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Joined: 2/22/2008

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How come single mothers don't want single fathers Posted: 8/4/2009 4:54:18 PM
I actually prefer dating single fathers with kids near my kids' ages. Right off the bat, we have something in common. Scheduling a time is a bit challenging, but it makes the time we have together that much more precious. My kids are older and don't need a sitter, so it's not hard for me to get away for a couple of hours a week. I already do it anyway with other activities in which I'm involved, and my kids have their own activities as well. We still manage to make family time.

Joined: 2/22/2008

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Why do women think disabled men have no sexual feeling? Posted: 8/1/2009 7:51:59 PM
Not true. You haven't found the right woman yet. Don't advertise on POF that you have a disability. Once you start to get some responses, chat via e-mail. Once you find a person who interests you, and she is interested in you, set up that first date. Just give her a heads-up that you are in a wheelchair. If she is a decent person, that shouldn't be a huge issue--meet her someplace wheelchair-friendly (which most places in this country are these days). Keep in mind that there is nobody who is perfect. We all have our imperfections/vices/disabilities. It's looking beyond them. A vocational rehab counselor who is a friend of mine told me "We don't focus on what they can't do; we focus on what they can do." You need to do that with yourself. When you find that special lady, she will be truly special!

Joined: 2/22/2008

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Penis size vs Breast size Posted: 8/1/2009 7:38:18 PM
It's the quality, not the quantity, and the rest of the package, including the brain and heart, that matters most. I would rather be with a thoughtful, intelligent man who is not well endowed, than an arrogant, thoughtless idiot who is large.

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Has any women ridiculed a guy during an intimate moment? Posted: 8/1/2009 7:04:36 PM
OMG...that's awful! And what did she hope to accomplish?

Joined: 2/22/2008

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Should I tell her? Posted: 8/1/2009 6:08:39 AM
Tell her your thoughts, and level with her that you are planning to move to Atlanta. No one knows what tomorrow will bring. Carpe diem...seize the day. I am dating someone who plans to move out of the state for health reasons. He doesn't know when, but he told me. I am unable to go with him, due to a couple of reasons. I will enjoy every day that God gives me with him, until that day comes.

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So why are a man's hands so attractive to women? Posted: 8/1/2009 5:59:54 AM
That's the way we women are wired. For me, they signifies strength, hard work, and feeling safe.

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Has Communications Tech ever ruined your relationships? Posted: 8/1/2009 5:53:56 AM
My current date works for IT....I'll have to tighten things up here. Thanks for the heads-up!

Joined: 2/22/2008

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Getting to know you Posted: 8/1/2009 5:49:57 AM
People tend to put their best foot forward in the earlier stages. It's difficult to sustain that effort forever, then the imperfections start to show themselves. You need to decide if the good outweighs the bad. If it doesn't, it's time to move on.

Joined: 2/22/2008

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Roses or chocolates? Posted: 8/1/2009 5:45:41 AM
Neither. I have all of the material possessions I need. The best gift a man has ever given me is the gift of his time...a walk together, holding hands, watching a movie, listening to some music...

Joined: 2/22/2008

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when a man meets a woman !!!!!! Posted: 8/1/2009 5:39:27 AM
It takes time and meeting that person to get to know him...I don't fall in love over the phone or via e-mail. After meeting a few times, talking and sending e-mails and time, you will know if the chemistry is there. Some people are great writers, but when you meet them, there is no chemistry, or they have have difficulty having a good conversation, or maybe the picture is from 10 years ago, or maybe they don't know what soap and water are used for, etc.

Joined: 2/22/2008

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Internet dating .... the ones you want and the ones you dont Posted: 8/1/2009 1:51:47 AM
I get all kinds of responses-from decent guys to creeps. Sometimes I initiate the contact and never hear from him, or he responds and is not at all like what he posted. It takes awhile to find just the right man...

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For the ladies - How long do you like actual intercourse to last? Posted: 7/31/2009 4:17:41 PM
I don't look at the clock. Time just seems to stop when it happens....

Joined: 2/22/2008

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Do women ask for or like getting a picture of a man's penis? Posted: 7/31/2009 4:14:24 PM
I don't ask for nor would I want a man sending me a picture of his nether regions. It tells me that he's in a hurry to jump in the sack with me. For me, the sexiest part of a man is his brain. Show me that you can carry on an intelligent conversation--your packaging is icing on the cake!

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feeling pressured to have sex.. Posted: 7/27/2009 7:53:51 PM
OP, I looked at your profile. Any guy would be lucky to have you. There ARE better fish in the sea, and you are young and have lots of time to find him! Doesn't sound like your current date is him! Yup, send him on his way!

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single mom body issues Posted: 7/27/2009 7:36:42 PM
prittygurl, I know what you're talking about. Mine nursed two children. My children had NO complaints and neither should my guy!

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asking to take it slow Posted: 7/27/2009 5:35:57 PM
OP, I agree with Tropicalknights. Do whatever works for you. I've rushed to meet some men after the first e-mail to find there there was no chemistry. I've also e-mailed some men a few times, then met. The second approach seems to work better for me. I'm not in a huge hurry to find "the one".

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feeling pressured to have sex.. Posted: 7/27/2009 5:07:46 PM
I seem to have the same feelings as most of the other posters. He has no respect for you. There are plenty of decent men here and elsewhere who treat women with respect, and won't pressure you into anything, whether it be sex, skydiving, or anything else. It sounds like it's time to put this dude out with the trash.

Joined: 2/22/2008

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If she has the condoms is that a good thing? Posted: 7/26/2009 6:29:41 AM
Likewise, the woman should only trust herself. Maybe the guy is out to spread his seeds or whatever diseases he has... I have a better idea...why not wait until you both get to the point in the relationship where you trust each other? If it doesn't get to that point, then it's time to end the relationship.

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honesty the best result Posted: 7/25/2009 4:32:27 PM
I agree with losing the caps; it's like shouting. Add some punctuation also. A picture with you smiling will be more inviting. Another doing something you enjoy will also help.

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Give it to me straight! Posted: 7/25/2009 4:24:17 PM
Very nice pictures. Your profile is a bit long...you might want to save some of the info for the date. It's great that you volunteer a lot...you're one of the good guys! Otherwise, if you lived near me and were a bit older, I'd be contacting you!

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do men actually exist that date women with kids?? Posted: 7/6/2009 5:58:20 PM
Yes, I've found several. I'd actually prefer to date someone with children, as they have a similar perspective. If something comes up that involves their kids, I'll be the first to say, "go ahead; take care of it. Your kids come first." I expect the same from my date.

Joined: 2/22/2008

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Women VS Men separated status Posted: 7/4/2009 7:47:59 PM
I dated a man who listed on his profile "separated". About two weeks later, his wife showed up and wanted to get back together with him. I haven't heard from him since. Another man had been divorced for a couple of years. He spent much of our first date complaining about his ex and his health problems. Needless to say, we had no 2nd date. It really depends on the situation. Some people have been divorced or separated for years and have worked through the baggage. Others hang onto it and don't want to let go. You really need to go into a potential relationship with your radar on.

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