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Thread: Barack Obama is Incompetent !!!!!
Javan2
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Barack Obama is Incompetent !!!!!
Posted:
11/4/2008 12:15:00 PM
Avoiding challenges........? I don't think it will happen personally, but an Obama presidental win will put an end to the challenge Avoidence issue, if there is one. You and I see the same problem but have different views about it. Personal Responsibility sure; no intelligent person will have a problem with that. There are other issues that people have to deal with that perhaps you aren't able to see or may never witnessed. We have to function, pay taxes and be responsible people in the face of the hostility of others. These are the extra challenges on top of the normal ones that others don't have to face. For many solitude is a big part of the solution to this problem, where energy can be spent only on the problems at hand without having to deal with all the extras that others don't have to face. I don't see Obama as liberal at all. Barack Obama is conservative. If he wins, he'll have more republicans in his administration than any other democratic presidential elect. Rev Wright isn't a man of Dead End Hate, if he were there would be no white members that attend his church, there are white members who attend his church on a regular basis. How would you explain that? Not just one white member, but several. Could the comments by this Rev. have been taken out of context?
Javan2
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Barack Obama is Incompetent !!!!!
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11/3/2008 9:32:27 AM
Dave, if you think you had / have limits imposed on you for being a whitemale, try being black. 232 years of favored status vs. 40 years of grudging hostility asking people to just do what's right. Then they close those small little chances and still raise hell for having done that little bit of nothing. You absolutely, positively don't even begin to have a clue.
Javan2
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Barack Obama is Incompetent !!!!!
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10/18/2008 1:35:04 PM
ahoytheredave said, " As for voting base, do you mean those dependant on government handouts who are the strongest Obama supporters? My response has always been: "Pay people to be poor and plenty will take the job." The more you pay, the more poor you will have. That is the Liberal way."
The only problem I have with statesments like this is the disproportionate outrage. Little to no peep out of these guys for corporate welfare. $700 billion dollar bailout for banks when all they had to do to save themselves was to readjust the current mortgages that they had on their books. And no; it wasn't just poor people who bought these homes. Rightwingers are told that to keep them feeling indifferent to the plight of the people in this situation. Many rightwingers got caught in the current crisis, too.
The koolaide must be pretty powerful.
Javan2
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friends like to grab at her breasts and butt
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10/12/2008 9:52:47 AM
Boy, when I started to read this it really had me going. There is a difference to me between girl or guy feeling your girlfriend. Your girlfriend should be able to handle a woman feeling on her. She must not be that offended by it. A guy doing it especially in front of you, must be ok getting a chair pounded into his head by you. If you don't like it, tell the women; " The only thing keeping me from beating you in the head with a chair from touching my girl's breast is that you're a female. " " I would appreciate it, if you'd keep your hands to yourself."
Javan2
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Barack Obama is Incompetent !!!!!
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10/11/2008 8:54:38 AM
I don't understand how Obama can be leading in the polls if he is as incompetent as people say he is in becoming president. Big part of becoming president is to run an effective campaigne. How can Obama become president? " You can look at him and see that he doesn't know anything, right ? " I mean just by looking at people it can be known what they know, right? Who cares that Barack Obama was Valedictorian of Harvard. If he was Valedictorian of Harvard, clearly, he must have been a good guesser. So, we are going to make someone president of the United States because he guesses well? Clearly, he guessed his way through Harvard. You can tell that by looking at him. So what, George W. Bush was only a "C" student at Harvard. The only thing that Barack has over the current president is that he (Obama) was better at guessing. He surely doesn't know more than president Bush. We can tell that by looking at him.
Javan2
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Bden Palin Debate? Can you believe?
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10/7/2008 8:37:09 AM
Yea, Yea, sure, sure; " I can be vice president, but I can't answer a direct question". Yea, sure.
Javan2
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Ex Girlfriend Taking Friends
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10/4/2008 4:09:50 PM
I have one question for the O.P. ; Was your ex-girlfriend a Gemini astrologically speaking? Sounds like a typical Gemini Woman. Strangely enough these women seem to find me initially attractive, but then later revert back to their typical behavior. They are ok with me as long as they are not anywhere near being my love interest.
Javan2
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Ex Girlfriend Taking Friends
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9/29/2008 7:12:48 PM
Next time, become a loner and only date female loners.
Javan2
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In Baltimore, Maryland we played " Skully " !!!!
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9/28/2008 3:09:46 PM
Never heard of the game you are talking about. Weirdest ( I wouldn't use this term to describe the childhood games I played ) couldn't really say. A different game from most that I played was called " Skillet ". We'd play it in Baltimore, Maryland (my home town, on the west-side of town they called it, " Skully " (The real technical name). I played on the east-side (the same side of town as Memorial Stadium). This game would really draw you in when you'd play it. The great thing about it was we'd play right in front of the house so parents always knew where we were when we'd play it. The game is rather involved and would take too long to explain here, but needless to say, playing it helped us all to learn more about our friends. The best time of my life as a child.
Javan2
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My job invites over-familiarity.
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9/28/2008 7:59:29 AM
Iconoclast; This isn't a problem. I learned myself how powerful the internet is for hairstylist. I was dating a woman who was a stylist and I put her on craig's list and she was blown away by the numbers of new customers that came her way. Change your profile as to your profession is the only other thing I can think of doing for yourself if you don't like the response. But know that what you happen to do is so well suited for the internet that you'd be amazed by the numbers in the amount of business this woman was able to bring into her business. It's as if the internet was created for hairstylist. This woman made thousands in a weekend.
Javan2
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What do you do....when you loved a man......met someone new and now he wants you back???
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9/28/2008 7:49:15 AM
Sounds like a young child singing; " But now that I see you in his arms, I want you Back." That's pure ego, not him truely wanting you back.
Javan2
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How to get him to ask me out..
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9/28/2008 7:34:32 AM
Smileee4u says: " IF YOU CHASE A MAN, HE WILL RUN. He will quickly run for hills! "
He may run for the hills if you demand an immediate answer from him !!!! Women make this mistake all the time. DON'T DEMAND THAT HE ANSWER YOU, NOW !!!
GOD WHY ARE WOMEN SO THICK ABOUT THIS !!!!!
The way to do it, is to express your interest, hand him your name and number and give him time & space alone to think about you. DON'T ASK QUESTIONS THAT DEMAND AN IMMEDIATE RESPONSE!!!! YOU WANT TO LET THE GUY KNOW THAT YOU'RE INTERESTED, BUT GIVE HIM TIME TO BE ALONE WITH THE IDEA.
Javan2
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Can a relationship work out if the woman does the chasing?
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9/28/2008 7:03:26 AM
If you want it, do chase it. But be smart about it. If you notice a guy and you think that the two of you are a great fit together, God, Please by all means go after him. But I would say, be smart about it. Tell him how you feel about him, but don't demand an immediate response from him. I know that I would respond very well to a woman whose woman enough to say something like this to me for example: " Hello, you know I've been noticing you for sometime now and for some reason that I can not explain, I find that I'm drawn to you sexually. I don't know why but for some reason I believe that you & I would be a good fit for oneanother. You now know where I stand, (hand the guy your name and phone #) this is my name & number; think about what I've said and if you'd like to explore this further give me a call. Of course, the sooner you call the more flattered, I'll be " ,then just walk away. Don't make the huge mistake of demanding an answer from him right away. Let the man be alone with the idea of you, give him time to fantasize about you, think about you, let his soul wonder about you. The most powerful way for a woman to seduce a man is to let him know where you stand and then give him time & space to think about it. Not the " Tell me now if you're interested approach".
Javan2
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Why do some men act interested, then pull back?
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9/27/2008 6:10:41 PM
From reading the O.P., what I hear is a woman who thinks that she doesn't have to show any interest in the guy. He has to make all "ALL" the moves to get the relationship moving forward? Maybe he senses from you that, "You're just not that into him"? Message 141^^^^^ Thanks for mentioning the book, but why not tell us about the author? At least give us his name.
Javan2
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Plentyoffish is amazing
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9/27/2008 9:12:07 AM
Wow !!!! I read the O.P. and I hope all goes well with her, but the responses to her post no wonder the rest of us are alone. Better to be alone then to deal with all of that negativity.
Javan2
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Will Fanny Mae (FNM) & Freddy Mac (FRE) stock go to zero in Price?
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9/24/2008 9:26:30 AM
Well, these shares didn't come to zero, but they did go to .25 cents per share. My cousin bought them lastweek and already today he is up about 700% return on his money within one week. I did try to point out to members here to buy them. If every member of POF had listened to me, their pockets right now would be growing to full. I did the best I could do. Those who thought my idea here was laughable, and stupid, whose laughing now ? !!!
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Javan2
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Could he be sexually incapacitated or gay?
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9/24/2008 8:58:06 AM
Maybe you need to be woman enough to take control. He might just not want to offend you by moving in too soon.
Javan2
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A 1st for me; anyone had this happen?
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9/23/2008 10:40:47 AM
Alot of women seem to have this same issue with guys. Sounds like he needs more space. Give it to him. I'm single and I date. Some people are only compatible enough to see oneanother once every three months. I resemble that remark, LOL !!!!
Javan2
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creeps as in too many cheaters on this site? Or are you using the word as a noun?
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9/23/2008 10:29:27 AM
Hummm.... ! In some circles "Creeps" is a verb meaning to cheat while you are in a committed relationship with someone else. I think there's a song about it called, " I Creep " .
Javan2
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idea for POF to bring more integrity to the table with peeps profiles
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9/23/2008 8:40:03 AM
I thought everyone was already doing this. I know I was doing it. I always check to see what people wrote in the forums. The problem is that alot of people don't write anything in the forums. I do agree that the forums do give to it's members a richer experience to the site. Many people only come on in here for the forums and they do say so in their profiles.
Javan2
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How do I get over all this?
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9/22/2008 8:51:22 AM
Let me get this straight; You lost a violent man and you want him back? Women teach men how they should treat them. What is your lesson to the other guys here who are reading this?
Javan2
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How a black male can approach white women... help
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9/13/2008 6:03:08 PM
complete pass said; " Good question, now that you mention that, tell me how can a white man approach a black woman. I've seen quite a few white guys with black women and wonder how they got them. "
I had a feeling this was true. Seek out members of the Baha`i Faith and meet at a fireside and get yourself a sister.
Javan2
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Playing it SAFE.. Would you consider having a life time partner that you knew you could never love.
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9/13/2008 5:33:08 PM
No, be with them sure as Friends. Friends with benefits, but no commitment. Sounds like the other person makes alot of money or could help you financially. Women usually do this for financial reasons. Pointless to commit to someone you don't love or have any real passion for in a relationship. You need to tell the other person that, "You're just not that into them."
Javan2
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Will Fanny Mae (FNM) & Freddy Mac (FRE) stock go to zero in Price?
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9/12/2008 5:13:58 PM
Ren83 says; "No, they will never hit zero. It is very doubtful that they will ever go below $1 per share either. They still have enough good mortgages that they are still worth quite a bit. If they get low enough, another major financial corporation would buy them up in a heartbeat in the same way that JP Morgan bought up Bear Stearns. Of course, that other major financial corporation may need government backing to do it because it is extremely unlikely for one company to have the capital to single handedly take in a monster like Freddie or Fannie."
Zero is a representation of some fraction of a penny. This will have to do as our definition given that many of the stock reporting agenies will call it zero at these given values.
But back to my point ! Doubtful that they will ever go below $1 per share either.
" Today these shares closed at .46 cents per share. " Ha ! Questioning my judgement!
Javan2
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Risk / Reward ratio is just too favorable to ignore
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9/11/2008 4:17:58 PM
I heard a report that the government take over is only temporary to get the company back on solid footing. If these companies aren't going out of business, even if temporarily delisted, (delisting doesn't close a business by the way). I've experienced a company being delisted only to return from a price of zero, back to $3.50 per share 11 months later. Delisting occurs after price goes to less than $1.00 per share for a period of time. I'm getting a different picture than the rest of you here. If the share price is going to zero and the company's not going out of Business and the problems that caused the problem in the first place are being fixed? All these things being factual. If I thought the business was going to fail, I'd still make a small bet against myself. I'd say for example, Freddy Mac is going out of Business, but just in case they don't; I'll buy $300.00 dollars worth, just in case. I'm telling all of you, that I've seen this before, but not with a company as vital as Freddy Mac and Fanny Mae. A fraction of a penny bet is well worth it to me. If I'm wrong, $500.00 dollars gone still makes me poor. Being right could mean as much as $12 Million dollars in my stock portfolio.
amg72 says: " Yes the government did create these agencies and IMHO they never should have been privated. How can an entity be set up both to help the public and to make profits for it's investors? "
But they did do this didn't they? And they did it for years. Real Estate isn't just Business, It's Big Business and Fanny Mae and Freddy Mac were the Lubricants to these transactions they brought fluiditity to this industry for years. I put it out there. Each do what is within your own will. Remember your disregard here later, ok ?
Javan2
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How a black male can approach white women... help
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9/8/2008 6:53:11 PM
JulieC29 says; " I didn't know because I am white there are special instructions or some kind of checklist to go through before asking me out."
This is funny because I remember when I was 14 years old. My next door neighbor who was a white young lady (lady1) had her girl cousin (named Gloria) visit her every once in awhile. One day my neighbor (lady1) asked me; " Would you like to go out with Gloria " ? To me; for some reason, " This question felt like an accusation ". I tried to ignore the question because, I couldn't figure out why my neighbor wanted to put her cousin on the spot like that and because the question felt to me like an accusation, I just tried to ignore it. My neighbor kept pressing me for an answer and continued to ask the question, I continued to ignore it. Finally, she commanded my attention by raising her voice and looking me squarely in the eye and asked me again demanding an answer right then and there. I don't think that she had a clue that to me, the question felt accusatory. Being quick to try to display my innocence, I answered; " No ". Gloria quickly looked at me and said, " You racist son of a **** ". Huh?; I thought I was trying to keep (lady1) from putting Gloria on the spot, but it was Gloria who put my neighbor (lady1) up to asking me. I would never ask a whitewomen out because I would never assume that a whitewoman would ever be interested. Plus; mostly I was raised to try not to be a bother to women. Yet, I still meet and date my fair share.
Javan2
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How a black male can approach white women... help
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9/8/2008 6:30:00 PM
Soul Union says; " Thanks, NVictor. I don't believe either, and God has made it clear in the Bible, in race mixing. It sends shivers down my spine, the very thought of it. "
Soul Union never read Numbers 12 in the Bible. You know where Moses Married a Blackwoman. We all know that Moses looked like Charlton Heston.
Javan2
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Will Fanny Mae (FNM) & Freddy Mac (FRE) stock go to zero in Price?
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9/8/2008 11:24:27 AM
Currently these shares are selling for .86 cents per share. The speed of the fall seems to suggest that the shares will go to Zero. I for one can not not play these at that price. Zero represents some (yet unknown, fraction of a penny). Which could mean many 100's of a percent return on each penny's rise. Example; to buy at 1/16 of one penny. If the shares were to go up one penny after that, the return would be 1,600% from one single penny's rise. The compounding interest would be mindblowing. These shares here are very high risk, but the reward far outweighs the risk in this situation in my opinion. The government take -over seems to be temporary.
Javan2
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Stalkers are sexy...
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9/7/2008 9:21:15 AM
Wow, sounds like you had an interesting week.
Javan2
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Meeting Men Is Hard
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9/6/2008 1:18:32 PM
That's what you get for not having the dress code talk, before the date, over the telephone.
Javan2
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Joe Biden calls for prosecution of George Bush (maybe)
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9/5/2008 4:20:57 PM
Joe Biden ? Watch Out Republicans for John McCain !!!! Anyone noticing or even listening to McCain and his would be V.P. ......? From what my ears have heard, don't be surprised when or if they get into office that they go after many people in their own party. I get a funny feeling that alot of the beloved members of the republican party and some democrats are going to be in trouble.
Javan2
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Texas Homeowners Defend Themselves with Criminal's Guns
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9/5/2008 4:12:01 PM
I love the story. The one guy had better not tell it while in " The Cut " (the Jail; for the uninitiated) .
Javan2
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Would you open you marriage to save it?
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8/27/2008 1:03:30 PM
No, I wouldn't. Why be married? Just be friends with Benefits.
Javan2
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Your worst sexual experience
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8/26/2008 10:53:55 PM
gnuru75 says, " I was attempting to go down on a woman. I made it to her bellybutton before the absolute rotten stench of garbage and evil reached my olfactory system and I started retching. Beautiful woman, perfect hygiene...except in the one important (at the time) area. She started crying and left. I attempted to clean the smell out my mattress and ended up giving it to Goodwill, late at night, dropping it off behind the store, as the smell just did not come out and began to permeate and influence my home in foul ways.
I never talked to her again, but have always been curious as to if she used roadkill as sex toys.
Strangely enough; I find that the more education a woman has, the more this seems to be the case. Less educated women almost always seem to have the freshest smelling P*ssies. I don't understand why this seems to be the case? Can a woman explain this to me?
aloooohaha; I love it when a woman says, "Pussy".
Javan2
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Any Good Way To Talk About Race?
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8/22/2008 8:19:12 PM
"Why is Obama reffered to as "black"?
The answer to this question has it's root in history. You'd have to really understand America's segregated history. In the not so long ago past especially in the south, white-racist would trip over themselves to prove who was more racist. The stronger your racism, the more one was rooted to "The Southern Way of Life". The silliness got so silly that, soon after it became popular for them to say, " If a white-person has one drop of Black-Blood, in my eyes (the racist might say); He's still "an adulterated spanish word for Black". This idea wasn't born from the Black community if that's what you wanted to know. Most of us simply acquiesced to the notion. Interesting, too; how many (racist/tribalist collectivist) complain that Mexicans should speak english, yet many love trying to speak this spanish word and even manage to screw that up.
Javan2
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Any Good Way To Talk About Race?
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8/17/2008 2:43:42 PM
Apologist~D.A...... I get mean looks from Blackwomen, too. Does that mean that they hate me too, because I'm black? Alot of people get mean looks from a whole lot of other people.
Javan2
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Why do men ask me what do I do for a living?
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8/17/2008 10:35:37 AM
I care that you can handle your business and not be a future burdon on me. Why would I want to take on a dependent?
Javan2
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Fox news did it again... (Ted Stevens)
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8/16/2008 10:17:57 PM
Rupert Murdock did this to our news. We don't get news anymore.
Javan2
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Scary - Sex Offender and POF
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8/16/2008 10:03:46 PM
Sorry, but women are smart to have some fear, or to be gun toting.
Javan2
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Is he a possible pedophile?
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8/16/2008 1:15:38 PM
It's kind of sad that you even have to ask this question. But if you go to www.familywatchdog.com it will scare the heck out of you.
Javan2
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Any Good Way To Talk About Race?
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8/16/2008 4:48:26 AM
" Any Good way to talk About Race " ? I'm presuming across cultural lines. Well, there's a group of people who call themselves, " Baha`is "; " They are members of the Baha`i Faith ". They seem to do well at discussing this topic. Members of the Baha`i Faith exist in every city in America ( see your local Yellow Pages to find your local group). This may be a problem for some, but the Baha`is believe in "One Race", "The Human Race". This being a core belief, it should come to no surprise to learn that the "Baha`i Faith" also promotes interracial and inter-cultural marriage across racial-cultural and economic lines. I can share this because I'm not a member of the Baha`i Faith. If I were Baha`i, I would not be able to share this with you.
Javan2
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ETHNIC ATTRACTION...
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8/16/2008 4:05:26 AM
JohnSeven said, "Just this week I heard "Id never date a black guy...well, maybe 50cent"
Really? Interesting. 50 cent ? Leaves me a bit conflicted in how to comment. On the one hand, " There couldn't be a more stereotypical Blackman to choose." Yet, unstereotypically, " 50 cent made over $500 million dollars from just investing nothing more than his signature."
Javan2
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Short Replies
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8/13/2008 8:15:22 PM
Andyjp; Try joining Toastmasters. It will help with the anxiety in socializing. Feel the fear and just walk through it. The more you do it, the easier it gets. Toastmasters isn't about dating, but it will deal directly with the social anxiety thing.
Javan2
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How did I end up with another cheater?!
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8/13/2008 7:57:49 PM
snhagood; If you both seriously agreed to be exclusive, I feel bad for your situation. If you felt genuine closeness to his family, it's ok to call them and to tell them only that you and their son are no longer a couple. I really feel bad that your story validates my view about relationships. I wanna say it, but I don't want to offend your sensibilities. I can only put it in a way that I think a woman would understand. Snhagood, I no longer have any faith in my ability to pick a mate. So, I won't pick one. The only thing I can do is have friends. I'm going to leave it there because if I say anymore, I risk sounding crass. I don't want to sound that way given your situation. Good Luck to you and God Bless.
Javan2
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If you were dating someone that your child/children did not like would you break up, or would you stay????
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8/12/2008 9:43:48 PM
Sounds like (sorry); "Are you putting your kid up to not liking her" ? Abuses can happen any-which-way. Drugs indeed are a very serious problem. But no, children should not be that close to the love-lives of their parents. They don't get to decide. But you could make the case that because the woman is/was a drug user, that your kid not be alone with her. I would understand that. I remember a woman wanted a first date with me, but she wanted to bring her kid. I thought it was weird and never bothered afterwards. I would never tell my children who they should love, so the favor should easily be returned. My mother stuck her nose in my love life once and I made it clear to her that from now on out, she'll never again meet another one of my lovers. I separate my love-life from certain other parts of my life and it works.
Javan2
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Why do some men act interested, then pull back?
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8/12/2008 5:24:35 PM
It happened to me too windsor saints08. But it wasn't that I thought it was a joke. I feared future heartbreak. I knew that once I had this girl. My heart would not have been able to take losing her. I choose to not miss what I never had and rejected her offers of growing closer. That was over 21 years ago and today, I can't get her out of my mind.
Javan2
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how can you tell if a man loves you, what are the signs?
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8/5/2008 10:45:27 AM
If a man gives you the pin# to his ATM card, he loves you.
Javan2
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law enforcement using pof to trap criminals?
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8/3/2008 8:24:53 PM
From what I've been told. Only a crazy person would actually use a drug's name on the internet. Instead, people would say something like "420 friendly". This is what I was told when I asked someone else on-line about it. They wouldn't be on this site doing it. They would be on Craig's List. I see this on Craig's List A whole lot. And they use it on those night-time chat-lines on latenight T.V., too; from what I was told.
Javan2
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Tired of being the till somone better comes along guy
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8/3/2008 7:49:06 PM
Are you crazy? I love being that guy !!!!
Javan2
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How do you feel about Interracial Dating ?
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8/3/2008 7:27:41 PM
Honestly, I think the danger in doing it rises in proportion to how socially active the couple is naturally. Loners have a much easier time and social butterflys open themselves up to more difficulty.
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