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 Author Thread: For nevermarrieds...what do you think of the question, Why haven't you been married?
 fafi83
Joined: 2/13/2008
Msg: 52 (view)
 
For nevermarrieds...what do you think of the question, Why haven't you been married?
Posted: 3/28/2009 12:58:26 AM
Eh I dont think its anyone business. Usually after ppl are rarin to get married they see it isnt all that(what Ive been told for now divorced ppl). I think ppl who never married are just playin it smart, seems like ppl are just getting married to get married nowadays. Not to mention married to get divorced eventually.
Maybe here in the states it might be unusual but in other countries there are lots of unmarrieds 40+, seems like its becoming that way here to with all the ppl just living together now.
 fafi83
Joined: 2/13/2008
Msg: 1 (view)
 
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Posted: 10/31/2008 11:04:52 AM
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 fafi83
Joined: 2/13/2008
Msg: 58 (view)
 
Why do adults need to live on their own?
Posted: 10/1/2008 6:24:22 AM
In addition to what society thinks society isnt the one that has to pay the house note. So you know whats best for you and society isnt going to help if you cant afford to pay rent, so just worry about yourself and your finances.
 fafi83
Joined: 2/13/2008
Msg: 57 (view)
 
Why do adults need to live on their own?
Posted: 10/1/2008 6:20:15 AM
I was just thinking that. Lots of other cultures live together. Smart thinking if you ask me, everyone can take and handle a bill. It does seem like everyone in American society is in a rush to move out of their parents home or mainly the parents make them feel they should be rushed out in a hurry. This one Indian man on this documentary told this American man who came to live with him for 30 days that in their culture youre usually looked down upon or laughed at if you dont live with your parents and extended family still. Just glad I dont give a you know what about what society thinks.
 fafi83
Joined: 2/13/2008
Msg: 45 (view)
 
How offten do you let them come back if at all??
Posted: 9/24/2008 11:19:21 AM
Never. I tell them to get the hell on and keep it movin.
 fafi83
Joined: 2/13/2008
Msg: 201 (view)
 
Sorry Hun, I'm Pregnant...
Posted: 8/27/2008 11:28:33 AM
I dont think youre the bad guy. I mean you said he asked for your opinion so he made
it your business. Now how the rest will work out since he only moved in with her to use her for the sex who knows.
 fafi83
Joined: 2/13/2008
Msg: 233 (view)
 
asian girl who has never dated or had a asian bf before
Posted: 8/16/2008 12:42:12 AM
"now go slap yourself with a pouch of soup"

LOL! Ive never ever heard that one before.
 fafi83
Joined: 2/13/2008
Msg: 24 (view)
 
Why are they so mean?
Posted: 8/15/2008 11:50:28 PM
Actually I heard the same thing in my international studies. Theyre marriages seem to stay together longer then ours, when we do the so called marriage with or for "love" deal. We have the free choice of marriage and there seems to be alot of not so free divorces...
 fafi83
Joined: 2/13/2008
Msg: 16 (view)
 
Are men ever really too busy?
Posted: 8/8/2008 6:53:18 PM
Yeah forget him and go get someone else you can spend time with, and then when this bum comes contacting you agian wondering why you left him in the dust you can mention/show your new beau so hell have no questions why you left him alone
I never believed all that stuff you have to act outgoing and bubbly to catch a guys attention, which Im mentioning because it brings it back to what quite a few posters have stated if he really wanted, liked and wanted to spend time with you then he would. When a man wants something hell show he wants it and go for it. So kick him to the curb.
 fafi83
Joined: 2/13/2008
Msg: 222 (view)
 
35, No Kids, Never Married
Posted: 8/4/2008 6:34:27 PM
Well I wouldn't look at it as being a commitment phobe. I am 37 single and no kids. I look at it as never divorced as most couples end up being.

Exactly, never been divorced or having to have to deal with its troubles.
 fafi83
Joined: 2/13/2008
Msg: 220 (view)
 
35, No Kids, Never Married
Posted: 8/4/2008 6:30:52 PM
Nope just smart. Rather than those who got married in their 20s then divorced 20 minutes later, just to say theyre or have been married. Seems like a big lose to just get married have some kids then have a divorce at eh first sign of trouble. Myself I find it werid when I find under 30 divorved people(Im like damn you were were just married just yesterday!) Anyway youre fine and who cares what other ppl think, youll find someone on youre on time. Its not being commitment learly youre just being smart and cautious, heck Id do the same although Im 25 I still wouldnt just "jump" at the chance to get married or tackle the first guy who proposed to me now or later.
 fafi83
Joined: 2/13/2008
Msg: 61 (view)
 
Started good but bizarre ending
Posted: 7/24/2008 3:12:02 PM
If the date was otherwise enjoyable I wouldnt say write him off, geez at least ask him outright why he felt compelled to do it there.
 fafi83
Joined: 2/13/2008
Msg: 437 (view)
 
Why do guys always do this to me? Does anyone else have this problem?...
Posted: 7/13/2008 7:07:51 AM
Heck yeah happens to me(or I should use to happen to me) quite often. Except I never got as for as you did concerning the length of time involved. Usually they stop talking to me mid conversation or we have a nice chat that goes very well (or so I think) and then I try talking with them at another time, and they dont repsond or I never hear from them again. Anyway I totally could care less now, until I get around some guys actually worth talking to. In your situation I think hes just playing games, eliminate his stupid a**.
 fafi83
Joined: 2/13/2008
Msg: 713 (view)
 
Expain the phrase My children are my top priority?
Posted: 7/11/2008 12:14:30 PM
Hmm never really wondered much about it when Ive read it in profiles , maybe its just because I dont date guys with kids.
 fafi83
Joined: 2/13/2008
Msg: 48 (view)
 
the joys of being single
Posted: 6/27/2008 5:49:36 PM
And just because your single doesnt mean youre lonely . You can be lonely as heck with someone, being within a relationship. One poster made it seem like you just dont have anythign unless you have someone. Being single doesnt mean you dont have friends/family to hang out with or do things with....damn
 fafi83
Joined: 2/13/2008
Msg: 47 (view)
 
the joys of being single
Posted: 6/27/2008 5:46:54 PM
Loving this post. Too true. Whole lot less to worry about , although I cant really say its a worry not having anyone. Its not that important, now trying to keep the bank accound up and staying healthy with school etc. those are another.
 fafi83
Joined: 2/13/2008
Msg: 24 (view)
 
The Baby Conundrum
Posted: 6/3/2008 9:56:54 AM
Im in my mid 20s and I have no need or want to have kids. Alot of girls my age have them but I couldnt even imagine it(although that doesnt stop everyone from saying Ill change my mind).....I have other things to achieve....theres always a right or better time to have them. I couldnt even seem myself having any in my 30s. Youll eventually(in good time) find what you want to do Im sure.
 fafi83
Joined: 2/13/2008
Msg: 187 (view)
 
Dumped mid date!!
Posted: 5/21/2008 4:28:38 PM
You defitnitely did the right thing. I probably wouldve embarrassed him a little more and cussed him out good fashion in front of ms whoever.
 fafi83
Joined: 2/13/2008
Msg: 191 (view)
 
Guys asking to meet with you immediately
Posted: 5/18/2008 6:54:38 PM
Yeah that happens to me. It is a hard one to figure out what intentions might be or are.
 fafi83
Joined: 2/13/2008
Msg: 8 (view)
 
my bad dating experience
Posted: 4/27/2008 5:32:22 PM
It was a club not a bar...and even still even meeting him there youd expect that hed at least use the speck of the brain that he has!....NEXT! Thats just horrible home training!
 fafi83
Joined: 2/13/2008
Msg: 112 (view)
 
I am So fed up with men these days
Posted: 4/21/2008 3:24:22 PM
I think maybe you started playing the g/f/"wifey" role or just plain doing too much to soon. Just relax let it be 50/50 when it comes to actually doing household tasks making appointments chores etc.
 fafi83
Joined: 2/13/2008
Msg: 140 (view)
 
Do you find yourself becoming apathetic about finding love?
Posted: 4/21/2008 3:19:44 PM
Yeah. Im not all "crazy and determined" as I use to be. No problem with just waiting for someone thats actually worth my time.
 fafi83
Joined: 2/13/2008
Msg: 873 (view)
 
Ever feel like your going to be alone forever?
Posted: 4/16/2008 8:20:34 PM
Sure. But there alot of girls my age who get trapped into that need a man thing. Some even try to find dates for me or always ask if there are any new prospects. But the b/fs and husbands they have I wouldnt look twice at . So Im content just to wait for the better things in life amd find my one and only on my own time.Even as a teen I never felt like I "needed" a boyfriend to validate me as it seemed so many gals my age did. I much rather be on the hunt for a cute pair of shoes than get stressed about searching for a b/f.
 fafi83
Joined: 2/13/2008
Msg: 101 (view)
 
Talking about sex before even meeting
Posted: 4/16/2008 8:12:10 PM
Couldnt agree more. Its just annoying.
 fafi83
Joined: 2/13/2008
Msg: 56 (view)
 
What little things make you say next...even before meeting?
Posted: 4/12/2008 8:12:32 PM
Talking about sex right away
How exotic I am
Wanting to call but never "getting around to it"
 fafi83
Joined: 2/13/2008
Msg: 57 (view)
 
Ethnic Dating - Is it about personality, attraction, or stereotypes?
Posted: 4/2/2008 1:06:12 PM
I do have to admit I tended to think alot of europeans(i.e. germans scandanavians) were washed out and pale, but actually alot of them have a good amount of a golden undertone to their skins like Victoria Rowell's ex husband(which in turn her daughter has). So I could see how alot of the southern germans are darker.
 fafi83
Joined: 2/13/2008
Msg: 54 (view)
 
Ethnic Dating - Is it about personality, attraction, or stereotypes?
Posted: 4/1/2008 9:02:46 PM
Right maybe not tons, but then maybe still alot more than are accounted for in numbers etc. but then statistics Ive never been a stickler for. I had a black female friend from Europe and she said Italian men were crazy about us Now as far as the standard of beauty bit I was shocked when a transfer student I went to school went had magazines from her native Germany and two out of the three magazines had black models on the cover I dont mean the light could be biracial but dark skinned, and arent the last of the worlds "natural blondes" there or is that sweden?
 fafi83
Joined: 2/13/2008
Msg: 51 (view)
 
Ethnic Dating - Is it about personality, attraction, or stereotypes?
Posted: 4/1/2008 8:11:59 PM
I dont feel/think black women are really hurting at all, especially in this day and age. Most black females I know choose to date whoever that want regardless of race. Dont be fooled there are TONS of white men who date and marry black women. This is coming from someone who lives in the midwest and defitnitely did not expect to see it as much as I did/do. Theres a whole website/forum dedicated to this I believe.
 fafi83
Joined: 2/13/2008
Msg: 34 (view)
 
How do you really feel seeing your EX get engaged?
Posted: 4/1/2008 6:40:52 AM
Eh dont care. As Judge Judy alludes to: divorces and breaksup arent too far around the corner or "In five years you wont even know his/her name sir/madam". She gets me with that sir /madam stuff lol.
 fafi83
Joined: 2/13/2008
Msg: 99 (view)
 
im gonna give up soon..
Posted: 3/30/2008 5:37:48 PM
This very post shows that you do want to. Anyone who thinks of this acts doesnt tell anyone and just does it. So what you need to do is take some time to yourself relaxe and realize that is just one selfish hack. Get yourself together and take solice in that in one way/form or another the always coming crawling back w/o you having to do a thing. And by ceawling back I mean in an apologetic way.
 fafi83
Joined: 2/13/2008
Msg: 29 (view)
 
Ever have someone read your e-mails and don't delete them, but don't reply either??
Posted: 3/28/2008 5:24:31 PM
The seem-to-be-getting-along-well-with-numerous-emails-back and forth thing has happened to me. Have had what seem to be or what I thought was good conversation repoire etc and no more chatting or after one phone call no more calling. Has happened once after a first date too, no second date. I ponder it for about half a second presently in contrast to when I was younger when I would worry myself silly.
 fafi83
Joined: 2/13/2008
Msg: 4 (view)
 
Graphic Designers
Posted: 3/24/2008 5:31:52 PM
Youre right teachers are for that but I was also looking for those that may not be teachers of it but know it and may have various tips, not neccassarily to teach but just give pointers.
 fafi83
Joined: 2/13/2008
Msg: 3 (view)
 
Graphic Designers
Posted: 3/24/2008 5:29:07 PM
Oh no Im not going to school I AM teaching myself. Yes Im bypassing the techniques that I wont frequently need, I was just looking for help on certain techniques. Thank You anyway though
 fafi83
Joined: 2/13/2008
Msg: 1 (view)
 
Graphic Designers
Posted: 3/24/2008 3:09:47 PM
Hi to everyone. As Im student currently learning Graphic Design I was wondering if there were some people in the profession that could help me with certain questions that have concerning various projects and etc. (In particular there was one latino/hispanic fellow in NC or SC 21 I believe that is a graphic designer).Thank You In Advance
 
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