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docmegaman

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Oral technique....Is it hot in here????? Posted: 7/27/2008 8:31:45 PM
Hello Skeptikul... Probably is hot in here...thats the problem...getting it hot live and in person of course is better... Oh well...fun is fun....

docmegaman

Joined: 2/19/2008

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Oral technique.... Posted: 7/26/2008 4:56:43 PM
I learned a long time ago from my friend's mom and it has held true for many moons...get in touch with your partner...watch and feel and listen to everything that is happening and vary what you do...the sides the top the bottom...light and then some pressure and experiment to find the trigger for the orgasm...it can be as simple as sucking on it gently or use of your hands in other places or inserting your tongue. Every person is different...even those that say they can't get off orally can if you take the time to touch and talk and kiss and feel what is happening. Don't watch porn...their technique is purely for the camera...even Ron Jeremy the "hedgehog" was more show on film than in real life...I know because we had a mutual friend who kissed and told. If all else fails, have your partner tell you what she likes and listen to her.....

docmegaman

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Does sex get better after you hit 40? Posted: 7/26/2008 4:48:19 PM
Hello Mr. Internet You have me laughing my ass off. Sex is more enjoyable now even if it is not as easy as it once was. There is no more BS to worry about. You can take your time and enjoy foreplay and both men and women have learned how to enjoy their bodies. I am sorry you are carrying around an unused garden hose now. Think about it...really no pregnancy problems to worry about and hopefully you have learned to communicate what is good and not instead of guessing. And it gets better at 50 as long as you don't try to act like you are 20....

docmegaman

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simple question Posted: 6/1/2008 11:00:39 AM
Hello Carrie... I agree with you...although most people can be on their best behavior for as long as 2 years before they show the reality. If you can make it through the adjustment period after the "best behavior" period, you should have things pretty well sorted and be really ready for a solid relationship. Those that are "heart broken after 2 months" I understand....this is the most emotional time in a relationship where sense does not really come into play. It is also the time when many people will "trade up" and break-ups are common. Think about it... after 2-4 months, how many deposits have people made into each other's emotional bank account??? Those relationships that go years without a real commitment being made are also suspect to me...I ask myself...why hasn't the commitment been made? It usually tells me something is wrong from at least one side and maybe comfort has set in and passion has slid away. How many people settle for comfort because change is difficult? Unfortunately, the question is not "simple".

docmegaman

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Taste of something different Posted: 6/1/2008 10:47:45 AM
Hello Kneehigh66 I can understand where you are coming from. I travel all over the world in my business and while I have found people all over the world to be the same when it comes to what is important to them (family and friends) the cultural expectations are totally different. I don't even think it has to do with different looks/appearances so much as experiencing cultural mores that are different from the everyday "same ole thing". To those european and asian women that "like North American men" thank you, but I can assure you that you will run into as many neandrathrals in the US as other places. There are good and bad everywhere. It seems like the grass is always greener in someone else's yard. It really isn't greener...it is just a different type of grass.

docmegaman

Joined: 2/19/2008

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would you help a girl in distress from another guy? Posted: 5/31/2008 7:28:48 AM
Of course you help...if only to stop and ask if everything is OK. It is usually pretty easy to tell if things are out of whack. I read a couple of the responses you received and it was mentioned about people being shot, hurt or killed by being a good samaritan, but the way I look at it, it could be my daughter or sister or wife and I would want someone to stop so I must stop as well.

docmegaman

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Which state/country has the best looking men/women? Posted: 3/17/2008 8:11:18 AM
Thanks Cobalt!

docmegaman

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Which state/country has the best looking men/women? Posted: 3/14/2008 10:30:43 AM
Hello Ngat73 Interesting perspective.... I was born in Chicago, live in Atlanta, and have my offices in Ft. Lauderdale... Hahahahahaha In my travels, I have seen a lot of countries and people. The Philippines has a lot od beautiful women and the people are the friendliest I have met. There are a lot of pretty people in Florida but not as friendly and the west coast has a lot of good looking people but most seem really out there. Midwesterners are very grounded and pretty friendly in general... Wish you the best luck finding the person of your dreams!

docmegaman

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Do men enjoy foreplay or do they really just want to go to home plate? Posted: 3/13/2008 5:44:11 PM
Hello Lively....Are you serious or kidding? There are a lot of moronic men in this world who just want to get off and that is life... Then there are a lot of men who actually enjoy pleasing the partner they are with nad love to cuddle...kiss..lick, touch, and explore, and not roll over after all is done and want to do some more. If your men friends have told you this...do yourself a favor and never date them. I am not saying an afternoon quickie can not be hot and fun.... but a life time of them would be hell.. Don't you think so?

docmegaman

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On swallowing Posted: 3/13/2008 5:33:16 PM
Daydreamer... I have found some women do and some don't and not too many that think about it as a choice..... Anyone else think the same?

docmegaman

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Which state/country has the best looking men/women? Posted: 3/13/2008 5:30:09 PM
Which leads to which states/countries have people with the most free sexual attitudes? There seem to be so many people on this site looking for someone for whatever reason. Mississippi has had the most Miss Americas.....Nevada the most relaxed laws on legalized prostitution and more songs have been written about good looking women and men living in California. I have heard these arguments frequently and have my own ideas as I have travelled all but 7 states in the US and now travel internationally. I want to know what you think...

docmegaman

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What if Prostitution was Legal? Posted: 3/13/2008 5:14:00 PM
Hello Packagedealx3 great take on the the post....prostitution is legal in several states and countries although I am not sure if legalization has increased the fees...as demand determines the fees for almost everything. Sex without attachment is really sad although I see many men looking for just that and looking for prostitutes. I travel around the world for business and a lot of the guys I see in the hotels are always asking around for where to buy sex and bring prostitutes into the hotels... it seems a shame that they are only experiencing the pleasure of taking and not enjoying the pleasure of giving pleasure...as I think sex is a 2 way street. I hope legalization slows the passing of STDs as the world is experiencing an epidemic in this regard. Great info and views!

docmegaman

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orgasms or intercourse? Which is more important? Posted: 3/13/2008 5:02:38 PM
Hello Jaelle1 I found your post very interesting and had to look at your profile to see where you were from. I hope all the men in your area aren't like you described. All men do not want a woman on top...in fact I will do it that way if asked, but prefer other ways where I am more active as well, like doggie style. As far as one O and then a BJ....are the men in your area lazy or just selfish??? Multiple Os are so fun to give your partner and the BJ is OK to prep you but 3 seconds of intercourse???????? If this is what you are getting....MOVE: I wish you better luck in lovers. Hopefully you will find someone that will give you the multiple Os...not give you cramps wanting a 40 min. BJ, and will use some method of staying erect for 15-20 minutes and then will cuddle and talk and begin the process all over again! Doc

docmegaman

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orgasms or intercourse? Which is more important? Posted: 3/12/2008 9:09:49 PM
Hello Kaylie I wish you the best of both..... whenever you want . Doc

docmegaman

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What if Prostitution was Legal? Posted: 3/12/2008 5:34:32 PM
Sigi... I agree with your points...just look at the former governor of New York here in the USA...

docmegaman

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orgasms or intercourse? Which is more important? Posted: 3/12/2008 5:32:09 PM
Hello Cowboy, Interesting take on it. I do find I can hear the little squeals, the giggles and sighs.. get a slightly salty taste somehwere else, feel her writhing warm body and feel her pulse quicken...and not by intercourse.... I do understand where you are coming from as a guy....

docmegaman

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orgasms or intercourse? Which is more important? Posted: 3/12/2008 5:06:55 PM
Laughinglibra...You are a hoot!

docmegaman

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What if Prostitution was Legal? Posted: 3/12/2008 5:05:44 PM
MrBigg.... Prostitution is legal in many countries and in some states in the USA. I do not think the male/female dynamic would change. Prostitution is everywhere on this earth and in every major city in the US (whether legal or not) and it hasn't changed whether women have sex or hold out. Finding someone to have sex is the easy part for anyone,and most any male as well. Finding someone for a wonderful relationship is difficult and always has and always will be, because personalities and those dynamics are at play. What does everybody else think?

docmegaman

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orgasms or intercourse? Which is more important? Posted: 3/12/2008 4:59:38 PM
I have actually heard that for some, intercourse is more important than just having orgasms and for others, they don't really care if they have intercourse as long as they have orgasms. What do you think?

docmegaman

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Playing with her while she sleeps Posted: 3/12/2008 4:48:21 PM
Hey fixitfred.... I guess I don't understand whyether you are bashing kellec or asking for a date....... Her comment is real and why not? I would love that alarm clock as well and would love to be the alarm clock too.

docmegaman

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The Pill and lowered sex drive Posted: 3/12/2008 4:41:22 PM
Hello Cosmic... I do not know how the medical system is in Ireland. In the USA there are really 2 types of general practicioners...MDs and DOs. The MDs love to prescribe meds and the DO's usually want you to do preventative things to prevent illness and will prescribe but are usually more into natural health. If you have DOs in Ireland and haven't seen one, try to see for yourself. Lowered libido really sucks. I can tell you from dealing with it with my wife going through menopause...she didn't like it either and it took a lot of searching for the right doctor and it took a lot of patience from both of us just understanding that this is a chemical issue in the body, not some psychological desire issue. Don't ever give up...just explore some natural remedies and when you do have a BF, try some therapy on increasing sexual awareness. The mind is the body's largest sex organ and everything starts there..... Good luck

docmegaman

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Is something wrong with me or is this a common problem? Posted: 3/12/2008 4:24:40 PM
Hi Steve169X1 Stimulate your "bits" first?????? You mean her clitoris? This will help her get lubricated and so will any of a hundred personal lubricants.... and pelvic exerciser is not the issue. This will help her get tighter...not ease up and unless her hymen is made of cowhide, it has probably already been broken...it is just a thin layer of skin. I know you are trying to help her...just wanted to clarify things.

docmegaman

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Is something wrong with me or is this a common problem? Posted: 3/12/2008 4:18:10 PM
Diceman68... What the hell kind of a comment was that? This woman has not negated the pain and agony of someone going through cervical cancer. This is not some contest on "who has more pain". She has a medical condition that is not rare and in fact it is fairly common. What it sounded like you were saying is "don't complain...there is worse pain". I think this is one of the most insensitive comments I have read in the forums and there are a lot of miscreants making dumb comments. You owe her an apology...

docmegaman

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Why is it when women are on top, it seems like men come almost immediately? Posted: 3/11/2008 9:35:17 PM
Hello Val, I have never noticed that. Are you facing your lover or facing away? Also, the angle of your vagina might be such that it is rubbing your man a certain way which is more stimulating.

docmegaman

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Is the way to a man's G spot really through his ass? Posted: 3/11/2008 9:31:53 PM
the prostate is the man's G spot and while it can be stimulated anally, it can also be stimulated underneath the scrotum.

docmegaman

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The Pill and lowered sex drive Posted: 3/11/2008 9:29:11 PM
Hello Cosmic angel... You might think it is strange to hear from a guy, but in my business, I am approached by women a lot about lowered libido for many reasons. The birth control pill basically upsets your hormone balance...so does anything which releases progesterone or estrogen. Your body also produces DHEA and testosterone so you may be experiencing an upset in the balance of these as estrogen is so very vital and powerful in a woman's body. If you are experiencing a regular period, you might want to look at a different form of contraception. If you do not experience a normal period, DHEA is available at your local GNC or supplement store. It is usually not recommended for women unless they are pre-meonpausal or in some phase of menopause because it can make your bleed harder in your period or feel harder cramps. It does however work wonders for many women who have a lowered libido. It would be best to ask your GYN about it's use in your case.

docmegaman

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How Do you explain to a woman that you've never had sexy by age 36? Posted: 3/11/2008 9:16:40 PM
Hello Rickdrums36 don't tell her until after you have had sex...in that way you will not be a virgin any more. Do yourself a favor as well...do not watch porn to learn sex....porn actors and actresses are "taught" certain techniques just for the filming and effect. Get a good sex education DVD and learn foreplay...and then when you do find someone, ask her what she likes to feel and do what she says. It is great that someone is a virgin at 36...

docmegaman

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Is something wrong with me or is this a common problem? Posted: 3/11/2008 9:10:46 PM
Hello Eclipsa, You have a medical condition that is not real uncommon and one where your muscles tighten by reflex. Sometimes it is psychological as well. When it comes to some things, and sex is one of those things, your mind sometimes can not control what it thinks and does to your body. You can use progesterone cream or try a different position...on your back with both legs up on your partner's shoulders so he can control the depth and activity level. What has your Gynecologist said? Have you discussed it with him/her? There are ways to stretch yourself but they can be dangerous if not done properly.

docmegaman

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How long do most guys last? Posted: 3/11/2008 9:00:37 PM
Hello N8420 I know you want the ladies to answer but it really depends on the guy, his age, his health...etc and whether he uses a numbing cream or a c**k ring (and for those who do...don't leave it on for more than 30 minutes or you can do damage.

docmegaman

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Sex without developing feelings..... Posted: 3/11/2008 8:45:43 PM
Thank you Passion 4 Road Star... I am a novice at this. Doc

docmegaman

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Sex without developing feelings..... Posted: 3/10/2008 6:52:45 PM
Hello St Charles Mona Lisa.... Did you read my entire post? I am not making her to be the victim...in fact I told her what she is feeling from a chemical standpoint in her body and told her to talk things out with her BF to see if things can be fixed...on both ends and then to do the right thing if it can't. I am not saying her BF is not giving her the emotional things she needs....I am saying she isn't feeling something from him so she is seeking it somewhere else...otherwise why is she looking. The truth is not the issue...what is perceived is the truth unfortunately in this world and she is perceiving something. I don't think I have a different definition of love than you do....but many things can be explained chemically in the body... also...why do you refer to me as OP? One more thing.... someday you will be fortunate enough to be in a relationship and I do hope that you both work on keeping it fresh and alive so that neither of you gets feeling like there is something lacking. I don't condone cheating, lying and being deceitful...I also don't condone being inattentive and unaffectionate....being tired is not an excuse.....

docmegaman

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When do you ask him to delet his profile? Posted: 3/10/2008 6:23:58 PM
Breath of fresh air... You have one wierd definition of rape...to keep going with him and then find him cheating and THEN file rape charges........ If he raped you why didn't you press charges immediately?????? Do you know what RAPE is? Sex without consent and either forced upon you or done while you were in a state of mental awareness where you did not have the capacity to say yes or no...or if he drugged you in some way to put you in a state where you did not have your full mental capacity. To say you went out with him for the next 3 months without charging him with rape would imply that he did not rape you and you wanted his company. In either case, this smells of a revenge law suit. If it is revenge...I hope every decent guy on POF reads this so they do not make the same mistake in going out with you. I am not saying the guy you talk about is decent....he is obviously a dog for n ot ending it with you prior to finding someone else... but that doesn't make him a rapist.

docmegaman

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Has anyone experienced wierd things taking Ambien? Posted: 3/10/2008 6:08:16 PM
Thanks London Lass... I am travelling the carribean and central america now and don't need a sleep aid going here...no jet lag and quick flights.... I will check on Rozerem. Aren't these all hypnotics? I am just wondering what I said to all of the people near me on the plane...I was too embarrassed to ask..LOL I hope I entertained them. Have a great evening

docmegaman

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Have you ever faked being drunk to get sex? Posted: 3/10/2008 6:00:05 PM
Hello Nordic She didn't get drunk...that is the point. She always pretended to be, but when I called her on not being drunk, she would just get very quiet and leave...it was very strange.

docmegaman

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Has anyone experienced wierd things taking Ambien? Posted: 3/9/2008 5:47:12 PM
Thank you London Lass and I Like Cats for your feedback. My flights to asia are usually 14 hours long so there is plenty of time to sleep, but I found it odd to talk to people and not remember. I'll check with my doc and see what else is available and only use ambien cr while at home

docmegaman

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Ever been dramatically changed in a relationship? Posted: 3/8/2008 7:29:41 PM
Hello Talk2me2day I don't think a relationship can change you....but you can change yourself if you have a reason to and sometimes you meet a person that will not accept your issues, but you fall head over heels in love and do change. The best thing that can happen is that both people in a relationship help support each others growth as individuals. This can change you in radical ways, but make you a much better rounded person and the relationship prospers.... You need to decide which it is...

docmegaman

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should I take him back? Posted: 3/8/2008 7:12:13 PM
Hello Kat 27 just be honest....the way he treated you was horrible and you need to "just say no" to jerks. Tell him you do not like the way he treated you and you will not allow yourself to be treated like that again. Tell him he still owes you money and you expect it to be paid back in full. He will bolt!!!!!!! and you will be better off.

docmegaman

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Expain the phrase My children are my top priority? Posted: 3/8/2008 6:46:06 PM
Hello Princess too.... I don't think I have ever used that phrase although my kids are important to me. My first wife used to say that to me...and then add..you just have to accept that. I did for 8 years until a life changing experience and then told myself that I should have equal priority with my children...after all, before we had children we had each other. One night I had that said to me again and I finally replied that we were living in a relationship where we were coexisting but not in love any longer. At this point, my wife broke into tears and and I told her I needed more in my life. I loved my kids but wanted a wife that could understand that our relationship had to have equal importance and that our relationship had slipped away and we had fogotten ourselves and gone our own direction. I eventually moved out of the house and was the one who explained to our kids the reason why. She filed for divorce and we ended it. My eldest son understood, my other son did not and hated me for a couple of years until he finally realized that he still had 2 parents that loved him...they just lived in separate houses, and my young daughter was upset that we were not still together in the same house but knew that both of her parents still loved her...just not each other. My advice to you is this.... demand to the men you date that you must have equal priority with his kids...and if this doesn't happen... find someone else. You deserve equal priority or your relationship will not work.

docmegaman

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Have you ever faked being drunk to get sex? Posted: 3/8/2008 5:37:28 PM
Hello Sashieq... Interesting take on the subject. When we did finally have sex after she stopped the games...she was OK...not very creative but a good effort. I do not think she was very experienced, but everyone starts somewhere.

docmegaman

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Have you ever faked being drunk to get sex? Posted: 3/8/2008 5:34:13 PM
Thank you Cobaltgreen for offering some explanation. I thought it was wrong on a lot of levels as well and would not do anything with her until she stopped the nonsense and just asked me. I can understand why someone would want to avoid looking like a skank the next day, but wanting to have sex doesn't make someone a skank...it makes them all too human. Going through this whole process makes them look crazy or very mixed up at the least. I do appreciate your post as several I have read do not seem to think that this can happen.

docmegaman

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Have you ever faked being drunk to get sex? Posted: 3/8/2008 5:27:39 PM
Hello Mafiachixrule, The woman pretended to be drunk and when I called her on it she would become all tense and leave and she tried this several times. And i can assure you I have lost nothing in the cranium...I am fully aware that if a woman wants sex, all she really has to do is say so and there would be many takers... and that is what made the situation so strange. It was not a role playing thing either. She eventually stopped the game and just said, will you go to bed with me and we did....but she never would explain why she acted like she did...and still wouldn't 29 years later when we met by chance again at a college function. That is why the question resurfaced with me. Is seeking understanding a sign of stupidity or wisdom?

docmegaman

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Have you ever faked being drunk to get sex? Posted: 3/8/2008 5:17:26 PM
Hello StrawbsO8 It is not so much a worry as it is trying to get an understanding about why? I recently ran into her again at a college function for alumni...and found out she was a Psychologist and a well known one to boot. She said hello and we chatted for a while and asked me if I remembered the fun we had. I said yes and asked her why she pretended to be drunk and she avoided answering...so that was why it resurfaced after so many years.... I guess she could have been embarrassed at doing that and didn't want to answer, but was not embarrassed at all bringing up our sexual experience together....

docmegaman

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Have you ever faked being drunk to get sex? Posted: 3/8/2008 5:10:39 PM
Hello Jersey... That is strange. I guess I am a person that does what I want to do drunk or not and I certainly do not want to be drunk and have sex for the obvious reasons.... She and I did have sex but only after she stopped playing this game and was just uffront about it.

docmegaman

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Have you ever faked being drunk to get sex? Posted: 3/8/2008 6:19:27 AM
Hello Jersey girl,... I was very young when it happened, by comparison to my age now....and the question may not be that stupid because I was wondering myself who would do such a thing and that is why I asked the question..... and why do you think she might have wanted me to be drunk? Is it a self esteem issue she has?

docmegaman

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Have you ever faked being drunk to get sex? Posted: 3/8/2008 6:15:55 AM
Herding Cats.... Its not whining...it is wondering why someone who finds the question stupid would post on the forum so many times..... and I obviously do not think the question is stupid....I did find the experience...someone acting like that to be stupid and bothersome.... Why pretend to be drunk for sex when all you have to do is ask or act on it? Sympathy is not something I am seeking...some logic or emotional understanding is all.

docmegaman

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Have you ever faked being drunk to get sex? Posted: 3/8/2008 5:44:31 AM
Hello Herding Cats... I read your post and don't think asking people if they had experienced something or done something points to a fetish unless the person's intention was to get off on the answers. This incident has bugged me since it happened and I guess my curiousity needs to be put to rest on this issue. It was strange to me that this woman would feel the need to act drunk. As far as your question about having a fetish...I don't think I do, but I guess it depends on yourdefinition of a fetish. I feel a driving need to be connected in every way with my lover...so if that is a fetish...you decide. As far as God having a delete button, you read the forum...you posted...answered the question personally, but never gave an opinion on the issue as to why someone would do this, and now you want to delete the forum???? That I don't understand. If the subject is one you find inane...find one you don't and move on. It is great to see you have strong opinions and equally disturbing that you are so judgemental...it is really a contrast.

docmegaman

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Has anyone experienced wierd things taking Ambien? Posted: 3/7/2008 10:33:50 PM
As I travel many different time zones, my doctor prescribed Ambien CR to help me adjust to the new time zone easire. I took it while on a 14 hour flight and had the flight attendant tell me I started talking to the people around me and I do not remember doing it. She told me that some people do wierd things on Ambien like eating or cooking or sexual things as well. I'd like to know what you have experienced negatively on this sleep medication.

docmegaman

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Have you ever faked being drunk to get sex? [Closed Thread] Posted: 3/7/2008 10:13:45 PM
I had a female friend a long time ago who would pretend to be drunk to try to get me to have sex with her. I finally told her that I prefered my lovers to be in their right minds and that if she wanted to have sex with me to just say so? She eventually did stop this game and just asked me and it was fun for both of us and she would never tell me why she pretended to be drunk...Has anyone else ever done this? Please tell me why? and has any other person had this happen to them? Did it bother you ? and what happened?

docmegaman

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Playing with her while she sleeps Posted: 3/7/2008 8:42:33 PM
Hello Arugula.... Great lettuce actually.... I am writing to you here because I read your profile and you wouldn't get my email... I enjoyed your candor by the way . I just wanted to tell you I like your take on this forum. You are so correct...in a loving relationship where the partners are truly equals and touching is welcomed at any time...what can be better? Being awakened eventually from sleep by your partner touching you, sexually or not, can only be a compliment and a turn-on at the same time. It doesn't matter if your partner is just horny...the fact is, your partner is horny and is thinking about you and wanting you...and yes, what a wonderful way to begin sex when you are relaxed and not stressed out from a day of real life. And it should go both ways. I wish you the best in finding it again.

docmegaman

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How many drinks is too many? Posted: 3/7/2008 6:02:17 PM
Hello Kiwijewl, You seem attracted to drinkers...LOL Sorry about that, but why does someone feel the need to get drunk on a date? Don't go to a bar for a date.... find a guy who wants to go to a quiet cafe or restaurant...someplace where you can talk and get to know each other. I am surprised you went out on the 5th date with this guy. Warning...Warning...Warning.... it is not going to get any better... If you do not drink...that is great. I usually only have one when I am out in a social situation and sometimes only have an orange juice because I really do not like to drink...but I think you might want to look for someone who is more like you in the drinking department.

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