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TheBossZZ4

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What's goin' on tonight?? Posted: 7/11/2009 1:06:22 PM
Couple of us soldiers are gonna be hangin' out tonight cause we're goin' into the field this week. None of us are from around here, so we don't know much of what there is to do! So we're gonna grab a room somewhere and hang out at the pool and have a fun last night of freedom. Anyone wanna join? Shoot me a mail!

TheBossZZ4

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Olathe Sidepockets – Jan 16th 2009. Friday 9 PM, Charlie & The Stingrays Posted: 1/13/2009 6:33:14 PM
Will definitely keep this in mind!

TheBossZZ4

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Calling in help! What do I do!? Posted: 1/12/2009 5:04:19 PM
LoL... I know what ya mean penelope. If they military wanted you to have a woman, they would've issued you one. I'm just letting it ride for now. We talked again, and it was another wonderful conversation, in depth, and constructive. She said she'd still like to talk when I can, and I will still talk to her. She is talking to other guys, which is fine, otherwise I'd be psychotic. I care about her enough to know she deserves what she wants, and she needs to find it no matter where or who it might be.

TheBossZZ4

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Calling in help! What do I do!? Posted: 1/9/2009 7:54:49 PM
Me leaving is inevitable... the worry, or any other emotion of it is a bi-product, I can't help that. Never gave her any guilt trip about it or anything. And yer right, it would make it harder, but I know how to control my emotions enough to deal with it, let alone there's plenty more harder things I'm worrying about. I appreciate the 2 cents, and ultimately, that's the reality of it. That IS where my mind is. I'm not some new recruit out of college, so I know what ya mean.

TheBossZZ4

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Calling in help! What do I do!? Posted: 1/9/2009 7:08:01 PM
She just IM'ed me, said she missed talking to me, and hopes to talk to me soon. I wasn't here to reply then. Either she's chokin' my chain really good, or there was validity to our conversation like I thought. I hope I'm not wrong in this, but you know when you first talk to someone and you can just tell they speak from the heart? I feel that... though I've been through enough to there's always variables, so I play it with my head as well as with my heart.

TheBossZZ4

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Calling in help! What do I do!? Posted: 1/8/2009 12:05:51 PM
Obsessed? Try passionate to find the love of yer life and eliminating all possibilities. I'm far from obsessed, but that's always easy to say on the outside looking in.

TheBossZZ4

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Calling in help! What do I do!? Posted: 1/8/2009 11:42:53 AM
Navigator, I am on a mission, you're right. But if it's with her or not, I don't know, cause yer all right, I have not met her yet! I won't ask ANYone to be commited to me for 8 months unless they were married to me, especially if I just met them. She knows this. If she were to wait, that would be her decision, and I want want someone inteligent enough to make that decision. What I'm talking about here is her fear of having to face that dilema after meeting me. I just want to meet, and hang out. At least once before I go. Sure, it sounds selfish, but if she is looking for the same things in life, how is that just thinking about me? My hope is just for a mutual meet. NOT for her to stay commited to me, NOT to begin a relationship before I go. Originally, those were her arguements of "why not?" After AIT, I have 6 choices of state side, and 6 choices of over sea's (including Hawaii and Alaska) that I can be based at. They said in the Army, you usually get one of those choices. She does say she likes to travel, so why not travel to see me? lol

TheBossZZ4

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Calling in help! What do I do!? Posted: 1/8/2009 7:15:44 AM
Thanks all. Yer right actualizing, I should just have faith and let whatever will happen, happen. But I do know that sometimes you have to fight for many of the good things in life, and if it was that easy, everyone would do it. She did say she was flattered, but I'm not even there, if I see something good, why shouldn't I fight for it? Thanks for the realization though that I should give her more benefit of the doubt of her knowing her right... yer right! It's a double edged sword to me. One side, you know you have to fight for what's right. On the other side, some things are inevitable, and they're gonna take it's course in life. The trick is, knowing what situations in life are which. We didn't even get to the point of exchanging numbers, let alone anything else. And really, I totally respect her decision, I told her to forgive me of my persistance, lol... but can anyone blame me for presenting an argument to her? I am living in the moment, I have to, and I wanted to live in it with her at least just once. Just to see what would happen. Just sucks is all. A lot.

TheBossZZ4

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Calling in help! What do I do!? Posted: 1/8/2009 6:30:08 AM
I am really at a loss here... after so many years of being on this site, dating so much in my life, I thought I found her. On Feb. 3rd, I leave here, Kansas City, to Army training for at least 8 months. That's over 3 weeks away. I'm still single, and honestly, was just looking for friends in my area, maybe a date or two to just enjoy some good company with, maybe selflessly spoil a bit cause that's the kinda guy I am. Just a few days ago, I meet someone who seems oh so perfect to me. She's unbelievable. She has been single for a very long time I guess, and is looking for the real deal, something serious. She's close to her family, educated, very attractive, sweet, even a little tom-boyish cause she likes outdoors and has interest in motorcycles. I chat with her saying I'd just like to meet someone to have a good time (yes, the innocent kind!), just so I can leave here with a smile on my face of good memories with hopefully a great person. Well in talking to her, she totally changed that. She is an AWESOME someone. We had a wonderful conversation that went into the night, and even made plans to meet up sometime shortly. I told her I was leaving soon, but it didn't seem to mind her cause the right person is worth waiting for right? Well to try and make this shorter, she told me last night that she didn't think it'd be a good idea to meet, cause she thought she could really fall for me, and she doesn't think she'd want to get into something like that with someone who will be leaving for 8 months. And y'know, any other person I'd probably understand, but with her... I dunno, there was just so much chemistry that was alive, enough in common to talk about for hours, never a dull moment! It has changed my feelings on getting involved with someone before I leave, but I had already told her, I won't ask anyone to wait for me. I just don't think that's fair cause it sounds selfish on my part. Normally, I'd be afraid of just getting hurt in the end, and just let it go... but she really does seem worth fighting for, I just didn't know it'd be her I'd be "fighting". Should I just let this go and see where the dust settles? Or should I keep my persistance and fight for what I think and want what could be a wonderful lasting relationship, and who knows, maybe more than that! Both of us want the end result in a relationship/marriage... and I'm not even saying that'd happen! But when things click so well? Is it dumb of me to let it go? I'm at a loss, and I don't want to be pushy about it, or annoying. Right now, the reality is, I am just another guy to her, and she is just another girl... but I don't want it to end like that. If all else fails, I told her when I am finished in 8 months, I'll definitely be looking her up. But she's not even sure if we should talk again. Help????

TheBossZZ4

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Sept. 6 - Rock and Roll Dance - Learn to Swing Dance, too! Posted: 8/7/2008 6:11:48 PM
Is this where Louis Ball teach's? I really gotta make one of these gigs. I miss swinging... watching "American Graffiti" here just makes me eark for more!

TheBossZZ4

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Dancing Fun - Dance However You Like or Learn to Swing! Posted: 7/21/2008 5:31:47 PM
I'd really like to attend this.... crap, I will try!

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Kansas City and surrounding areas ~ April 19th 2008 ~ 8:00pm ~ FunkyTown Posted: 4/18/2008 7:08:21 PM
I'm gonna try and make it, but I'll be in Platte almost all day, so we'll see what's up when I can.

TheBossZZ4

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Any other POF motorcyclists out there? Posted: 3/28/2008 9:27:58 AM
Can't make it next weekend. I'll be putting together some stuff for the swap meet at the track that Sunday, let alone I have to work the event. It's racer's appreciation, so if you all are up to it, you should come out for a while. It's a destination.

TheBossZZ4

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KC...BD's MONGOLIAN BBQ...Mid Week Dinner Meet...TUESDAY, March 25th...6:30 p.m. Posted: 3/28/2008 6:46:42 AM
It's not my place I'm cleaning up, they're coming over to my folks's place cause we need the room, lol.

TheBossZZ4

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KC...BD's MONGOLIAN BBQ...Mid Week Dinner Meet...TUESDAY, March 25th...6:30 p.m. Posted: 3/27/2008 10:22:51 AM
Wow that's just wrong, lol... I sense a redirect from Tpot now. It ok to be crazy T. We can't all be normal, that'd be boring.

TheBossZZ4

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KC...BD's MONGOLIAN BBQ...Mid Week Dinner Meet...TUESDAY, March 25th...6:30 p.m. Posted: 3/26/2008 12:42:36 PM
Cause I need to clean the place up tpot. I have people coming into town for the party, let alone the party is starting at my place to begin with. Quit givin' me crap! lol

TheBossZZ4

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KC...BD's MONGOLIAN BBQ...Mid Week Dinner Meet...TUESDAY, March 25th...6:30 p.m. Posted: 3/25/2008 2:46:44 PM
If you were buying a rebuilt truck for your own business, you'd pay attention too! lol Really sorry folks, don't think I'ma make it. The truck, BD coming up, everything in between, just a busy week. Next week is much better odds.

TheBossZZ4

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Any other POF motorcyclists out there? Posted: 3/24/2008 7:41:41 PM
If I still had my 10, I'd say lets go!

TheBossZZ4

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KC...BD's MONGOLIAN BBQ...Mid Week Dinner Meet...TUESDAY, March 25th...6:30 p.m. Posted: 3/24/2008 7:40:51 PM
Still gonna try and make it tomorrow, but we'll see.

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KC...BD's MONGOLIAN BBQ...Mid Week Dinner Meet...TUESDAY, March 25th...6:30 p.m. Posted: 3/24/2008 5:44:41 PM
Goodness Juni, don't talk about her kitty like that!

TheBossZZ4

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KC...BD's MONGOLIAN BBQ...Mid Week Dinner Meet...TUESDAY, March 25th...6:30 p.m. Posted: 3/23/2008 4:13:38 PM
Guess that's why I didn't promise you ya goof, lol.

TheBossZZ4

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KC...BD's MONGOLIAN BBQ...Mid Week Dinner Meet...TUESDAY, March 25th...6:30 p.m. Posted: 3/22/2008 1:49:06 PM
Yet the peanut butter made Mr. Ed a talking bafoon! lol

TheBossZZ4

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KC...BD's MONGOLIAN BBQ...Mid Week Dinner Meet...TUESDAY, March 25th...6:30 p.m. Posted: 3/22/2008 6:54:57 AM
Well the kitty of kc is talking me into planning for it, and I am, but no promises. Have a 1 day weekend from the regular job, and with easter and all, just don't wanna make any promises, lol.

TheBossZZ4

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Any other POF motorcyclists out there? Posted: 3/20/2008 2:54:00 PM
2 bikes here. I put on cruise events quite often with the club.

TheBossZZ4

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KC...BUFFALO WILD WINGS...WEDS. 3/19...6:30 p.m. Posted: 3/20/2008 2:39:48 PM
Well yer 1... where's the rest of 'em? Or does what happen at PoF parties stay at PoF parties? pin drop

TheBossZZ4

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KC...BUFFALO WILD WINGS...WEDS. 3/19...6:30 p.m. Posted: 3/20/2008 10:00:23 AM
Well... how'd it go? Is everyone so hungover that I drunk them under the table without even being there? lol

TheBossZZ4

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KC...BUFFALO WILD WINGS...WEDS. 3/19...6:30 p.m. Posted: 3/19/2008 4:33:11 PM
HA HA! I just realized it's the one in OP... I was thinking of the one in Independance. This IS the MO forum, lol. Oh well, still can't make it.

TheBossZZ4

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KC...BUFFALO WILD WINGS...WEDS. 3/19...6:30 p.m. Posted: 3/19/2008 4:31:22 PM
Not gonna make it folks, sorry... Birthday is next Sat. 29th. Having the party at my folks's house, and then after party at Legends. My VP for the truck club will be in town from Hutch, she's kinda up around yer age's. Should help me show her how we do it here in KC! 'Cept her hubby will be here to, so don't get her in trouble with yer horny selves! Now about that slumber party....... lol.

TheBossZZ4

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KC...BUFFALO WILD WINGS...WEDS. 3/19...6:30 p.m. Posted: 3/19/2008 12:23:06 PM
Yes, I'm having a BD party. Will be an after party at the Legends. Corona is a nice place, but it's good for drinks an nothing more. I've been there 5 times, and EVERY time I went was one of the worst food experience's I've ever had, and the service... yeah, not doin' it ever again. Several new places open, but all the spaces are pretty much used up now, wondering if it's gonna plain off for a bit.

TheBossZZ4

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KC...BUFFALO WILD WINGS...WEDS. 3/19...6:30 p.m. Posted: 3/19/2008 10:36:52 AM
It's not the ride, I just literally have things to do. About to buy a truck for a biz, and still doing research on it, let alone tear down on the other truck. Finishing up my tax's. Gotta finish up cleaning what I started for my BD party coming up. Kinda see what I'm gettin' at? I ain't scurred, lol.

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KC...BUFFALO WILD WINGS...WEDS. 3/19...6:30 p.m. Posted: 3/19/2008 9:42:26 AM
Nice try eso, lol. If you wanna make it over by the Legends, I could stop in, but Wild Wings is other side of town.

TheBossZZ4

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KC...BUFFALO WILD WINGS...WEDS. 3/19...6:30 p.m. Posted: 3/19/2008 7:08:40 AM
HA HA! You guys crack me up. I don't know if I can make it tonight, got a lot of things going on that I need to finish up like a good boy should. But I'll def. be willing to drink one of you ladies under the table anytime, lol. Or if you have that little slumber party, may have to go pick up fasteddy and crash it to live up to the rumor. Have a great evening if I don't come!

TheBossZZ4

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Why don't more men dance? Posted: 3/17/2008 7:26:20 PM
Who's yer teacher Deb? I used to swing back in HS. I miss it. Had the perfect instructor too.. nicest cat you'd ever meet.

TheBossZZ4

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KC...BUFFALO WILD WINGS...WEDS. 3/19...6:30 p.m. Posted: 3/17/2008 7:24:28 PM
Would like to go, but I don't think I could make it. To far for right now. Plus I doubt you all would care to have a youngin' around, lol. Wouldn't wanna drink you guys under the table or anything.

TheBossZZ4

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Why don't more men dance? Posted: 12/27/2007 5:21:24 PM
Funny... no girls wanted to dance at the last party. I was the only one.

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AFTERMATH...The St. Louis POF Strat Party Pics! Posted: 8/28/2007 6:56:15 PM
Kinda glad I didn't go, I would've been the baby of the crowd probably, lol.

TheBossZZ4

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Are there any single women that understand the Harley lifestyle Posted: 8/27/2007 5:28:31 PM
If you ladies don't ride, you're missin' out. It doesn't have to be a "lifestyle" per say... just an experience is enough.

TheBossZZ4

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why is there not more interest in the parties Posted: 8/27/2007 5:24:22 PM
Springfield isn't exactly in my area, lol. Plus most meets are at places I really don't care to go to. Most of the TIME though, I usually am just a day short, and a penny late... er somethin' like that.

TheBossZZ4

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sex only Posted: 7/24/2007 10:22:13 AM
Why make it more complicated than what it is? If it's what he wants, move on with it. If it's not what he wants, move away from it. If it's what he wants, and doesn't pursue it, then he's lazy... and move on from it. Is there something "so" special about him that you are with him? Cause I didn't see anything positive come out of anything you said.

TheBossZZ4

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Kansas City Posted: 6/30/2007 2:40:55 PM
That is good, lol.

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Do you all feel this way? Posted: 5/16/2007 7:54:05 PM
Well cause usually if it's less than a (what he describes to be) "relationship", it'd be called a "friendship." I see where he's coming from, but in IMO, "relationship" doesn't always imply exclusive.

TheBossZZ4

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Spring Wine and Blues Bash Posted: 5/16/2007 7:51:17 PM
Ouch... that's to far away, but I would've loved to go!

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IMPORTANT READ FOR EVERYONE! Posted: 5/16/2007 7:51:00 PM
I've heard of stuff like this, but didn't know it was main streaming now. Kinda sad to think about it that way, but I guess that shows you how much I'm outta the loop on this dating stuff, lol. Hope all ended up alright in the end. Thanks for the heads up!

TheBossZZ4

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Nice Guys Finish....FIRST!!! Posted: 5/8/2007 4:49:32 PM
Yeah... but I betcha he gets all the girls cause of that attitude. Been there, done that, it works.

TheBossZZ4

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Nice Guys Finish....FIRST!!! Posted: 5/7/2007 10:15:24 AM
lol brett... boy that's the cliche isn't it? I usually become mean after that, cause that's pretty much just an insult if you ask me.

TheBossZZ4

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why are guys so forward? Posted: 5/3/2007 2:33:01 PM
deerdog1... vakarazz... you both hit it right on the money. Just about every other guys comment is the biproduct of that.

TheBossZZ4

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why are guys so forward? Posted: 5/2/2007 6:33:36 PM
Again... why are GIRLS forward? Be lucky you're a girl, and all a guy wants from you is sex. If you were a guy, that girl would want yer sex, yer car, yer house, yer bank account, yer life style, yer "status". At least HE is gone in the morning! lol But seriously, girls are just as bad about things like this as guys. Girls just have a better way of hiding their sexual intentions. Everyone's different, and wants/looks for different things.

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why are guys so forward? Posted: 5/2/2007 3:11:10 PM
Guys forward? As if some girls aren't as well? I think it's all relative.

TheBossZZ4

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Big Beautiful Girls VS Small Beautiful Girls Posted: 5/2/2007 3:07:35 PM
There's a point where a "big" girl can be TO big, and can be very unhealthy. Really, nobody has an excuse to be a big person, there's always ways to help, and get around. Good old fashion exercise and stinkin' with it. But for some people, it's difficult to get it off, and keeping it off. Frankly, it's the same with thin girls. If it's an unhealthy thin person, that's just as unattractive as an unhealthy big person. Point is, there's a line that's gotta be drawn on both ends of the spectrum. If you're unhealthy, and it shows in size, THAT is what I would say is unattractive to me. Not just because they're big, or just because they're thin.

TheBossZZ4

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Do women really like threesomes Posted: 5/2/2007 2:58:01 PM
FYI: "Gay" in today's terms is being all for sexual encounter with the same sex. A 3-some with MFM, is with both sex's. A "gay" person will not have sex with the opposite sex. Bi-sexual, or bi-curious... now that is debatable. I've seen, let alone heard of plenty of guys doing MFM 3-some's that are straight as an arrow. Hell, I used to work in the porn industry, I've seen it all, and enough of it!

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