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hopeful_di

Joined: 7/7/2005

Msg: 11 (view)

Making Love Outdoors - At One With Nature Posted: 1/11/2009 12:15:04 PM
Sex on a beach is highly overrated. Sand gets EVERYWHERE!!! I don't understand the allure.

hopeful_di

Joined: 7/7/2005

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Looking for Some Comments Posted: 12/23/2008 11:23:38 AM
Perhaps she just wanted to get "some" and she got it from you. Guys do it all the time, so you shouldn't be surprised if she did the same. You're probably not her only victim. I hope you wore protection.

hopeful_di

Joined: 7/7/2005

Msg: 34 (view)

younger guys hitting on older women? Posted: 11/3/2007 2:13:52 PM
As a former law student, I quickly learned that the law has nothing to do with justice. It does suck... I was so disillusioned.

hopeful_di

Joined: 7/7/2005

Msg: 44 (view)

Kissing Rules Posted: 11/3/2007 2:05:20 PM
Everyone has different likes and dislikes. If I don't like the way someone kisses me, I just let them know how I like it. I put feeling into my kisses, which is the only way, otherwise I wouldn't be kissing him. If he still continues to do it the way that is undesireable, then it's obvious he doesn't want to kiss me anymore. No rules or comments from others that aren't me or my man, interest me. I love to kiss and consider it an art that takes lots and lots of practice to get to perfect. :)

hopeful_di

Joined: 7/7/2005

Msg: 359 (view)

How many 5' women are scared of a 6' over 200lb man? Posted: 11/3/2007 7:49:41 AM
I am 5'1 and have never felt comfortable seeing eye-to-eye with my man, except for on topics and ideals. I like 'em close to 6'. Afterall, my tippy toes are the strongest muscles on my body.

hopeful_di

Joined: 7/7/2005

Msg: 11 (view)

why do they do this? Posted: 11/3/2007 7:40:17 AM
Face it... there's a lot of "selection" out there, so they feel like they're a kid in a candy store not able to choose which "one" treat they want to buy. It happens more than you know.

hopeful_di

Joined: 7/7/2005

Msg: 37 (view)

Kissing Rules Posted: 11/3/2007 7:19:04 AM
I thought this was a post about saying that "Kissing Rules... Yeah!!!!", which I would agree, but come one, there aren't any hard and fast rules about kissing. We're not in grade school, afterall. Most of us have been kissed once or twice by now.

hopeful_di

Joined: 7/7/2005

Msg: 8 (view)

tried to 'warn' a gal about announcing name of her gym Posted: 11/3/2007 7:00:21 AM
I leave to go to the gym every morning by 6:15am to get there by 6:30, so if someone wants to be a "gym stalker" in an effort to see me up close without it being a real "first meeting", all the power to him. It's a popular, public place that I'm sure there are "plenty of fish" that go there, but I doubt at 6:30am. Who cares? If they follow me to work or home, that's quite another story.

hopeful_di

Joined: 7/7/2005

Msg: 182 (view)

dining scam Posted: 11/3/2007 6:55:35 AM
Usually I make sure ahead of the time how it's going to work. I always bring enough money to pay for myself, but I've had some men be insulted at that, too. I just feel more comfy, then don't feel guilty if thing don't work out.

hopeful_di

Joined: 7/7/2005

Msg: 46 (view)

So It Finally Happened To Me Posted: 11/3/2007 6:37:17 AM
A couple of years ago, when I was first on this site and not much experience with on-line dating, I started chatting with someone I thought was normal. It turns out that when we met, he was the "Conspiracy Theory" type and had all sorts of "proof" about 9-11 that he spewed non-stop for almost an hour. His picture was of him and pretty recent, although it was an extreme close-up that I couldn't tell what he really looked like. It was his lack of dental hygene that took me aback. I don't think he EVER met a toothbrush. Other than hygene, I really could care less for the most-part about what he looked like. There is one guy I see on here quite often, that I have known personally for about 10 years. When we first met, he was 42; now, his profile still says he's 42. I'd sure like to know where that fountain of youth is. A lie is a lie, is a lie, no matter how small he thinks it is. I'm sure there are plenty of women on here that play that sort of game, too, so I don't just blame him, but it's still completely unacceptable.

hopeful_di

Joined: 7/7/2005

Msg: 197 (view)

RIP.......BigDaddyRogue Posted: 4/16/2006 3:15:02 PM
My heart goes out to those that knew him. My heart also goes out to those that didn't.

hopeful_di

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Msg: 196 (view)

RIP.......BigDaddyRogue Posted: 4/16/2006 1:53:22 PM
Without PoF, I very much doubt I would have been blessed with knowing him. Thank you.

hopeful_di

Joined: 7/7/2005

Msg: 191 (view)

RIP.......BigDaddyRogue Posted: 4/16/2006 11:00:52 AM
With all due respect, poetwhocares, we are celebrating Jamie's life and mourning his passing. His decision on how he chose to lead his life is completely irrelevant, as he touched many people's lives in such a profound way, that unless you knew him, you will never know the extent. He was our angel among us.

hopeful_di

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Msg: 166 (view)

RIP.......BigDaddyRogue Posted: 4/14/2006 11:37:34 AM
Yes, thanks Admin. Your loyalty to us is very much appreciated!!!

hopeful_di

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Msg: 164 (view)

RIP.......BigDaddyRogue Posted: 4/14/2006 11:32:04 AM
I make sure that if there is a sensitive topic, I check out the ones who stir it up to see when they joined, other forum posts and if the topic is one that would be of interest to outside groups. They have met the MASTER... or MISTRESS!! hehehe

hopeful_di

Joined: 7/7/2005

Msg: 160 (view)

RIP.......BigDaddyRogue Posted: 4/14/2006 11:22:45 AM
I just wanted to highlight that poeticjustice12 may be someone who we DON'T want here (ie the police or media)... searching for information that we DON'T have. This profile doesn't have much in it, 1) Only joined today 2) This is the ONLY posting this "person" has posted to. 3) Stirring until it stinks We are here to remember and pay tribute to our wonderful friend and confident and I guess it shows that I will defend my true friends fiercely. I am loyal, too. Update: hehehe -- I reported "him" poof

hopeful_di

Joined: 7/7/2005

Msg: 157 (view)

RIP.......BigDaddyRogue Posted: 4/14/2006 11:08:07 AM
Waddle Waddle, Quack Quack... Poeticjustice12 hmmmmm I think it's a ......

hopeful_di

Joined: 7/7/2005

Msg: 155 (view)

RIP.......BigDaddyRogue Posted: 4/14/2006 10:57:24 AM
To the REAL posters, be careful of the infiltration of possible media throwing in such comments as posted by the person who JUST joined today... Poeticjustice12 They are information seekers that try to get information through the suffering of others. Do not trust!! They try to get information any which way they can. They are unscrupulous!!! Take note that the only forum this "person" has responded to, is this one. Either the police or media... Anyone for duck??????

hopeful_di

Joined: 7/7/2005

Msg: 154 (view)

RIP.......BigDaddyRogue Posted: 4/14/2006 10:50:29 AM
What would a Jewish guy be doing in a white supremacist motorcycle gang? The group he was with wasn't a neo-nazi white supremacist group!! Where the h3ll did you get your WRONG information? You didn't know him at all or his brothers, so quit trolling!!! Your presence is not welcome here!!!

hopeful_di

Joined: 7/7/2005

Msg: 152 (view)

RIP.......BigDaddyRogue Posted: 4/14/2006 10:26:54 AM
Good point... perhaps we should notify admin to delete the date and place reference. I think enough of us are making friends to keep each other informed.

hopeful_di

Joined: 7/7/2005

Msg: 150 (view)

RIP.......BigDaddyRogue Posted: 4/14/2006 10:14:13 AM
Hey Sherbear All's a go for the e-mails... I took off some of my restrictions.

hopeful_di

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Msg: 147 (view)

RIP.......BigDaddyRogue Posted: 4/14/2006 8:47:36 AM
Shedevil10, please message me and send me your e-mail address. I lost some really good friends and have been trying to make sense of it all. Don't believe the newspapers, because the more sensational their stories are, the more papers the sell, even if the stories are all WRONG!! The photo of Paulie in the back of Jamie's car was completely irresponsible of the Star for posting it. From that picture, it's the way his parents and the rest of us found out who it was. I feel blessed to have had the opportunity to get to know them as real people and was welcomed into their lives. They were fathers, sons, brothers, uncles, nephews and friends; not just bikers. There was so much more to them. I will miss the laughter, 'cuz we laughed a lot!! It's all so sad.

hopeful_di

Joined: 7/7/2005

Msg: 146 (view)

RIP.......BigDaddyRogue Posted: 4/14/2006 8:29:06 AM
he had a brother on life support! Did he share that with anyone? K, I tried to e-mail you, but your restrictions wouldn't let me. His brother-in-law in NC was in a serious motorbike accident on the Sunday before Jamie's murder. I was at his house on the Monday... He said it wasn't looking good at him surviving. Jamie's poor son, having to deal with the loss of his dad, as well as losing his uncle, too.

hopeful_di

Joined: 7/7/2005

Msg: 144 (view)

RIP.......BigDaddyRogue Posted: 4/14/2006 8:23:54 AM
I never felt safer than when I was with him. He was a true friend of mine and I will miss him forever and a day. I knew him as a person, first and foremost and spent quite a bit of time with him. He was such a sweet man and I would trust him with my life. We would do anything for each other. He had the heart of a poet, and his loyalty showed no bounds.

hopeful_di

Joined: 7/7/2005

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Boy did I blow it last night! Posted: 4/9/2006 8:27:03 AM
^^^^ I usually say something like, "go ahead and walk on 'em... I do it all the time." That's usually just something friendly to say without being flirty.

hopeful_di

Joined: 7/7/2005

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I am having a problem stopping this urge I have Posted: 4/9/2006 7:44:07 AM
Invest in a good vibrator!!! I agree... make BOB your best friend!!

hopeful_di

Joined: 7/7/2005

Msg: 11 (view)

In an uncommitted relationship can you do as you please ? Posted: 4/9/2006 7:19:34 AM
If no one claims me, I'm still available, in my view. If he wants to f u c k other people, so can I... but I don't, because I am completely a one-man woman. So, if someone else comes along who wants a relationship and I'm attracted to him, I have no problem with ditching this johnny-cum-lately and go towards the light.

hopeful_di

Joined: 7/7/2005

Msg: 6 (view)

Do I fight? Posted: 4/9/2006 7:08:59 AM
Just be there for him. He needs love, support and understanding, and will always remember who gave it to him. I wish you luck.

hopeful_di

Joined: 7/7/2005

Msg: 20 (view)

Ex came back twice! What do I do? Posted: 4/9/2006 7:05:01 AM
If he keeps coming back, I suggest you change your locks! hehehe On a serious note, if he sends you text messages, saying he needs time, I'll bet you he's spending his time with the other woman and wants to keep you around as a safety net. Are you okay with that? If not, screen your calls, change the locks and move on. Personally, that's a game I wouldn't want to play.

hopeful_di

Joined: 7/7/2005

Msg: 102 (view)

Is it possible to fall in love, in 1 week? Posted: 4/9/2006 5:27:12 AM
I think it's possible. I truly believe in love at first sight, but then again, I'm a romantic. But, I don't believe it can be done on-line. Chemistry in person is very different than the on-line thing. People who are gushing about each other that have never met, leave my eyes rolling. Puhleeeze!!

hopeful_di

Joined: 7/7/2005

Msg: 13 (view)

does it exsist Posted: 4/8/2006 5:05:54 PM
The problem is we aren't always attracted to the people that feel this way about us. ... or worse, the person you feel this way about doesn't feel it for you. Being relegated to "the friend", sux big-time.

hopeful_di

Joined: 7/7/2005

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does it exsist Posted: 4/8/2006 4:42:33 PM
I think all of us want that fairy tale... dreaming to sustain that level of emotion will, after a while drain you. I disagree. I think it gives you wings. I am a true romantic Smile...

hopeful_di

Joined: 7/7/2005

Msg: 20 (view)

What do you do when your heart throbs for someone but Posted: 4/8/2006 4:01:49 PM
LOL... That's funny, but not the answer... ;) Taking the video back would help you save face and finish a small chapter to this book. As I understand it, the video is the last thing at your place that is left behind. She may have gone out of town for the weekend, so she may not have got the message(s) yet. Give her time and space to think about things... get some rest and let things fall where they're going to, anyway. Peace!

hopeful_di

Joined: 7/7/2005

Msg: 17 (view)

What do you do when your heart throbs for someone but Posted: 4/8/2006 3:28:03 PM
You sound so much like a good friend of mine that constantly asks for my advice on situations. He totally wraps himself up in someone and trips when he's given "rules" for this and that. The rule about not leaving voice mail messages is wrong, because when you do it, you are made to feel you are making yet again another mistake. I don't agree with rules like that. I'll suggest to you what I suggested to my friend... don't call her AT ALL until she returns your call. You make yourself seem needy if you do, and that's the wrong impression you want to give off. Give her some space and step away from the phone *insert serious face here*. If you do see her number on call display, let it go to voice mail and hear what she has to say if she leaves a message. Wait a few minutes to call her back... don't do it right away. Patience is the key. Good luck!!

hopeful_di

Joined: 7/7/2005

Msg: 30 (view)

Worst Sexual Relationship EVER!!!! Posted: 4/8/2006 3:08:42 PM
I have never been known to stay with a sexual prude (yes, they exist in the male species). How did you stand it for 6 years? I wouldn't be able to stand it for 6 seconds.

hopeful_di

Joined: 7/7/2005

Msg: 12 (view)

What do you do when your heart throbs for someone but Posted: 4/8/2006 2:47:11 PM
I would practice due diligence and write a letter to that person to explain and apologize for my screw-up. Don't follow it up, but leave it open for them to contact you. If that person doesn't come back to discuss the problem, then yes, it's time to recoil and recoup, then remove them from my thoughts so I can move on. I'm speaking of a personal incident that happened to me. I am a very lucky girl that he forgave me and we are good again. It was killing me to think I could have lost him forever over something stupid I did. When it's someone who's very important to you, it's best to suck it up, admit you were wrong by genuinely apologizing and lick boots to get him back. Whatever it takes, it's worth it.

hopeful_di

Joined: 7/7/2005

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What to do????? plz help :( Posted: 4/8/2006 8:41:31 AM
Remember, you're the one who's going to have to live with you after all is said and done. If you cheat, could you really look in the mirror and say you like the person you see in the reflection? No matter how bad things get, cheating is definitely not the answer. You'll never be able to outrun your past.

hopeful_di

Joined: 7/7/2005

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1st meeting after break up Posted: 4/8/2006 8:32:13 AM
Meeeoooowwww!! Holy Cat Fight!!! = gallivanting1 & imsneaky

hopeful_di

Joined: 7/7/2005

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Why do women feel the need to Test their man? Posted: 4/8/2006 8:28:41 AM
If the man I'm with throws me a "pop quiz" like that and I know my man set it up, I may fail it on purpose. He'd be history, regardless.

hopeful_di

Joined: 7/7/2005

Msg: 93 (view)

Ladies- which do you prefer, Clean Cut or Tatoo-Pierced Bad boy? Posted: 4/8/2006 8:18:22 AM
I like bad-boys... tats are very artistic/creative and some piercings are cool if not overdone. I like someone who takes some pride in his appearance. Hygene is a big thing (dental and personal), so as long as he keeps himself clean, it's all good.

hopeful_di

Joined: 7/7/2005

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Its the one's you least think ... Posted: 4/8/2006 8:09:13 AM
I've never had these problems, so my insight really isn't very insightful. He does sound married, though. Quack Quack, Waddle Waddle. Is his name Donald or Daffy, by any chance? LOL

hopeful_di

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Msg: 43 (view)

Who cares where the appetite comes from as long as they eat at home ??? WTF ??? Posted: 4/7/2006 6:57:16 PM
Silly girl, you can remove the addy to your other site from this profile on here and no one would be the wiser. If he has the password to here, just change it. That's it, that's all.

hopeful_di

Joined: 7/7/2005

Msg: 37 (view)

Who cares where the appetite comes from as long as they eat at home ??? WTF ??? Posted: 4/7/2006 10:18:43 AM
Plain and simple... you can't control any man. Looking and getting excited about someone else isn't about that person at all; it's about sex and sex alone. Just be thankful he comes to you to eat. Don't play the jealousy card, as that will sure as he!! make him run toward someone else as the main course & dessert. If he gives me cause to believe he wants to f#(k someone else, I'm outta there... no jealousy, because I don't want him anymore... but, on the same hand, if he truly only wants me to f#(k, there's nothing to be jealous about. Jealousy means that you want what someone else has. If someone else doesn't "have" him, then why the jealousy?

hopeful_di

Joined: 7/7/2005

Msg: 50 (view)

What do you think of men who do not 'Chase' you ... Posted: 4/6/2006 7:43:53 PM
Holy Crap!! You've been fed quite a load. What kind of women have you been meeting? Please don't paint all women with that same dirty brush.

hopeful_di

Joined: 7/7/2005

Msg: 9 (view)

Lost Love advise needed Posted: 4/6/2006 4:26:20 PM
Your timing is still bad, as long as he's still married.

hopeful_di

Joined: 7/7/2005

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Lost Love advise needed Posted: 4/6/2006 4:21:04 PM
It sounds like you were in his system until you were intimate... He got you out of his system and may be able to now make his feelings work for his WIFE. You have no business interfering in his marriage, no matter what your or his feelings are.

hopeful_di

Joined: 7/7/2005

Msg: 46 (view)

What do you think of men who do not 'Chase' you ... Posted: 4/6/2006 4:10:32 PM
If he doesn't tell me outright, I think he's not into me in the romantic sense whatsoever and I've been relegated to the "friend". I don't chase, but I do let HIM know I'm interested. If he doesn't respond to that, what I said previosly applies.

hopeful_di

Joined: 7/7/2005

Msg: 104 (view)

Is bad sex a reason to stop dating? Posted: 4/6/2006 3:54:44 PM
Yes... How do you stay interested in your significant other if the sex isn't good, especially if he shows no interest in learning how to please you? To some, it's not something they instinctively know. If you try to communicate to him how you may have different sexual interests/preferences than his exes, and he thinks what he's always done will do the trick, you will end up frustrated and possibly bored. These relationships never last. I guess, I'm waiting for my sexual hero. Smile...

hopeful_di

Joined: 7/7/2005

Msg: 465 (view)

Barrie 55 Special April 15 Posted: 4/4/2006 7:40:00 PM
I thought I could make it, but Saturday I have to go up to Bracebridge for a friend's birthday. Too bad this party wasn't on the Friday instead.

hopeful_di

Joined: 7/7/2005

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Do you have a type that you look for? Posted: 4/1/2006 3:33:12 PM
My "type" seems to change regularly, but he definitely has to have nice teeth; a nice butt is a definite plus, as I'm a face and butt person. In general, I like a manly man (dominant), not someone who is effeminate. I want someone who is strong physically, as well as with strength in character and demeanor.

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