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madfunnysinglekinkyfecker

Joined: 2/17/2008

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Have You or would You consider Dating a Crossdresser Posted: 11/19/2009 8:03:52 PM
Its pretty complex. Some Cds just wear undies. Some TVs want to dress every day. Some (Like me dress once in a blue moon. Labelling a CD or TV as a stereotype can be foolish. Yes i dressfully,yes i have gone out dressed up. But, a different TV may have an urge to do it most days. Get to know the person, not the stereotype

madfunnysinglekinkyfecker

Joined: 2/17/2008

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Not such a sweet transvestite! Posted: 11/19/2009 7:52:37 PM
This is nothing to do with them being a TV, but being an unfaithful t*sser! You get stupid people in all walks of life. Cheats,Liars etc. This one just happens to be a TV too. We arent all like that or Bi.

madfunnysinglekinkyfecker

Joined: 2/17/2008

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Weird Celebrity Crushes Posted: 12/30/2008 9:51:18 PM
My first Anne Diamond then Princess Diana Then Allison Fisher snooker player Then Julia FOrdham the singer...

madfunnysinglekinkyfecker

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Does the music buying public think music should music be free ? Posted: 12/30/2008 9:46:34 PM
No it shouldnt be free, but people can get it free and if they can get it free why would they pay when they get screwed in other walks of life by pay cuts, bill increases etc etc. If the world was fair then everyone would play fair. Musicians just unlucky that the internet has provided free access to any music you want.

madfunnysinglekinkyfecker

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Why is it now wrong to be homophobic ? Posted: 12/30/2008 9:39:21 PM
This may freak a few people out but despite being a tv i am homophobic. Most people will assume all or most tvs are gay/bi/freaks lol. But as a straight guy who dresses up you would possibly assume i would be very liberal. but no.. i am a homophobic tranny and in one club with a female ex another tv put their hand on my arm to get their coat which was next to me and my male persona came through and i was seething and wanted to chin them.. lol. Is it wrong to be a homophobe? i dont thinks so.

madfunnysinglekinkyfecker

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Clothes maketh the man/woman............. Posted: 12/30/2008 9:35:56 PM
I have two wardobes..... Yippee

Susie_Tv_Kent

Joined: 2/17/2008

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The power of the rumour mill re baby P Posted: 11/19/2008 12:44:23 PM
i think that text has got everywhere now. for good or for bad.

Susie_Tv_Kent

Joined: 2/17/2008

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jon gaunt gets the sack Posted: 11/19/2008 12:43:32 PM
the thing with people like gaunt is its often not their views its just a performance to gain reaction. i dont know of one shock jock who actually holds the views they express in public in private.

Susie_Tv_Kent

Joined: 2/17/2008

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the heels and the back pain ,, Posted: 11/19/2008 12:42:08 PM
Its usually after youve been wearing heels back to flats?? been there lol backpain is sometimes ade worse by a poor or old mattress

Susie_Tv_Kent

Joined: 2/17/2008

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i caught my ex boyfriend dressed like a woman Posted: 11/18/2008 11:08:57 AM
note to all tvs .. NEVER fall asleep in a bra Its agony in the moning and thats with fake norks lol

Susie_Tv_Kent

Joined: 2/17/2008

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Do you like yourself? Posted: 11/4/2008 9:37:14 AM
i would like this to be a very short 2 letter answer but this is against the forum posting rules so therefore... NO not at the moment.

Susie_Tv_Kent

Joined: 2/17/2008

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Accept what you have, or look for something even better. Posted: 11/4/2008 9:35:18 AM
NEVER accept second best. If it isnt what you want then move on/break it up. Why on earth would you stay in a situation where you arent giving yourself the best chance of happiness?

Susie_Tv_Kent

Joined: 2/17/2008

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SHOULD SMOKERS BE ALOUD TO FOSTER Posted: 11/4/2008 9:33:37 AM
Lets ban Unemployed from fostering as they aint got the money needed Lets ban Muslims as they pray when they might need a nappy changing or feeding Lets ban Drivers from fostering as they might crash Lets ban Asthmatics as they could have a fit when alone with the child. Stupid PC country is doing my effing head in.

Susie_Tv_Kent

Joined: 2/17/2008

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Simply The Best Posted: 10/26/2008 1:38:02 PM
anyone who tells a current partner they are not the "best" in the bedroom must be insane.

Susie_Tv_Kent

Joined: 2/17/2008

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X Factor 2008 Posted: 10/19/2008 2:00:38 AM
cor blimey misses, wassup eh? carnt you 'andle the london thing? Me personally i love regional accents especially on women, black country, geordie irish etc etc. lovely jubbly thats andy arry innit mate.

Susie_Tv_Kent

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spitting during sex Posted: 10/19/2008 1:57:55 AM
surely its the same for either? no need for a but.

Susie_Tv_Kent

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X Factor 2008 Posted: 10/18/2008 2:58:48 PM
I think Diana is a cert to win the bookies have taken lots tonight on here. I hve bet her and also bet alex when it started. I cant see any other winner.

Susie_Tv_Kent

Joined: 2/17/2008

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No win no fee!! Posted: 10/17/2008 2:46:35 PM
First of all Gaz, do you know who did it, any witnesses and have you pressed charges?

Susie_Tv_Kent

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ADHD Posted: 10/17/2008 2:45:35 PM
One of my Exs had a son with ADHD, and i have experienced it to a degree, BUT without causing a war, i agree with message 18 by Gaz that any kid who behaves bad, goes mental over nothing and is unruly gets labled with a disorder. I am sure there are plenty of those that are just nasty little sods who grow up into bigger nasty sods. Of course there will be some with genuine disorders but i do feel that all are just labled as having ADHD as its easier than saying problem child, no manners, no respect and they dont care.

Susie_Tv_Kent

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Mobiles... Posted: 10/17/2008 2:40:11 PM
Nokia n95 8gb here, fantastic phone ,a laptop in a small phone and can do so much, has great camera and video camera, full internet browsing, msn etc etc loads more... oh and you can telephone people on it.

Susie_Tv_Kent

Joined: 2/17/2008

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moble phone help Posted: 10/17/2008 2:59:13 AM
Get a phone that suits your needs. If you want one to surf the net use msn, take videos, photos etc etc get a Nokia N96 or N95. But if you want one for texting and calling and a feminine fone get a dinky little clamshell or slider. What i would suggest is go into a shop and have a look at the dummies and read about them and talk with one of the sales assistants. The Nokia N95 and N96 are great phones though and if you havd a laptop you can simply connect it to the laptop and use as a modem if your home internet goes down or you are on a train or hotel or friends. It all depends on what you want from your phone.

Susie_Tv_Kent

Joined: 2/17/2008

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Banner ads.. Orange... Posted: 10/17/2008 2:50:31 AM
If its just an embedded Ad or banner theres no problem at all, dont focus on it and ignore it. If it were a pop up or pop under that is a biatch to close then thats where things get annoying. The ads on this site, i find are easy to ignore. I am a member on a paid site which has far less features and people than here and if we have to have a few ads on here then so be it, its not a problem to me.

Susie_Tv_Kent

Joined: 2/17/2008

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Question i need answering Posted: 10/17/2008 2:47:19 AM
PMSL it was the first time for ages when i took that pic, concentrate on the legs lol. :( had a few messages off these posts so i will take the rough with the smooth. There are some kinky women about. Back to the point.. So by being open about it, it is for the best? And i am not being blinkered as the dating profile is basically saying this is me sometimes like it or lump it? The other way is normal profile with a bit about what i like doing and one pic dressed.? I just felt it would be less of a shock to some women if it was in the open rather than on the eve of the meet saying ive just bought a new dress and undies espeially for tomorrow lol.

Susie_Tv_Kent

Joined: 2/17/2008

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CROSSDRESSING Posted: 10/16/2008 3:16:07 AM
Some good posts on here. Where people say yes or no but do it with respect. Of course there are a few insecure people who want to labelt TVs as gay, nasty, perverts etc. As is the case with many, i am straight, a manly man, happy as a man but get a kick from dressing. I think at least if the TV or CD is open and honest people can see that and then make a decision. As for the Biggots, you are welcome to say its not for you but labelling people as gay for what they wear sometimes is a bit silly after all what if people thought because you have a moustache, a weird haircut or a bumbag you were a bit gay? Dont be so closed and narrowminded and defensive of your own sexuality by abusing others and trying to buttonhole them as something they probably are not. Or is it that you fancy TVs but have to pretend to be macho and even the TVs would reject you as they are NOT gay or bi

Susie_Tv_Kent

Joined: 2/17/2008

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Is the fairytale impossible after 30? Posted: 10/15/2008 4:39:24 PM
Never EVER lose faith. Live the dream. Its all a lot of people have. There is someone for everyone and if not for ever then for a while. Enjoy it when it comes.

Susie_Tv_Kent

Joined: 2/17/2008

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What are your views on crossdressing Posted: 10/15/2008 4:21:32 PM
PMSL Heres the truth... I got a decent camera and hadnt dressed up for AGES.. so went looking for my stuff... Anyway found the fake whoppers in the cupboard... got dressed up... NO BRA!! FFS! and as single no bras anywhere! OMG I lost my bras! Anyway cant have flat chested trannys, oh no! So in they went swinging free , no adhesive .. balance tits click timer hope for best! LOL!!! They arent normally that low trust me! Just had the urge to get dressed up for first time in months and test the camera LOL

Susie_Tv_Kent

Joined: 2/17/2008

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Question i need answering Posted: 10/15/2008 4:15:08 PM
Preta I can see what you are saying RE the toilets. I have to say that ive very rarely if ever used a toilet in public dressed but when i have been out dressed up of a night with friends/ex gf etc in clubs i have used the ladies. Wouldnt fancy being headbutted in the gents lol. But i can see exactly what youre saying. I would try not to go to be hones and wait till got home.

Susie_Tv_Kent

Joined: 2/17/2008

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Question i need answering Posted: 10/15/2008 4:12:51 PM
You wouldnt know who i was Sparkli but others would ive sent normal pics to people on here just prefer to post the dressed up ones. I think since i started this thread ive dressed up 3 times max. So people may feel as its all dressed up pics thats me all the time. Its not its just showing this is part of me, if you get to know me and things happen (POF Members not you lol) then dont sling it in my face years down the line. Some good posts on this thread thanks.

Susie_Tv_Kent

Joined: 2/17/2008

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stockings Posted: 10/15/2008 4:08:55 PM
Stockings mmmmmmmmmm On both partners obviously :)

Susie_Tv_Kent

Joined: 2/17/2008

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spitting during sex Posted: 10/15/2008 4:05:35 PM
WOW!! I had an Ex GF that begged me to spit on her back while having a bit.... didnt do anything for me and cant see what it did for her. But then she had to cope with me dressing up and seemed to like it. She bought enough stuff for me :)

Susie_Tv_Kent

Joined: 2/17/2008

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What are young men after when they date older women? Posted: 10/15/2008 12:21:58 PM
probably fed up with people there own age or younger being selfish and immature.

Susie_Tv_Kent

Joined: 2/17/2008

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What are your views on crossdressing Posted: 10/15/2008 12:20:45 PM
lol boogie away lol

Susie_Tv_Kent

Joined: 2/17/2008

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What are your views on crossdressing Posted: 10/14/2008 4:24:10 PM
Hmmm Interesting thread. A few points from me as a straight TV 1) i would always tell a possible partner way early in communication that i was a TV and try to tell them you are straight etc but its something you like. 2) If they dont like it then thats fine and you save any issues later. I couldnt be bothered wasting time on people that are not open or intelligent enough to listen and realise that a straight guy can be a crossdresser. Theres no way a full time TV should expect a partner to accept that but a lot of tv are a couple of times a month dressed up and thats it. 3) Being a TV is part of you, if someone tried to take that away that would be selfish of them. I couldnt just get woth a women who tolerated me dressing, if she couldnt enjoy it and have a laugh then it wouldnt be fun for me. 4) People may think wow what a selfish * * * * * * * or should that be biatch But i have been on the end of people being selfish for whatever reason, tried to push the dressing to one side for them and what for? Oh as for male pics, women ask me why no male pics and for the same reason, as guy 99% of the time with losts of friends who have no idea i wouldnt want male and female pics connected. Good Luck , have fun and there will be some woman out there for you.

Susie_Tv_Kent

Joined: 2/17/2008

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Question i need answering Posted: 5/27/2008 9:34:57 AM
^ Way over my head Penny (Ramblings, True Self, Doctor etc etc i dont need a BS detector as i spotted that instantly), i guess the persians some people are on are seriously good. There should really be a warning on my profile and others "This profile contains humour , pseudos and psychiatrists shouldnt try to analyse the humour and try to read into stuff... What did the apple say to the donkey??..... crystalised almonds and yellow telephone box of course.

Susie_Tv_Kent

Joined: 2/17/2008

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Question i need answering Posted: 5/27/2008 7:34:07 AM
Ok looks like i will upload a normal pic, the only reason i didnt is because some people will know me normally and if they see the dresed up pics then that will be a bit of an issue lol. I get a few nice messages on here through my profile. I just wanted to be upfront honest and see what happens. Thanks for the feedback people, some excellent points made.

Susie_Tv_Kent

Joined: 2/17/2008

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Question i need answering Posted: 3/5/2008 10:10:26 AM
Ok, as you can see i have a "hobby" . Do i do as i do and show it in the open or do i have a normal profile and then tell people. I have to say in person it always gets mentioned early. The hobby if you are scartching you head is dressing up. PS save the "sicko" and "weird" comments , i am looking for direct opinions and answers. IE if you were a woman would you rather you knew the guy you were seeing was a dresser early so you could dump them or if you chose not to dump them then they werent keeping secrets? Thanks :)

Susie_Tv_Kent

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interesting sales tactics? Posted: 3/5/2008 10:06:23 AM
Not all sales people work on commission. A lot of untrained sales staff do. If you get results you can demand a top standard wage with bonuses.

Susie_Tv_Kent

Joined: 2/17/2008

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Huh, Say What?! LOL Posted: 3/5/2008 10:01:06 AM
Use the tradesmans entrance.

Susie_Tv_Kent

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Irish Limericks, Jokes, Toasts, and Stories Posted: 3/1/2008 6:59:16 AM
You know if youve had a good date At the end you get past her front gate If youre left on the road Back, to your abode Theres plenty of fish on the plate

Susie_Tv_Kent

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Is the age gap too big? Can it work? Posted: 3/1/2008 6:52:37 AM
Age is nothing, its circumstances and personalities that make or break relationships. Ok SOMETIMES immaturity could spoil things but on the hole the age wouldnt be the main issue imo.

Susie_Tv_Kent

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Should I just wait to date for a couple more years??? Posted: 3/1/2008 6:50:35 AM
LP ^ Kids come first for the parent sure but if she going to date someone they need some time too, and not to feel they fit in with everyone else. Otherwise it can feel like being a hired help!! Only look for a relationship if you are a SP, IF you can give as much as you can receive including time to any new date.

Susie_Tv_Kent

Joined: 2/17/2008

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cheated on...second chance's? Posted: 3/1/2008 6:48:25 AM
No second chances EVER , they chose what to do. Cheats will do it again and again and again. they are selfish, scum and the lowest of the low. Move on and go have fun. They dont deserve any thought. YOU are better off without them 100% , think of yourself as being VERY LUCKY that you found out they were such a vile human being.

Susie_Tv_Kent

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threesome etiquette Posted: 3/1/2008 6:45:42 AM
Dont do it simple. It may seem a good idea but it only needs one of you not to enjoy it as much as the other and game over. If your partner means less than nothing to you, then go for it. If you would be upset if you and your partner split then do not do it. These kind of things eat away at you and ruin you. Been there done it, was o while it was going to a degree its after its happened the games begin. Stick to movies and games between the two of you to spice things up. If you involve another person then be prepared for things to go tits up.

Susie_Tv_Kent

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Internet dating does Not work Posted: 2/26/2008 11:39:56 AM
Hmmm I think its harder to "suss" out (no pun intended) people during internet dating relationships, You dont meet as often as a "normal" relationship and at least for the first part its mainly an internet relationship. I personally feel if you meet someone online and both feel that it has a chance then the "internet" has to be quickly binned. The main communication should be face to face, some people just want someone to talk to and play games and string it out. And weak or lonely people will accept this sometimes. If its an internet dating relationship, then lose the internet part of it quickly or it wont last as bickering and rows and jealousy will appear. Its fine to meet someone online but if thats the main communication and time together it will not last and its not a true relationship imo.

Susie_Tv_Kent

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Why do people cheat on their partners? Posted: 2/21/2008 4:22:12 PM
Quite simply because they are selfish and scum.

Susie_Tv_Kent

Joined: 2/17/2008

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Take the hint, I dont want to know. Posted: 2/21/2008 4:11:49 PM
Agree with the last comment, if you ignore the texts and the emails they give up.

Susie_Tv_Kent

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The Justice System Posted: 2/20/2008 9:19:20 AM
The justice system is a farce where the best legal team will win irrespective of the merits of the cases. Loop holes will be exploited if you are the plaintiff and if you are the defendant then they will wipe the floor with you as they will more often than not have a better legal team.

Susie_Tv_Kent

Joined: 2/17/2008

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worst places to be stuck Posted: 2/20/2008 9:17:24 AM
On a bus in traffic, brain numbingly depressing and normally the stench of BO wafting and no windows open!

Susie_Tv_Kent

Joined: 2/17/2008

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A home is not complete without .......??? Posted: 2/20/2008 9:14:59 AM
A home is not complete..... without a TV

Susie_Tv_Kent

Joined: 2/17/2008

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Good grief ! my date turned out to be a tranny ! Posted: 2/20/2008 6:34:11 AM
Awwwwwwww, so many people think tranny=weird. not all tvs are the same, some gay, some bi some straight. seems a little uneducated to ridicule and judge. good for me plenty of females dig straight tvs in the uk.

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