip truck...so is it my profile or my pix or a combination or both? am i using the wrong bait...or what not...

nekeul_70

Joined: 2/12/2008

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The I'll Call You Line Posted: 2/27/2008 1:27:50 AM
I've had many women do this to me as well....so I guess it goes for both sexes.....but what i've noticed is that women will tell me that they're NOT interested more via Txt message, email, or not calling rather than being straight forward and JUST telling me sighs....oh well......life moves on....

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