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Joined: 2/23/2008

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he's still on POF Posted: 1/20/2009 8:29:13 PM
My ex for the 2 years we were together had his still up saying single and i know during that time we were together he did not go on there living together u know if someone is acting different he just didnt change it and forgot all about it he barely even talked on the phone or was on the internet some people r just so happy they forget now i would of had my friend email him and see if he responds or goes on a date w her then u know for sure .Guys do forget things and so do we.

Joined: 2/23/2008

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Do breaks ever work? Posted: 1/20/2009 8:21:44 PM
Yeah i have been on a few breaks but if we decided to sleep with others that always seemed to make things worse if we took a break to find ourselves i always seemed right back with that person. If u really love them why not take a break to find yourself then u can change ur mind and know it wont hurt as bad.

Joined: 2/23/2008

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heres a mans point of view(some men just dont understand) Posted: 1/20/2009 8:17:18 PM
Kids get use to people and who punishes them and if some guy comes along and they r not the father but ment to be the father figure rushing and trying to do it your way is not a good idea the child needs to be punished the way they r use to the same routine . And changing things just makes things harder on us and the children yes if u have ur own kids you can do it the way you always have ,but when a child comes in to ur life cause u fell in love with there mothers or fathers there are things we all need to understand they are little people use to what there mommie or daddie did to raise them and if we do a dramtic change like this is what we use to do now we dont it will confuse them i know cause my mom did it to me for years everytime a new guy came around his rules went and then he and my mom didnt work and then a new guy and so on and so on i felt like i was being bounced around then i go to my dads and he was so calm and mellow and quiet it was very confusing for me so when a women says please leave the punishing up to me its for the kids sake not cause she is trying to make it all her way and i have dated a few guys w kids i have had no problem with it the more the merrier

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