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Joined: 2/15/2008

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Why do women not like dating fulltime single fathers? Posted: 7/22/2009 1:20:39 PM
As for me and what seems to be a common sediment amoungst single women who don't have children but want a family...we do not want our future children to have to share their father or his resources with another women's children....simple as that. If you decided to go ahead with the having of the child then the parents should be married, otherwise there are other options out there.

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Msg: 91 (view)

Where are the decent women looking for long term at? Posted: 7/5/2009 10:48:39 AM
I am a decent woman looking for long term, to me that means marriage and kids, but it seems all the men I run into are into BS Games, they just want laid, want to play the field, or are looking for a super model..... So there are decenet women looking for long term, we just always get passed over.

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Msg: 91 (view)

GF kissed another guy... what do i do? Posted: 6/28/2009 10:50:11 AM
Get rid of her!!!! There are so many good women out there that want relationship, and would loyal and faithful...but yet men keep wanting to go after and keep females like that?!!!!

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What are women really looking for? Posted: 5/25/2009 7:46:11 PM
As a woman, I can tell you what I am looking for...a good man...with honor, integrity, and morals......and a man who wants to settle down and have a family....seems like all I run into men who wish to play games, just want sex, or are looking for Jessica Alba's twin.

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Msg: 163 (view)

LYING ABOUT AGE ON DATING PROFILE! Posted: 5/25/2009 7:42:56 PM
I have run into that too...hey ladies if you run into Barron1776...he is well over the age of 30!!!!!!!

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Msg: 137 (view)

Unattractive people asking for pics Posted: 5/25/2009 7:30:24 PM
I never ask for a pic and I don't post a pic due to security reasons.... I come from a medical, EMS background and looks can be taken in an instant, I want a person of substance who looks at someones heart......you can always buy bigger boobs, plastic surgery, but mental problems and being a mean person can never be fixed. If someone needs a pic to deam if someone is worthy to know.....then they obviously they have some issues and definately wouldn't meet my standards...how would they react if they had a child born with a defect? How would they respond if you were in an accident or burned?

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domestic violence and stalking...when will it end for me? Posted: 3/17/2009 9:51:52 AM
I myself have lived thru domestic violence....but it only happened once and I had him arrested and I certainly did not marry him nor have children with him....most abusers show their true colors before you get to that stage. At this point, you need to keep with video camera and keep all messages left. I would keep a regular camera with you as well....that way when he glares and intimidates (which is against the law by the way), you have physical proof of it. Each time something happens you need to report it to the police. Keep a notebook of dates and times when things happen and violations of the law.....I encourage you to get to know all of the laws where you live...also make sure you have an advanced directive....which you can give a copy to the police, school, EMS, and hosptial where you live. I would go to the court and ask permission to move...and demand that child support be paid that is your children's right....you need to protect yourself and your children you are no good to them dead. You need to be proactive to protect youself....also go to your local Dometic Violence assosication.....my counties have them...they will be a great assest to you.

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Msg: 180 (view)

do any girls actually want nice guys? Posted: 2/23/2009 8:36:18 AM
For me...I have always wanted a nice guy...but they always seem not to be interested or they feel the need to play the field. I wish nice guys would give us nice girls a chance, we would make you the happiest and most satisfied men in the world.

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why do people stay on POF after meeting someone? Posted: 2/22/2009 6:29:48 PM
When you have met someone special and you want to persue a relationship, then you should not be on a SINGLES DATING SITE....that is a deal breaker for me.....if you want me then you want me...and if you are online than you don't simple as that....you are just an insecure player.

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TOO MUCH TOO FAST Posted: 2/20/2009 9:23:43 PM
I do believe in destiny and fate...so it is up too you...but it is refreshing to hear of a man that is willing to focus on one woman and can recoginize a good thing when he sees it....unlike all the players that just stay on the site and play around.

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Msg: 142 (view)

CONDOM? or NO CONDOM? Posted: 2/8/2009 11:56:30 AM
Hey Sunny... If he wants no condom....then tell him fine...when you are his wife, then that will be fine. Statistics show 80% of the sexually active population has HPV...which can cause cancer in both men and women and you don't even need to increase chances of getting a second strand of it.

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Husband of 26 yrs. Left for a girlfriend 15 yrs younger Posted: 2/8/2009 7:38:52 AM
Sorry about you having to deal with that cheater..... First protect your financial assests...get different banking accounts with just your name on it at a different bank. Secondly, got get yourself a hot well endowed 20-something boyfriend to cheer you up !!!

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Are people TRULY this HEARTLESS? Posted: 2/8/2009 7:31:53 AM
I have to say...yes there are truly heartless, immoral, evil people out there that care about nothing but themselves, but don't worry they will get whats coming to them one day. My suggestion to you is to develop a "I rather be alone that deal with BS or Losers" attitude. For example, if a man says he is into me and wants a relationship with me, his actions better prove it, if he is online I cut all contact because obviously he is a liar and not worth my time and attention.

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Msg: 56 (view)

Domestic Abuse, and 2nd Chances Posted: 12/31/2008 3:11:13 PM
As a survivor of domestice violence myself....I say walk away from this boy....he is a cheater and cheaters never change...he could give you a disease....we all want to be loved and have somebody in our life..but it should be a MAN who respects and loves and wants only you...I would rather be alone than deal with less than the best.

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keeping profile while dating Posted: 10/25/2008 12:47:54 PM
For me...if I am dating someone and the profile is still on this site....that means deal is over....no more contact.....I don't have time for games...ACTIONS SPEAK LOUDER THAN WORDS.... ONLY A PLAYER would keep their profile on a dating site....if a person is interested and they RESPECT you then they would take it down....

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Why are most men looking for Friends with Benefits? Posted: 10/25/2008 12:40:37 PM
Acutally I consider any male who wants a "friend with benefits" to be a boy and lacking any substance.... Secondly...that want to "feel" like a nice guy...when the truth of the matter is they are NOT... I too have come across the same problem...males just playing games and not being serious or just wanting sex.....it gets very frustrating!!!! I really want to know where all the real men have gone!!!!

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