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Thread: Ice Cream
richl671
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Ice Cream
Posted:
7/19/2005 4:44:43 PM
At one point it was my favorite but for some reason I can no longer have B&J's...gives me a stomach ache I can't begin to describe.
I'll have to go with Turkey Hill.
richl671
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What has a Player Played you for?
Posted:
7/19/2005 4:39:48 PM
I can usually spot the players...it is the psyco's I'm trying to get radar for.
Needless to say I've never played or been played.
richl671
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cheer up everybody
Posted:
7/19/2005 4:34:46 PM
Wow...that did nothing for me.
I've seen to good I've seen the bad you take them both and there you have...my stinking life
richl671
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How do I meet a nice girl
Posted:
7/19/2005 4:32:11 PM
I've been hearing confidence works...but since I don't have it I can't tell you.
richl671
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Is it so wierd that a women wants more than JUST SEX!
Posted:
7/19/2005 4:27:17 PM
If she is a keeper than I think waiting can be worth it...to a point.
I try avoiding sexual conversations in fear that I'll get turned down.
I can find dates but I only seem to be a form of entertainment.
richl671
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Dating with feelings for another
Posted:
7/19/2005 4:12:57 PM
Should you or Would I?
I wouldn't...but again I'm not exactly normal.
richl671
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sick and tired
Posted:
7/18/2005 6:49:09 PM
Sorry for the double post but:
I did a "test" on another site, and found out I did not get 10x the response by posting a picture. Maybe I'm down right frightening but I've never been told so. I do not have hardly any pictures of myself and I do not like taking them because of obvious esteem issues. If I make it past the first chat session with a woman I will send a picture but they always want more. Then add in all the outdated pictures, phony, touched up and stolen pictures I've come across I really see no point.
richl671
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Why Do Exes Check In?
Posted:
7/18/2005 6:43:31 PM
I always thought that was a ...I wonder if they are better off than I.
richl671
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I need some advice
Posted:
7/18/2005 6:41:49 PM
3 Years?
I've been out 8-9 months and I may be a little sour but there is NO doubt in my mind that it is over.
richl671
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What's Up With NO PHOTOS?
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7/18/2005 6:31:34 PM
I did a "test" on another site, and found out I did not get 10x the response by posting a picture. Maybe I'm down right frightening but I've never been told so. I do not have hardly any pictures of myself and I do not like taking them because of obvious esteem issues. If I make it past the first chat session with a woman I will send a picture but they always want more. Then add in all the outdated pictures, phony, touched up and stolen pictures I've come across I really see no point.
richl671
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Thanks alot Canada!
Posted:
7/18/2005 10:35:51 AM
If I where Canadian I do the same. I blame GWB
richl671
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my dad
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7/18/2005 10:15:28 AM
If he likes her that much bring proof!
richl671
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Why is it that
Posted:
7/18/2005 10:06:43 AM
If a women has a nice body and wants to show it off good for her.
I assume she already thinks/knows she is eye candy or needs a ego massage.
I have e-mailed a few such ladies only to get a link to a webcam in which I have to provide a credit card for "age verification".
Needless to say I continue to look but will not attempt contact in any shape or form.
richl671
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meaning of dreams?
Posted:
7/18/2005 4:39:57 AM
Google is your friend.
Just type in Dream Interpritation
or Meaning of Dreams.
richl671
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Chest hair or no hair?
Posted:
7/17/2005 10:03:41 PM
If you’re bustin my chops WH I'm game.
I'm not a literary genius but I don't scare easily either.
I'm built like your d!ldo...used and abused and I still won't break
richl671
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Do Men Truly Appreciate........
Posted:
7/17/2005 9:47:26 PM
Have you ever seen Judge Joe Brown on TV?
He has similiar outlook. Nothing like good ol' trashy daytime television
richl671
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meaning of dreams?
Posted:
7/17/2005 9:40:25 PM
Car -Personal power. Ego.
Accident - Unexpected change. Upset. Life being threatened.
Death - End of a cycle. Something is finally over.
Son - Descendant. Youth. Projection of self. There is something that has been denied to you.
richl671
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are you kinky or not?
Posted:
7/17/2005 9:30:03 PM
The POF tests basically say I'm the kinky boy next door...Don't really compare so don't know if it's true.
richl671
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Chest hair or no hair?
Posted:
7/17/2005 9:28:14 PM
Alright! My genetics have finally paid off.
I'm a hairless monkey, well except for the head and head.
I got spidey nipples is that OK
richl671
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Socio-economic status?!
Posted:
7/17/2005 9:25:00 PM
Sorry about being OT.
posts are disappearing?
There are actaully mods that delete post?
This just gets uglier and uglier.
richl671
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Socio-economic status?!
Posted:
7/17/2005 9:22:06 PM
I'll settle for a women with a good job and if she makes more than me I have no problems with that. Heck you want to bring home the bread and I can entertain the kids I'm game. I just like these things layed out up front.
richl671
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most unusual request
Posted:
7/17/2005 9:12:54 PM
"^^^so how does the stereo sound?"
LMAO
About a $hitty as that line
richl671
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ADHD children anyone?
Posted:
7/17/2005 9:07:20 PM
I have ADD and APD Try finding a date with that combo.
richl671
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most unusual request
Posted:
7/17/2005 8:59:40 PM
I had a guy walk up to me in Sears while I was looking at stereo and said "Ohh that's a nice setup. $300 wow, I'll give you $300 if you let me suck your...
I think I'm worth more than a lousy $300
richl671
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You can BE and FEEL sexy at any size
Posted:
7/17/2005 5:04:23 PM
Not bad for someone who is a drop out that is half****d?
Yea for me .
I been with a big girl and a skinny and they both had esteem issues as do I.
I've had a woman I couldn’t beat off with a stick and one that ran at the sight of me...Point being there are so many people in this world to let the negative people get to you...myself included.
richl671
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Car Mechanics- Scum of Earth
Posted:
7/17/2005 4:49:54 PM
I find for the gasket to the piston of the caliper to rot and thus causing crap to get into the cylinder. You could get the cylinder honed but they usually replace it.
I've lost the only person I ever trusted with my car...It was a tragic day I will never forget.
I'm going to raise my son to be a Doctor, Lawyer and a car mechanic.
richl671
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You can BE and FEEL sexy at any size
Posted:
7/17/2005 4:36:00 PM
Ouch that hurt...NOT
Obviously not everyone does.
Is this better.,,
You are beautiful no matter what you look like on the outside. People who judge you so negatively are ugly inside. :-P
richl671
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You can BE and FEEL sexy at any size
Posted:
7/17/2005 4:23:41 PM
*News Flash*
This place is full of whiners, complainers, judgmental people of all shapes and sizes.
And they far outnumber the cool, true down to earth people.
Get use to it!
richl671
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Being Excluded
Posted:
7/17/2005 12:22:59 PM
Try being single with a child.
richl671
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Any other hunters in here?
Posted:
7/17/2005 12:19:06 PM
How is hunting with a bow any better than a gun?
Cause it's more difficult? You don't have the range?
Have you ever shot black powder?
richl671
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women with power?
Posted:
7/17/2005 12:14:16 PM
I like the power but I don't look at women who drivve pick-ups.
Seems hillbilly or it's her mans, but that's me.
richl671
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a soldier under a bridge
Posted:
7/17/2005 12:11:15 PM
You've only been a memeber for 10 days?
How many people have you contacted? est?
Keep looking and get home safe.
richl671
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If you could give yourself oral would you?
Posted:
7/17/2005 9:30:35 AM
I could when I was younger and more flexable but found it donwright creepy.
The dreams afterward where just as disturbing..me no likey
richl671
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Advice Please...
Posted:
7/16/2005 5:22:25 PM
I have wanted out for 4 years and have been out for 8 months.
I started to go to counseling before I had left because I didn’t like the way I acted around and towards my son because I lived in the same house. He basically said “She needs Help” and because of what she has been through in life I can agree. When I asked if she would get help she said oh, I’ve tried and Oh, I can’t afford it. So I should put her on my insurance so she can go to counseling?
Perspective does indeed run short…I need to overcome the “I’m hurt so screw your feelings” I really need to get over the animosity before I can accomplish that, just need to figure out how.
Hard thing is I never stop thinking of what I think is best for me and my son. I just don’t want to associate with her what so ever.
Out of options? That is exactly how I feel, that I have none. When I left she kept almost everything and I got stuck paying 2 credit cards, past due utility bills and had to buy my son all new clothes! I spoke to a lawyer and he said to “play nice” or she gets %25 of your paycheck. When I said we agreed on shared custody he said that doesn’t matter. Breathe 1…2…3…lol
Sole custody is out of the question and the lawyer agrees that I have no chance.
How do I get proof? Hire a PI? What purpose will the journal do if it’s just hear say?
I would never use my son against his mother. The reason I ask all these questions is because of her past, not to child friendly to say the least. He goes over to her mothers and her mother did some awful things to her of which I could never forgive. So I feel I need to know everything as I do not want the same things to happen to my son that happened to the ex. I don’t think it’s so much he feels I’m being intrusive as much as she is telling him not to tell daddy certain things. I hope I am wrong but how do I know?
The only thing that bothers me about this guy is the fact that he was mommy’s friend when daddy was around but now that daddy’s gone its mommy’s boyfriend. Does that not confuse a child or am I just over thinking as usual?
Funny you mention exercise I have recently took it up and when I get enough cash I’m getting a punching bag. If I where to go outside and scream the neighbors would call the cops, I’ll scream into a pillow lol. Believe me it did rear its ugly head during the worst times which is why I went to counseling.
I got yelled at for not going up to the house but at least her grandmother still likes me. What do you mean restraining order, for what? How do I go about getting a reliable witness? And if they are with me wouldn’t that be a biased witness?
Yes she is a dependant which is why I left.
Thanks for the advice it made me feel allot better. Looks like I’ll be prioritizing and setting some goals tonight. Even if I cannot find my future mate on POF I’ll be here for the great advice.
Many thanks,
Rich
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Advice Please...
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7/16/2005 2:16:12 PM
I don't know why but when I even think about my ex it upsets me greatly. The sight of her makes my jaw tighten up and stomach hurt. Right before I had left a "guy friend" she was working with taught me how to ride a motorcycle. Well after I had moved out guess who moved in...In about a month? How many people have one in the "batters box" before they are even out of a relationship? Now your probably saying she knew it was coming...according to her she did. But why does she always call up crying saying why do you hate me? And what did I do wrong? And are you seeing anyone?
She even says stuff like I have no money and I don't want to go to court so I took 2 part time jobs. Then complains how she can't spend any time with our son. She has been on 2 vacations this summer and I have been on 0. I have to watch our son when she's away. Now he's crying I miss mommy and I wish I could see mommy and that sort of thing. When I see him upset I think its my fault and feel really bad. So she calls today and I'm doing dishes and when I look over he is covering the phone!
Then when I have my son (he's 7) I ask how his day was and what he did and he avoids the question and says stuff like "mommy told me not to tell you” and references mommy's friend(s) but says he can't say who they are. I am seriously thinking of NOT having anymore children as I don't think I can put another child or myself through this BS.
I don't know any single parents to ask these questions..anybody can help a fella out?
richl671
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Unusual Talents?
Posted:
7/14/2005 12:13:43 PM
I thought they debunked the sound breaking glass on myth busters? I would be interested in seeing this more than hearing it.
I can clap with one hand :-/
richl671
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anyone else been to drunk to finish having sex
Posted:
7/13/2005 4:09:31 PM
An ex was sitting on my face when I pushed her off and told her I was going to be sick. I got her to stop crying after explaining I had a stomach full of beer and motion of the waves was making me sea sick.
richl671
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Awkward sex moments...
Posted:
7/13/2005 4:05:31 PM
100 yards to the finish and the uncle walks in...Dought!
Hearing you child yell....stop hurting mommy! (The door was locked)
richl671
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What kind of driver are behind the wheel
Posted:
7/12/2005 9:22:09 PM
I had a severe case of road rage. I clipped a guy doing 70+ because he cut me off 2 times in less than a mile. I have driven 200,000 miles in the past 5 years from buffalo to Boston, Plattsburg to DC and never hit a thing...sober. Luckily nobody got hurt and I learned a good lesson. I could scare the life out of most people but know worse! But since I learned to ride a motorcycle I have more of the "fend for my life" mentality. It good to eventually pull your head from your hind quarter.
richl671
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Have you ever been caught Masturbating?
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7/12/2005 9:18:55 PM
Don't know how...But never caught actaully in the act. I'm like quick draw Mcgraw...I can holster my side arm in a blink of an eye
richl671
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tonights question
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7/12/2005 8:49:37 PM
I've done it many times. Just like Gel tabs I have controlled release.
richl671
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What does it mean when a guy says it's me not you?
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7/12/2005 8:21:44 PM
It is my way of saying...You have a specific personality trait or "thing" in which you do that I know you cannot change and I accept that, but I feel I really need _________.
richl671
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definition of the worst day of your life?
Posted:
7/12/2005 3:07:03 PM
Loosing my job the day my son was diagnosed with a terminal illness. Then getting a ticket for running a red light on my way to the hospital.
richl671
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when online women take offense at you not remembering your name
Posted:
7/12/2005 3:00:13 PM
Name!
I'm more worried about the specifics...another good reason to save e-mails.
richl671
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I almost went on a date
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7/12/2005 2:53:18 PM
I almost went on a date until she asked "so you want more kids, right?
Because everyone I know is married and has kids already."
I almost went on a date until she said "I was working today and this little ba$tard started kicking and biting me". She was a teachers assistant at a school for severly trouble children. Did I mention in her profile she said she likes kids?
richl671
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single dads - am i the only 1 under the age of 25!!!
Posted:
7/12/2005 2:39:22 PM
My son is 7 and I am 27. I have a hard time dealing with "the ex" but our son gets everything he needs.
richl671
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an issue of privacy
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7/12/2005 12:19:57 PM
I have the same problem. I don't like introducing my son to "possibles" and I work long hours and have had my son almost every weekend this summer. She will call and say stuff like I have no money so I took on extra hours and I need you to watch our son. If I say no it's off to the courts so I was told by a lawyer to "play nice"... So much for 50/50
richl671
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SEX HISTORY. BOTH PARTHYS HAVE THE RIGHT TO KNOW ABOUT EACH OTHER SEX PAST?
Posted:
7/12/2005 8:29:05 AM
Past year is all I want to know.
Considering I can count on one hand when some people need to take thier shoes off.
But I will provide and require in return a clean BOH.
richl671
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Reponding to your e-amil ladies
Posted:
7/11/2005 9:03:49 PM
While on another sight I had been chatting with this girl on and off.
When I checked my messages I was somehow in her account.
That's when I realized....holy crap she had a boat load of e-mails and winks.
Look to me like a part time job sorting through it all.
I'm begining to think that online dating services hire people to set up fake profiles of beautiful women...and then force you to give them money so you can talk to them.
richl671
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Druggies
Posted:
7/11/2005 8:53:00 PM
I can accept pot, as long as they can accept the consequences if they get caught with it.
I've been around alcoholics and "marijuana" users. Ill take the "druggies"
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