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imsickofthegame

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Are there ANY women here who don't drink? Posted: 1/22/2009 1:54:26 PM
I'm starting to believe the wisdom of your edit funchick. I may edit my profile to sound less prohibitive. It's an odd situation to be in- I would be happier with someone who isn't interested in drinking at all, but since it's so uncommon, I have to make sure people know I won't STOP them from doing it. Nice to see so many people that consider social drinking to be genuinely uncommon drinking though. I always assumed it meant "anytime I go out with friends".

imsickofthegame

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Kinky or Vanilla...are you born either one? Posted: 1/22/2009 1:42:13 PM
This is like the "nature or nurture" argument about gays, which I won't get into. As for sex, I fully believe it's what you're exposed to. When I was a wee lad, I thought two women getting together was bizarre. Then when I witnessed my first porno, I realized how awesome it could be. I wish I could explain why, but that's for Freud I guess. Similarly, I'm not into anything fancy or serious enough to have a name and culture surrounding it, but there are little tricks and treats that develop over time from books, pop culture, and personal experience. I'm by far more on the vanilla side, but I guess I dabble a bit in moderate kink, and I have curious ex-girlfriends to thank for that. I guess like the tongue, your mind has taste buds, and until you experience different flavors, you don't know that you might be intrigued by what you sample. Inborn? Perhaps. But it takes someone or something else to awaken it.

imsickofthegame

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Are there ANY women here who don't drink? Posted: 1/22/2009 1:37:24 PM
I actually don't require it, I'm just happier with other non-drinkers. I think it's become this way because I've met so many people whose small social drinking becomes full-blown reliance on the stuff when I'm not paying attention. So in fairness to potential dates, I advertise that I'm not a drinker. I've been passed on many times for this fact unfortunately, so when you say there's obviously a lot of women who don't drink, it makes me wonder what country they live in, heh.

imsickofthegame

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I don't understand guys at all Posted: 1/22/2009 1:34:54 PM
That's the way I understand it, sum1. As for lady, I'm in the same boat. I don't understand women at all. ;)

imsickofthegame

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Are there ANY women here who don't drink? Posted: 1/22/2009 1:20:17 PM
Interesting. And I agree with the comment about religious fundamentalists and AA patrons. I'm not either one so that puts me in a really weird spot. I wonder if I should declare that I'm not part of said groups on my profile because I don't want to project the wrong message...

imsickofthegame

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Can a guy approach a girl? Posted: 1/22/2009 1:07:53 PM
In my experience it's very difficult for a man to do the approaching because he has to not only gently show interest but also somehow disprove any misconceptions and fears about intent that may be swimming around in her head. The man has to overcome the baggage of her past experiences and make himself stand out as "genuine". And of course if you're shy like me you get nowhere because if you don't try HARD enough, they don't take you seriously. Lol.

imsickofthegame

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Are there ANY women here who don't drink? Posted: 1/22/2009 1:04:11 PM
Just curious- I'm looking to get the opinions on this because being that I'm not a drinker-at all- meaning I don't even SIP anything alcoholic- it's very difficult to meet women who feel the same way. I'm posting this in the interest of not only wanting to see how some of you ladies define "social drinking" as well as being interested in if you have any female friends that don't drink (not to meet, although I wouldn't be against it lol, but rather to get some statistics here). I know I'm uncommon in my abstinence (and it's a personal choice for many reasons), but are there really NO women who dislike alcohol? I do see a lot of ladies who talk about disliking the bar scene, meeting the wrong guys there, etc. How many of you actually really mean it? Just want to reiterate- I'm looking to hear a woman's opinion on drinking, I'm not trying to land a non-drinker with this thread. EDIT: I guess I shouldn't be quite so vague- I am not against a sip of wine or whatever, I'm referring to "party" drinks that you'd find at a bar or see someone drinking while watching football. That's what I stay away from.

imsickofthegame

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Internet dating: ACTIONS SPEAK LOUDER THAN WORDS! Posted: 8/11/2008 12:12:54 PM
A man has to bend over backwards to say the right things to get a woman's attention on this site, and that's only after he has just the right photo to get her to notice in the first place. All a woman has to do is post a picture of her cleavage and doesn't have to say a word.

imsickofthegame

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The Holding up a Beer/Cheers Photos.... Posted: 7/21/2008 4:13:12 PM
Lol. The beer thing makes perfect sense to me- that is, it sending the wrong message. I think it cheapens women and sends a flimsy message when they let nothing but cleavage shots do the talking for their profiles, but most of that opinion got me nothing but spite and attacks on this forum so I won't be going there again.

imsickofthegame

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The Neglected Self Posted: 7/18/2008 3:57:24 PM
Well put OP. Lying about, suppressing, or hiding who you are is pointless. Things are the way they are at any given moment. To falsify yourself will sooner or later become a hindrance.

imsickofthegame

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What if the woman makes more money than the man. Posted: 7/18/2008 3:19:00 PM
If a woman makes more money than the man, then she makes more money than the man. I don't really see where there's a problem, but then again I live in, I don't know, TODAY, as opposed to 1950. I have no problem cooking because I can do it reasonably well and I enjoy eating. I also have no problem cleaning the house because it looks better than when it is dirty. Yet somehow I still have a penis and am attracted to women. The point is, it's a pretty antiquated notion to get distressed when a woman makes more than the man. People should make as much money as they can and be happy that the bills are being paid, not worry about societal concerns taht their masculinity is being threatened. How silly.

imsickofthegame

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bookworms ,appealing or no? Posted: 7/17/2008 3:53:09 PM
Absolutely appealing. Not only does it reflect an intelligence and give a couple something extra to talk about, but smart girls are usually wearing cute glasses and are not quite the obnoxious loudmouth type, so I dig that.

imsickofthegame

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What am I doing wrong? Posted: 7/11/2008 11:02:15 AM
"Open the sex door". Lol. Classic. I'm an adult, I promise. But that just amuses me. Anyway well verbalized.

imsickofthegame

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Are men territorial?..but don't want to appear that way? Posted: 7/11/2008 11:00:18 AM
I'm not a lady but I'd like to reply if I could. Are men closet terrotorialists? Some guys yes. Sometimes a woman will leave her boyfriend for another man and, like in my case, admit that it wasn't any wrongdoing on his part- it was an old crush of hers that she decided to satisfy, ruining the 5 years we apparently wasted. No one's perfect- relationships often fail due to the actions of both parties in some way or another. But sometimes there are just blindsides, outright cheatings or affairs or lies, and for some people it doesn't take much to become more paranoid or cynical. I try not to be jealous and insecure, but I'm also not into being a model guy who lets some other dude tickle his girlfriend. There's a line between being territorial and just plain being afraid to chance a loss of something good. I've learned that even the most ironclad unions can be felled once a third party selfishly intervenes. Some guys cage their women, which is a mistake. But I definitely get the wisdom of putting a security camera above your safe. For some it's territory. For others it's learned insecurity, survival of the fittest, fight for what you have shit that we wouldn't have to deal with if people just had respect for others a bit more often.

imsickofthegame

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He Says Lose 30 lbs and He Will Give you an Engagement Ring.....Would Ya???? Posted: 7/11/2008 10:49:57 AM
Well verbalized smuggler.

imsickofthegame

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How do you not hate the one who broke your heart?? Posted: 7/11/2008 10:48:12 AM
The hate, like the pain and sorrow, will go away. No one wants to hear "time heals all wounds" and "you'll find someone else" when they're down, because that doesn't help RIGHT NOW. But both are true. I was with my ex for 5 years and I thought we were soul mates. Then she left me for someone else. After months of depression as well as those 5 stages mentioned earlier (though bargaining does not have to be of a religious nature), I finally accepted that, obviously, her hurting me in the way she did proved that she's not someone I would want to be with anyway. I tried to be her friend, but eventually her dumb boyfriend turned her against me. The hate turned into a desire for friendship, which eventually turned to apathy. "Screw her then", I said. Life goes on and so will I.

imsickofthegame

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Does your weight affect your sex life?! Posted: 7/11/2008 10:33:49 AM
Yes, but if you prefer being on bottom and the girl is a larger one, you'll find yourself quite under pressure.

imsickofthegame

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Is it ok for straight guys to be watching porn together with no women around? Posted: 7/11/2008 10:33:00 AM
I should point out that isn't an activity that takes any preference- we don't plan dates to do it- someone will usually just say "Hey I got this great new porno" and someone will say "throw it in, lemme check it out". There's nothing wrong with guys who DON'T like to do this, but to make it gay is silly. Some of us are secure in our masculinity and friendship to not be so uptight when porn is onscreen or the topic of discussion. As for finding it pleasurable? You BET I'm going to be with a woman, or by myself, if the porn is being enjoyed for its actual purpose.

imsickofthegame

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Is it ok for straight guys to be watching porn together with no women around? Posted: 7/11/2008 10:29:39 AM
Bender. That old softie. I've watched porn with my male friends before. It just wasn't for sexual purposes. It was like we were judging the quality of the performers and the directing. Kind of like "wow, she looks pretty nice, might have to borrow this when you leave" kind of thing. Watching porn with friends is like being at a crowded strip club. You enjoy what you're looking at but you don't necessarily hope an orgy breaks out with your comrades. At least in my experience.

imsickofthegame

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Ladies I need help BAD (Dinning Downtown) Posted: 7/11/2008 10:24:57 AM
Original poster, it may be you but it probably isn't. I love going down on a girlfriend and know I'm good at it as a result. I had a girl who could only come that way, and then another who couldn't come at all. In fact it eventually "hurt" her because she felt like she could go but never did, and it produced an irritating feeling. Research the subject together but don't think it's automatically just you- many women have trouble having an orgasm.

imsickofthegame

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How well do you LISTEN to your partner? Posted: 7/11/2008 10:21:25 AM
Lol you do talk, Kaylie. That's okay, I do too. I have excellent listening skills. I'm not perfect but this is one of my best attributes. I love good conversation, good debate, playing devil's advocate, and being there when someone I care about needs to talk. I've been through enough to know how comforting a sympathetic ear is and I'm happy to be one to people close to me.

imsickofthegame

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Should relationships take some effort or should they be effortless Posted: 7/11/2008 10:19:44 AM
Everything takes effort. The best relationships are ones that find both partners happily MAKING the effort and not realizing it just because they care about each other.

imsickofthegame

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Milder version of commitment-phobe? Posted: 7/11/2008 10:18:31 AM
I'm not trying to judge all women, but I have noticed a trend that sees many women talk about wanting a committed man and then not knowing what to do with them when they find one such as myself. I never end the relationships because I'm always the one who gets left for someone, so it's frustrating to hear women want commitment and then find myself looking around the room wondering why I'm not getting noticed. Or finding the ones that don't appreciate it.

imsickofthegame

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SECRETS... Posted: 7/11/2008 10:14:18 AM
I have eleven penises. Okay for real? Hmm. I dig it when my girlfriends lick my lips as if they were engaging in some lesbian action. I have sensitive lips. Too sensitive in fact.

imsickofthegame

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Pedophilia Reconsidered Posted: 7/11/2008 10:11:49 AM
I heard if this case, or one just like it, which is sad because I believe it's very common. I mention this in the thread about an 18 and 40 year old getting married. An age gap is an arbitrary number, which loses its meaning when the participants are intelligent, mature, compatible and aware of themselves. Problem is most people in this situation don't seem to be, in fact most are in it for horrible reasons, so society looks at the issue as a whole as negative without understanding that some cases, like the one deerdog just mentioned, are a complete travesty of justice.

imsickofthegame

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Guys getting mad because girls want to wait? Posted: 7/11/2008 10:09:04 AM
I find that I'm most attractive with long hair or none at all. The women used to rub my head when I shaved it bald. Felt like sandpaper... Anyway back to topic- guys like sex. Most women do too, it IS fun (usually). But when it looks like that's the guy's main concern, as it does here, you should let him find it elsewhere and don't compromise your values.

imsickofthegame

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Sex with a gay man Posted: 7/11/2008 10:03:20 AM
By all means address it in a serious manner. If he's your friend, and open minded as most gay men are, I'm sure the two of you can come to an understanding. But don't just try something on him some day. You should respect that he's gay and not impose your sexual desires on him just like a gay man should not impose himself on someone straight, I know I would be quite angry. He may be conflicted and possibly open to it like yourself. But you shouldn't push the matter without knowing if he is. And the post above was correct- there's probably some lust with what you can't have, as well. Find a single straight man to ravish- you're attractive enough for several to be willing, I'm sure :)

imsickofthegame

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oral afterwards Posted: 7/11/2008 9:59:29 AM
You mean AFTER the guy finishes? I can see going down on a woman when she climaxes. In fact that's pretty fun. But after I do? Nasty. I don't drink my own urine either, so I don't quite see the appeal.

imsickofthegame

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Does your weight affect your sex life?! Posted: 7/11/2008 9:57:44 AM
Thank you, original poster. I now finally have the opportunity to say that while sometimes I'm attracted to bigger girls, I often am not because I'm an average-sized guy, and well, the sex was either uncomfortable, awkward, or just plain hurt. Some of us try to get smaller women for more practical reasons, not just attraction.

imsickofthegame

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GUYS!!! If you met the right woman, could you wait for the sex till marriage? Posted: 7/11/2008 9:53:19 AM
If I knew I was with "the right woman", I'm sure I could wait until I was almost dead. The problem is, no one knows. It's a matter of comfort. People should have sex when they both feel comfortable and ready enough to do so with each other. They shouldn't wait because of what society or religion will think of them nor should they rush it because one of them wants it more.

imsickofthegame

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18 year old girl marries a 40 year old man? Posted: 7/11/2008 9:40:37 AM
Well put Intell girl. The thing is, age IS an arbitrary number that manking invented to measure the passage of time. Some people are very mature at a young age, and vice versa. So I do think it's possible. I just don't think it usually happens for the right reasons, which (somewhat justifiably) makes people look at big age gaps as sick. It's the girls who want older guys because it's "cool" and the guys who prey on young women because older ones don't fall for their schemes that need to be dealt with.

imsickofthegame

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Spanking - What's the deal? Posted: 7/11/2008 9:29:18 AM
I was spanked as a kid and I didn't get turned on. In fact, quite the contrary- it was used as a punishment and it worked, I grew to fear it and not do whatever bad thing won me the action in the first place. I think the deal with spanking is that it needs to come back, people are too soft on their kids which is partly why this society is getting worse. Oh wait, you mean SPANKING.

imsickofthegame

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Why do most women act like money isn't an issue? Posted: 7/11/2008 9:22:00 AM
Ha ha. Nice topic. I altered my profile completely to reflect the fact that my life has been a mess lately, including having to spend nights in the car sometime (roommate issues, see profile). I got sick of weeding out the girls who actually meant it when they said that money isn't an issue. Baloney. Too many women judge how good or worthy a person you are based on how much money you have right NOW. It doesn't matter what your past is, if you don't have the boxes of life's checklist filled out, then you aren't worth their time- even if they go on to complain about the fact that no one has attributes they're looking for that I otherwise happen to have...... Be practical. Have day-to-day concerns about how a relationship will work in tight financial situations. But work it out, talk, don't judge and dismiss just because you have it better than somebody.

imsickofthegame

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What did YOU do wrong in your last relationship? Posted: 7/11/2008 9:18:30 AM
I became very complacent and stopped paying as much to my partner's needs. She started the relationship by going out of her way to prove to me that I was the best guy she'd ever been with (I'm not trying to gloat, this is just the opinion she had of me, whether correct or incorrect). I'd never been so adored so I was very happy and comfortable with her, but then I grew so used to everything being wonderful that I took it for granted when little problems arose. Sure, she left me for a guy who has kids her age and became a complete psychopath, but I know that in the end I should have worked harder to make her happy.

imsickofthegame

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Milder version of commitment-phobe? Posted: 7/11/2008 8:47:42 AM
Sorry DJ, I quoted you directly without saying that I wasn't trying to criticize you directly. Didn't mean it that way and thanks for not taking it as such. I just meant that in general, an attitude of "I want this relationship when I want it, and too bad for my committed partner" is definitely selfish. However there is absolutely nothing wrong with needing space, especially if someone is calling or seeking reassurance all the time. Everybody wants to have some "me" time.

imsickofthegame

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18 year old girl marries a 40 year old man? Posted: 7/11/2008 8:41:52 AM
There's nothing wrong with an age difference as long as both people are mature enough to handle their partnership on even and mutually respectful terms. The only problem is that that often is not the case, which is why society arbitrarily looks down upon it. There are far too many naive young women who love the mystique of an older man. There are also far too many older men who prey upon young women because they're easier or "sexier" targets. It's a dangerous game to get into because someone is often in it without a clear head. But I'm sure it can work if the couple is both honest, mature, and legitimately care for one another.

imsickofthegame

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Guys getting mad because girls want to wait? Posted: 7/11/2008 8:36:27 AM
You're absolutely in the right here. If you don't want to have sex and the guy wants to push you because "it's fun", he's an idiot and you need to raise your standards. Sure it's fun. But if that's the only reason for it, then he should find someone else who thinks of it the same way. Don't ever settle for sex with a guy because he simply wants to for his own gain, and you don't. Believe it or not there ARE guys out there who are mature enough to work together with their woman and have sex when they both feel the time is right. Never let someone push you into it. Drop him so he can go find someone else to use as a satisfaction device.

imsickofthegame

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Some advice please ! Posted: 7/11/2008 8:25:58 AM
The "dating other guys" thing and you finding out the truth covertly are two issues I don't want to elaborate on because I have lengthy thoughts on both. All I'll say is that if you're wondering whether staying with her is the right thing, you already know you'd be settling if you did. Work out whatever trust issues you guys have together- it does sound like she's monumentally selfish but I don't know the whole story- but for heaven's sake I will at least say don't be having kids with this woman. My advice is to never, ever accept your "partner" who "loves you" and wants kids having f*** buddies. Unless, of course, you're fine with it. If it bugs you, get out. I know I would in a heartbeat. There are supposedly plenty of women out there who can commit, and maybe we'll both find one but we have to keep looking bud.

imsickofthegame

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Dating issues Posted: 7/11/2008 8:20:44 AM
Agreed. It sounds like this is a good time to get out before you settle in for a rut of being disrespected. If you decide to leave, pay attention to what reasons he gives you for wanting to stay.

imsickofthegame

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Milder version of commitment-phobe? Posted: 7/11/2008 8:18:56 AM
PS: It's selfish to want to check in and out of a relationship when you want. That shows an inherent lack of concern and compromise for your partner, meaning that you probably shouldn't be dating in the first place because relationships are not just for one of the two parties involved. That's why I believe that as long as you are upfront about your tendencies to begin with, and communicate your concerns if you feel your partner is growing more attached than you are, the relationship is at least honest before it has to be hurtful. There's tact to discussing this kind of thing with someone and not just selfishly "breaking it to them".

imsickofthegame

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Milder version of commitment-phobe? Posted: 7/11/2008 8:15:53 AM
Some of us prefer the commitment (and are not freaks as said a few posts ago). It's natural to desire security and peace of mind in your partner. I'm a very committed man myself. Monogamy and reliability have never been issues for me. However not everyone's the same, and some people prefer to just date as opposed to remain in longterm relationships. I think there's nothing wrong with that- there isn't anything evil about not wanting to be "tied down". Some people just don't want to limit their options. The important thing is that your partner is always aware of how you feel. It would be terrible for someone in a committed relationship to suddenly find out that their world has changed overnight because their partner isn't committed after all. I know this feeling very, very well. So maybe just date more and be open to yourself and your partners that you're not ready to leave the scene yet. If you do find that you're repeatedly getting tired of someone after only a few months, then either you're looking too much, settling too quickly, or perhaps, in fact, commitment-phobic after all...

imsickofthegame

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Dating issues Posted: 7/11/2008 8:08:37 AM
Without knowing both sides of the story it's hard to know the right answer, but I do know that if your boyfriend expects you to "get him food" and you have to tell him to be nicer about it, then he's an ***hole. And I'm not really sure why he'd want to be in a relationship if he goes through a phase, perhaps the first of many, where he refuses to appear when expected and ignores you. Sounds like he doesn't want to be in the relationship, or he does only when it works for his own gain. It sounds to me like you need someone better than this guy. Never tolerate someone just blowing you off and treating you as a secondhand item. There are others out there who won't treat you that way because they value you, which it sounds like he doesn't.

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Does our partner have the right to know? Posted: 7/11/2008 8:03:00 AM
I have never understiood the argument that your partner doesn't have the right to know something personal, especially sexual. It's called "PARTNER" for a reason. The best relationships are ones where a couple is open, honest, and willing to share and grow together. Openness and communication are totally important. Finding out something that repels you about your partner after a long or costly investment can be a rude awakening and is better addressed early. People need to be more open about who they are, what they believe, and what they have done. My own profile reflects that. I may get less bites, but I'll know that the ones who do bite are comfortable with what they know about me and I won't have to worry about it coming up later. Although the time is different for everybody, I believe that at some point the past should be completely open to a partner and the two should work together to overcome any issues that come of it without anger, jealousy, or hurt. Of course this isn't always possible, but it's much easier if the relationship is more honest and up-front from the get go.

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how did you know when you were done with a former relationship? Posted: 7/11/2008 7:58:10 AM
The flip flop comment is indeed pretty accurate. For me, the barometer is when I stop wishing she was still with me and realize that our differences are too much to make me desire her any longer. That's the big transition to healing. I was in two long relationships that both ended when the woman found someone else. After a while of going insane and being depressed, the time finally grew on me where I thought "If she's willing to do this to me then she's not the kind of person I want to be with anyway".

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What am I doing wrong? Posted: 7/11/2008 7:54:37 AM
Well, did the relationships not last longer because the man only wanted sex, or because when the topic came up as part of the normal progression of your relationship, you still weren't ready? Human beings do desire sexual contact, male and female, though obviously more often the male. There are plenty of men who aren't out for quick sex. I'm among them, as I can't see going through the trouble of a dating site just for sex when surely there are quicker avenues. However, I've read that there are quite a few people on this site who just want nude pictures or sex. There's nothing inherently wrong with someone who doesn't have good relationships. I had one that was 4 years and one that was 5 and they failed for different reasons. But they were both successes as well. You just have to communicate at all times, never bottle up what you're feeling. If you and your partner feel the time is right for sex, then you shouldn't let societal rules convince you to wait. However if you just don't want sex when the man does, and he isn't willing to wait, then obviously he's the one who has the issue. Just be open and communicate your feelings about sex and if you ARE the type of person who wants to wait a while, eg months of being with someone before it happens, there's nothing wrong with that but know that there's nothing wrong with expecting sex as part of a healthy and committed relationship either. You just have to find the middle ground and both be communicative of what you expect from each other.

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Msg: 132 (view)

small breast appreciation Posted: 7/11/2008 12:32:45 AM
I agree. I'd rather have natural, regardless of size. Implants disgust me. I think large breasts can definitely be sexy, but i've seen many more ugly large ones than ugly small ones. I tired of having to push away guys that went after my bigger busted gfs as well. I wish women everywhere would just accept their bust and learn to wait for a guy that doesnt make them the top priority. It's really sad to see countless women here taking cleavage shots then men adding them as favorites. Naivete on both sides

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> more friends if your rich, no one wants to be ur friend if ur poor-comment Posted: 7/6/2008 11:03:30 PM
I was honest enough to explain on my profile (an honest profile? Huh!?) that mistakes and misplaced trust led me to sleeping in my car. As expected, interest in me dropped suddenly. I can understand reservations about this. Possibilities get limited when you're poor. The part that sucks is that you're still the same person inside but your finances make people jump to instant conclusions about you're even worth bothering getting to know. How many times can one say "just give me a chance"?

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