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Posted In Forum: All Forums Alabama Alaska Alberta Arizona Arkansas Art/Music Ask A Girl Ask A Guy Australia British Columbia Broken Hearts California Colorado Connecticut Dating & Love Advice Dating Experiences Dating Sites Delaware District Of Columbia Event Hosts forum Florida Georgia Hawaii Health & Fitness Humor Idaho Illinois Indiana Introductions Iowa Kansas Kentucky Louisiana Maine Manitoba Maryland Massachusetts Michigan Minnesota Mississippi Missouri Montana Nebraska Nevada New Brunswick New Hampshire New Jersey New Mexico New York Newfoundland News/Current Events North Carolina North Dakota Nova Scotia Off Topic Ohio Oklahoma Ontario Oregon Over 30 Over 45 Pennsylvania Plentyoffish Get Togethers Plentyoffish Site/Suggestions/Help Poems And Quotes Politics Prince Edward Island Profile Reviews Quebec Recipes & Cooking Relationships Religion/Supernatural Rhode Island Saskatchewan Science/Philosophy Sex and Dating Single Parents South Carolina South Dakota Sports Stories/creative writing Technology and computers Tennessee Testimonials Texas Uk Forums Utah Vermont Virginia Volunteer Moderators Only Washington West Virginia Wisconsin Wyoming Home   login   MyForums   Show ALL Forums      Author  Thread: The split 'pain'  starlover2008 Joined: 3/2/2008 Msg: 8 (view)   The split 'pain' Posted: 5/11/2008 8:53:54 AM If you really liked the relationship/person, it sucks to get dumped! It's the rejection thing. The middle of my back hurts (had 2 'shredded heart experiences) and the sleepless nights of wondering what went wrong. Medical? I think it's an emotional thing which in turn messes with your body. It took me several months on the first 'dumping' because we had dated about 6-8 months and I finally told him I was unhappy going to the same bar every Friday/Saturday night watching him get messed up and doing kareoke (sp?) and I was also NOT going to buy the groceries for every time we ate, which was several times a week. He got pissed because I make more $$ than he does and expected me to take that into consideration. 2nd broken heart: The sparks were flying and the chemistry was good. Got dumped because I go to bed too early and that automatically makes me an 'old hide'! For the love of God, I work 4/10's and yes, Quakers have more excitement than I do Sunday-Wednesday! My alarm goes off at 4:30AM...out the door by 5:30AM! My job is important to me...ya think? I try to remind myself that I am a good woman, good looking and NOT 'an old hide'! I have the right to go to bed when I need to, so I am 'fit for duty'! That I DO have the right to express my needs/wants and to not feel used. If a man can't handle that, even though I didn't initiate the break-up, it still sucks. Look yourself in the mirror and say: "WOW! I AM worthy of a good mate!"  starlover2008 Joined: 3/2/2008 Msg: 545 (view)   does anyone get as turned off with a smoker as i do? Posted: 5/11/2008 8:36:04 AM I am a smoker, but I always 'freshen up' with febreez and mouthwash. I KNOW it doesn't mask it all...I'm not that stupid. All too many times, I have dated a 'posted' NON-smoker, only to discover he was a smoker, but wanted to appear "better". I make sure when I respond to a posting the other party knows I smoke. No, I won't smoke in your car or inside, but my habit is a part of me. Want perfect? Look elsewhere! If the smoking thing is the 'stumbling block'...how about men who post a pic that is >10 years old? You meet them and they are NOT what they said they are. Enuff said!   Show ALL Forums