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luvs2laugh78

Joined: 3/3/2008

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why did he.... Posted: 6/11/2009 1:52:53 PM
I really hope this is joke OP! Cheese and rice woman! At your age you should know better than to ask why he isn't calling after hooking up on first meet. From your other posts this is not the first time this has happened to you, yet you feel the need to post about how its happened again? You are the common denominator, as well as the town bicycle! Wise up! Use birth control and condoms or just shut your damn legs! "Issues" for you is a definate understatement!

luvs2laugh78

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Would you ever consider being in a relationship with someone who is into BDSM? Posted: 6/11/2009 12:58:27 PM
I would only consider it if it was something I am into. Which I am not so it would not work out in the long run then.

luvs2laugh78

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SHOULD I FEEL BAD? Posted: 6/4/2009 2:19:07 PM
Well you are not a douche you were a nice guy and helped her out, but she may be taking advantage of that. If you don't feel this relationship with her, then tell her as the sooner you do, the sooner you have your place back to yourself, it's that simple!

luvs2laugh78

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Do any men know the difference between being in control and being controlling? Posted: 6/4/2009 11:07:05 AM
So then in keeping the men of the world happy, are we then as woman suppose to neglect our own happiness? Sorry, I don't buy into your beliefs system whatsoever, JMHO!

luvs2laugh78

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taboo Posted: 6/3/2009 11:52:59 AM
ummmmm! Ewwwwwwwwwwwwww! Sorry thats all I can say about that!

luvs2laugh78

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What are some ways we can deal with this? Posted: 6/3/2009 8:47:53 AM
Sorry, but thats how small town life is. You are the new girl, and if you react so negatively to the gossip, and thats all it is is talk (let it go) then you are going to be fodder for it for a long time. You can choose how to react to this! Although it my hurt sometimes, you know that you are only there for a short time so suck it up and put a smile on your face, that reaction won't fuel the fire, and the residents may then learn what type of person you really are and you may make friends then. If you react poorly and negatively, they will probably keep at it, food for thought!

luvs2laugh78

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What are some ways we can deal with this? Posted: 6/3/2009 8:37:11 AM
No offense OP, but you sound extremely bitter for only being 19. So you are in a town where you have already deemed everyone to not be worth your time? Yeah good luck with that, that attitude is really going to help you while you try to make the best of things!

luvs2laugh78

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Horrific Habits and Other Deal Breakers Posted: 6/3/2009 8:31:14 AM
@ cabby37 <div class='quote'>I sudden;y realize that so many people are so petty and say what they BF/GF did that was annoying but i never seen anyone of you post what you do that is annoying to the person u are with.... Therefore that is the one thing that is so wrong with dating and people are too petty there is things that annoy me as well but i never left anyone over it I just told them that i do not like that and if i annoy you please tell me i will try my best to correct the problem Remember Never laugh at someone else unless u have no faults You have referred to the rest of the posters on here as petty for posting what their pet peeves are in dating. If you read the OP, the question was what are your pet peeves! No one here is saying that they have no faults and that they are perfect. I have some habits that I am sure would annoy others, but I wouldn't know that they annoy someone else unless it is brought to my attention! I snort when I laugh, I can't help it! There, feel better? I dated a guy that when we would be out eating, he would constantly scrape the utensils across his teeth and the noise would make my skin crawl!

luvs2laugh78

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What the! Posted: 6/1/2009 10:17:05 AM
@ TallDArkPassionate Ugh! Just because 17 is age of consent where you live the way you have just described the fact that you would feel its ok to tap a 17 year old girl is appalling! Good luck getting dates with this declaration showing up on your profile genius!

luvs2laugh78

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Givin' the ladies a break Posted: 5/29/2009 10:38:59 AM
Ahhh thanks for the break OP! If I woke up with a penis I would have to call it "Not Bob", as sad to say the only action I have seen recently is with my replica lol BOB (Battery Operated Boyfriend)

luvs2laugh78

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Advice please Posted: 5/29/2009 10:35:41 AM
Well OP, Hard to read this scene to be honest. You had said before you were leaving that you were doing so and that you'd call when you got back, which you did. Her email may be just that, she's been busy and was tired! My suggestion would be to just call her today and see if she wants to do something, if she doesn't answer leave a message, if you don't here back from her then you would have your answer that she is no longer interested. Throw the ball back in her court, is really all you can do right now! Bets of luck!

luvs2laugh78

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daughter wants to move in with her boyfriend Posted: 5/29/2009 9:52:22 AM
Well ultimately it will be her choice then will it not once she is 18? However are you going to be willing to take her back into your home if this does not work out? There are so many pressures to living on your own, especially for a first timer, to be living with a SO to. If you are NOT going to be willing to do so, make sure she knows this before hand so she has some exit strategies if needed. Hopefully things work out for her, but at that age things change so quickly day to day, that she may just need to learn these lessons the hard way. How are they supporting themselves if she is still going to be going to school? May be a big eye opener to her!

luvs2laugh78

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Women dating women Posted: 5/28/2009 11:13:22 AM
Well OP, If these woman on POF have profiles up to looking to date other woman than the choice is clear that they prefer woman, no? You would have to contact them personally to find out if they are lesbian, or bi-sexual with a preference for relationships with other woman. I am not going to get into your narrow mindedness as eman has already done it, and kudos to him, he argues his point very well in showing that your arguments are fluff and don't stand alone.

luvs2laugh78

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He says WAIT A YEAR and THEN we will try the relationship thing Posted: 5/28/2009 10:17:26 AM
@smellseals the deal! WOW bitter much? Sorry about that!

luvs2laugh78

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Inappropriate to check X's email? Posted: 5/28/2009 10:12:05 AM
OP, Wow, your a piece of work aren't you? Glad you have seen the error of your ways by saying you would stop today, but for some reason I doubt it! Her life is her life, and it is none of your business! Although you are only on here looking for "friends" all I can say is good luck with that endeavor! With this post showing up on profile about how you snoop, shows you are untrustworthy from the get go, and I personally would not want to make "friends" with a shady individual such as yourself!

luvs2laugh78

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He says WAIT A YEAR and THEN we will try the relationship thing Posted: 5/28/2009 9:56:36 AM
OP, I think that this man is being incredibly smart and a good friend in this situation. I imagine there is degree of self preservation in his thinking to. He does not want to be the "rebound" guy, and kudos to him! This woman needs some time to be on her own, and figure herself out post divorce before she jumps into this new relationship! Who know's they may meet other people in the years wait, but that is a calculated risk, considering what could be the outcome of diving into it right now!

luvs2laugh78

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Should I forgive? Posted: 5/27/2009 11:09:08 AM
@ smiles444 Dear lord woman, sorry but I could not read your post! Paragraphs and punctuation are our friends, please use it, makes it impossible to read such a run. Also, quit yelling at us and use the correct upper/lower case letters please! OP, Sorry to hear about your situation. Only you can decide what is right for you in regards to forgiving these 2. However just because you forgive, does not mean that you have to take them back into your life in the capacity they had before, you can choose to forgive them and still move on. As other poster's have said make sure to get a paternity test to find out if this child is in fact yours. If you want to be involved in the childs life then I would seek legal consult! I am sure there is something that can be done to prevent her from leaving the state if it is indeed your child, if you want to go as far as that. Best of luck!

luvs2laugh78

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What Ive discovered about the living at home issue Posted: 5/26/2009 3:05:01 PM
funkymonkee Hmmmm! Not a single mom here, but I am moving back to my fathers home for 1 year, within the next few weeks! I am going back to school this Sept and my practicum is going to be in another city starting next Aug! I have decided to live with him to save some money so that I don't go severely into debt while in school as my income will be reduced! This is fiscally responsible and it is a choice, so how am I lacking both responsibility and maturity? I am still going to be paying my own way, all my bills and such and will give him some money for rent but at a reduced amount!

luvs2laugh78

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Is gay cheating the same? Posted: 5/26/2009 2:23:15 PM
Being bisexual does not give one the right to have sex with someone outside of a relationship, unless of course that has been discussed and is ok between the 2 people involved! Its a situation like that that gives people that are bi sexual a bad rap, and that they are all cheaters and promiscuous, which is not the case. Cheating is cheating IMO, straight, gay or bi!

luvs2laugh78

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Texting to a wall, in a relationship. Posted: 5/26/2009 8:07:07 AM
He is on vacation with buddies etc and well you may be living your normal day to day, he is probably trying to cram a lot into a couple days! Let him be and enjoy himself. He has texted you and acknowledged the distance and said he misses you etc, so why do you NEED to have a full on discussion right now? Why are you getting your knickers in a knot about it? If its really that big of a deal then discuss when he gets home, but you trying to do it via text while he is on vacation makes you seem needy and insecure that you can't be alone for just a couple of days.

luvs2laugh78

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Cheating mother Posted: 5/21/2009 3:47:04 PM
Shell225 knocks it out of the park with her post OP! As she stated, You are NOT your mom, you see the marriage from an outsiders perspective and there for you do NOT know that the marriage is not bad, or how your mom feels being in this marriage. You are being just as deceitful as your mom is hiding her texts, by you trying to catch her in the act. I would not run to your dad with this info, as well its not really your place to bring it up. You may think she is a bad woman, but you don't know for a fact that she has met these other people, or if it is just texting and IM'ing. If you must, then maybe let your mom know you know, however let decisions be her's as to how she wants to proceed. Keep in mind, by doing this, your mom will see the shady character you are as well!

luvs2laugh78

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So just how wrong is it? Posted: 5/21/2009 11:53:17 AM
Rock Man, Normally I would say that this is a no no, however this situation is a bit different as you and the person who owned the profile are in 2 different age brackets etc. I would say go for it, there is nothing to lose. You may make the "aunt's" (or whoever she happens to be) day, when she finds out someone was asking about her from this site, it would be flattering.

luvs2laugh78

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Anyone ever had 'Drop-foot'? Posted: 5/21/2009 10:51:18 AM
OP, I would look into getting another opinion from a Dr. If it is drop foot, it usually is a nerve damage or impingement issue, and you should not have to wait 3 weeks for physio. I would do like another poster said and seek out a referral to orthopedic or neuro consult! Best of luck!

luvs2laugh78

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High Cholesterol ? Suggestions? Remedies? Posted: 5/21/2009 10:46:47 AM
Thanks bugsbro! This is what I was looking for. I will look into the flaxseed oil and garlic, I knew about the fish oils. I know that this is a genetic issue. However right now with a level of 5.28 and the normal high for triglycerides here is 2.8, they have decided to put me on the Lipidil. I will be doing liver function tests often and cholesterol tests to to monitor, as they thik its the liver that is creating the high levels to begin with. Currently I am in an air cast for a nasty sprain and chipped bone in ankle from softball, but normally I am on 4-5 sports teams at any time so I have a lot of activity in my day to day life. I do eat a lot of veggies and fiber, and have cut down massively on the "white" foods way back in January. So diet alone is not my issue, as I had said previously that I have seen a nutritionist before and following that diet caused my levels to jump up 2 points a few years back. Thanks for the input everyone, hopefully I can get this under control!

luvs2laugh78

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High Cholesterol ? Suggestions? Remedies? Posted: 5/20/2009 3:01:43 PM
It has been an ongoing thing over years and have monitored it! This test I had fasted for 13 hours when blood was drawn, so it that sense it is accurate. Discovered originally as a child when my dad developed heart problems, and have always known I tended to run on the high end of scale I watched my diet and intake to avoid increasing it. Was just a little spooked, still am! I started the Lipidil yesterday. I know some say that cayenne or other herbal "supplements" can be used in conjunction to lower levels and this is the advice I was seeking. Thanks!

luvs2laugh78

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High Cholesterol ? Suggestions? Remedies? Posted: 5/20/2009 9:28:22 AM
Hello All, This is my first post in this section. I was at my Dr's yesterday and had had some blood work done last month. Turns out my triglycerides are literally off the chart! They can't figure out the ratio of good cholesterol to bad because of this! I am 3 points over the high end of scale! I am now at 31 on Lipid lowering medications. I am being referred to another specialist about this. Family history etc. I have always had higher cholesterol, but this test scares the bejeezus out of me. I guess it has something to do with my liver over producing them or something, as opposed to diet and lifestyle. I am average build, maybe 10lbs over the ideal for my height (so not obese). I have a relatively healthy diet, I eat egg whites over whole eggs etc. So diet suggestions are not what I am looking for, I have seen a nutritionist years ago over this, and found my Triglycerides jumped 1.5 points when on a special diet. I am looking to see if there are any other suggested natural remedy's to help lower this in conjunction with the med I am now on! I need to get this under control, as I don't really want to be on a lifelong medication at my age. Thanks for your help!

luvs2laugh78

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How do you handle the first date if not what you expected Posted: 5/19/2009 2:51:49 PM
How about you have a "first meeting" then decide from there whether or not to have an actual date after the fact. Make the first meeting something short 30 min- 1 hour, that way if it happens to be with someone who you don't want to be with, you are only committed to a short amount of time! Takes away from having to come up with something to bail out on!

luvs2laugh78

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Warning women about piercings? yes or no Posted: 5/19/2009 1:46:54 PM
Well OP, Hopefully by the time you do decide to have sex with someone in a new relationship you would be at a stage for open communication as well. I like P.A's but have only had one partner with one. Its not something I wouldn't spring this on a girl "SURPRISE'. Either she will be totally turned on, or turned off! I would say best to tell her before hand and let her make the decision.

luvs2laugh78

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new and single Posted: 5/14/2009 9:05:47 AM
Well first off, being only 20 it's not the big of a deal to have been single your "entire life" LOL! Don't rely solely on this site to find someone, get out there in real life as well! Use the site to supplement the way you meet people! You are young, have fun and enjoy life, and don't feel like you need to be with someone to be happy, you need to be happy on your own first! Best of luck!

luvs2laugh78

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Should I be worried about how my boyfriend is acting? Posted: 5/13/2009 4:00:54 PM
OP, sorry hun, but I think you should be more worried about the way you are acting rather than the way he is! It looks like he is withdrawing, and stalling this relationship, due to your behavior. As many other posters have put it, you come across as needy and desperate, and wel those are words out of your own posts to! GSB reposted your words very concisely, reread them! You of course being in the situation are not going to see it from an outsiders perspective. You can't make someone love you, that will come on its own time. With your pushing to live just the 2 of you, takes away the buffer of his other friends in the home, and alot more pressure on him. You depend on him for your happiness! Sorry chica, that's not a healthy way of looking at things! You need to find some hobbies and interests of your own, you need to get your depression in check. How could you expect anyone to want to shack up with an emotional wreck? You can't then say "but if I live with you, Ill be happy" This may not be true, and then look what he ends up being stuck with Sorry, fix your own issues first, and quit smothering this guy, because like it or not, that is what you are doing!

luvs2laugh78

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Just Curious? Posted: 5/13/2009 10:19:53 AM
I say: C) Worry about what your teammates think when you don't make your routine sure-handed catch when he pops one your way the next time you play his team. HAHAHAHAH! Thanks, I will keep that in mind LOL!

luvs2laugh78

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why would Y-O-U decide to do this? Posted: 5/13/2009 10:17:33 AM
It happens, sorry to say this! The only reason I email people on this site is for one of the following reasons: 1) I am responding either yay or nay to an email they sent me. 2) I am expressing interest in them. 3) I am maybe making a reply to them on a forum comment I read that I didn't want public. 4) Something about their profile caught my attention, nice smile or eyes or funny witty comments made in it that I give positive feedback to. My mom raised me that unless I have something nice to say, say nothing at all I have received random negative emails from people that obviously have nothing better to do with their time then to cut me down. Do they think I really care what their opinion of me is? Puh-lease! Take it with a grain of salt, water off a ducks back, or whatever analogy you want! Some people play not so nicely in this sandbox!

luvs2laugh78

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Just Curious? Posted: 5/13/2009 9:44:37 AM
Thanks about the ankle LOL! Turns out 3rd degree sprain and chipped a bone, how I continued to play is beyond me! Sitting on the bench for next 6-8 weeks, and with this bloody air cast, I think the motorbike ride is out of the question! Thanks for the feedback guys. I have made first contact on dating sites, but have never been so bold in person, so I surprised myself, and was curious as to how it could have been perceived!

luvs2laugh78

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Just Curious? Posted: 5/13/2009 9:26:19 AM
Hi Guys, I just wanted to get some feedback, to stop the internal argument in my head LOL! This past Sunday I was playing softball, the first games of the season. A guy on the opposite team caught my eye at the beginning before the game started, more or less because of a comment he had made, which was similar to the type of comment I would have made in the same situation. During the game, I managed to hurt my ankle, but kept playing and when he was at bat he was asking me about it, seemed like a nice guy. At the end of the game I asked one of his teammates if he was single, turns out he was. I went over and made a point to introduce myself, shook his hand, and then asked if he would like to maybe get a coffee sometime, and by coffee I mean a beer as I don't drink coffee, he laughed at that comment and said yes. I gave him my phone number, and he asked if I had a helmet to ride a motor bike, I don't he said he would bring one then. My question is, having taken it upon myself to be so forward, do I : A) come across as desperate (I am not) or; B) Do I get brownie points for having been so ballsy? The way I looked at it, it was it was an opportunity that I could have let pass, or take the chance. I opted to take the chance. If something comes of it great, if not I maybe make a new friend. Any insight and feedback from the male perspective would be great, thanks!

luvs2laugh78

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What can I tell her? Posted: 5/6/2009 3:09:03 PM
Why someone would travel a great distance to meet someone that has already shown time and again that he is not ready/ does not want to be with her is beyond me? He's got his reasons for dragging his feet, whatever they may be who knows, thats besides the point. The question is why is she letting him drag her along with him? Why would she allow herself to be put through this, rather then move on herself?

luvs2laugh78

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Analyze my date/this girl... Posted: 5/6/2009 2:22:08 PM
Well here is my 2 cents on this OP. You can look at this woman as being rude, ignorant etc, etc for walking out on you like that, She should have "manned up" and told you to your face at the end of the movie! On the flip side, and I can see this only from my personal experience and reactions, if she was totally sketched out by you for whatever reason (she is entitled to her own feelings) that she felt she had to get away, without having a confrontation about it, then she has every right to remover herself from a situation she may have felt uncomfortable in! She may have said as an excuse that the date was not progressing, but if you are already putting your arm around her etc, and she felt the need to bolt, then kudos to her for removing herself. I agree with other poster that there is a lot not being said by the OP in this sense

luvs2laugh78

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Just a little advice please Posted: 5/6/2009 2:00:29 PM
Actually plenty of things say I love you more than buying things you might not be able to afford! Actions speak louder then words, and if all you tend to date is "princesses" that NEED to have things bought for them to make them happy, this may be your problem! I inadvertently became a "sugar-momma" to an ex I lived with years ago, while I paid both of our parts of rent, paid for my school, etc and worked 3 jobs on top of things! Never again, I won't be taken advantage of like that again,nor will I take advantage of someone like that! Time to lock your common sense down next time your involved with someone. Can't blame the other person, if you are so willing to put your financial situation in peril!

luvs2laugh78

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Just a little advice please Posted: 5/6/2009 1:24:18 PM
Hey OP, Sorry about your situation, it sucks, trust me I've been there! However all you can do is learn from your mistakes! You offered to support her basically and she took advantage of that, you were a willing participant in this. Next time,don't cough up the financial support so easily, especially as a student times are hard enough as is! As for being in a new city, see if there is a sport and social club locally and join a team! Its a great way to stay active and meet people with similar interests! Just a thought! Best of luck!

luvs2laugh78

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First real gf, first real heartbreak Posted: 4/23/2009 11:57:08 AM
Sorry your hurting OP! Take her off your facebook, don't look at her page etc! Pick yourself up and move on, and learn from things that didn't work in this relationship to apply to future ones. Next time, try to remain in contact with your friends, don't drop out on them, if your in a position like this again, you will need them!

luvs2laugh78

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How do you ask a lady out when you have been hurt so much ? Posted: 4/23/2009 11:54:19 AM
Not sure what you are asking OP? You just ask them out, plain and simple! If you want to be open to finding love, you have to be open to being hurt again, it does happen and it sucks! However, not all woman cheat!

luvs2laugh78

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So embarrassing - I can even ask my doctor!!!! Posted: 4/20/2009 9:38:09 AM
Soooo, you can let your Dr do what he has to do to remove it? But you can't ask your Dr if you can use it? Dr's have seen/heard it all. They don't judge or reveal what you say top them! Coming into a forum to ask a question such as this to ask who know's how many people read this, as opposed to the one most informed about you due to embarrassment? shakes head Flawed logic sir, I would indeed be asking the Dr!

luvs2laugh78

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Is it Bad Posted: 4/17/2009 3:26:55 PM
As if a 30, 35, 40, 50, 60+ year old woman wouldn't think the very same thing? The only females who don't consider money to be a prerequisite for attraction, are grade-school kids and women who are literally too damned old to care about what a man can or can't offer them financially and/or materially. I beg to differ! That is a very broad stroke of a paintbrush you are using there! This may be the case with woman you have been with, not the goal of ALL woman! I don't and have not depended on anyone financially ever! I have been taken advantage if in that sense, but I have never reciprocated that favor!

luvs2laugh78

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break up? Posted: 4/17/2009 3:21:21 PM
Sorry OP, I am in the boat with the majority that you need to let it go and move on! FWB situations while both may agree on in the beginning, usually ends up with one feeling and being invested more than the other. He said he wants to quit and to move on, maybe he has found someone who is a better fit in the relationship department. Also, why would you want to "change" the mind of someone who ended things with you via text? Taking the cowardly way out of it!

luvs2laugh78

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How to measure your D ick the correct way.. Posted: 4/17/2009 1:09:18 PM
LOL! This gave me a chuckle thanks for posting!

luvs2laugh78

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Broke up with her, but miserable about it Posted: 4/15/2009 10:50:47 AM
I am suprosed that this relationship continued at all OP! She was a smoker and a drinker and you chose to accept that, only to try to changer her after. When in a relationship, you accept the person for who they are faults and all. You said you would be happy if she changed, but does that not mean her sacrificing her happiness to appease you? If her lifestyle was such a dealbreaker for it then why did you continue it? She wasn't able to change, or fight her addictions as you wanted so now it is an "oh woe is me?" situation? NExt time, if they have habbits you don't condone or want in your life then move on instead of trying to insert your control on the other person's life.

luvs2laugh78

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What is with taking avantage of people? Posted: 4/15/2009 10:28:31 AM
Well if you want to avoid perhaps having to file Chpt 11 then I would leave immediately. He is a user, probably always will be! If you feel this way now, its not going to change when you get married! I would cut the losses and run now!

luvs2laugh78

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Not having much luck lately Posted: 4/14/2009 3:52:28 PM
My friend told me when he made a fake account on here with a hot girl he told me he got at least 20 emails a day and alot of IM"s. The fake account may have gotten a lot of hits, but do you know what junk is written in them? Some emails are just such a turn off that who would want to respond? OP you need to work on your self confidence most definitely. Also, if you are going to try dating on the net, then you will have to develop a thick skin. 3 girls in a row is nothing really. just want a really nice girl and average looking girls are usually nice =) This to me is a silly statement! Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, so what you feel is attractive may not be to me and vice versa. I have met some ugly people (to me) who were jerks, and some of the nicest people I have ever met were very attractive (again to me). Best of luck!

luvs2laugh78

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confused Posted: 4/14/2009 3:34:34 PM
Sorry but if you kiss, it could be just a kiss! Its not a contract written in stone! If you already question now whether or not to be back together, what then if you do get back together, and you live far apart, what are you going to question about then?

luvs2laugh78

Joined: 3/3/2008

Msg: 18 (view)

Confused of how I JUST got dumped... Posted: 4/13/2009 12:36:41 PM
Regardless of what she said OP, 2 dates do not a relationship make! She may have turned others down to meet or chat on this other website in order to get to know you, it does not mean she is exclusive with you. Move on and don't stress about this, it was 2 dates! I don't understand what you mean about fishnet stockings, they have no merit for judging a person, it was her sense of style or she as trying something new, if she noticed no one else was wearing them and made a comment on herself!

luvs2laugh78

Joined: 3/3/2008

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what should i do Posted: 4/13/2009 9:56:41 AM
The distance thing should be a clue to the woman you left, so it really shouldn't be that hard to tell her now should it?

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