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tingles71

Joined: 7/9/2005

Msg: 97 (view)

Female Players, Is there such a thing? Posted: 11/17/2007 1:04:04 AM
There are unfortunately a significant number of women on dating sites who are clearly there only to boost their ego's. Sadly, so many lack honesty or even openness in communication. I have no issue with people doing what they want in respect to dating etc... but surely it's not that difficult to just be open & honest about it. If you want a casual relationship etc... just say so rather than stuff people around and leading them on. Obviously this applies equally to both genders, however, I have had 2 years of experiencing this with women who have over-inflated egos due to the amount of contact they receive [due to more men than women available] and as a result of this they believe it's ok to treat people like conveniences... I need a

tingles71

Joined: 7/9/2005

Msg: 277 (view)

would you take a partner back after they had sex with someone else during a breakup? Posted: 7/11/2006 7:20:11 PM
Tough question, it would depend on whether or not I loved the woman.

tingles71

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Football Teams Posted: 7/8/2006 2:52:47 AM
West Coast rule!! Amen to that - LOL!

tingles71

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Is it Cheating ? Posted: 7/7/2006 12:11:54 AM
Am I cheating? You are most definitely NOT cheating, I am certain your dearly departed partner would not want to see you unhappy and not living life. Obviously he was extremely important to you as I am sure you were to him. I believe he would be saddened to know that you have not moved on with your life. I know that if I were in his place I would want my partner to find happiness. I am definitely no expert so perhaps some counselling may assist you in dealing with these issues. I wish you the best of luck & future happiness. Keep Smiling :-)

tingles71

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meeting the kids Posted: 6/30/2006 3:13:24 AM
i just don't wanna see them getting attached and then having things disolve. Whilst that is a valid concern, I'd suggest putting that to the back of your mind or you will end up creating issues where none actually exist. You can't control the future, what will be will be :-)

tingles71

Joined: 7/9/2005

Msg: 30 (view)

Creative Dating for less than 100 dollars Posted: 6/30/2006 2:56:56 AM
How about: After Dinner [i.e. have dinner separately] 1. Meet for Coffee & Cake at a Cafe/Restaurant 2. Take a dancing lesson together [obviously fitting in with dance classes - usually plenty available] - The order can be reversed to suit. Under $100

tingles71

Joined: 7/9/2005

Msg: 56 (view)

POF cheaters, players and aholes Posted: 6/30/2006 2:46:32 AM
Shrug i think almost all men on pof are players...least the ones ive communicated with...ive been "played" by several men on here....just like in "real life" cept a lil more high teck shrug whats a girl to do Assuming almost all of us men are players is not going to do you any good, there are plenty of us "nice guys" here. Trust me when I tell you that you are not the only one to be played. I have been burnt by two (2) women in the past 11.5 months, it doesn't however make me assume that all women are players. I am now very cautious and somewhat guarded due to my experiences but I take each person on their merits. If I assume all women are players then I will lose every time because I haven't given each individual the opportunity I would want them to give me. My two cents anyway.

tingles71

Joined: 7/9/2005

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My boyfriend is still good friends with his ex Posted: 6/29/2006 7:09:39 PM
Im not sure what to do or think. As he was honest with you right from the start it seems a bit strange that you doubt him now after all this time.

tingles71

Joined: 7/9/2005

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how can you beleive what people post? Posted: 6/29/2006 7:07:30 PM
I am new to the site and as I look through peoples profiles so many people seem perfect. but come on now who would not post the perfect profile. How do you know when someone is a good catch versus a good writer. You can really only determine if they are a good catch by actually meeting & speaking with them, a profile will not enable you to do that. As for posting the "perfect" profile, I don't see how that is actually possible, what I might see as being the "perfect profile" on me is not necessarily [or even likely] to be what someone else considers as "perfect". I can assure you my profile is far from perfect however I am not going to put a profile up that reads like, "War & Peace". If people want to know me they will need to chat with me as a profile is nothing more than a series of textual imputs with no interaction.

tingles71

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Conversation. Lost Art? Posted: 6/29/2006 4:57:46 AM
I prefer to communicate telepathically. I heard that! ROFLMAO

tingles71

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How do guys really feel about being approached by women? Posted: 6/29/2006 4:00:32 AM
I find being approached by a woman is fantastic, it's a very nice change from doing all the approaching and it shows that she has self confidence and knows what she wants. All Good in my book

tingles71

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That one person Posted: 6/29/2006 2:05:27 AM
How can you lose your soulmate???? I mean, unless they die... Probably by not finding your soulmate in the first place. I hope to find mine, but think I have a better chance of winning the lottery.

tingles71

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Sports and women....a solution! Posted: 6/28/2006 5:57:24 AM
It is a great idea. If for example, a boy/girl does not like a certain sport but the person they are with wants to watch the sport. Maybe the person who likes the sport can watch the sport as they perform certain oral activities on the person who does not enjoy the sport. That way the one who likes the sport, still gets to watch it and the one who does not like the sport is grinning from ear to ear. So, that is what I call compromise my friends. This problem is now solved, NEXT! I like your way of thinking Carrie, you sure you don't want to come to Perth, Western Australia, you'd be most welcome :-)

tingles71

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Sports and women....a solution! Posted: 6/28/2006 4:49:47 AM
How about quickies during all those commercials. Or you could perform certain oral activities while the game is being watched.... Someone get me a pen, I want to sign that contract - hehe!

tingles71

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Sports and women....a solution! Posted: 6/28/2006 4:07:09 AM
Watching my game AND sex during commercial breaks? Where the hell do I sign that contract? That would be a rare contract to find indeed - LOL!

tingles71

Joined: 7/9/2005

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Question for the guys about first dates.... Posted: 6/28/2006 2:23:44 AM
Well haven't heard from him and I'm pretty sure he's avoiding me on messenger. I suppose if a little thank you freaked him out then he wasn't worth my time or effort. Exactly, If I had been on the receiving end of your e-mail I'd have been flattered and appreciative of your courtesy. I wouldn't have read your e-mail and concluded, "Lets get married tomorrow, move in together & have a football team of kids" but then maybe that's just me LOL!

tingles71

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What is the most disgusting experience you've had on a date? Posted: 6/28/2006 2:14:59 AM
She was covered with hair, i mean she had more mustache than i have after a week of not shaving, she had more hair on her legs than my old grampa, and he was HAIRY, ... it was such a turn off... Now that takes the cake. eeeeeeewwwwwwww!!! Surely this woman must have known she needed a shave, wax or perhaps she needed shearing. I feel your pain my friend, I just wish I could stop laughing long enough to type this hehehe

tingles71

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discipline Posted: 6/27/2006 9:39:40 PM
must admit though...I am very greatful that my mother wacked me on the ar** as I tried to run out on the road...I think she may have saved my life! That was the point I was making, that it is appropriate at times to smack a child.

tingles71

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NSA-No strings attached Posted: 6/27/2006 7:05:13 PM
The only way that happens? Is if YOU LET IT HAPPEN. Don't play the "dumbified" female... you have just as much right in NSA as he does.. the only diff is, with most women, you say you're cool with NSA, but in reality you're so NOT. Then you start to expect stuff, and next you know? Here you are, confused about it. There is no confusion with NSA - which is why it is exactly that... if you want to be confused, hurt, or feeling rejection, get in a real relationship, then you may have a valid argument. Well said [written :-) anyway]. No Strings Attached is a very simple concept until someone decides to throw expectations into it.

tingles71

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What is the most disgusting experience you've had on a date? Posted: 6/27/2006 6:49:06 PM
..i found her with my roommate giving him a bj... OMG that is just too funny... sorry!

tingles71

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Msg: 67 (view)

discipline Posted: 6/27/2006 6:33:33 PM
THAT IS YOUR ROLE AS A PARENT...do not allow the situation to arise that your child is allowed to cross the road without adult supervision...a child cannot comprehend the consequences...YOU can!!! YOUR responsiblility!!! H E L L O, anyone home. I was wondering when you were going to come out with that. I am well aware of my responsibilities as a parent and even supervised children can still manage to do things. You must be incredibly naieve!!!

tingles71

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What are you looking for in a profile Posted: 6/27/2006 6:30:26 PM
I sincerely apolgise but you put on your profile the "age" group you purrrrrrrrrrrrrrfered...so am inadequate??? LOL! I better remove that stupid filter then :-)

tingles71

Joined: 7/9/2005

Msg: 65 (view)

discipline Posted: 6/27/2006 8:55:15 AM
.....other option would have been appropriate......dear TINGLES71 am glad you have found "appropriate" punishment by using physical force... Unfortunately, too many people overreact to this particular topic, anyone who uses smacking as a form of "educating" their children [and please realise that I have clearly & specifically outlined in detail my beliefs on smacking children] is deemed spawn of the devil. Parenting is not black & white as the brigade of "group huggers" would have everyone believe. The delusion that everything can be solved by sitting little johhny down & speaking to him is frightening to say the least. It would appear that you believe that everything can be solved by talking, I'm yet to come across a 3, 4 or 5 yr old that would understand & comprehend the significant ramifications & consequences of running onto the road with oncoming traffic.

tingles71

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What are you looking for in a profile Posted: 6/27/2006 8:46:29 AM
...men do NOT answer me for being forward...excuse me for wanting to say "wowwwwwwwwwwwwwww" Any man who feels inadequate from being approached by a woman has serious issues [in my humble opinion].

tingles71

Joined: 7/9/2005

Msg: 63 (view)

discipline Posted: 6/27/2006 7:42:26 AM
Arrrrgh, DOMESTIC DISCIPLINE....what the hell does that mean? It is CRIMINAL to use physical force to intimidate another human being and that should apply to children. It is a legal defence to assault for the purposes described previously and is NOT criminal. It exists because it is ludicrous that parents be prevented from appropriately punishing a child for their behaviour and whilst I don't believe that smacking children is the answer to the majority of issues, it definitely has a place and is the most effective and appropriate method under certain circumstances. Anyone who seriously believes that sitting little johhny [5 yr old] down and telling him not to run on the road is an appropriate way of preventing a recurrence is sadly mistaken and deluding themselves. Children do not have the understanding adults do, but they do however associate very quickly their behaviour [eg. running out onto a road] and the consequences [appropriate smack]. I have generally found that other methods of punishment are more appropriate for the majority of instances and on the very rare occasions I have had to smack my children no other option would have been appropriate. Additionally, on those very rare occasions I have always felt awful afterwards, however their safety is much more important than my "feelings" or those of anyone else who are deluded into believing that everything can be explained to a child & that they will understand it and not repeat it.

tingles71

Joined: 7/9/2005

Msg: 39 (view)

Socceroos Aussie Aussie Aussie Oi Oi Oi !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Posted: 6/27/2006 7:22:34 AM
thank you tingles.. i was not so sure about your headline about making whoever tingle though. but that's just me (i like to be respectful and have bizarre standards about respect for me anyway) but it's still all good. You are very welcome Red Riding Hood. Perhaps the "headline" I have used in my profile isn't the greatest, however it is certainly not disrespectful to anyone. Unfortunately, interpretation is a personal thing so people will draw their own [not necessarily accurate] conclusions. No more Guus, will be interesting to see who replaces him.

tingles71

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Socceroos Aussie Aussie Aussie Oi Oi Oi !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Posted: 6/27/2006 7:14:40 AM
But remember one thing We had a decided advantage for much of the game 11 playing 10 is a huge advantage Yet we did not put the game away as we should have I think that given we were playing without Harry Kewell the Italians had a HUGE advantage for the ENTIRE game. Furthermore, just because we didn't happen to "put the game away" prior to what should have been extra time matters not. You need to remember that the Italians sure as hell didn't put the game away, the referee handed it to them on a silver platter. Even had the Italians been playing with 11 instead of 10 they would not have faired any better. After the blunders made by so many referees during this world cup, dont be suprised if video referees are used very shortly in soccer Video refereeing should have been introduced a long time ago, the refereeing I have witnessed has been nothing short of disgraceful. The Italian player should never have been given a red card.

tingles71

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What are you looking for in a profile Posted: 6/27/2006 7:06:03 AM
I never message males first! Seems to be typical of women's attitudes these days, expecting men to be the ones to put themselves on the line for rejection. I don't have any problem iniating contact with women either online or in person, I just find this attitude in women to be somewhat disappointing.

tingles71

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Have you ever been..... Posted: 6/26/2006 9:32:57 PM
Have you ever been with someone who seemed to lie about the littlest of things? From things in their past to what they had for lunch. Just things no one would really care about? If so how did you handle it? Sheesh if someone is prepared to habitually lie about small things like that, what else will they lie about & do they ever tell the truth.

tingles71

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should I or shouldnt I that is the question. Posted: 6/26/2006 9:28:21 PM
Might sound harsh but.... kick him to the curb.

tingles71

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What are you looking for in a profile Posted: 6/26/2006 7:05:21 PM
I would like to get messaged to start with :P Welcome to the club, admission is free

tingles71

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Socceroos Aussie Aussie Aussie Oi Oi Oi !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Posted: 6/26/2006 6:59:24 PM
OK so that was f****** PATHETIC!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I CAN NOT BELIEVE THAT!!! i can not believe the freaking ref at the end...and the italians winnning because of that!!! Agreed, I have watched every game that Australia has played in this world cup & we have been literally kicked from pillar to post in each game... by the refereeing. I am absolutely furious. It's one thing to lose fairly but to be robbed by pathetic refereeing is just unacceptable. It was bad enough that Harry Kewell was on crutches & unable to play but to have our aspirations crushed so unfairly just... well sucks to say the least. Throughout this world cup I have had to wonder what has to happen to Mark Viduka before he will be given a free kick [Croatia Match - should have been a penalty!], I mean I thought we were playing soccer not rugby, obviously someone forgot to tell that to both the Croatians and to the referee of that match. Australia were convincingly beating the Italians with around 60% of the possession and the ball predominantly being at our striking end, we were going to win that match, of that I have no doubt. It seems that whenever Australia is playing all an opposition has to do is trip over their own feet & voila free kick/penalty awarded, yet Australian players [Viduka is prime example] can be rugby tackled, held etc... and nothing happens. BTW Red Riding Hood, I like your profile - you have the most incredible eyes :-)

tingles71

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Msg: 81 (view)

My dirty little secret revealed. Posted: 6/26/2006 12:40:28 AM
Also, beauty is only skin deep. and ugly goes all the way to the bone - hehehe - Sorry, couldn't resist

tingles71

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What are you looking for in a profile Posted: 6/26/2006 12:21:17 AM
Firstly, I look to see that the person has a photo, hell if I can display my ugly mug then I want to see theirs :-) Honesty is something I look for in a persons profile [yes, I understand that you can only gauge so much from a person's profile] along with descriptive information on what they like doing, enjoy, hobbies etc... [Yes, my profile definitely needs work... just too lazy at moment to fix it LOL]. Clear & concise communication skills are always handy especially when describing what one does & doesn't want. A sense of humour is essential [you only need look at my photo to see why I rely on humour... no Brad Pitt here I'm afraid]. I think the more descriptive the better; with a dash of humour, a pinch of clarity and a whole heap of honesty. A photo with the person actually smiling as opposed to frowning is always good LOL!

tingles71

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discipline Posted: 6/24/2006 6:36:46 PM
An adult gets charged with a criminal offence for assault, what is the difference when you smack a child? The difference is that it is legally acceptable to smack a child, there is a legal defence to Assault in those circumstances called "Domestic Discipline". There are times where a child deserves & gets a smack & other times that they shouldn't. Obviously the punishment [read "smack"] must be proprotionate to the age of the child, it would hardly be acceptable to smack a 2 yr old child the same as you would a 10 yr old child. I was smacked plenty as a child and have turned out ok [at least in my opinion & that of my friends]. My children rarely ever get smacked but if a time comes that it is appropriate to do so they will get smacked. This delusional propaganda generated by the media that you will be arrested etc... for smacking your children is false. I tend to look for alternative punishment options rather than smacking, however, for example lets say my 5 yr old decides to run onto the road.... SMACK!!!

tingles71

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What are you looking for in a profile Posted: 6/24/2006 6:27:38 PM
l think most of us are a bit scary in the morning. The morning.... Hell I'm scary 24/7 LOL!

tingles71

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It's the Picture... stupid ! Posted: 6/24/2006 6:06:32 PM
If she smokes heavy, sees genital piercing as a form of recreation, and has 10 kids, I'm not messaging her if she's the most gorgeous gal on earth! ROFLMAO

tingles71

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It's the Picture... stupid ! Posted: 6/24/2006 10:40:34 AM
...A good photographer can make anybody look like a model. Good luck finding a photographer that could make me look like a model LOL!

tingles71

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getting inked for my 35th Posted: 6/24/2006 10:37:51 AM
That filter is retarded. (referring to intimate encounter filter) I agree with you fully on that one mate, all it takes is one small stuff up & bang you are wiped out :-( Anyone know any GOOD tattoo sites that don't cost money to view decent tattoos & before anyone mentions it Yes I have googled... Thanks. Cheers

tingles71

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why cant a friendly attractive chick find a man these days? Posted: 6/24/2006 10:30:57 AM
maybe tingles ,,they have alot more members so you see alot more faces Good point Storm38, I didn't think about that.

tingles71

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why cant a friendly attractive chick find a man these days? Posted: 6/24/2006 7:04:34 AM
I seem to be attracted to a lot of women in Canada, what they got in the water over there. Sometimes it's a real bummer living in Australia.

tingles71

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Socceroos Aussie Aussie Aussie Oi Oi Oi !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Posted: 6/24/2006 7:01:42 AM
Even worse, tingles, the guy received a third yellow when he was eventually sent off at the final whistle. The whole thing was farcicle, when are referees going to be held accountable for their actions. To not award 2 clear cut penalties and further not remove Simunic from the game after receiving 2 yellow cards is disgraceful

tingles71

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why cant a friendly attractive chick find a man these days? Posted: 6/23/2006 8:02:45 PM
...why i cant find a decent guy in all of adelaide... Most likely because it's South Australia... The most boring place on earth, unless you want to go to church, there's one on every street corner. However, your profile says you are a drug user. I suspect that is the major problem. I for one would never be with someone who uses drugs.

tingles71

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Job status, weight.. etc etc, how does this all figure into love? Posted: 6/23/2006 7:27:30 PM
Personally, I am looking for the whole package. That includes lot of hot sex. :) Indeed :-)

tingles71

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its harder for an attractive woman to find real love Posted: 6/23/2006 6:33:52 PM
I avoid a woman that thinks she's "all that". Not worth it for me. Prefer a lady that's real and that's not based on looks. Women who think & act like they are "all that" are a real turn off to me & I wont waste my time or effort on them. Looks are important to me, some may say that I am perhaps "shallow" [which seems to be a common catch phrase used at the moment - not necessarily towards me :-)]. There has to be attraction but at the same time if the woman is stunningly beautiful but has the IQ of a house brick, can't hold a decent conversation and/or the personality of a slug then it doesn't matter how good she looks I wouldn't be with her. Now, choosing someone based solely on looks alone, that's shallow [at least in my opinion].

tingles71

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Socceroos Aussie Aussie Aussie Oi Oi Oi !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Posted: 6/23/2006 6:25:13 PM
Harry Kewell is the Man...(Just cos he plays for the other Champion club being LIVERPOOL!!!) You got that right LIVERPOOL are awesome :-) The refereeing in the Australia Vs Croatia match was disgraceful; 2 clear penalties not awarded & Simunic allowed to stay on the field after receiving 2 yellow cards - what a joke.

tingles71

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Do you guys think this actually works Posted: 6/22/2006 9:26:41 PM
Well thanks Paul- its a shame Australia is so far away...but that made my night You're welcome! If you'd like to e-mail me, please do. I'd love to chat with you :-) :-)

tingles71

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Football Teams Posted: 6/21/2006 9:53:27 PM
AFL: West Coast Eagles NSL: Perth Glory NBL: Perth Wildcats British Soccer: Liverpool

tingles71

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what place do you feel the happiest Posted: 6/21/2006 9:50:11 PM
In the cinema cuddled up... not a care in the world [well at least until the end of the movie when reality sets back in LOL!]

tingles71

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Do you guys think this actually works Posted: 6/21/2006 9:19:37 PM
I wanted to get an opinion... thats all...and if it makes guys think twice about e-mailing me...their loss just like his. Exactly... I thought that's what these forums were for, perhaps I was mistaken. Furthermore, any guy who would think twice about contacting you [in my humble opinion] has rocks in their head. I'd happily back my statement up by contacting you but I live in Australia and you, well you're on the other side of the planet Keep Smiling :-) Paul

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