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Neitzschean

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Should I dump her? Can I change her outlook? Posted: 8/16/2009 1:40:26 PM
There is nothing a woman finds so offensive as even the most mild effort at changing her opinion or behaviour. Women believe they are perfect in every way, any problem that results of their outlook is the fault of reality not her.

Neitzschean

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Beauty In The Eyes of The Beholder Posted: 8/16/2009 1:38:28 PM
Well since I live in one of the worst states for women's obesity, the first thoughts that go through my mind are: "How many guys has she smothered by rolling over?" "Does she count as 2 or more people in the elevator?" "Does she exceed the tonnage capacity for this road?" Of course the funniest part is all these girls who scream and rail about their own looks feel absolutely no hypocrisy about ditching any guy for his own failure to look like her favorite actor.

Neitzschean

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Where is a good place to meet singles.. Posted: 8/13/2009 10:45:17 PM
Bars are the pretty much the only place for meeting girls. Almost any place is good for meeting guys.

Neitzschean

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If He haven't asked you to arry him Posted: 8/13/2009 10:43:37 PM
If he doesn't marry her, she can't divorce him. If she can't divorce him, she can't make him her financial slave.

Neitzschean

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Why are guys so possesive?? Posted: 8/13/2009 10:42:08 PM
Probably for the same reason why women are.

Neitzschean

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How do you NOT get cynical? Posted: 8/5/2009 11:13:48 AM
I suggest a lobotomy. Cynicism is a perfectly rational response to being around people who are on good days self absorbed and dysfunctional and on bad days really should be behind bars and heavily medicated. To not be cynical is a strong sign that you should be seeking professional therapy.

Neitzschean

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How do you tell if a girl is interested? Posted: 8/5/2009 11:11:02 AM
How to know if a girl is interested in you: -she asks how much you earn -she asks if you'd ever thought about having kids -she asks to meet your parents Seriously this is a stupid question, for all their claims women have all the tact of a landmine so if you can't pick up on these things maybe you should hang it up.

Neitzschean

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All men wanted. What happened to easy going dating? Posted: 8/5/2009 11:07:26 AM
There is no such thing as "easy going" on a date when there is a girl involved and the OP is proof of this. Women view dating as a game, much the same way hunter views hunting as a game. Modern dating is like a tax on men, spiritually and fiscally while giving women free dinner and stroking their ego. An "easy going" date is the one who cancels before the guy leaves the house and spares him this misery.

Neitzschean

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Long hair? Posted: 7/31/2009 7:38:54 PM
Some of us do long hair because short hair makes us look even worse.

Neitzschean

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How long does it usually take you ladies to reply to a message Posted: 7/31/2009 6:49:19 PM
If she hasn't answered in 24 hours, it means she isn't going to.

Neitzschean

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what do you consider a slut? Posted: 7/31/2009 6:47:01 PM
A slut is a girl who screws every other guy... except you.

Neitzschean

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what do girls think of bipolar boys? Posted: 7/23/2009 11:15:20 PM
My experience has been that women reserve the right to be crazy exclusively for themselves.

Neitzschean

Joined: 2/21/2008

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Does kissing lead up to sex? Posted: 7/23/2009 11:14:47 PM
Sure, if it's done right.

Neitzschean

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doesnt want a serious relationship? Posted: 7/23/2009 11:13:59 PM
Relationships are problematic for men, they tend to lead first to marriage but more importantly they lead to divorce, alimony and quite often child support.

Neitzschean

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Age and looks a factor? Posted: 7/3/2009 1:51:00 PM
The only reason a girl will tell you that age/looks are not a factor is if she has zero interest in you but wants to make you feel better, or if you're rich and is looking for a sugar daddy. Otherwise it is very much a factor for either guys or girls.

Neitzschean

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Why Are Men Over 30 Drama Shy? Posted: 6/29/2009 10:30:20 AM
It is so very amusing to see how a woman would rather live in solitude than NOT be an unbearable kunt.

Neitzschean

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Why do women hate Science Fiction so much? Posted: 6/29/2009 10:27:22 AM
Why is SciFi hated by women? Why are MTV rap sessions hated by old retirees? SciFi is hated as it is disdained by women as it utterly lacks anything women might have any interest in. Science Fiction broadens the imagination, poses vivid thoughts about the future (be they dark or bright) and are littered with thoughts about technology and its trends. It also has very little gossip and there's no talk about shopping. So it is not just highly intellectual but it also fails to pander to the only things women care about.

Neitzschean

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Women who always complain about boyfriends Posted: 6/27/2009 3:36:07 PM
I would say don't bother. You are welcome to try and come up with something to tell your whiny friend to make her happy, and if somehow you do figure out how to make her happy, do let the rest of the world in on it.

Neitzschean

Joined: 2/21/2008

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Friend or Girlfriend? Posted: 6/27/2009 3:32:59 PM
But... I thought women were supposed to be these savants at knowing all about body language and reading a guy's mind... oh wait I forgot, that was a giant pile of bullsh!t

Neitzschean

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How to show you're interested in a guy? Posted: 6/27/2009 3:29:14 PM
It's really easy girls. Be nice to the guy, smile, be sociable. Of course if you're just too lazy you could try not being a****

Neitzschean

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Are men on here really interested in marriage Posted: 6/27/2009 3:26:41 PM
Some of us are. Just not with the women on here.

Neitzschean

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What is wrong with being nice? Posted: 6/26/2009 12:21:41 PM
Being nice is fine in social circles when you have zero interest in a girl. Women do not respond to 'nice' when it comes to dating however. In fact just watch and you will see that women respond more strongly the more the guy acts like a sociopath. It shows how dated female evolution is, they still want the caveman to club her over the head and rape her in the comfort of his cave. The worst part about that isn't that women refuse to evolve, it's that they are appallingly bad liars about it, claiming that they don't want that then justifying their desire for it, quite often in the same breath.

Neitzschean

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Lack of Honestly! Posted: 6/23/2009 6:54:17 PM
If you are expecting honesty you need to have a VERY high threshold for disappointment.

Neitzschean

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If I say you're beautiful or sexy, am I a creep? Posted: 6/23/2009 6:51:54 PM
calling a girl sexy makes you a creep not thinking a girl is sexy also makes you a creep

Neitzschean

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why do guys lie about having a gf? Posted: 6/16/2009 9:54:52 AM
Why do women lie about having boyfriends, or being married?

Neitzschean

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Called a golddigger because I expect a man to buy me a drink? Posted: 6/16/2009 9:54:07 AM
Maybe you should put up a chart, the drinks a guy should buy and what amount of attention it will merit him.

Neitzschean

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What does looking for a good man mean really Posted: 6/8/2009 3:53:32 AM
It is a meaningless phrase. When you can ask a hundred girls what it means and get a hundred different answers, it is utterly irrelevant. Hell you can ask the same girl the same question and not get anything remotely consistent.

Neitzschean

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Ladies, who would you rather date? Posted: 6/8/2009 3:48:11 AM
Isn't this like asking a child if he'd rather have a milk shake or a candy bar?

Neitzschean

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Interesting...Men and Women APPARENTLY are NOT Equal Posted: 6/7/2009 5:38:22 AM
Anybody who thinks men and women should be treated the same is naive. Anybody who thinks men and women can be treated the same is delusional. It should be noted that NO culture that has treated women as equals to men has lasted very long. They usually get overrun by a culture that isn't hamstrung by such silly ideas. It has happened to other cultures, it will happen to ours. Hey girls, hope you like burkas!

Neitzschean

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Encourage a girl to lose weight. Posted: 6/7/2009 5:33:37 AM
Why encourage a girl to lose weight? Women are totally perfect just the way they are don't you know! The upside is, once they are obese you can watch them slowly have a nervous breakdown when they are incapable of attracting any kind of guy they are interested in.

Neitzschean

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The Gym. Leave the ladies alone, or say hi? Posted: 6/7/2009 5:30:49 AM
The gym has to be one of the worst places to meet girls. Unless you have a thing for fat chicks, in which case disregard that advice.

Neitzschean

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Why did my female friend blow me off? Posted: 6/7/2009 5:29:23 AM
Learn from this experience my friend. Women do not have male friends.

Neitzschean

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Should I have no expectations? Posted: 6/7/2009 5:25:18 AM
Well you keep chasing after those bad boys deerie you'll learn the answer to that question someday. Oh who are we kidding! Women NEVER learn!

Neitzschean

Joined: 2/21/2008

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If a girl you tried to date made out with your friend Pt. 2 Posted: 6/7/2009 5:22:46 AM
Said friend has done me a favor proving the girl is a skank.

Neitzschean

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why would a guy be hesitant to meet Posted: 6/7/2009 5:18:59 AM
He's just not that into you.

neitzschean

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Am I in Denial here? Posted: 5/16/2009 9:06:49 AM
It's rather rare for a girl to NOT be in denial. Reality is such a toxic thing for them.

neitzschean

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Why Lie on Your Profile? Posted: 5/16/2009 9:02:35 AM
Please explain to me why people, in my case, women, lie on their profiles. Because it comes so naturally to them?

neitzschean

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tell me why Posted: 5/16/2009 8:42:02 AM
Okay can you guys tell me why....when a chick that has a lot of the same interests as you messages you that you have to be sooo narrow minded and stuck on the physical that you cant even have the common courtesy to send a message back. Has it gotten that bad that having a bunch in common with a good gurl is now a bad thing. I may not be the most beautiful chick out there but im not ugly either. Believe it or not I have lots in common with most guys being that im half tomboy and half gurlie gurl. I just dont understand. Can you explain it to me??? For the intellectually dishonest here, allow me to sprinkle some truth and reality onto this claim. 1) guys love girls who are into the things they are into 2) your problem has nothing to do with you being a 'good girl' or 'bad girl' 3) this is very much to do with you being a chunky girl, which next to age and being a single mom is one of the three things guaranteed to discourage almost any guy. You girls love to 'just be friends' with guys you aren't attracted to, it's time you sit down and swallow some of your own toxic BS.

neitzschean

Joined: 2/21/2008

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Versatility of the F word Posted: 5/15/2009 11:29:35 AM
I may be mistaken but I believe it is derived from the old germanic word 'foch' meaning 'to plant seed'

neitzschean

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Do guys find Tomboys unattractive Posted: 5/15/2009 11:27:08 AM
The problem is 'tomboy' tends to be as broadly defined as geek or nerd. If by tomboy meaning girl who is athletic, into guy things, or not prone to the normally borderline psychotic behavior most women display, I would say it's highly desirable. I do find it amusing though how much scorn and venom is heaped upon such women - by 'normal' women.

Neitzschean

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Full custody of a beautiful daughter... Posted: 5/11/2009 10:01:37 PM
What if the kid is ugly? How would that change things?

Neitzschean

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Do Women Like a Guy In A Zoot Zuit Suit? Posted: 5/11/2009 10:00:39 PM
It depends. Is it Halloween?

Neitzschean

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how do I get a player to see he's a player? Posted: 5/11/2009 9:59:45 PM
How do you get a woman to admit she's being irrational?

Neitzschean

Joined: 2/21/2008

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Does he want a relationship or just sex? Posted: 5/11/2009 9:58:56 PM
OP, most guys at some point eagerly want a relationship and once we find it with a girl they will eagerly embrace it. We can thankfully count on women to remind us why this is a bad idea and that women are only good for the sex and the mark of a healthy relationship is how little time a couple spends together.

Neitzschean

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what flash marriage speed you can accept? Posted: 5/11/2009 9:56:30 PM
wow some girls are eager to hear a guy pop the question but the OP here really has no shame.

Neitzschean

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Mama's boy Posted: 5/11/2009 9:52:10 PM
You can say "Well the mom won't live forever..."

Neitzschean

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very dissapointing Posted: 5/10/2009 12:42:55 AM
Neitzechean why are you always so negative? Not all women are harpies and not all are soulless and the comment about less attractive is just absurd since we are also the same women you see in Real Life. Only in the same absurd rational that not all lottery tickets are a waste of money can you defend women. I prefer to just ignore the rare exceptions and continue merrily condemning the rest. And yes, you girls are "in real life", however unlike here, in real life some women are actually attractive.

Neitzschean

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very dissapointing Posted: 5/9/2009 11:23:48 PM
I don't get it, why do men assume women online will be any less vile? They're the same soulless harpies, only the ones on here are much less attractive.

Neitzschean

Joined: 2/21/2008

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Should I grow a pair and ask? Posted: 5/9/2009 11:19:10 PM
If you do grow a pair you've got it made on the carnival circuit!

Neitzschean

Joined: 2/21/2008

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why dont guys like big girls Posted: 5/9/2009 11:18:09 PM
I might have more sympathy for fat chicks if they were as fair minded as they expect guys to be, however fat chicks at least as whiny and demanding as other women but coming from them it seems almost comical.

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