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strangebunny

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So when do you tell someone that you're no good in bed? Posted: 4/28/2009 8:53:19 AM
easy answer is that you need someone who is very sensitive and patient.. who is more interested in tenderness than sex.. such men do exist.. i suspect that if a relationship is allowed enough time to develop - with the right person/lover - your problem will totally go away.. The issue is not that you are no good in bed - in reality the whore of babylon is waiting to get out - she just needs plenty of time and understanding. The best time to deal with issue of finding the right person is as soon as you meet any potential lover - hunt down the one you now deserve.. do not worry about the ones who might be put off..

strangebunny

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When he won't go down on you Posted: 12/17/2008 5:40:48 AM
This is very simple.. some men are totally hetero.. some men are gay... some men are bi... and some men are mostly straight but don't like p8ssy half as much as the rest of us..

strangebunny

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Cuba: War by Proxy? Posted: 10/4/2008 6:39:44 AM
reply to last post Or look at it another way, US attitude to Cuba and its regime and the embargo - have proved a self fulfilling prophecy - Castro at first wanted to be friends with US but was totally rebuffed - then there was the bay of pigs..

strangebunny

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is sex everything in a relationship? Posted: 9/30/2008 5:47:09 AM
depends on how you define sex.. if sex is everything that happens between two members of the opposite sex - then sex is everything..

strangebunny

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US war on Terror ???? Posted: 9/30/2008 5:43:42 AM
for almost 50 years, Miami based terrorist groups (or freedom fighters?) have targetted Cuba. Nearly 3,500 people have died in attacks including in the 1976 bombing of a Cuban airliner killing 73 passengers. Maybe in order to protect their lives, five Cubans infiltrated these groups to gather evidence on future attacks. This information was given to the US government, but rather than arrest the terrorists/freedom fighters, the FBI arreseted the five Cubans on the 12th of September 1998. In 2001 the five cubans (not the terrorists) recieved severe sentences ranging from 15 years to double life - on charges including conspiracy to commit espionage.. "War on Terror" is an entirely meaningless group of words... unless it maybe means the right to bomb who ever the US government wants.. while using the excuse of the danger that someone might payback the american people in kind .. Is it not time to rip down all the war memorials, kick out all the warmongering politicians in the pockets of big business.. so that we have a clear space left to look at words really mean and act accordingly.. ??

strangebunny

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If You Cant Feed Them, Dont Breed Them !! Posted: 9/28/2008 5:24:49 AM
your question is maybe based on some very short sighted narrow minded Daily Mail type assumptions..

strangebunny

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Not tonight, honey...I don't want THROAT CANCER?! Posted: 9/5/2008 8:52:40 AM
it is a simple fact that viruses by their very nature increase the chances of cancer... So the answer is very easy just find the one person who is not harbouring any viruses or having sex with anyone else (or at least no one else with any viruses)... and stick with each other.. Then you can be as free and sexually debauched as you like .... ****... i sound like a christian

strangebunny

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Is It Racist To Call A BMW A Black Mans Wheels?.... Posted: 7/29/2008 8:16:53 AM
it is one of the essential aspects of humour that it is about brreaking the rules.. in my mind a joke is a joke.. he could have said "ni88er" and in the context of a joke it could have been totaly ok.. if it was breaking the rules of his general attitude and policy.. It strikes me as strange that in one part of the country a group of white police officers can be caught on video, killing a black war veteran, and then be heard making monkey noises... ... and then entirely get away with it and then a few years later here someone who upholds the law but makes a joke gets such a hard time.. maybe he deserves some sort of humiliation.. but this smells of token action rather than a will to root out and deal with genuinly corrupt and racist pigs...

strangebunny

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CONDOM? or NO CONDOM? Posted: 6/3/2008 8:26:18 AM
You are putting your health and your life at risk and then maybe that of anyone else you **, if you without a condom someone who has not been up to date tested for stds... you can do without this sort of dude. condoms are very boring but essential in some situations... it is entirely possible to do without a condom in so far as it is entirely possible to go without **ing... do you respect yourself enough to insist on being respected or managing without taking silly risks???

strangebunny

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Evolution: Highly probable? Posted: 5/28/2008 8:50:47 AM
reply to msg 12. Sorry you are a person who has studied probability... but unfortunately has developed no instinct for it... Your argument is fundamentally flawed. It fails to take into account which ever forces and influences there maybe - that remain constant - and thus greatly reduce the odds once a process has started.

strangebunny

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Current administration played into terrorist's hands Posted: 5/28/2008 8:31:26 AM
All wars are a game... Bush and Bin Laden very much like playing... as it suits them fine. I can't imagine that bin laden did not organise twin towers thing without praying that bush would invade somewhere... he must have been doubly pleased at the outcome so far. It would be great if everyone else could wake up to they have nothing to gain from war (which ever side they have been told that they are on). But that's how government works and survives.

strangebunny

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Whose brand of Christianity is the correct one? Posted: 5/28/2008 8:18:23 AM
reply to msg 79. sorry... you are completly missing the point... jesus was not christ .. he was a guy who got the raw end of the deal from the church... like all the kids who got ****ed by catholic priests while the church moved them about and covered their arses. Like bush set in motion military opperation that has resulted in the deaths of thousands while talking about democracy and a crusade. "Servant of christ" those words some up exactly why i despise the church... the way it does evil - then shrugs off responsibility by saying that it is doing it all for some higher purpose...

strangebunny

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Creepy over-persistant strange men, and how to get rid of them Posted: 5/28/2008 5:22:26 AM
This is such a simple and easy thing for you to deal with it might come as a shock to your system when you do... As soon as you are are not comfortable with the attentions of a man... just look him straight in the eye and say.... "sorry to be impolite, but i have had a lot of unwanted attention from strange men recently.. and so really i just want to be left alone by everyone at the moment... You thus give him the option of hanging around and immediately becoming "unwanted and strange" or the choice of leaving you alone.... You are no longer flypaper.. Lesbian option is witty but potentially not good at all... it puts you in position of weakness cos you are lying... and also could be fascinating to the sort of men that you are trying to avoid... There are less polite options that you could consider... like "i really respect a man who respects a woman's wish to be left alone... could you leave me alone please."

strangebunny

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Christianity and equality Posted: 5/28/2008 4:34:26 AM
reply to msg 45 I stand partially corrected.. however, the equality of which this pope paul III speaks ... is the equal ability to become christian... it implies that those who do not submit to christianity do not deserve equal treatment.... Eugine IV seems like an OK sort of guy i have to confess. He must of pissed off a whole load of christians...

strangebunny

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Christianity and equality Posted: 5/27/2008 9:24:10 AM
"In the beginning God said let there be Nig8ers" I am paraphrasing what seems to be the message of most people concerned to maintain power calling themselves christian for the last thousand years... It is all about maintaing the assumption that everything is as it should be because that is the way that God made it and intended... Thus Popes and martin luther have all condemned those who try to find equality or overcome the status quo.. Because the bottom line is what they say has no rational basis, the only way that they can maintain their side of a debate is to at some stage rely on a circular argument... which boils down to what you are saying is wrong because it does not fit their belief system.

strangebunny

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Whose brand of Christianity is the correct one? Posted: 5/27/2008 9:10:08 AM
You just got to remember that it was the church and those in authority who crucified jesus... if he came back tomorrow he would maybe grab bush and the pope by the balls and squeeze until they said sorry.. Then he would tell the crosstians to burn their icons and say "i really just want to **** you all"... then he would get a lethal injection this time around.... maybe...

strangebunny

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Child Indoctrination (Christianity) Posted: 5/27/2008 8:58:43 AM
you christians do seem to believe that children are born evil and therefore need to be modified... From an evolutionary standpoint children have evolved in such a way that they and their society benefit from mutual co-operation... So being a parent is not rocket science... and thus providing a father figure up in the sky or one down on the earth who will punish them is not very good idea.... leadership by example and allowing them to sometimes learn from their own mistakes i would contend is adequate and best way for them to make the most of themselves... "child abuse" seems like a strong term for your mistake... children have evolved to have a sporting chance of surviving most things including stupid parents.

strangebunny

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Necrophilia? Posted: 5/27/2008 5:40:18 AM
LIFE essentially only consists of two or three things... There is only SEX and DEATH and facing up to reality.... what anyone else thinks is irrelevant.. SEX in the oven or the shower room of a decommissioned concentration camp would be most cosmic of all .. It is only your christian inhibitions that make reality a taboo... Face up to what is most unthinkaable and go beyond it...

strangebunny

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Sexual Taboos Posted: 5/27/2008 5:07:08 AM
reply msg 53 So we are totally in agreement about what a taboo is, ie a fear of - a film showing a woman having sex while menstruating, suggesting that Isreal might be a fascist state, and maybe saying that christianity is necrophilia.. Your definition of necrophilia is rather narrow and naive, and avoids defining the most important issue - the psychology ... Necrophilia quite literally means love of death. The central icon of christianity is a semi naked man in the process of dying. My primeminister and your president have not ****ed any corpses but like countless popes and other tyrants that call themselves christians, they sure as hell have created many... and then seem to really like shedding tears about all the death that comes about. Necrophilia maybe has nothing to do with those very brave christians that have refused to fight in silly wars over the past hundred years... but be honest... You missed out the words "characterised by" from your definition of necrophilia... and i was to be honest stretching the meaning... which i think is fair enough as christianity has traditionally had a prohibition on healthy sexual activity... - death and mayhem do seem to be the substitute put forward by those with a fetish for crosses. Finally seems ironic you should accuse my posting of being a garble... i think i was pretty sharp and to the point... i think garble is a better description of the way people calling themselves christians use meaningless and contradictory words as an excuse for their perversions.

strangebunny

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why aren't men more open to anal play? Posted: 5/25/2008 6:00:51 AM
Tie him up.... I think part of the issue at least... is that a man does not want to consent or to be responsible for this..

strangebunny

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Sexual Taboos Posted: 5/25/2008 4:19:10 AM
Reply to msg 32 i dont think most of the posters here understand the usual meaning of the word Taboo. If Taboo means a fashionable irrational fear (my understanding of the word), then necrophilia is not Taboo at all... It is total mainstream in US culture.. It is the central theme of christianity - nailing a man to a cross and watching him bleed to death for some special purpose. ... Many Hollywood films and TV .. death and blood being much more acceptable than sex - worst of all in "saving private ryan"..... US foreign policy and relationship with islamic terrorists - fetishising death and pinning it to a flag or a religion.... What is Taboo is facing up to reality - using the engish language in any meaningful way is Taboo.. beautiful and ugly words like "cvnt" and "nig8er" are also Taboo - and the issues that they represent are of course even more taboo... talking about the reality of sex with children is very Taboo in so far as catholic church has been the biggest childmolesting ring in the world, yet every time a pope dies, every head of state or his representative will turn up at the funeral... Why sex with children is wrong is Taboo... why any anyone would want sex with children is Taboo. Burning the American Flag is Taboo...

strangebunny

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Are all men afraid of women that are different? Posted: 5/23/2008 3:29:11 AM
All animals are instinctively afraid of anything different... all humans instinctively follow the hurd and fashion... So you just need to wait for a more special man who rises above the hurd and loves you at a deeper level... beautiful women can very often be very sad in later life...

strangebunny

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When a woman tells you what you can and can't do... Posted: 5/23/2008 3:25:21 AM
leave her.... unless she agrees to have professional help. not a real relationship

strangebunny

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Does the Death Sentence Work? Posted: 5/23/2008 3:18:59 AM
in reply to all those who put foward the "eye for an eye... tooth for a tooth argument" this philosophy is obviously shared by those people who kill US soldiers in middle east or given half a chance will kill US civilians who pay their taxes to government that spend them on killing arab children .. it has a logic that means until someone sees the light.. you are going to end up with a lot of dead people...

strangebunny

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Does the Death Sentence Work? Posted: 5/20/2008 9:42:33 AM
Sorry i'm from the UK and not quite answering your question... There are some people... if i was payed the appropriate fee... i could hang them upside down and slit their throat or flick a switch or what ever the legal process happenned to be ... and i probably would not lose too much sleep over it... But there are a number of problems... especially in US where entirely innocent people have been put to death... for just being the wrong colour, in the wrong place at the wrong time with a very flawed legal process... Then there is strange thing of some people getting medals for their involvement in killing the entirely innocent and our taxes being spent on nuclear weapons with the potential to kill almost everyone on the planet maybe and already been used... while someone else who is equally mindlessly caught up in doing what he is told by his friends ends up on death row.. To tell you the truth ... if i believed in the death penalty ... it would be Blair and Bush who should be first in line... but then we would need to consider everyone who voted for them... But adult answer is it does not work... we need to put the money into what does..

strangebunny

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Can a guy and girl be just friends Posted: 5/20/2008 9:24:12 AM
this subject has been covered before.. i don't have any male friends... men are so ****ing boring. as a general rule i just want to lick all over every woman in the universe... but i do have some very valuable female friends where that is not my interest at all.

strangebunny

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What if you find an Ex date on here who is a true sociopath?? Posted: 5/20/2008 9:10:22 AM
i have lead such a sheltered life... can you tell us what DSM V numbers are please?

strangebunny

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On gambling Posted: 5/20/2008 8:12:09 AM
Reply to msg 4 "Your uncles ruined their families with this addiction. If you win in poker, you take the money of people like your uncle!! You get ahead by hurting others! Doesn't that bother you? If you make this your career on the side, you are putting food in your belly with money that comes from the pain of others! " And I haven't fully come to terms with that. I'll be fine, but what about the people I win from? I don't want to hurt people. ____________________________________________________________ A powerful story... a bit of a mind****er for you... but not as much of a dilema as if you pay taxes and what your government spends the money on...

strangebunny

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Lower body hair. Posted: 5/20/2008 5:22:03 AM
reply to aspiring angel msg 129 if i was having sex with you, i would be licking an adult in so far as you would be insisting on a choice that you are making beyond mine... however when the OP ****s a female .. i am then suggesting that it is a different matter, with him having a similar attitude to those attracted to those that they can dominate.

strangebunny

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Lower body hair. Posted: 5/20/2008 4:53:41 AM
there is injecting heroin, there is sex with children and there is women shaving... the tragedy with a woman shaving is once she has done it the first time... it is very difficult for her to stop.. for the obvious reasons of stubble... The western world is a sick society... It should be taught in schools that the advertising industry is dangerous and what it sells is usually useless soul destroying shit.... Normal is not the issue... you have been corrupted by what is normal is the issue.

strangebunny

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Is this normal? Posted: 5/20/2008 3:00:16 AM
The issue is not about trust... is not about "normal".. This issue is autonomy OR slavery. A relationship that in any way impinges on autonomy... is pathological. You know that... given time you will realise that you have been in the equivalent of a religious cult..

strangebunny

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TOXIC RELIGION Posted: 5/17/2008 9:01:44 AM
My favourite religious quote from a film is from "Cross of Iron" when a female russian soldier has just found herself stabbing to death a very young german soldier. As she does so she is crying. then this guys last words to the german hero/anti hero Stiener are "do not hurt the women"... an other german soldier asks "Steiner, do you believe in God?" Steiner replies "God is a sadist, and he does not even know it..."

strangebunny

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Wife wants me to find a friend with benifits Posted: 5/17/2008 8:04:50 AM
AS long as everyone is a consenting adult and is being honest with each other... then i do not see that you have much choice other than to consider how to put your wife's advice into opperation..

strangebunny

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Pagan misconceptions, can we clear them up? Posted: 5/17/2008 7:33:01 AM
Pagans are so busy saying that they do not worship satan.... what is wrong with satan? I think he has been greatly misunderstood and we really need to learn to love him... unless he is the guy who pulls all the strings and runs the catholic church, the US government and the drug companies etc...

strangebunny

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Respect for spiritual and religious beliefs Posted: 5/17/2008 7:24:58 AM
i feel that it is safest to assume that all priests are child molesters.. until i get to know each one of them better. Maybe Not .. . i think that a religion can be a tool for good or evil, deepthinking or midlessness, depending on how a person or an organisation chooses to employ it.. What does my head in.. is here in the UK many of our schools... and all over France, in the name of equality and secularism, girls from an Islamic background are forbidden an education if they refuse to reveal as much of their face as the authorities see fit... This is an arrogance that is both paradoxical and obscene. Mutual respect.. is the backbone of any real civilisation or democracy

strangebunny

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Religion is the True EVIL in the world Posted: 5/17/2008 7:14:12 AM
reply to message 4 The government of the Soviet Union turned Marxism into their own dogma and employed a powerful policeforce to ensure that it was next to impossible to question the regime.. In that sense the Soviet Union was governed by a mindless obedience to Dogma akin to religion. It can be argued that this "socialist" system collapsed because it failed to provide enough wealth for its people... or maybe because it was not able to take over the very soul of its people with a shitty christian doctrine... the people themselves were able to clearly see through its failings??

strangebunny

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TOXIC RELIGION Posted: 5/17/2008 6:58:33 AM
Yes i was just reading a thread about lesbian relationships... and this guy calling himself a catholic was launching in with all the usual prejudice.. So I said "Catholicism is just a method of ****ing children and getting away with it, while feeling guilty about everything else". I think as soon as you believe that there is a god who created the world according to his cosmic plan, then it is inevitable that you see anything that strays from that mindset as wrong.. and anything that operates in his name as beyond reproach. Religion can be by its very nature narrow minded and anti love.. Then after my coment somehow the thread disapeared.... hope that does not happen with this one..

strangebunny

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Barnyard Animals in Bondage 16 - Has Porn Gone Too Far? Posted: 5/15/2008 4:03:50 AM
This is a cat that licks itself stays at home situation. A happy cat will both lick itself and stay in the place that it is happy in.. Some people observe this and thus conclude that if you cover a cat in butter, it will then have to lick it off and in the process find itself staying at home... However, there is a false logic here... which is also i think present in the argument against sick porn.. Sick porn is not the thing that makes US of A a sick society, but one of the symptoms of its sickness... if you want to make US of A a better place, you need to look at the influence of school, christianity, advertising industry, cynical capitalism and stupid patriotism... and related sexual hangups.

strangebunny

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Are you the Chicken or the Pig? Posted: 5/13/2008 3:49:24 AM
when you put it like that... then i have to confess that i am a chicken... Wanting to be very involved .. but not in any way committed to sacrificing my life.. that does scare me. I still think that it would be really great to find another chicken to be involved with for life... just not in a co-dependent excluding being my own person sort of way..

strangebunny

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A bum of a question Posted: 5/9/2008 3:25:05 AM
You know the answer yourself... if you are an adult

strangebunny

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Should marijuana use be a deal breaker? Posted: 5/8/2008 2:23:59 AM
with regards to safe/ dangerious argument.. it is possible to play russian roulette without harming a hair on your head..if you are lucky it is a fact that pot has totally ****ed up a lot of people's lives and others have just shrugged off a lot responsibility for their lives while using it... others say it is ok, and it is not for anyone else to be able to tell them otherwise with any great authority... if that is how they feel it works for them... Alcohol undoubtedly fucks up more lives than anything. Alcohol beyond moderate drinking is the ultimate dealbreaker.

strangebunny

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The religious relationship dealbreaker Posted: 5/8/2008 2:14:24 AM
i have extremely strong religious and political beliefs which i do not expect a lot of women would totally agree with.. and many might even find offensive.. For me mutual respect is the only issue.. As long as we can love each other despite our differences.. there is no problem.. it is maybe all the more romantic. Mutual Acceptance is the bottom line.

strangebunny

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Being similar or different Posted: 5/7/2008 3:08:51 AM
i am scarily honest... to the point of stripping us both psychologically naked by the end of the first date... There is no one that you can trust more ... but no one with a sharper tongue apart from when i am licking you, which is the only way that you can be sure of shutting me up.

strangebunny

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Your partner never asks about your passions Posted: 5/7/2008 2:54:46 AM
i really like it when a lover takes an interest in the work that i do... but i think that i am more excited when my customers are appreciative of what i do... but the most important thing is that i am excited myself in what i do.. I think the issue here is you - your self-esteem.. if you genuinely enjoy yourself and your own passions.. it does not really matter that much how excited your lover is.. For me a relationship is less about showing off to each other and more about sharing your vulnerability and your feelings.. Maybe you need to let her know that you are disapointed.. but without having any investment in her taking more interest... most women don't care about what a man does as much as they do about being able to be emotionally close to each other.. maybe she is disapointed that you are only concerned about what you both do instead of how you both feel... The easiest thing is not to wait to be asked about your passions but just to say how excited you are... and then to remember to be sensitive to how she feels.. But ofcourse the most important thing is making love..

strangebunny

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Should marijuana use be a deal breaker? Posted: 5/7/2008 2:18:48 AM
reply to msg 64.. The Law thing is a total red herring (hope that is a phrase you use in the states) until towards the end of the 60's it was illegal in some parts of US for two people of different colours to go to bed with each other, and until much more resently for two people of the same sex to go to bed with each other or for two people to kiss each other between the legs. Only very young children (and many US citizens it would seem) base their idea of ethics and the practical desicions on how they live their lives on what the Law says...

strangeBunny

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is it rape if... Posted: 5/6/2008 6:06:25 AM
you americans get so hung up on words... You perhaps need to focus on the facts.. did something happen that you very much wished did not happen...? Did he have every reason to suspect that you did not want this to happen.. did you ever give him any reason to think that you wanted this.. Did he provide you with so much alcohol because he was trying to help you think more clearly about what you really wanted. When you say authority figure do you mean a person who plays an authority figure in a movie.. or in real life has some sort of authority over you... Maybe you could worry about the word "rape" but... i think the issue goes beyond a word. Just read lack of sympathy from other posters... so question for them is... is the way that this man behaved, the way that the US government conducts itself in the rest of the world sometimes... have you got any real grasp of ethics and fair play?? How painful is it for you to openly and honestly look at an atrocity.

strangeBunny

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Would You Pretend To Be Gay ? Posted: 5/6/2008 5:31:21 AM
in this scenario (the world and the country that we live in) ... i would say it comes down to some things change an awefull lot and yet some things stay exactly the same.. A few years ago the Daily Mail was saying that the sanctity of marriage would be undermined if Gays had equal marriage rights.. now i suspect that there are many "gays" who would say that there relationships would not be taken seriously enough if these sisters had the same rights.. The sisters were absolutely right .... those who layed down there lives in the last war did so not knowing how genuine justice, freedom and equality was always going to take second place to politicians trying to get ellected by people only loking at what they can get for themselves.

strangeBunny

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Should marijuana use be a deal breaker? Posted: 5/6/2008 5:07:13 AM
On the one hand drugs and religion are both potentially soul destroying shit... on the other hand some people are able to have one or both of these things in their lives without it doing them or their partners any considerable harm.. Few people are perfect... i would take it one step at a time.. if you start to come to the conclusion that her drug use is symptomatic of an unwilingness to grow up.. and you thus find that this does not provide a solid adult relationship that you need... then is the time to start worrying and thinking about where you stand with each other.. maybe she has chosen a relationship with you because you are a sensible person and there is a part of her that wants to grow up... What will not work is you playing the role of strict parent and her the wayward child.

strangebunny

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is it wrong to surf profiles? Posted: 5/5/2008 7:44:37 AM
intention and consequence is/are everything.. if you are in any doubt.... why not share this activity with your partner... if she is bored with this silly idea... then you are just very sweet and harmless... i read the "Daily Mail" (UK's Nazi publication) sometimes - but that does not mean that i believe in hurting anyone or making them miserable...

strangebunny

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Do men's relationships with their mom's reflect how they treat women romantically? Posted: 5/2/2008 4:46:44 AM
sorry ... i'm a man... so hope that it is ok to answer this question i had an out of cotrol, control freak for a mother who never owned her own feelings or could accept anything about me that did not conform to her idea of "normal".. The way that this has affected me is that out in the world i am a mad angry anarchist... but if i find that woman who i feel that i can trust and feel that accepted by.. i am a devoted tender loving slightly masochistic p8ssycat in the bedroom..

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