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amazonian chick

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Can you help me?..I have a funny but weird story Posted: 4/17/2009 7:51:06 PM
Is having her as a penpal even worth it? You have never met, you don't trust her...she could be anyone...what do you gain from continuing to write? And, after she said she wants to be with you forever, where do you go from there? How do you take it back to light hearted chit chat? I personally think it has ran its fantasy course, and you need to explore pastures new x

amazonian chick

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How Do You Think Your Partner Or Ex Percieves You Now? Posted: 4/8/2008 5:40:52 AM
Exes I have had have wanted to rekindle in some way or another. So, they must see me as the hot biatch I am...and not the psycho bunner boiler biatch I PRETEND to be

amazonian chick

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At what point do you accept a date off here or any dating site? Posted: 4/8/2008 5:34:42 AM
I have been on dates where we have simply spoken that day. I have been on dates where we have spoken for months. Both can have the same ending....and aslong as you take care of your safety (have a nominated person on last number redial, stay in a public place and so on) you are just as safe either way. I spoke to a guy for over a year and got on really well. When we met, I felt absolutely no spark. No harm done. The same as happened on quick dates. My partner I am with now, I met on POF. We spoke on and off from 5th sept 2006 and went on a date 26th sept 2006. We spoke on the phone once on the 25th September. Other than that was MSN and POF. So, there are no hard and fast rules. Just go with your gut instinct. An good luck!

amazonian chick

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Has anyone here done a deed poll name change for a child Posted: 4/8/2008 5:28:50 AM
My mom changed my name with the Justice of peace when I was 5 and she got married. She did not have to contact the sperm donor to do this. He was not a part of my life and had not been for ages. I am unsure what she would have had to have done had she done it by deed poll. Good luck. I can see why you want to change their names. If he has nothing to do witht hem, then you may aswell have a fresh start.

amazonian chick

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Ladies: your take on short guys? Posted: 4/8/2008 5:19:22 AM
Why would that be so? Why doesn't a tall man feel 'awkward' with a short woman? This is a hilarious statement. AdrianEsquire: The comment that NorseViking made was based on my statement. I am a woman, and he was commenting on what I explained to be my EXPERIENCES as a Tall woman. There are tall men that feel awkward with short women. Being a tall woman who has dated tall men, I know it for a fact. my height has often been an attraction point for them. You will never know (obviously) how it feels to be a tall woman. At 6ft2.5 I stand out already. No need to add to that. Plus, it is not womens attitudes that have had anything to do with it. I also know that a lot of short men do find tall women attractive. That is nice and there are some tall women who get along fine dating small men. But I am a tall BBW, it just would look 'silly'.

amazonian chick

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Ladies: your take on short guys? Posted: 4/6/2008 6:45:04 AM
Well seeing as you are tall I feel for you. Tall women and short men both have it rotten. Yours isn't so much a prefference as it is kind of a nessessity. Your tall. There are men of all hights that can accept you being tall.. but I can understand why you woudl feel awkward dating a short or average man. For me it is not the tall women that have the problem defining the difference of prefference over requirements, it is the average and short women. Thank you You are one of the first people on these forums to EVER understand :)

amazonian chick

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exclusive agreement in UK too? Posted: 4/6/2008 6:36:49 AM
Only a woman could come out with that nonsense.............................. I find the opposite to be par for the course. In my experience there's nothing more expensive to a man when a woman declares that she's "free" for the night. It usually amounts to an arm and a leg , but not hers strangely. LoL I did not say it is free as in monetary....And I have never not paid my half on a date....i was talking about free to stay or walk away....But then you may just be being sarcastic, as this is 2008, aand the days of men automatically paying for things on the first date are loooong gone...Though there are maybe some old fashioned guys still out there....But they probably are not the ones complaining about it lol

amazonian chick

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Why Do People Consider Internet Dating Crazy? Posted: 4/5/2008 1:43:45 PM
Well, I started on the internet in 2003. I have met some strange ones and made some lifelong friends. My family treated me very bad for it at first. Like I had a disease. Then my uncle tried it and has been very happy with is partner for nearly 3 years now. He was in brum and she in London. She moved. They now have a lovely house in Staffordshire. I have been with my partner since 2006. We would have never met as we are from different places. I am now 6 months pregnant and very happy. He is my soul mate. My mom met her partner in late 2006. He is moving in tomorrow and they are engaged. They met on another dating site. So, you see, times and opinions change!

amazonian chick

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Ladies: your take on short guys? Posted: 4/5/2008 1:24:45 PM
I have not read through all this thread, as I have just come across it. I am 6ft2.5 and a big girl. So, if I say I date 6ft and over (have dated 5ft11) am i discriminating against 'short' guys....seem I am taller than average guys. So, I must be real bad. I am sorry, but being me means I already get looked at a lot, pointed at, commented on and have blokes feigning fear in bars....So, me with a guy a lot shorter would just add more cause for me drawing attention. I would be seen as more of a freakshow. I have some pride and don't want to always be singled out. The predicted height i have been given for my son (his dad is 5ft11) is he will be 6ft8. My partner now is the same height as me and we are having a child...If it's a girl, well I feel a little bad, as she will go through what I do. My point is, I do not discriminate against short guys through a problem with them. Just dating someone nearer my height is one less way of me feeling un-feminine. And to be the butt of jokes. You can call me shallow or insecure, but try being the centre of attention all through your teen years and way into adulthood. It's not fun! Anyway, I think if the avergae woman is 5ft4 or so, then the average short guy has a lot of ladies to choose from. How tall does a short woman need her man to be? If a woman is short and needs a 6ft man, then i do not understand why. If a woman is tall and dates tall guys (like I do) then I cannot see there is a problem. My guys don't need to be pushing 7ft. Just somewhere near my height.

amazonian chick

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exclusive agreement in UK too? Posted: 4/5/2008 1:05:17 PM
I think the point is, be clear. If date without exclusivity, that does not make you a serial dater. It means you are giving yourself a chance to decide if you want to continue into being exclusive or just be relaxed for a little while longer. No blame or shame in that. Why would you decide on day one to be exclusive...Discover a little first. Read the contract before you sign. The small print could be your downfall in the end!lol However, if TWO people feel on the first date that they want to be exclusive, then go for it! That's really nice. Just make sure TWO want it....Or ONE may come across as a bunny boiler, and that's never a good thing lol I think when sex is approaching, the convo should defo happen!!

amazonian chick

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exclusive agreement in UK too? Posted: 4/5/2008 7:48:41 AM
I believed dating was suppose to be the 'free' bit. As in, you are simply testing the water at that stage. If one person expects exclusivity from day dot, I think they should state it, just incase the other person sees it as dating. I think the moment it becomes a 'relationship', whenever that happens, is when exclusivity should be expected. I do not believe it goes against being old fashioned to think someone should not have to commit at the stage of dating. 'Courting' was the old fashioned way. Dating is something a lot more modern and relaxed than that, I believe.

amazonian chick

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disability does it matter? Posted: 4/5/2008 7:42:52 AM
Suppose we could fit any word in. Not just disability. People have specifications for dating. I am a big girl...a lot would not date me and would actively see it as a disability. When I was first on the internet, I was talking to a guy in a wheelchair. He had a degenerative muscle wasting disorder. He was also a single dad to two boys. I really got along with him but he became obsessive and would not leave me alone. At the time I was 20 and thought he was obsessed because I was nice to him. Naive I know. As since then I had many 'able bodied' guys who got obsessive. As to whether I would now date someone with a disability, it would always depend on the severity to me. I don't mena, if someone is in a wheelchair, it's a no. I mean if the disability affects mental ability greatly. Most the disabilities that people have declared on here would not bother me at all, I believe. There are probably many people who have looked at this thread and not posted. As there must be truly many who would not date someone with a disability. They would just prefer not to declare it for fear of the backlash.

amazonian chick

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Brummies Sound Like Dummies Claims Survey... Posted: 4/5/2008 7:17:04 AM
I was not suggesting other people know the difference. Simply saying we all get thrown into one pot called 'Brummie' ...When, we are not all Brummies. But the umbrella termed used is Brummie. I myself can tell the difference in the way someone from North Yorkshire speaks to someone in south. Can tell that my mate from Wrexham speaks differently to those in Cardiff. None of these, by the way, sound 'thick'....But, I forget, that's just Brummies lol So, all my point is, is that I wish when people did these 'studies' they would attempt to diffrentiate between brummies and those from Wolves, West Brom, Dudley and all other 'Midlands' locations. As, I am sure they would like to be known for what they are and not just termed Brummies. If you feel you can conduct a 'study' you should be able to get your facts straight. Your average Joe might not be able to. But if a person feels qualified enough to 'study' these things then they should study effectively.

amazonian chick

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Brummies Sound Like Dummies Claims Survey... Posted: 4/5/2008 3:51:11 AM
I am a Brummie, and will stand up for us! Yes, some brums sound thick. But so do people form lots of cities. Some Brummies are pretty well spoken. Some are not. How does this differ from the rest of the UK? I am from central Brum, so my accent is not nearly as broad as someone from Smethwick and Other sides like Chelmsley Wood. This does not mean these people sound thick. Just means they have a stronger accent. Then, we always get mixed up with those from the Black Country...'Yammers', as they are nicknamed. Our accent is nowhere near the same, but we are mixed up nevertheless. That old advert 'we wanna b' togetha' grated on me even as a child, as even then I knew it was not our accent. It's ashame that studies have to continue this stupid stereotype. Even when i used to date through sites like this, I would get asked in emails if i had a strong Brummie accent. Then on the phone would be told 'oh, you actually have a nice accent' I do not think most people who are not from Brum know what a true brummie accent is. So, lay off and let us speak how we want to lol Anyway, if I am perceived as thick because of my accent, then I can strive to prove I am not by making sure what does come out my mouth is not rubbish. Getting off my soapbox now. Thank you for taking time to listen to the chair of the Brummie council lol

amazonian chick

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Uniforms Posted: 4/3/2008 9:03:18 AM
Police in their summer issue uniform....Pwhoar. West Mids police especially lol Stab proof vest, short white sleeve shirt and combat black trousers. The police officer as to be tall and fit....The trousers need to fit the bum nice!! I better calm down, or might go into labour early!lol EDIT: I used to be engaged to a soldier. I find the summer issue camoflauge sexier than the mess dress. I must like short sleeves lol....It just reminds me more of 'action'!

amazonian chick

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THIS SITE WORKS!! Found my boyfriend in less than two weeks!! Posted: 2/27/2008 5:18:31 AM
This is exactly why I waited a year to do a testimonial. I knew we would get the negative comments. Even though we felt a connection from day one of meeting. I can see why people are sceptical. I have dated a few people before from sites who turned out to be not what they seemed. So, in that way, it is best to wait until after the honeymoon period. However, life means some work and some don't. So, there is no shame in being in love then finding it did not work out. I waited a year to say it, and still may be kicked to the curb next year lol And yes, we still have our profiles. Both are very honest of our situation. We made friends with others on here and see no reason to delete. This can be used for social networking. Not just dating Good luck with your new found love :) xxx

amazonian chick

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MIKE & MELISSA HOWE Posted: 2/27/2008 5:07:33 AM
True love will overcome any obstacles....Congratulations on new edition and good luck :) x

amazonian chick

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Finally Found An Amazing Man!! Posted: 2/27/2008 5:03:19 AM
Just a simple...good luck :) xxx

amazonian chick

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Up-date to a POF Romance - POF Baby! Posted: 2/27/2008 5:01:42 AM
In September a posted a thank you to POF. I waited until myself and Ian549 had been together a year. <a href="http://forums.plentyoffish.com/datingPosts8278685.aspx">http://forums.plentyoffish.com/datingPosts8278685.aspx</a>#8278685 The update is I am now 21 weeks pregnant. Our baby is due 9th July. Conceived on a naughty weekend in Amsterdam (sorry if TMI lol) We are still very much in love. It is amazing to meet a soulmate where technology is involved. POF does a great job. Once again, good luck to all those who are searching. Sophs and Ian xxx

amazonian chick

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Congrats Sophie and Ian Posted: 9/24/2007 5:50:23 AM
Thank you Guys. We waited a year to post to make sure it was right. I see some that have been a week, and figured of course everything is gravy at that point lol I wish everyone on here the same luck that I have had. I have said to Ian, before I met him, I had a Mary Poppins style list in my head of what was important to me....Ian has helped me tick every box (please don't be sick people lol) Love Sophs x

amazonian chick

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been here a year with no luck Posted: 9/21/2007 3:18:16 PM
POF certainly isn't a novelty site. I met my soulmate on here a year ago. It is like going out to the pub...luck of the draw. I wouldn't boycott a pub just because I had never pulled in it. POF has meant I have met my guy and made friends. I cannot ask for better than that. esepcially from a website that asks for nothing in return.

amazonian chick

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Thanks POF Posted: 9/21/2007 3:12:58 PM
Congratulations! I wish you both so much luck for the future :)

amazonian chick

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A year later....Thank you POF! Posted: 9/21/2007 2:58:55 PM
Hi All My partner - ian549 - and myself decided that we would wait a year before posting a testimonial. So here it is: We started talking 5th September 2006. His profile first said under 5ft tall. I messaged him to see if it was true lol After some mad emails, I had another look and saw he is 6ft2...The same height as me... He added me to MSN...We had nice light conversation, and he invitied me out for a drink. We met on on 26th Septmeber and the rest is history! In a year Ian has become more to me than I could ever have dreamed of. He makes me melt the same as he did a year ago. He is great with my son and I have grown close to his little girl. We spend nearly every night in eachothers homes....Today we have decided we are going to move in together... It has been an amazing year. I feel so lucky to have met my soul mate. He is gorgeous, caring, thoughtful and mine. Thank you POF...This is a great site. It is amazing that it is free with so many increasingly great features. Good luck to all on the journey of trying to find your soul mate. And congrats and good luck to those who already have :) Love Sophie and Ian xxx

amazonian chick

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thanks yall Posted: 3/26/2007 1:38:48 PM
a MASSIVE congratulations and good luck!!

amazonian churl!

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Valentine's Birmingham Meet Night 17th February 2007 - Pictures & Comments Thread Posted: 2/18/2007 10:06:16 AM
Hi all Myself, my bf (ian549), realwoman 1963 and our mate mick goode had a fantastic time!! It was the best by far of the three meets I have been to!! Well done to the organisers!! Music was great. Atmosphere was even better! Thanks to the LADIES I made friends with you know who you are lol And thanks to Josh from Mansfield and his mate for making us laugh so much!! (And giving me the new name 'Doris' lol) See you all at the next meet!!

amazonian chick

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He could be someone you've known for years. Posted: 2/8/2007 1:06:29 PM
and goodluck to everyone else!

amazonian chick

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He could be someone you've known for years. Posted: 2/8/2007 1:06:02 PM
hmmm i am happy for you to have met the man ofyour dreams and it not being online. But there are REAL men on here, as I have found mine I wish youall the luck x

amazonian chick

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Age gap... Posted: 11/24/2006 12:39:19 AM
I guess the general consensus so far is its all good. I will hve to work on that one then!!lol x

amazonian chick

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Men don't like TALL women Posted: 11/23/2006 5:05:42 PM
I do not think it reflects badly on tall women like myself when we want a tall man. I already feel not as feminine as shorter women. so dating a horter man would just add to that feeling. I dance with short guys when I am out and am never nasty when I am approached in bars. In just don't date guys who are a lot shorter. I do not feel that this makes me bad...as I wont just date a tall guy BECAUSE he is tall. There has to be attraction and personality also... Just like for anyone else x

amazonian chick

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Age gap... Posted: 11/23/2006 4:56:05 PM
Well I do not want my mom and me to fall out. But she ended her ltr last week and met this 24 year old on sat night and now they are dating. I am worried she will get hurt. Plus she has had her kids and been married. He has yet to do all that. I am failing to see why it had to be more than a drunken kiss on a saturday night. I am 25 on sat. My bf is 30. It seems wrong to me that my moms bf will be 6 years younger than mine!!!lol I just can't see any good coming of it...but equally dont want her being upset by me being negative. So, I am going to try and stay out of it totally. She is 43 and I have to leave her to live her own life. Though it burns my soul to do so lol (and no people...I am not spoilt and no, I am not jealous before it's suggested lol....I am very happy with my bf and am not attracted to my moms toy boy in the least!!)

amazon1981

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Age gap... Posted: 11/23/2006 4:32:59 PM
Thanks for your reply. I am bothered by it and I cannot lie. But like I said, thanks :)

amazon1981

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Men don't like TALL women Posted: 11/23/2006 4:12:30 PM
wow, can't believe this thread is still going!! I am not discriminating against short men when I specify over 6ft. Just dount wanna feel like a freak on dates lol. My bf is 6ft2 like me and I am very happy with that!!

amazon1981

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Age gap... Posted: 11/23/2006 4:03:49 PM
I am talkin hypothetically of course lol but what would people think if their parent was dating someone younger then them? like the parent is in the forties and the partner is in their twenties (younger than you, as the child) and I am not talking about love and who we should be allowed to love. I am asking how you would feel if your parent knowlingly started dating someone younger than you and the age gap is 20 years....would people find this acceptable? Ok...you probably guessed it's not hypthetical lol. Just wanna know if I am being unfair in feeling it's not right.

amazon1981

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Friends? Posted: 10/21/2006 7:26:06 AM
I have had the experience of a guy i am chatting to being pissed off because I have gone on a date with another... however, I agree with others. It all sounds confusing....if the guy the night before is just a friend, then there is no probs going on a date with another....but as you dont state friends in your profile, do any of them know they are only your friends and not potential partners?

amazon1981

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Ok What do you thi nk Girls Posted: 10/21/2006 7:19:57 AM
LMAO!!! Above post was mine!! I looged into the main site but my bf was logged into the forums....so I have posted in his name without knowing!!! Damn lol It was me who was engaged to the soldier, not him lol

goodladyz

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Dating Someone On Welfare Posted: 9/20/2006 1:15:24 AM
I am in the uk. I am a single mom...here e get orking tax credits and child tax credits to top up a low income if you are a single parent.We also get varying amounts of housing/council tax benefits (dependant upon income AND what the government gives through tax credits). my son is 4 and goes to school. I work 30 hours a week and study.....so am I a 'welfare mom' who should be avoided? Assistance from the government doesnt make anyone bad, it helps us be able to ork and provide for offspring.

goodladyz

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OH SURE...it's easy to say CALL HIM...but what I want to know is, should I? Posted: 9/20/2006 1:05:29 AM
maybe at the time you pull aay you should give a small explanation, or make a joke of it before the date, then you never kiss strangers...just something that ould have ensured you didnt just make him feel rejected....a kiss is hat you make it....it can be more intimate than sex, but that depends hat you put into it. No one has to 'snog' or 'suck face' straight off....we can decide how intimate or deep the kiss is, hile still reamaining seeminlgy receptive x

goodladyz

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Un question sil vous plais... Posted: 9/20/2006 12:12:34 AM
I hate ho people ho have never mailed you will IM. I switch my function off...if it is ever on, its for faves only xxx

goodladyz

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What's the Double Base? Posted: 9/20/2006 12:08:56 AM
[I call it the triple threat LMAO, another good one to try is her laying on her back, you 90 degrees on your side, one of her legs over your chest then inter-lock your top leg with hers for good leverage, now you have one free hand to help stimulate the area, trust me guys/ gals this one works very, very good for the girl ;)] is this scissors?

goodladyz

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What does rebound mean to you? Posted: 9/18/2006 5:01:02 PM
very good point ^^^^

goodladyz

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What does rebound mean to you? Posted: 9/18/2006 4:59:57 PM
very good point ^^^^

goodladyz

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What does rebound mean to you? Posted: 9/18/2006 2:11:56 PM
Well.....I don't know if it's fair to say thats a sweeping generalisation....but I will anyway. For the most part I do not think that rebounds tend to be conciously about sex. I feel like others have said, people want to fill a void. To the credit of most people the void is not USUALLY sex....it's usually an emotional void. And is for women with issues....thats a whole different topic....just like men with issues....needs a thread of it's own (and no doubt there are many on here already!!)

goodladyz

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What does rebound mean to you? Posted: 9/17/2006 11:02:39 PM
I guess it always depends what people are looking for: If you don't mind the fact that once the dust has settled, they may decide you are more part of the painful past than a hopeful future, then crack on... If however, you are putting ll your trust in the being 'the one' maybe think twice about asking a heartbroken person out. They are often vulnerable. And then in respone the a previous poster: I do think that how you felt before the breakup males a huge difference. My ex and I were so up and down and having little splits so often (and some long ones) that I think I had gotten over it before I ended it....yes, I miss him as a friend, but it's a relief to be out of it. I carry some issues after the way he treated me.... but I do from a long ao relation....and yes I have had two rounds of counsellling, so I do know how to not let them impact on my life too much. I know some may think I am blocking out the pain...I have thought about it myself, no end...however, I just feel.....ok....and it's nice lol

goodladyz

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should i act right away Posted: 9/17/2006 3:02:22 PM
Get it sorted before you regret it!! Your child id too young to protect himself x

goodladyz

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What does rebound mean to you? Posted: 9/17/2006 1:33:56 PM
very good answer Frank. I think you are right. There have been some great answers. It has helped me a lot to see that there are many types of rebounding and not just one type. I assumed that people would all have the same idea of what it is, but there have been a few variations. Thank you

goodladyz

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What does rebound mean to you? Posted: 9/16/2006 2:16:50 PM
Thats a good point. What it feels like to be the one someone 'uses' to rebound. I dated a guy and we got on really well....then it seemed to remind him of his lost love and that was that lol

goodladyz

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What does rebound mean to you? Posted: 9/15/2006 1:43:39 PM
I guess it can depend how many vines you retracted BEFORE the relationship? As not all relationships end in upset or pain. I think there are times when it is most defo over before it is officially over x

goodladyz

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Good enough to F*ck, but not good enough to date.... Posted: 9/15/2006 12:31:57 AM
i guess the problem with the provocative pic issue, is it depends who is looking at them. I have had men tell me they are hard after looking at a pic of my head and shoulders!!!lol Some people are turned on by people. I do agree that blatantly exposing pics give out a certain message. Then people will say 'I want people to see beyond my tits!!' and then I think, really? you could have fooledme for sure!! I think having nicer pics ive you a better chance of having nicer responses of nicer people. However, in the world of the internet, this is in no way set in stone lol

goodladyz

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What does rebound mean to you? Posted: 9/14/2006 12:41:24 PM
Hey Jabarian...read your thread about getting over an ex before...it is sooo amazing!! I split with my ex. It was a long hard decision, but I was the one who decided to walk away. I felt upset that I may be hurting him (though in the end he did not seem that upset) and for myself, I am ok....and it feels strange lol....I my love must have been dying, while I was convincing myself it was still there x

goodladyz

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Good enough to F*ck, but not good enough to date.... Posted: 9/14/2006 11:03:06 AM
{Well i think a women should be up front with the men like : is this going to be a one night stand or what? That way you know where he is and he doesnt want a relationship at least you will know off the bat. good luck.} And how many people would straight out answer yes to that? after not saying in their profile, or msn or on the phone? I think, if a lot of women are like me, that question is often asked. I do not care if it offends or puts someone off (good riddance to bad rubbish I say!!)....but whether the truthful answer is given, is another matter all together!! If we don't give it up too easily (like first date) then I guess we have more room to assess and don't have to rely on the possiblilty of an untrue answer to a fair question x

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