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runamuk

Joined: 7/7/2005

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Is there such a thing as a Try-sexual? Posted: 3/14/2009 2:12:15 AM
I used the term (jokingly ?), once upon a time, to mean I'd try almost anything. The OP says: I guess having sex for the purposes of pursuing pleasure without boundaries or experimentation)? And, I agree.

runamuk

Joined: 7/7/2005

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ladies, does it piss you off Posted: 12/28/2008 5:41:35 PM
I'm only pissed off if I don't get to watch!!

runamuk

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On being called M'am. Posted: 2/27/2008 2:18:31 PM
M'am or Sir........sign of respect for those you know or don't know. I've always been taught to call older folks sir or m'am and since I am one of those older folks now it's OK with me. What DOES bother me is for a younger person (usually a bartender or clerk) to call me hon or sweetie. Only older people can call me these names and it be OK.

runamuk

Joined: 7/7/2005

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Toe rings Posted: 2/26/2008 2:20:56 PM
Toe ring wearer since 1991 and not ready to remove it yet. It was a Mother's Day gift from my kids and I love it. Today I am wearing jeans, work shirt and boots...........and the toe ring~it never comes off. It's a part of me now just as my other jewelry is. I wear 3 pairs of small gold hoop earrings, a necklace, watch, 6 rings and the gold toe ring--everyday. I don't think age has any bearing on when I will change what is an everyday part of me.

runamuk

Joined: 7/7/2005

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What Is The Worst Thing You Could Say To A Guy To Scare Him? Posted: 2/7/2008 1:26:48 PM
Maybe.............. "I used to have balls."

runamuk

Joined: 7/7/2005

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What defines independence to the average woman. Posted: 2/5/2008 8:26:19 AM
To me it is being comfortable with myself no matter the situation. It's about confidence in myself & liking myself. It's knowing I can take care of myself without financially depending on someone. It's knowing I want someone because I WANT him and not because I NEED him. But I don't really consider myself average either. Has this been asked of the 'average' man?

runamuk

Joined: 7/7/2005

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How Weird is Castrating Your Own Cat? Posted: 2/5/2008 8:04:15 AM
My dad routinely bands cats, dogs, cattle, pigs and goats. And, we do have a vet for things Dad can't do or doesn't know. In fact, he has shown our DVM how to perform this little procedure, his way. Animal husbandry has been practiced for a long time and even the veterinarians can learn something from the old codgers. And to make another point........as far as cats go & dogs, too.........he is helping the 'country animal' population. A lot of caring, sympathetic, urban dwellers will dump little kitties and puppies out in the country to fend for themselves. Right, huh? Edit: As for it being weird.........no. Practical, yes.

runamuk

Joined: 7/7/2005

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How would you feel about a WOMAN with a GUN? Posted: 1/3/2008 2:14:14 PM
"Safe" ever cross your mind? Give it a thought or two.

runamuk

Joined: 7/7/2005

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How far would you go to please your partner sexually??? Posted: 12/26/2007 11:31:42 AM
It's only kinky the first time~~~ Besides the aforementioned no-no's........it's all a go. That's the beauty of a good relationship. There are very few limits when it comes to wanting to please my man.

runamuk

Joined: 7/7/2005

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men in pantyhose Posted: 12/4/2007 11:54:52 AM
Eeewwwwwwwyuck!! Just plain yuck. If it's a warmth issue and you have no other choice, then yes, wear 'em. ONLY till you can get some long johns or something else that feels/fits right. For the fun of it or as as msg #11 said he wore them with shorts.....wtf??? Most definitly a huge turn-off. The only thing I want a man to know about pantyhose is how to take them off me.

runamuk

Joined: 7/7/2005

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Curious, how many women know how to cook! Posted: 11/21/2007 12:51:42 PM
Grow it, pick it & cook it....or.....hunt it, clean it and cook it. No matter. Cook, bake, fry, grill or boil......all of it. Except pie crust and gravy. My gravy is 50/50 meaning that only half the time does it turn out right. Pie crust, well, my New Year's resolution in 2005 was to learn to make pie crust or learn to play the harmonica. I can almost do the Orange Blossom Special and it sounds good!

runamuk

Joined: 7/7/2005

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What name do you call it? Posted: 11/20/2007 1:43:33 PM
My friend calls hers Scarlett NO'Hara....... No name for mine yet..............

runamuk

Joined: 7/7/2005

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How do you come up with age range limits? Posted: 11/9/2007 1:55:38 PM
The generational rule should apply here...... Old enough to be your father...........nope Young enough to be your child..........nope That's a pretty good range of age appropriate people to date.

runamuk

Joined: 7/7/2005

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Are guns/ hunting a turn off for most women? Posted: 10/30/2007 1:31:41 PM
NOT a turn off but a requirement for my man. Do I need to put that in my profile?? Have guns, will date. Must hunt/fish. There is nothing more sexy, in a primal sorta way, than seeing your man bring home food that he has hunted for.

runamuk

Joined: 7/7/2005

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what does the term a strong woman mean to you? Posted: 10/16/2007 7:28:49 AM
As much as I do not care for stereotyping, the term 'strong woman' can mean many different things as you can see by previous posts. Some are great descriptions of many of us women. I especially liked # 15 & #16. Being labeled as strong, indenpendant, ****y, gentle, caring.............who really cares? I can be any or all if the situation warrants. I am a quirky combination of all the right stuff to be comfortable in my own skin. It's how I live my life everyday. I can look into my lovers eyes with honesty, into my childrens eyes with love and face problems/challenges head on. I earn respect by my actions & reactions. Also mentioned in previous posts is the hereditary aspect of it all. I am from a long line of women who had a job to do, and did it well!

runamuk

Joined: 7/7/2005

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Dating your Best Friends Ex? Posted: 10/11/2007 1:49:14 PM
Been there, done it & had the wedding ring too. Only this was my ex's best friend Can honestly say it did not work---we're divorced now. Older & wiser as well. Nope, wouldn't ever do it again or go out with my best friend's ex---no way.

runamuk

Joined: 7/7/2005

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Getting Back Into Working Out Posted: 10/11/2007 11:56:12 AM
Not to hijack this thread but I have questions on this topic too...... I have recently started walking during my work day, 3/4 mile in the morning and 3/4 in the afternoon. This is the only regular exercise I am getting these days even though I am pretty active most week-ends. I know it's not enough but I feel better already and plan to try to walk most evenings too. I am also changing my diet slightly (most days anyway) to include mostly salad and water during the day. Not really a breakfast eater and dinner is something quick most nights. I've made a decision to give up my diet soda for the most part. I want to drop about 20 lbs and firm up some. Are there any exercises to be done at a desk/office to help firm any areas such as upper arms, back area, etc? Any diet tips? Thanks for any suggestions! Runamuk

runamuk

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Halloween Costumes! Posted: 10/10/2007 6:51:16 AM
Gray sweats with tire tracks rolled on...................... I am a speed bump!!!! Happy Halloween

runamuk

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would this be ok to do??? Posted: 10/5/2007 7:59:07 AM
Repeat after me............ NEVER give a ring to your woman if it has belonged to another. That's just wrong. Unless, as previoulsly stated, it is a family piece.

runamuk

Joined: 7/7/2005

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no label of boyfriend versus girlfriend Posted: 10/5/2007 7:52:59 AM
said Finneganne "Titles are pretty much over when you get out of high school." ^^^^^^^^^I agree. At this point in my life calling someone 'boyfriend' or being called 'girlfriend' just plain sounds funny to me. In my neck of the woods.......he's 'MY MAN' if we are serious.

runamuk

Joined: 7/7/2005

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chatting to married men ? Posted: 10/3/2007 8:17:22 AM
When I joined POF I was single......now I'm not & it says so in my profile. It also says I am not looking for intimate/discreet encounters. I like POF forums and making new friends.......too bad for those that don't understand. If I were only interested in cheating or married men there are much easier ways than an online dating site.

runamuk

Joined: 7/7/2005

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Has Anyone Ever Been Interrupted By A Pet During Sex? Posted: 10/3/2007 7:37:45 AM
My boxer has a damned cold nose!!

runamuk

Joined: 7/7/2005

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Pick-up line/Ice Breaker? Posted: 10/2/2007 1:08:50 PM
It's a little lame but always an icebreaker. That ever popular "Do I know you from somewhere?" line, remember that one? My standard answer is, "Have you ever been in jail?" Whether his answer is yes or no it's always agreed it was not in jail where we may have met.

runamuk

Joined: 7/7/2005

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southern accents in guys or gals Posted: 10/2/2007 12:59:35 PM
Give me a South Georgia accent anytime mixed with a dash of hillbilly, the Texas drawl and the Okie twang. These are the men I can take seriously............the Northern accent just doesn't do it for me. Some foreign accents are very nice, though.

runamuk

Joined: 7/7/2005

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Dress for success Posted: 10/1/2007 8:17:31 AM
To me, a man (or woman) must be comfortable in their own skin to look appealing in anything they choose to wear. Confidence 'looks' good with my eyes shut!!! That said.......I can appreciate a man who knows how to dress for any situation but strongly prefer the rugged, Wrangler wearing type.

runamuk

Joined: 7/7/2005

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Sexiest Musical Instrument??? Posted: 9/28/2007 8:59:32 AM
The skin-flute, of course.

runamuk

Joined: 7/7/2005

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Top three places... Posted: 9/27/2007 11:46:58 AM
1)Coffee shop 2)Feed & farm supply store #3 Would be work (selection is good) but I wouldn't date anyone from there so 3) a friend's house

runamuk

Joined: 7/7/2005

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younger men Posted: 9/27/2007 11:29:19 AM
I try to apply the generational rule here.......... If you're old enough to be my dad, nope. or Young enough to be my son, nope.

runamuk

Joined: 7/7/2005

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How do I tell my girlfriend I like to wear a bra? Posted: 9/5/2007 7:31:32 AM
Your screen name might give me a clue. I, too, like the security and strength of a man and the bra would be a deal breaker. An after-thought........ A little fetish is OK but for my man to want to be or dress feminine is a real turn-off. If I wanted to see a bra I'd see it on a real woman.

runamuk

Joined: 7/7/2005

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CBT Posted: 9/4/2007 2:29:23 PM
OK, I'll ask for those of us who don't know....... WTF is CBT?

runamuk

Joined: 7/7/2005

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I'd love to go out with but..... Posted: 8/30/2007 1:54:44 PM
I have anal glaucoma.....I just can't see my a$$ going out with you!

runamuk

Joined: 7/7/2005

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another way to fish... Posted: 8/29/2007 1:12:27 PM
I know of several people that noodle......and have seen some 'monster catfish' caught this way. It's been around for along time and now we have noodling competitions. If more folks don't learn how (and it's not for the timid) it will be a lost sport.

runamuk

Joined: 7/7/2005

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Ice cubes Posted: 8/29/2007 8:43:48 AM
I suck & chew on ice all the time....... not from sexual frustration but because I like to.

runamuk

Joined: 7/7/2005

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Why do you have sex? Posted: 8/16/2007 12:21:28 PM
The same reason we climb mountains........ because it's there!!!! And....... we like it!!!

runamuk

Joined: 7/7/2005

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women watching women strippers Posted: 8/16/2007 11:53:18 AM
How about Men Watching Women Watching Women Strippers? I was in a strip club with friends, a married couple, and I bought him a lap dance and as a dare he returned the favor and bought me one. It was a fairly classy place-as far as that goes-and I think the highlight of the night for most males there was watching a female get a lap dance. This stripper was most lenient and it was a lot more 'touchy' between us than the normal male lap dance. As for me....I enjoyed it too!

runamuk

Joined: 7/7/2005

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They used to be gay.... Posted: 7/18/2007 2:16:39 PM
Why bother with labels at all?? Maybe their tastes/interests changed along the way. Certainly they could have once been in an exclusivly homosexual relationship, hence 'used to be gay', and now are in a straight relationship or maybe now only attracted to the opposite sex. OT.......I would be with a woman who 'used to be gay' but not with a man who'used to be gay'. I know it's a big double standard but that's how I am. I used to be a child and I didn't like green peas........grown up and love 'em. People change.

runamuk

Joined: 7/7/2005

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Guns Posted: 5/3/2007 1:28:41 PM
I would have a problem if MY man did not own a gun or two. I was raised with guns in the home and taught at an early age to use and respect them. Obviously there are some people who should never be allowed to own or be around firearms but these people have larger issues.

runamuk

Joined: 7/7/2005

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A guy who hunts/fishes is it that unappealing? Posted: 2/24/2007 9:00:05 PM
A man walking out of the woods with a rifle slung over his shoulder, carrying a string of fish, chopping wood, etc..........what a sight!! It hits a primal nerve. I find it very appealing.

runamuk

Joined: 7/7/2005

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Something to think about Posted: 11/18/2006 5:11:28 AM
Ritaz said it best......Real man = Willing to work for a living, whether it's a working man's wage or high dollar, doesn't matter...integrity, meaning he doesn't lie or cheat, and he would defend me if the need be....not afraid to open his heart and show emotion behind closed doors....loves his mother....has a good healthy sex drive and can rock my world then rock me to sleep. Mmmmmmm, it's good to have a real man in my life My definition exactly. Plus he should carry a pocketknife.

runamuk

Joined: 7/7/2005

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relationships held together by good sex... Posted: 11/18/2006 4:42:45 AM
No. For me, sex is as much mental as physical. Maybe not AS much but definitely a combination. If the relationship was bad the sex would eventually go downhill too. As was already mentioned......I would probably dissolve the relationship and after a while we could end up as FWB.

runamuk

Joined: 7/7/2005

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Help!!! Posted: 10/17/2006 12:21:30 PM
Why would you even ask such a silly question? We all carry loaded weapons. I'd stick with him.. said swiftone And, as a woman who carries a firearm, I agree. In this day and time one can only try to be prepared---not paranoid. I travel many miles everyday and am often times in very remote, isolated areas. If I ever had car trouble and had to walk I would feel much better with my Ruger. I also have loaded guns in my home. Pity the fool that wants to do the home invasion gig. I am American and our constitution gives us the right to keep and bear arms. OT......my man and many others I know carry firearms, mostly in their vehicles. I feel very safe in their company.

runamuk

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why do girls stay on the dating sites if they are taken Posted: 10/11/2006 12:03:02 PM
^^^^^^^^^what she said^^^^^^^^^^ & these forums are addictive.

runamuk

Joined: 7/7/2005

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Why do ladies never admit they have had 1 nite stands? Posted: 10/11/2006 11:58:44 AM
Where a lady may not want to admit this......a woman can. Unashamedly. Not a lot but more than once. On purpose, too.

runamuk

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WHAT WOMEN OR MEN THINKING? Posted: 10/11/2006 10:17:39 AM
Beige.........I think I'll paint the ceiling beige.

runamuk

Joined: 7/7/2005

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Why do guys think they can sneak up to you flip you around and kiss you and then leave? Posted: 10/10/2006 8:51:07 AM
^^^^^^^^Sounds like you've been part of a bar bet ^^^^^^^^^ I agree with Leeanne and several others who have said they wouldn't put up with it. I have been in lots of bars, around lots of men, lots of times. This has never happened to me. If it did, flattery would be the last thing that came to my mind. I'd be pissed off

runamuk

Joined: 7/7/2005

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Kitty Litter Cake Posted: 10/9/2006 11:40:34 AM
I made this cake last year for our office Halloween party. It certainly looks disgusting but the taste is great if you can make yourself try it. It was definitely a hit--everyone wanted to try it.

runamuk

Joined: 7/7/2005

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What is an acceptable amount of years above and below your age to date? Posted: 10/5/2006 2:15:09 PM
I once thought the generational rule applied. If the person is young enough to be your child or old enough to be your parent--they were off limits. Now I'm not too sure.....there are some fine 22-30 yo guys that I would consider dating if I were looking. But for a LTR the generational rule sticks.

runamuk

Joined: 7/7/2005

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funny names.... Posted: 10/5/2006 1:53:27 PM
I have a couple...... Went to school with Ruby Redd & Robyn Byrd. Babysat for Penny Nichols. People in town, father & son D ick & Woody Stubbs. In my work files: Les D ick & D ick Pinkstaff. What were the parents thinking?

runamuk

Joined: 7/7/2005

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Girls : Does fighting him OFF really turn you ON Posted: 10/4/2006 7:56:38 AM
Yes....and then some. It's a primal, back to the cave thing.

runamuk

Joined: 7/7/2005

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Got question for all ladys Posted: 10/4/2006 6:17:43 AM
Manners and chivalry are almost lost these days. I do appreciate it when a man opens the door for me, pulls back a chair, carries a heavy package, warms up my vehicle on cold mornings, kills a spider, mows the lawn, etc. All of these things I can do for myself but it shows me that he cares. It's the little things...............

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