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loveleeday

Joined: 7/9/2005

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What is your favorite movie quote? Posted: 9/24/2005 9:01:27 PM
"I'm designed to feel slightly dissatisfied." "Memories are wonderful things, if you don't have to deal with the past." "You can never replace anyone because everyone is made up of such beautiful specific details." All from Before Sunset.

loveleeday

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Things I've learned while I was drunk.... Posted: 9/13/2005 6:03:58 PM
I've learned . . . to never wear shoes with little buckles on the straps. You need coordination to get them off without busting them. the phrase, "Oh, sure. One more then I definitely have to go home," doesn't get you home at a decent time--EVER. that when you're too broke to afford the cabfare home, you should never yell, "Who wants to share a cab with us?" because ten guys will try to squeeze into the cab with you and your girlfriend. that you can escape out the other door in the cab and make a run for another one before even one of the drunk guys from the first cab can catch up. that if you tell the cab driver, "Take me as far as five bucks will go" you can get a free ride (that should have cost twenty) all the way home. that you might have to take the driver's phone number to be polite. that you can't use that cab company ever again in case you get the driver you never called.

loveleeday

Joined: 7/9/2005

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If you saw someone in public Posted: 8/30/2005 10:29:11 AM
I thought I recognized one guy from here on the train one day, and he was looking at me like he recognized me too. But we were on the train--packed in like good little sardines and neither of us said anything! In general when I recognize someone, not necessarily a dating site, I say hi. I need a better line though than, "Don't I know you from somewhere?" That may be what I'm thinking at that moment, but it comes across as a pickup line until the other person recognizes me too. Until we hit mutual recognition, it's awkward!

loveleeday

Joined: 7/9/2005

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Heroes Posted: 8/30/2005 10:12:42 AM
My Grandpa. He was the most amazing man I ever knew. He walked tall and proud, with such determination--even when it was just to go work in the yard! He never did anything half-way. He was never wishy-washy about anything either. You always knew that if he had your back, you were in good hands. He was strong and sure of himself, always. There was such a strength about him, that everyone who knew him admired him. He was a "man's man" as the saying goes. Yet he wasn't afraid to show affection. He kissed and hugged his children and grandchildren with no qualms, and his friends had the handshake, a hearty pat on the back, and a genuine smile that went right to his eyes. And with his wife--they had the most beautiful relationship. It wasn't always perfect, like when Grandma was angry with him, she'd say "Joe, you make me so cross!" and he'd narrow his eyes and say, "Well, my eyes are wee!" She'd laugh and be over her anger in a flash. He hugged and kissed her every day. It wasn't unusual to walk in the living room and see them standing there in the middle of the room, swaying to some unheard music, and you could SEE the love in their eyes. It was so, so beautiful. It's because of them that I believe true soulmates are a rarity. I've never seen a love like theirs in any other couple--ever. They had something incredible. He was good and kind, and loyal. When he told a touching story, he cried as much as his listeners did. When he told jokes, he'd be laughing so hard, sometimes he could hardly get the words out and he always had plenty of stories to tell us about just . . . everything. I have NEVER met a man like him before or since and when he died, I was devastated. Just knowing him made me want to be a better person. I was amazed when hundreds of people, young and old, gathered for his funeral and he was given a soldier's farewell. It was amazing, but not surprising that so many were there. I wish I was more like him. Maybe too, that's why I've never found my "true love." Maybe because nobody can live up to the ideal of my hero. He died ten years ago, but I still miss him SO much.

loveleeday

Joined: 7/9/2005

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Your favorite Sitcom Posted: 8/30/2005 9:47:38 AM
Oh, Hogan's Heroes! I forgot about that one, but I used to watch that all the time when I was a kid. I never missed that, "MASH" or "Love American Style." I loved "The Brady Bunch," "The Partridge Family," and "Barney Miller" too. If I ever happen upon them on a blah Saturday afternoon, I watch them even now. The humor is so different now than it was then. Now though, my favorites, even if most of them are in syndication now: Friends Seinfeld Everybody Loves Raymond Two and a Half Men My ALL-TIME favorite is, was, and will always be Mary Tyler Moore!

loveleeday

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Your next date... Posted: 8/30/2005 9:37:20 AM
My next date . . . is in the far distant future. I've had fun dating, but the men I've dated so far want it to lead somewhere immediately--and I'm just not ready for that. Thought I was ready when I signed on here--turns out I was wrong.

loveleeday

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What is the biggest misconception about you Posted: 8/30/2005 4:15:06 AM
There are a few: - I'm shy with strangers but open with close friends so some people mistake that for snobbery - I'm giving and others mistake that for me being a pushover - I'm attractive and have a nice body so my life must be perfect - I don't bare all my problems to the world so I must not know pain and suffering

loveleeday

Joined: 7/9/2005

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I need to rant for a moment.... Posted: 8/29/2005 1:06:57 PM
Adding to the rant: I know people want to meet asap, but I'm getting more and more squeamish about that. A first meeting is NOT the ideal time to invite me to meet your parents, your kids, discuss what kind of wedding I want (I don't want), or invite me to go on vacations--without my child (so far there's been Puerto Rico, Mexico, Hawaii, Vancouver Island, Toronto, and Paris). I don't KNOW you so WHY would I book any of my few precious days off to go god-knows-where with you? By the end of these dates, these guys don't know much about me but I know a shitload about them. I'm not a trophy and yes, I do get bored listening to guys talk ad nauseum about themselves--note to you guys who do that, and no, you DON'T all do it--I'm a human being too. Please don't plan a future for us without consulting me! My intention, in my next and hopefully last (and lasting!) relationship is that we're in it together. I don't want to be along for the ride in someone else's life, thanks. long sigh I'm glad you started this thread. I needed to get that off my chest. Thanks for the opportunity!

loveleeday

Joined: 7/9/2005

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Unbalanced people Posted: 8/29/2005 12:49:36 PM
Tsk, tsk . . . I give up a person can't expalin himself on this thing. Maybe don't take things so personally there, Ken? My comments were in response to the originator of this thread, not you--but hey--if you really feel like being offended and misunderstood, feel free! Just have fun while you're doing it.

loveleeday

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Unbalanced people Posted: 8/29/2005 5:59:09 AM
I think people are disappointed in what they "attract" online when they come to it with preconceived notions. Everyone's looking for their brand of "normal" but it's so subjective! I didn't meet him online, but if I'd stuck to my idea of what I found "normal" when I met my son's dad--my son wouldn't be here now. Besides if it's true that you're "fresh meat" around here, you're going to get all KINDS of people dropping messages in your inbox. You'll ferret out the ones that are just not right for you and find ones that are. The ones I see getting burnt out online most are the ones who set their expectations at unrealistic levels, or who have a "this is my last hope" mentality. For people who think this is their last hope--it probably is and that's just sad. So I say, stay open and have a little laugh now and then at the crazies that contact you (before you block them), feel a little sad for the desperate ones, but stay open that you might meet someone "normal." Whatever you do, have fun here and take a little pressure off yourself. PS: I've yet to meet a truly balanaced person. Anyone who claims to be just hasn't embraced their inner neurotic yet.

loveleeday

Joined: 7/9/2005

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Calling all cooks Posted: 8/29/2005 5:42:50 AM
My Chicken Parmegian is pretty tasty if I do say so myself That's what I make, too! But only when I'm not sure what he might like and he hasn't given me clues. But my absolute favorite to make . . . I can make a pretty mean roast too. Me too! The secret is in the basting and what you put in the baste. I make yorkshires and the BEST gravy ever (don't mean to brag but it's true ) to go with it. But I only do roast when he's let me know ahead of time he's a meat and potatoes guy.

loveleeday

Joined: 7/9/2005

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A personal realization.... Posted: 8/29/2005 5:35:53 AM
I think sometimes it is a problem for the formerly shy. I used to be REALLY shy--up until my early to mid twenties. Now I'm only a little shy. But I found myself doing that too. I think it's an unconscious thing but happens because after years of being quiet little listeners, we discover that not only do we have a voice, others seem to want to hear what we have to say! Heady feeling. It ends when we hit the very realization you just came to. So personally, I don't think you need our advice because your awareness is your own cure. Bravo! If you've been like this all your life though . . . hmmm. Then, do what they said!

loveleeday

Joined: 7/9/2005

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Swearing... Posted: 8/28/2005 5:37:17 AM
It has become a normal part of conversation now. I don't swear at work, or out in public (unless it's a bar or some such and I'm talking to a friend) and I keep it to a minimum around my son, but it's everywhere. My son swears more than I do--or tries to. It only takes me saying "Language, buddy," and he cleans it up until the next time he forgets himself. But that's how he and his friends talk to each other! Even on "Big Brother 6" the other night, one of the girls said, "Hand over the key, b**," and they didn't bleep it out. They bleeped out f, but that was about it. Oh, wait. They bleeped out "hole" in hole as well. You can say ass, but not *hole on television. Isn't it ironic how we say we don't think it's right, but most of us are party to it--and when most members of a society are a part of it, that's a good sign that it is considered "acceptable" whatever moral stance we take on it. We assuage ourselves (me included!) for our hypocrisy by saying, "But not at work, and not in front of the kids," yet we aren't angels the rest of the time. We're part of the "norm."

loveleeday

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Public Affection? What is your take on it? Posted: 8/24/2005 4:58:14 PM
Just had to add: to me public displays of affection are just that--displays of affection, not passionate public makeouts, at any point in the relationship (new or otherwise)! I apologize to anyone who may be reading this who erroneously assumed I do all but the deed in public. That's never acceptable in my opinion. I'm an editor and take words rather literally, like the word, "Affection": 1.A tender feeling toward another; fondness. See Synonyms at love.

loveleeday

Joined: 7/9/2005

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Public Affection? What is your take on it? Posted: 8/24/2005 12:15:39 PM
Key phrase is "significant other!" When I'm in love, oh yeah--I'm a very affection person and I'm not at all afraid to show it. But if we're just dating (and especially on a first date), a lot of touching makes me uncomfortable. In new love though, and well into the 'comfortable-with-each-other' stage when the blush has worn off, I still love the physical contact even if it's less fiery than in the beginning.

loveleeday

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Surfing the POF Wave. Posted: 8/24/2005 12:09:27 PM
I mostly check out the threads and that's what I happen to like best about this site! The forums. I've met a few people from here and, so far, it's been primarily positive. As for "the one" . . . I don't really think there is a "one" per se (that gets me thinking about my views of soulmates--way too deep for this post). But yeah, it's possible to meet someone to share a life with here--it can happen anywhere. Just have to stay open to the potential, wherever you happen to find yourself.

loveleeday

Joined: 7/9/2005

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Kudos to Mike Posted: 8/24/2005 11:58:58 AM
Hell yeah. Go Mike! You guys did a great job.

loveleeday

Joined: 7/9/2005

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POF nite at YUK YUK's Posted: 8/24/2005 1:33:25 AM
I LOVE Yuk Yuk's! I'll go.

loveleeday

Joined: 7/9/2005

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How Anomalous Are YOU?? Posted: 8/24/2005 1:10:10 AM
Interesting answers people! I love how creative people are here. Thanks DaisyGurl for indulging my questionnaire addiction! 1) What name do you go by? Several variations of my name! 2) How old are you? 40. I used to wonder when a woman should start lying about her age, but I couldn't figure it out so I stick with my real age. Besides who has time to figure out a whole new birth year, graduation year, school years . . . "**** that shit" as the saying goes. I have better things to think about. 3) Are you married, single, divorced, seperated, widowed, etc.? Married once, and divorced. Engaged more times than I care to admit. I thought I married the 7th and called it lucky number seven, but I missed a few and that marriage turned out not to be so lucky as I thought--I'm here, aren't I? 4) Tell me about your family? My family: I'm the middle one of three girls and the only family member who isn't neurotic. 5) Tell me something not everyone knows about you? If I tell then everyone will know! No, I'll tell something. I'm a total girly-girl in that I love shoes, and pink, and makeup, and pretty things--but I was a tomboy when I was little (except for sports!). I loved my matchbox cars. I was jumping out of trees and second story windows (my cat did it so I tried), loved the thrill of heights and was climbing anything that looked remotely "climbable," and I loved my matchbox cars. I did my part to keep Bandaid in business yet never broke a bone! 6) What is your fondest memory? The moment I got to meet my son. As soon as he was born, I said his name and said, "Welcome to the world!" 7) Craziest thing you ever did? When I was 18, there was one night I was out drinking with my friends and we decided when the bar closed to drive out to this all-night restaurant for something to eat. It was out on the highway, and four of us were squashed into the cab of the truck. Someone dared me to ride on the roof, so while the driver was doing 120 some down the highway, I climbed out the window, up onto the roof, and rode that way all the way there. If I had it to do over, I would NOT do it! That wasn't just stupid, that was assinine! 8) What is the one thing you regret? That I never pursued some goals I set for myself. 9) How smart are you? IQ? 153--ten years ago! But I firmly believe that number is meaningless. It comes in handy for work, but I set it aside in my personal life. Besides, use it or lose it--and I'd rather be happy than pedantic! I'm sure that number has come down! lol! 10) Your proudest moment? Every time my son progresses through this whole growth process. It's an absolutely amazing thing to see this person you gave birth to, growing into a man with all these wonderful qualities. He's smart, funny, creative, beautiful, and it just . . . makes me cry sometimes. 11) What is your most attainable goal? To truly make peace with myself and take me as I am. 12) What dream do you think you will never accomplish? To win an Oscar. 13) Funny "haha" or Funny "like the clown"? Funny ha ha, especially when I have to hold my sides. Clowns are scary, freaky buggers! 14) Bath or Shower? Shower to get the day going, bath for relaxation. 15) What's your talent(s)? Writing, editing, cartomancy, knitting, cross stitch, cooking, dancing, researching--believe it or not, I love that last one just a little freakishly too much. 16) Spit or Swallow? (Take this any way you like...) Gum: spit; Toothpaste: spit; Coffee: swallow; Other: not telling. 17) What's your favorite article of clothing? Toss up between this little white breezy blouse that shows my stomach just right, or my black and white mini-dress. 18) If you were an animal, what would you be? Jaguar. Can't have one (the car), may as well be one (the animal). 19) If you could vote anyone to become the next President of the United States, who would that be? If I could vote for the President, I'd be American. But I like being Canadian so I'll just wait and see what the UN thinks and go with that. lol 20) What's your favorite position? Work: the one I have! Sexually: too many to choose from to have one favorite. 21) If you had to lie would you? A. yes B. not unless the truth hurt someone C. no D. sh*it I lie all the time!! If I HAD to, yes--but generally, what's the point of lying? I don't see the value in it.

loveleeday

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calgary-new event for november Posted: 8/23/2005 6:03:17 PM
I'd go, I think. It looks though like you're really leaning more to the 11th rather than the 19th--I'm okay with it on a personal level, but on a patriotic level (yes, there are some in Canada! ), I'd feel kind of bad. On the other hand the Legions are full of patriots drinking, dancing and listening to music . . . so . . . point of my post . . . Count me in.

loveleeday

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20 more Posted: 8/22/2005 5:23:49 PM
LOL! Great answers Free Bass! 3 and 14--laughed out loud and your questions are mostly really funny. And number six? Oh, buddy! Ewwwwwww! Twisted sense of humor is always a good thing though. 1) Yer last wedgie...did ya give or recieve? Maybe some other lifetime--not in this one. 2) Faverite term fer someone whose name ya fergot? Whatshisface/Whatsherface (probably cause I can see the face in my mind!) 3) What's the ugliest part of yer body? Feet. I don't find feet particularly attractive but they look better with painted toes and great shoes! 4) If at 1st you don't succeed, __________________. (fill in the blank) Hide the evidence that you even tried. 5) Noose or chair? Chair - mmm. The warmth! 6) Favorite food ya like that makes other ppl go "EEEEWWWW!!!"? Oysters or escargot 7) Biggest phobia? I call it "Ladybug" syndrom (from the little verse). I worry that my home is on fire when I'm not there. 8) I wish I was a __________. little younger, a little richer and a little more courageous. 9) Favorite ting to do nekkid (other than nookie)? Long hot bubble baths! Addicted to them. 10) I suck at _________, & have no plans to get better. Sports! 11) I ____________ too much. analyse the hell out of everything 12) Last lie ya told? (other than on this form ;-) I nodded and pretended to understand someone on Saturday when I didn't because the music was really loud right then--but I felt bad about lying, so I told him (you Free Bass!) "I'm sorry, I didn't hear you," but you didn't repeat it! 13) Ever call off/ din't start a relationship, then regret it? Yes. 14) Ever commit a crime other than a driving offense? Yes, around 20 years ago, I found a policeman's shirt in the dryer in the laundry room. He must have left it there accidentally. I knew where he lived and could have returned it to him but I kept it, and then my boyfriend at the time stole it from me when we broke up. 15) Ever been attracted to a member of yr own sex? No, but you'd think so--women are beautiful and I notice! lol 16) Most offensive thing you've said to a person? (on purpose or accidentally) See another forum about worst things said about an ex after a breakup. 17) Worst self-inflicted pain you've ever had? I was the hurdling champion of our school, and was even bumped up to mens' hurdles cause the girls' were too easy for me. So, I was showing off to my sister and cousin and went to hurdle this very LOW chain across the dock. I clipped it and fell flat on my stomach and knocked the wind out of myself. I couldn't breathe but they were weak with laughing and couldn't help me up. 18) Best practical joke? Not since highschool so they don't count--and they were funny, but not great. 19) Someone stops & asks you fer directions to "Place X", which is right across the street. Do you a) Point & laugh. b) Send them on a wild goose chase c) Say "Sorry, I don't know" d) Say "It'll cost ya a dollar" <-- but then I tell them anyway! 20) I'm filling this out because a) I'm bored b) I really want ppl to know the real me c) When in doubt, pick "c" d) I'm a questionnaire addict <--!!!!!!

loveleeday

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Makes you think........ Posted: 8/22/2005 1:37:33 PM
Walt Disney. I'm not a Mickey Mouse fan and I've never been to Disneyland, but it blows my mind that he declared bankruptcy seven times and still managed to create such a large, and evergrowing conglomerate as little Mickey turned out to be. I would want to know all the details firsthand about how he made such an astounding turn around!

loveleeday

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How did you learn to cook? Posted: 8/22/2005 12:33:12 PM
My Gramma made everything from scratch. She and Granpa had a huge orchard out back and two big gardens. She was always cooking! I learned to can fruits and vegetables, and we always had homemade jams and jellies on homemade bread. Jams and jellies made with plums, blackberries, strawberries, cherries, and she made the best applebutter EVER. Loved it. When I was little, my sister and I would beg her to let us help bake bread. She never once complained, and would always give us a little dough to roll out and little tart tins to make our own little "loaves" in. We hummed as we worked because she did and it was always so cozy and fun. It wasn't until YEARS later that she admitted she never much enjoyed our "help" since we always made such a mess, but she could never hold us back from wanting to share in it, and learn (she was a schoolteacher before she got married, so was always open to us learning pretty much everything). Food was such a big part of our world there. Right after breakfast, we'd start the baking, get lunch started, and mid-afternoon, start preparing dinner. It wasn't so intense at home, but I was always poring over cookbooks, asking if I could make this or that--and Sunday dinners were a family affair. Everybody had a job to do in the kitchen. People tell me I make the best beef gravy--but I'll never tell the secret ingredient--unless we are (or become!) really good friends, then I might . . . My world now is so different (love my microwave), but I still love to bake when I get the chance, and when I do big meals, I go all out with sauces, and side dishes and homemade yorkshires or biscuits and buns. It would be nice to indulge in cooking more than I do, but I just never have time. My son's missing out, but I try to teach him what I can when I can.

loveleeday

Joined: 7/9/2005

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Kings Head ...... wow what a party! Posted: 8/22/2005 8:41:22 AM
I had a GREAT time! I was hoping my best friend could come with me (she's on the site too), but she wasn't able to make it. Still though, I really wanted to be there, so I walked in by myself, not sure what to expect. I just hoped I'd have a good time. It felt so weird to walk in by myself though! That made me a little uncomfortable and a little unsure of myself--where to go, what to do. But I did what I always do when I feel nervous! Suck it up and keep it to myself! Nobody knows what you're feeling until you show them and I didn't want a bar full of strangers knowing I was ready to run like a scared rabbit! Fake it til you make it, as the saying goes. I recognized Lonny, and asked him if that little library area was the POF thing. I got my stamp and all that fun stuff, and then thought, "Now what do I do?" So, at first, I was in the corner by myself. I had introduced myself to a total stranger I didn't even know from forums or email or anything and asked if I could sit there. He was nice, but seemed a little pissed off. Turns out his friends didn't show up so he left and I was sitting there alone, not sure what I should do. I called my girlfriend and said, "It's okay. But I'm feeling a little out of my element, so I'm going to finish my drink and probably just go home." But then, EVERYTHING changed the moment I got off the phone! Someone I'd spoken to in email a few times came over and I suddenly felt at ease. On my next trip up to the bar, I introduced myself to someone I hardly knew but that I'd just exchanged emails with the day before, and that was awesome--"Gotta love Jack Green!" He turned out to be a lot of fun! THEN I saw someone else I recognized across a crowded room and had a blast with him ("winkin atcha!"). In no time, I found myself really relaxed and having a truly great time, and meeting even more people--some I took the initiative to meet, others approached me. It was all good! I would do this again in a heartbeat, and I know that next time, I won't be walking in with any nervousness AT ALL. Wow, what a party is right! Thanks to everyone who made it a memorable experience. You guys completely rock!

loveleeday

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Of the people you have met........ Posted: 8/22/2005 7:09:45 AM
I found that I recognized a lot of people but they were even better looking in person. Yet there were some I didn't recognize at all, and I was sitting there at the Meet and Greet thinking, "I hope I'm not coming across as rude to someone I should know!" After being there, though, and then coming back to the forums, it's easier to recognize the pictures now of the ones I didn't recognize at the event--hope that made sense! It was also a nice surprise to discover that there are so many good looking people here. OMG! Even if some of the guys aren't my "type" per se or I wasn't theirs (you know when you click, etc.), it was an awesome treat to have all that eye-candy there for me to casually gawk at. And I know the women gave the men there just as much of a visual treat!

loveleeday

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The Day After Questionaire (Calgary POF Aug 20 Party) Posted: 8/21/2005 11:16:02 AM
I would have saved you had I known....LOL... LOL! That's okay. You rescued me once before that from that very same guy--whew! And that personal moshpit we had goin' was awesome! LMAO. Now THAT was fun! I'd do that again for sure.

loveleeday

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The Day After Questionaire (Calgary POF Aug 20 Party) Posted: 8/21/2005 7:48:42 AM
I'm guessing that as I write this, a lot of you are still sleeping--and might be . . . all day! lol 1) Who WAS the wildest and craziest girl/guy? DaisyGurl and her friend 2) What did they do that was so wild?? Where to begin! lol. I wouldn't say wild so much as fearless. By the way, you looked great on stage, ladies! 3) Would you do this again? Yep. 4) Did anyone hook up? I don't know. I was having fun and not watching if other people were "hooking up" or not. But . . . probably. Things were cozier between some, I noticed! 5) Anyone get a kiss? Yes, I saw it with my own eyes. Wow! 6) Anyone get some boooooty?? I have no idea. I know I didn't, and not because there weren't some very hot guys there that get your mind drifting that way! lol. I don't give it out to just anyone--and most of the men there were gentlemen. Only one wasn't very . . . nice, but I didn't spend much time with him anyway. Overall though, the guys there were really great. You know who you are! 7) Was there anyone who annoyed the sh*it out of you? Why? Yes, and I have ashy clothes to remind me today. I won't name names, and I have a feeling he's so hungover today he won't see the forums until tomorrow sometime and will be saying, "Shit. What did I do? What did I say?" Coherence wasn't his strong suit last night. lol! All the really great people there more than made up for it anyway. 8) Who wore the craziest outfit? Not so much crazy as fun--Jolie and Backater. 9) Was there anyone that suprised you, that you didn't expect to be as charming or hot?? Yes. Pictures don't tell the whole story! 10) Stories!!! : No wild stories for me. I had a really great time, and I'd defiinitely go to one of these things again. Loved the music, the atmosphere, the company--it was all good. The only downside to it was that I didn't get to talk to all the people I would have liked to, and I didn't get to tell Backater, thanks for always giving us those cool little "Who are you" questionnaires in these forums. Oh, and DaisyGurl, you never did tell me where you got your shoes! I LOVED your shoes. And thanks for this questionnaire--I like these things. lol

loveleeday

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is gentlemanly behavior and chivalry still important? Posted: 8/20/2005 1:31:59 PM
rarely is the gentleman found anymore, and rare is the lady who would frown upon it! All of you had great posts and this is the perfect summation. Oh, and poshrat's comment about walking on the outside on the sidewalk--I always notice that! When a man intentionally moves to the outside (and doesn't mention it) I'm immediately impressed--and flattered! :)

loveleeday

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what is it with canadian women? Posted: 8/20/2005 12:30:21 PM
so they pretend they can hear it...ok then lol! Not exactly. You just get an idea of a person when you visualize (audio-ize?) the whole package. Like some guys, you see their pic, read the way they "talk" in their emails through their tone and word choices, and when you talk on the phone, their voice completely suits them. Others, you hear their voice for the first time and it blows you away how different it sounds than you expected. Like this one guy--attractive, great emails and IMs, then we talk on the phone and I could have sworn I was talking to a sixteen-year-old boy! It just caught me right off guard! I couldn't believe the guy on the phone and the guy I'd been IMing with could be the same. Even the speech patterns were different, lots of "and like," "and you know," and "so like." I'm a sucker for a great voice. WHY do you think Barry White was considered the "bedroom singer"? Women love a sexy voice, and there's something sexy about accents. I can do without an accent, but it's a nice bonus. ETA: I wonder if my voice matches my online assessor's expectations? I hope it does!

loveleeday

Joined: 7/9/2005

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Strained phone conversations Posted: 8/20/2005 7:24:19 AM
I don't like the first phone call, but I don't clam-up either. I just treat the guy like I'd treat a friend and talk naturally. If he gets into the flow with me within the first minute or two, then I'm up for meeting. If it starts to get strained and I feel myself going into "overtalk" mode to fill his voids (and that makes me feel like I'm desperately trying to make something out of nothing or I'm neurotic), I end the call as soon as possible and most times, don't move on to the 'date stage' unless a second call has him sounding more relaxed.

loveleeday

Joined: 7/9/2005

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what is it with canadian women? Posted: 8/20/2005 7:16:58 AM
Yes, accent! Even when you can't hear it (i.e., say on a forum), just knowing there's a sexy accent that goes with the man is intriguing stuff.

loveleeday

Joined: 7/9/2005

Msg: 28 (view)

Name a song that sticks in your head when you hear it. Posted: 8/20/2005 7:06:40 AM
A variety of songs take up temporary residence in my head. I don't sleep with music on, and I don't wake up to music, but I always have a song in my head when I wake up. Some days it's something that seems to have no reason for being there like, "I'm not talkin' about movin' in and I don't want to change your life," (while I'm single and not even remotely interested in anyone) and other times, it's a song that I take as a "message" like "Apples, peaches, pumpkin pie . . ." and then my stomach will rumble and I know my head is saying "Go eat!"

loveleeday

Joined: 7/9/2005

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Memories..running into old friends Posted: 8/20/2005 7:00:20 AM
What a good feeling, hey? Good for you for getting the courage up to do that. And what a cool twist of fate that you ran into old friends. I'm not really into dating right now, and my best friend is busy with her new beau, so I have nobody to go places with. Well, I decided yesterday that after a summer spent mostly at home, alone, I'd go to Yuk Yuk's by myself tonight. Out of the blue though, I came on here after about a month away, and discovered there's a Meet and Greet for POF in my end of the city so I'm doing that instead. Interesting things happen when we get courageous and treat ourselves as "worth" our own attention! So what's next? Restaurants? Movies? I like going to movies alone--total chick flicks or comedies where there are no car explosions or shootouts. lol

loveleeday

Joined: 7/9/2005

Msg: 34 (view)

what chicks talk about when ur not there? Posted: 8/20/2005 6:48:38 AM
do girls have pillow fights in their underwear 2 like in the movies? Of course we do! It's just a given, so why mention the obvious? LMAO! As for what we talk about--EVERYTHING. If size of men's equipment happens to be on topic, then some of us mention it, some don't. When you're not around, we talk about: cooking, restaurants, sales, dancing, nail polish, work, parents, kids, him, clothes, shoes, money, religion, politics, neighbors, the price of gas, the cost of food, the cost of living, injustice, the news, hair, makeup, furniture, menstruation, comedians, pet peeves, birthdays, holidays, love, hate, depression, body image, books, music, the weekend, Monday, laundry, plants, appliances, firsts in life, childhood memories, touching moments--name it, we talk about it. You must have known that! We have so much to discuss at all times, we even have to talk when we pee.

loveleeday

Joined: 7/9/2005

Msg: 49 (view)

Need help I'm at my wits end Posted: 8/20/2005 12:59:16 AM
Wow, Trescius. I can honestly say, you're the most negative person I've ever run across here. I'm sorry that you're having such a tough time of things but can you see how your ability to find and point out the negative in EVERYTHING may be having an adverse effect for ya? Would you date you? If your date sat there, finding a "logical" reason why every positive thing you say can be made sour, would you stick around for a second cup of coffee or would you be making lame excuses about needing to wash your dog, just to get out of there? Even your picture says, "I know you're gonna reject me--let me make it easier for you. This is how I'll look during our date while I wait for you to cut and run. I won't pay attention to you--I'll be too busy figuring out how fast you'll ditch me." All that negative energy would just wear me out! If it was me on a date with you, you'd probably be sitting there wondering when I'm gonna bail on you, if I'm one more rotten woman who'll lead you on and leave you empty. I doubt you'd be all that interested in learning a thing about your date. It's all about you--not finding someone to SHARE life with--but what's in it for YOU. Buddy, that is just plain sad. I think you've got the right idea in leaving dating alone for a little while, and finding things that truly interest you. Geez, take up jigsaw puzzles or something. Maybe you'll become such a pro at it, you'll need tougher and tougher puzzles. You'll think puzzles so much, that your mind won't be on women and one day--wham. There'll she be--buying the same puzzle as you and you'll find your perfect fit. You just never know! Lose the negativity and you'll be half-way to something better than what you've had for the last eight years.

loveleeday

Joined: 7/9/2005

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Is it wrong to date ur sisters ex? Posted: 8/20/2005 12:30:03 AM
I think it depends on how you think you and your sister will handle it. My sister dated an ex of mine--and married him. Power to her. They've been together 22 years (married for 15 years). I can't imagine her (or him) with anyone else!

loveleeday

Joined: 7/9/2005

Msg: 50 (view)

your favorite Posted: 8/20/2005 12:15:21 AM
Book: The Poisonwood Bible by Barbara Kingsolver Movie: The Lost Skeleton of Cadavra Cracks me right up EVERY time! Band: Matchbox 20

loveleeday

Joined: 7/9/2005

Msg: 2 (view)

Last one!!!!!!! Posted: 8/20/2005 12:07:10 AM
LMAO!! I love these things. 1. Were you named after anyone? My middle name was my great-grandfather's middle name. Lowell. 2. Do you wish on stars? Just the falling ones. 3. When did you last cry? Yesterday. I had a wicked headache that woke me up in the middle of the night in freakin' pain! 4. Do you like your handwriting? Love it. Get compliments on it in fact. 5. What is your most embarrassing CD on your shelf? Captain and Tenille. Hey. It's sentimental! Muskrat, muskrat . . . lol 6. If you were another person, would YOU be friends with you? Probably. Most of the time. 7. Are you a daredevil? No--except when it comes to my heart and I can take pretty foolish risks. 8. Have you ever told a secret you swore not to tell? Once. The guilt was BAD though so never again. 9. How do you release anger? Rant. Rave. My bark is worse than my bite as the cliche goes. I slam stuff around sometimes too when I'm super-angry. 10. Where is your second home? My best friend's place. 11. Do you trust others easily? NO! 12. What was your favorite toy as a child? A doll named Linda. She "died" when I was two. 13. What class in school do you think is totally useless? None of them are totally useless, really, but I hated shop. I couldn't do woodwork crap to save my life--or my grades. Easy credits my ass! 14. Do you use sarcasm a lot? I prefer to call it being clever. But, yes. I love sarcasm! 15. What do you look for in a guy/girl? In a guy--that we feel a mutual connection on various levels: intellect, humor, physically, etc. In a girl--that she isn't connecting with the same guy I am! 16. Would you bungee jump? For a great deal of money--maybe. 17. Do you untie your shoes when you take them off? Nope. 18. What is your least favourite thing? Too open to answer for me. Ugly teeth, all insects, disgusting food, etc. 19. How many people do you have a crush on right now? None. For the first time in my life. I'm hating it. I like having someone to think about but right now, I just don't. 20. What do you miss most right now? My son. He's on holidays with his dad. 21. If you were a crayon, what colour would you be? Brick red. Only because it was my favorite to color with when I was little. 22. Last person you talked to on the phone? My best friend. 23. The first thing you notice about the opposite sex? The whole package--how he carries himself (what he conveys--confidence, insecurity, etc), his height, physique, face, how he uses clothes to flatter or hide himself and then his smile and his eyes (and if the smile goes that far). And if he's walking away, his butt. 24. Do you like the person who made this? I'm guessing I probably would if I got to know her--she has the good sense to indulge my love of questionnaires! She obviously loves them too. I like that in a woman. lol! 25. Natural hair colour? As close to it as possible, though I tried blond this spring. It was fun but not me. 26. Favorite month? September. 27. Favorite day of the year? Christmas. 28. Have you ever been too shy to ask someone out? Yes. 29. What book/magazine are you reading? Oh, here's ironic. I haven't bought a magazine in years, but yesterday I picked up Oprah's on a whim. Book: The Everything Parenting a Teenager Book. 30. What did you watch on TV last night? A movie that I fell asleep watching and forget the name of now. Thanks for indulging me backater!

loveleeday

Joined: 7/9/2005

Msg: 40 (view)

coupla questions re: POF Party Posted: 8/19/2005 11:23:36 PM
1. Are you coming with anyone or going alone? Going alone 2. What are your overall expectaions? I expect I'll feel a little out of my element at first, then I'll relax and do what I like doing best--watching people, meeting them, smiling, hopefully laughing, probably drinking. 3. What are you wearing to the event/how many pairs of shoes are you bringing? Something pink will be on my body somewhere. It's my comfort color. Unless I feel bold and then I'll wear something else entirely. Jeans for sure. One pair of shoes! I'll bring them on my feet. 4. How much will you be drinking that night? Two probably. Maybe three. That's usually what I have. 5. Are you hoping to meet someone special? Nope. I just want to get out there and fake a little bravery until I feel it for real again. 6. Do you have suggestions for the next event? Not a single one.

loveleeday

Joined: 7/9/2005

Msg: 77 (view)

Who are you? Posted: 8/19/2005 11:05:42 PM
1. Nicknames: All variants of my real name--five or six nicknames from that. 2. Piercing: Just my ears. Keep meaning to get a bellybutton ring, but still haven't yet. 3. Eye color: blue-grey 4. Place of birth: Victoria, BC, Canada 5. Favorite food: Anything with bearnaisse or hollandaise sauce, and eclaires. 6. Ever been to Cuba: No. 7. Ever been in a fight? (physical)? Not since leaving home. My sisters and I used to pound on each other--a little something we learned from our parents. 8. Love someone so much it made you cry? YES! 9. Been in a car accident? Twice. I was the passenger both times. 10. Croutons or Bacon Bits: Croutons. 11. Favorite day of the week: Tuesday. 12. Favorite restaurant: The Lighthouse Bistro in Nanaimo. 13. Favorite flower: Daisies and yellow roses. 14. Favorite Sport to watch: Does NASCAR count? 15. Favorite drink: Non-alcoholic: coffee; Alcoholic: kahlua straight up or Long Island Iced Tea. 16. Favorite ice cream? Rum and raisin. 17. Disney or Warner Bros: Warner. 18. Favorite Fast Food restaurant: Subway. 19. What color is your bedroom carpet? A strange brownish greyish that came with the apartment but looks okay with everything. (I hope this didn't mean the other bedroom carpet! In that case, the curtains match the carpet. 'Nuff said.) 20. How many times did you fail your driver's test? Zero. Got it on the first go. 21. Cats or Dogs? Both. 22. Which store would you choose to max out your credit card? The Bay if I wanted a variety of items, but just clothes, Le Chateau. 23. What do you do most often when you are bored? Go online. Wander around forums or play this yahtzee type game. 24. What is your bedtime? On a night before work: between 10 and 12. Weekend: when I get tired. 25. Who will respond to this silly thread the quickest? Whoever posted a few pages ago. 26 Favorite TV shows? Big Brother, The Apprentice, What Not to Wear, City Confidential, American Justice, and Cold Case Files. And sometimes Law and Order. 27. Last person you went out to dinner with: My son. 28. Ford or Chevy - I'd be happy with either right about now. It sucks to be carless. 29. What are you listening to right now? A playlist of my five-star faves. Current song is Shy by John Mellencamp. 30. What is your favorite color? Pink. 31. Lake, ocean or river? Ocean! 32. How many tattoos do you have? So far, none, but like a bellybutton ring, it's something I keep meaning to get and keep forgetting to do it.

loveleeday

Joined: 7/9/2005

Msg: 22 (view)

Fashion Faux Pas.... Posted: 8/19/2005 9:24:32 PM
Men tucking sweaters into jeans. YUCK! Sweaters aren't for tucking. Ever! And speaking of jeans, jeans so loose they look like buddy could take a little relief in there. Super pointy-toed shoes on women. Yes it was fashionable up until last year (glad the more rounded toes are finally back!) which is why the pointy-toed horrors are on sale now for up to 80% off. Just walk past those sales, ladies! That was one godawful ugly fashion. WHY make feet look longer than necessary anyway, and when the heels start to wear down even a little, these "fashionable" women look like they're wearing elf-shoes.

loveleeday

Joined: 7/9/2005

Msg: 75 (view)

What was the worst thing you or your ex has done or said after your split-up? Posted: 8/19/2005 7:29:03 PM
Worst thing: It was eighteen years ago--and I've never been so mean since. My ex and I were at the same bar one night about three or four months after we'd broken up. He was there with his new girlfriend (that he was living with) and I was there with my girlfriends. It was a small town where we all knew each other. A couple of guys (some of whom were mutual friends of mine and my ex) were hitting on me. A little background info--he had cheated on me every chance he got which was OFTEN since he liked boys night out pretty much every night. I never cheated on him, but after we broke up, he heard about the two guys I'd been with since our breakup--small town, we both knew them, typical stuff. My ex freaked out because of all the guys that were hanging around our table (not just for me btw, because my friends were hot too!), and when I was leaving the bar with my girlfriends and not some guy, he followed me out. A crowd of people gathered. He called me a slut. I laughed and kept walking. He asked me how come I was such a frigid whore. I laughed again, stopped and said, "So pick one. What am I? Am I frigid or I am a whore? I can't exactly be both!" He said, "You were frigid with me, and you're a whore with all my friends." I said, "Oh, like you were with me? I know how much you cheated on me." He said, "Yeah, have you seen your body? You don't have any f***' tits and you're too f*' skinny!" So how come you were such a frigid with me, but not them?" I lied then. We had a bad relationship all along, but no matter what, I never threw his fears in his face. But that night I did. Throughout our four years together he used to worry that hiswas too small. I always reassured him. Always, always. Not that night. I said, "Figure it out, dumbf. Your***was too small! Did you know, ALL your friends are bigger than you?" He was going to hit me, but his friends held him back and I walked away. It felt good to get back at him, but the guilt of lying and making our crap public was heavy on my heart for a long time. I've never done such a thing since and never will again. At the time it may feel good, but knowing you lowered yourself to their level is a horrid feeling and it lasts longer than the temporary good feeling. I'd rather be the better person!

loveleeday

Joined: 7/9/2005

Msg: 397 (view)

Calgary Meet & Greet - Aug 20th Posted: 8/19/2005 6:53:09 PM
I think it might be because you're anticipating such fun that you can't contain it and now you're back tracking because if you go in there all rawled up, you might not like what you become....an animal!! Haha! This is my advice to you...**** IT!! Enjoy it and love it! Good advice! I'll try to take it.

loveleeday

Joined: 7/9/2005

Msg: 49 (view)

Who are you? Part 2!! Posted: 8/19/2005 6:33:31 PM
Oh, these are fun! lol 1) Your fav animal? Cats and dogs equally 2) What kind of bed are you sleeping in? Sleeping single in a double bed. 3) Something you would put in a jacuzzi? Uh, me and others . . . and water. 4) Favorite Insect? Ewwwww! Hate them all. Oh--wait. Honey bees are okay. 5) Somewhere you havent had sex but want to? Can't think of anywhere realistic--glass elevator, but that's not going to happen! 6) Ever been cow tipping?Nope 7) Your fav alcoholic drink? Kahlua 8) Favorite Song? There are too many. Current fave: We belong together--Mariah Carey 9) What hair length turns you on on a mate? Whatever suits him. I've loved long-haired men and bald men. I just hate puffy hair. 10) What color hair are you attracted to on a mate? Dark is my favorite. The darker, the better--but again, depends on what suits him 11) What sport would you excel in? Would being the operative word: badminton 12) Favorite time of day? Early in the morning when most of the world is still asleep 13) Would 'toys' scare you? (in bed) Nope--but simple "toys" are best--like ties, feathers, edible lotions, and food. The rest seems to me to be for those trying to keep alive something that would be better off dead. 14) Your mate is standing at the sink doing the dishes, what would you do? Stop and talk--keep him company. Ask if he wants help. 15) If you were to have a food fight, what food would it be? Desserts! Cake and creamy things 16) You're on a hot date and your date trips and falls after kissing you, what would you do? *Tell him, "Thanks! I know men say* I make them weak in the knees, but I've never seen it proven like that. Want some more? 17) What fruit best describes you? Blackberry! I look enticing and I am! (lol!) Is there a smart ass fruit? 18) You're somewhere with a lot of people and you need to pass gas. Would you try to hold it, let it squeek out or just go for it? You have to eat the right foods before you go out so you don't even have to deal with that! Hypothetically though, I'd get anal retentive! 19) Would you admit that the stink came from you? It's never happened to me. I have no idea what I'd do. 20) What colour are the sheets on your bed? Right now? White and blue 21) While watching a movie on TV, what possition are you in? At home: usually with my knees in the lotus position for a regular movie. A scary one--hugging my knees. When I'm on a sofa, my feet are hardly ever on the floor. I always tuck them up some way or another 22) Favorite place to go to relax? Home. Home, home, home! 23) You're in a store and you hear someone come on the PA and say your name and to pick up line 4. And so I do . . . (?)** 24) You're on a date and a hot man/woman walks by. Do you stare or try to ignore them? I pretend not to notice them. Can't learn a thing about my date if I'm busy ogling other men! And nothing says "I'm just not that into you" than gawking at other guys. I don't want it done to me--so I don't do it either. It's a respect thing.

loveleeday

Joined: 7/9/2005

Msg: 68 (view)

What's yr Theme Song? Posted: 8/19/2005 6:13:44 PM
My theme song(s): For right now: "Everybody Hurts" by R.E.M. and "Unwell" by Matchbox 20 (love Rob Thomas!). For all time: "Dancin' in the Moonlight" by King Harvest. I even have a song picked for my funeral--I only hope someone will have the guts to play it and not stick with hymns or some such. "Best of My Love" by The Emotions. They play it at the beginning of "Boogie Nights" and that's the message I want to leave to the world. "You got the best of my love!" lol. (I'm not kidding either--they better play it even if I'm 90 when I kick it). Oh, and first cassette I ever bought myself: I got two that day. Don Henley and Jack Green. I need them on CD now since I don't listen to cassettes anymore AND I wore them out years ago, but I can't find them anywhere. :(

loveleeday

Joined: 7/9/2005

Msg: 37 (view)

This is my take on life, what's yours? Posted: 8/19/2005 5:56:46 PM
My take on life: I have two basic thoughts on it: 1. Nothing is a sure thing, and everything is in a constant state of change. Sometimes, this is good, other times it sucks big time--but whatever emotion we throw at it--that's just how it is and it's bound to change again just when it gets good . . . or bad. 2. There's no point in getting all upset over things because they are bound to change, but even knowing that, we'll get all upset over things anyway--until they change to something we like or we go "Oh yeah! Nothing is a sure thing. Doh. No point getting upset then."

loveleeday

Joined: 7/9/2005

Msg: 394 (view)

Calgary Meet & Greet - Aug 20th Posted: 8/19/2005 5:44:57 PM
omg--you all sound so excited and happy. So how come I'm nervous?! I have never been one to bite my nails but I'm just about ready to take it up. Weird thing is, I never get nervous about things like this. Until now. . . . trembling . . .

loveleeday

Joined: 7/9/2005

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What Love is all about Posted: 8/19/2005 4:51:43 PM
That's so sweet. You know what though? A little salt in bitter coffee takes the bitterness away. Ironic isn't it?

loveleeday

Joined: 7/9/2005

Msg: 136 (view)

What book are you reading right now? Posted: 8/19/2005 4:42:33 PM
I don't read a lot of fiction anymore (I edit non-fiction books for a living and it seems my mind is constantly in "information gathering" mode). But I did read The Catcher in the Rye this summer. It's my son's favorite book and he said he feels a connection to Holden Caulfield (the main character), so I just had to read it. I learned a little more about my son that way and I'm glad for that! I understand why it is his favorite book. I also read Mind Games by William Deverell and was disappointed. The writing was great, and the storyline intriguing--but the end. Ick. It was all quickly and neatly wrapped up and just . . . a huge letdown. A couple of books I just finished (I always have a few on the go at any one time): The Power of Intention by Wayne Dyer, The Voice of Knowledge by Don Miguel Ruiz, and Creating Affluence by Deepak Chopra. I know, I know! They all are spiritually-based. Love that type of book. I read the Chopra and Ruiz books daily in turns--with Ruiz's The Four Agreements in there for a "refresher" when I need it. My favorite right now though is Everything Parenting a Teenager Book by Linda Sonna. I like parenting books as much as I like spiritual books. I learned what NOT to do during my childhood and have found the books offer insight into what TO do in the void left by the "not's" so to speak. lol! Anyway--blah, blahdy, blah. That's what I'm reading.

loveleeday

Joined: 7/9/2005

Msg: 10 (view)

A little help needed......... Posted: 7/24/2005 4:59:28 AM
We had the "indoor voice" rule. I'd whisper "Sweetie, you forgot that screaming is just for outside," (When you whisper they take it down enough to listen to you before they start back up again). At first, I'd take him outside, he'd stand there or lay there screaming and when he was done, we'd go back inside. After awhile, when I gave him the reminder, he'd go outside himself. Then, it just got to be too much of a hassle I guess and he'd start to scream, then just stop because he didn't feel like having to go outside. It only took a few weeks. Screaming in public only happened twice. The first time, I took him out of the store, but that wasn't effective for me because we still didn't get our shopping done. The next time it happened, I bent down and whispered, "I know you're upset but we have some shopping to do. Please join me when you're ready." He started right up again, I walked to the end of the aisle and half out of the aisle (so I was still partly in the aisle and could see him just fine). He stopped screaming, got right up and ran after me. It never happened again. The best thing to do though since not all kids respond to the same cues: Do what works! Don't do what doesn't! It's a little reminder I give myself all the time about pretty much everything!

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