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Would love to help you out with your profile Posted: 4/10/2008 5:14:17 PM
I need your help and your opinon. I need to have you give me your honest response. I have redone my profile so many time because I find it really hard when it comes to expressing myself. I wouldn't mind if you even try to rewrite my profile since I'm not that well at writing profiles. I do know that I will most likely need to replace my pictures.

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I need some advice on relationships Posted: 4/2/2008 10:40:18 AM
Sometimes I'll send out an e-mail letting them know that I am interested in her. I either have no reply back or we will send e-mails back and forth it seems everything is find. But when I have talked to the woman on the telephone or after we meet they are no longer interested in me. Is it what I have said in my profile that might change their minds or something else? What kind of advice can you give me to help me get a relationship started.

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The Aussie girls guide for you to make it write (wordplay ppl!) Posted: 4/2/2008 10:23:24 AM
Can you please review my profile and give me your opinion. I don't care how critical you are on my profile. I'm even up for a rewrite on the whole profile if you feel like doing it for me. I have a sense of humor, caring, passionate, open minded, easy-going and hard worker.

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Ladies I Want Your Opinion? Posted: 4/2/2008 5:09:20 AM
Can you please review my profile and give me your opinion. I don't care how critical you are on my profile. I'm even up for a rewrite on the whole profile if you feel like doing it for me. I have a sense of humor, and I'm also caring, passionate, open minded, easy-going and hard worker. I hope that will help you out since writing a profile is not easy for me to put into words.

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I'll review your profile, tell the truth and help you out. Posted: 4/2/2008 1:56:31 AM
Please review my profile, I could use all the help I can get. I don't care even if you have to rewrite it for me.

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Washing the bed linens, etc. Posted: 3/30/2008 1:13:45 PM
alwaysme2 here is my honest answer. I wash them once a month only because I sleep on top of them. The reason being is that I get to hot under all the covers. So I sleep with barely my bedspread covering me. Of course when I have a woman over and we end up in the room that will be a different story. But until that happens I'll just wash them once a month.

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Do you prefer someone complicated, or someone simple? Posted: 3/30/2008 12:47:30 PM
Every day life can be complicated enough. I enjoy the simple things in life because it brings so much pleasure. I'm hoping to find a woman who also enjoys the simple things in life.

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do men like to be approached first? Posted: 3/27/2008 2:03:21 PM
I wouldn't mind having a woman approach me first. Some men are a little shy and I think that would help take the edge off of them.

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New Hampshire/Massachusetts Get Together Interest? Posted: 3/24/2008 2:41:55 PM
I would love to give it a shot also...I just hope just everyone else that there are people in my age bracket. I have never been to Vincent's in Randolph but I hear it's a pretty good place.

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HAVE YOU EVER DATED YOUR OWN SIGN? Posted: 3/24/2008 2:25:10 PM
Yes I'm a Leo and my ex-wife was a Leo and we were married for 23 years. I divorced her after I learned that she was taking money from the children's bank accounts without any of us knowing, didn't want to go back to work full time after being home full time for 20 years and was having an affair.

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Good Kisser? Says Who? Posted: 3/24/2008 12:19:02 PM
I have never been told either way when it comes to me on kissing a woman. I like to give a soft kiss to get the feel and reaction of the lady that I am kissing. Depending where we are I might cup my hands to her face and give her a soft kiss to moving my fingers through her hair on a long kiss. But I don't like the slobber kiss all over my face at all or the tongue at the start of a fresh kiss.

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How far will you drive for a date? Posted: 3/22/2008 5:58:58 PM
I will travel up to about 45 minutes to an hour.

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Curious about why 75% of the men on here never call? Posted: 3/22/2008 5:55:10 PM
I have been on some dates when the lady say to give her a call back. I wait a day or two and give her a call. When I make the call I get the voice mail and leave a message to have her give me a call back. Which in my case it never happens. The same goes for e-mailing her.

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the Guys' turn? Posted: 3/22/2008 5:38:54 PM
I have my 3 children living with me full time. My ex-wife never fought for her children. She has problems comprehending matters at times. She told the judge at first she wanted the children so she could get $1500.00 a month in child support. But when I discovered she was taking money from the children bank account she backed off. I even told the judge and she let my ex-wife have it. I have talked to my family and others and they say its ashame that she never fought for the children. They have told me a mother always fight for her children no matter what. She told me I could have them because she thinks its not so easy raising and taking care of children and wanted to see me suffer. I have not had any problems with my children at all. Sure they all go through the attitude stages, but I learn to work it out with them or deal with it. My daughter has a learning disability and I pay $660.00 a month and asked my ex-wife to help pay for her tutoring and she said " She is quite awere of her disability but instead of harping on it every day with her. She will learn to grow up and work harder at it at her own pase." Let me say I don't harp her every day and my daughter has thanked me for doing this for her. By the way I pay her $400.00 a month in alimony and I get no child support in return. I have taken her back to court for child support and all they did was cut her alimony from $800.00 a month to $400.00. I have to pay her alimony until she remarries or until I retire in about 20 years. My ex-wife said you wanted the children you pay for everything, because you're not going to get any money from me what so ever. So I do the best I can with my children and they appreaciate whatever I do for them.

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How do single parents meet that special someone? Posted: 3/22/2008 11:42:18 AM
I'm have the same problem when it comes to meeting a woman. I have 3 children that live with me full time and it is tough to find a woman to go out for drinks or just to talk. I have been in the supermarket at the train station and when I see a lady with no ring on her finger I will go over and start to talk to her. As we are talking I find out that she is married. This has happen to me a few times. My sister tells me that there are ladies out there that are married and don't wear the ring and some are not and wear the ring. I know there are guys out there who do the samething. This makes it even harder to find someone. I wish there was an easier way to find a lady to talk with and not have to worry if she is married or not before going up to her and start talking. ealey2 I know where you are coming from when you talk about having your children meet your friend. My ex-wife didn't care about that when it came to her daughter. She introduce him to my daughter on the first weekend she had her after meeting him for only a week. Needless to say my daughter didn't like the guy and she told her mother after a few times of seeing him. She told her mother that she didn't want to see her until she agreed to not have him around when she visits. She told my daughter to bad I'm going to keep on seeing him no matter what. I got on the telphone and told my ex-wife if you want to see your daughter then he has to be not around her at all when she visit you. After about a 45 minutes argument on the telphone my ex-wife finally agreed to not see him while she was with her.

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What is your opinion on alimony? Posted: 3/22/2008 4:48:49 AM
Melanierae I'm sorry to hear what you had to go through. It may have cost your dearly but at least you can go to bed knowing that you have your children and you will never have to deal with him anymore. I'm happy to hear that your children wanted to stay with you. Like you I will also die a little when my children move out on their own. I told my children that I would look after them no matter what happens to me in the divorce. My daughter called me while I was just about to go before the judge. As we both cried as I told her that I took care of her like I promise and that you and your brothers will be staying with me. My oldest is looking to move out at the beginning of 2009 and into the city of Boston. My youngest son will be living with me at least until a year after he gets out of college which he is only a freshman. My daughter is just finishing her freshman year in high school so she will be living with me for quite sometime which I am happy for. Melanierae with all the debt we had to payoff in the end everything was divided 50/50. I even made sure the money that she took from the children accounts were all paid back to them. The only thing that I fought on paying off was her school loan from going back to school nights. Which she dropped out 6 months after she started. She had a loan of $11,000 and I told my lawyer it her loan she pays it not me. They told me pay half the loan or she will not agree to any agreemnet. Well I didn't win so I had to pay half of the loan. Like you Melanierae I got full financial responsibility for the my children. Even through my oldest is 22 he still asks me for advice. My daughter has a learning disability and I pay $660.oo to Slyvan each month for which it will take her a little over a year to get her to the level she shoul be at. I asked her mother to help put some money towards it each month. She replied back "She is quite awere of her disability but instead of harping on it every day with her. She will learn to grow up and work harder at it at her own pase." Just so that you know I don't harp on my daughter everyday. My daughter knows that I don't harp on her and she has even thanked me for what I am doing for her. My daughter learning disability is comprhending things, reading and writing. But like I said she has thanked me and also told me that it is helping her out. In the end a divorce mom told me what it all comes down to in the end is their mother is there for the glory and the heck with everything else. So far I have to agree with that divorce mom. My children wonder how I am able to handle things every day. I tell them that you are my children and I will do anything to help them out no matter where you or I am at the time.

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What is your opinion on alimony? Posted: 3/21/2008 8:45:07 PM
What medical proof she had the judge bought into it but she knew she could work. She had a history of getting fired or quitting her part time jobs. It is not that severe and she can work. She is working a full time job now. I already took her back to court and the way the agreement is made up they can only cut back on the alimony. We have the same laws for Child Support. My ex is not talking to me because I took half of her alimony away from her. She said that she deserves all the money that she can get from me. As a matter of fact she wants me to give my daughter money when she visit her so she can buy things. I told my daughter that I would not give her any money when it comes to visiting her mother. If you need something while you are with your mother then have her buy it for you. My children ages now are 22, 18 and 14 and they know where I stand with each of them when it comes to helping or supporting them. My children care very much for their parents still. Also my oldest 2 are very mature for there age and are trying to get me out of the house more to enjoy life.

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What is your opinion on alimony? Posted: 3/21/2008 8:20:35 PM
Yes she wanted to have children. As a matter of fact I was thinking of getting myself fixed before my daughter was born. She never told me that she was off the birth control pill before we had my daughter. As a matter of fact my daughter told me that I never wanted her, that I wish she was never born, that I wish she was dead and that I hate her. I told her that I would never have wished any of those things. I told her that I would love you until the day I die. I even told her that when I'm away on business or when I die that I would always be in your heart. I asked my daughter who said those things to her and she said her mother. I looked at my wife at the time and she said that it was between the 2 of them. From that day on I have felt that I have to treat my daughter with a little more extra love. I filed for divorce because she took money out of the children account without anyone knowing. The reason I found out is because I found the children bank books and she noted why she took the money out. Plus while I was working 3 jobs she didn't want to work full time only part time. Then she went back to school nights and wanted me to pay for it. I told her no and shortly after that she was having an affair. I found that out when I came home at 1-2 am in the morning from driving a limousine from a night out on the town and she was not home. She left my youngest two home alone by themselves when they were 14 and 10. I have to say one thing and that is I'm happy that I have my children and that I'm doing the best I can to take care of them.

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Eating at the Dinner Table, is it rare? Posted: 3/21/2008 7:30:11 PM
I come home from work and cook the dinner. Unless one of my children are out at the time I make it a point that we all sit down and I ask each of them how their day was. I have found out b talking to some parents that this is rare these days.

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What is your opinion on alimony? Posted: 3/21/2008 7:25:26 PM
I have been divorced 2 years and I have my 3 children living with me full time. My ex told the judge she couldn't work anymore because she had RA. So the judge decided that I should pay her $800.00 a month to keep her of the MA. system until I retire or she gets remarried. Because she was not working I got no child support from her. I told the judge that she was going to get a job and that I shouldn't pay her $800.00 a month but the judge took my ex side. About 9 months after the divorce she got a full time job. I took her back to court for child support and the courts told me that all they could do was cut the alimony in half to $400.00 a month. The reason being is because she said that she couldn't pay me. So now I'm paying $400.00 a month in alimony until I retire I hope in 20 years. By the way she told me you wanted the kids and your going to pay for everything for them no matter what. In the meantime I try not to say anthing bad about her when the children are around. Are there any ladies out there who get that much or any alimony at all? The few I've talked to say that they don't get any alimony because they get child support. Another thing is my kids wonder why I can get a date since I'm working 2 jobs. But when I have the time I don't seem to get a date.

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The Aussie girls guide for you to make it write (wordplay ppl!) Posted: 3/20/2008 10:02:49 AM
Hi Footprints, I would love for you to tell me exactly what I should fix about my profile, whether it would be the picture or the content. I haven't gotten any emails in awhile, and the ones I do send, I don't get any contact back. I would appreciate it!

Joined: 3/2/2008

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Ladies I Need Your Help With My Profile Posted: 3/20/2008 2:00:47 AM
Hi Ladies, I would love for you to tell me exactly what I should fix about my profile, whether it would be the picture or the content. I haven't gotten any emails in awhile, and the ones I do send, I don't get any contact back. I would appreciate it!

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