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CSUGuy

Joined: 7/12/2005

Msg: 9 (view)

new relationship & xmas Posted: 12/25/2005 9:58:10 AM
Has he ever avoided your phonecalls or told you not to call at a specific time? - It should ALWAYS be alright to call him after a date to say good night - even if its 4am in the morning. Good way to get dumped. A woman in a man's pursuit is usually his top priority. Everything else can (and shalt) wait... That assumption and expectation is another good way to get dumped. Then, it is just like any other relationship; you're going to have to build it, if you mutually have the same expectations and goals after meeting in person. If on an initial meeting some girl started throwing down expectations of me, then I would pay the tab, grab my coffee, do whatever, and run like hell.

CSUGuy

Joined: 7/12/2005

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What If: now this is a serious thought and I really want serious In put. Posted: 12/25/2005 9:51:18 AM
There's a difference between lying, and remaining quiet about a fatal disease. No there isn't. Lies of omission are lies just the same. See previous reply to 'white lies, what's the harm'. However, not be up front and candid about something of this magnitude is not what I would consider to be a white lie. So, are all you people telling me that you would be okay if somebody withheld the fact that they had HIV from you until they were on their death bed with full blown AIDS. B.S. You would consider that murder, and it would be unlawful in most places. I don't have any respect for a wreckless vector, nor do I have any respect for someone that is going to withhold any information about a terminal disease from me, even if it isn't transmissible. It's dishonest and despicable, to say the least. Make sure he has adequate life insurance and get married And you are calling me selfish.

CSUGuy

Joined: 7/12/2005

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A Response to Some Criticism and a Rough Draft for a Christmas Present Posted: 12/25/2005 9:40:02 AM
be feeling your way What am I going to do use some imaginary antenna, or some magical third eye to feel my way through life? Maybe I you go ahead and use the gift god gave me and actually think about my actions and their consequences. I guess it's a matter of personal preference. Without resolving inner conflict, it's next to impossible to resolve relationships I understand this concept rather well. It's very true. However, I don't think I have any conflicts within myself at this point. The only thing I found myself really conflicted about was this thing. It was vexing me for a while, but I think I have resolved it pretty well. It did take some thinking, contemplation, and inner reflection on my part, but now I have an answer that I am comfortable with. you need a BIG PICTURE before you can sort out what you want to do about this situation. Trust me, I almost always think globally. Looking at the big picture is never something that I have a problem with. In fact, my problem is quite the opposite. I am almost always looking at the big picture when it comes to situations like this, when really they are much simpler when you consider such things while reducing the great number of independent variables that are really insignificant to the overall value that I am arriving at. If that is what you mean by feeling your way through this, then I can dig it. Thanks for the words/advice. I appreciate what you are saying.

CSUGuy

Joined: 7/12/2005

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What If: now this is a serious thought and I really want serious In put. Posted: 12/25/2005 6:02:56 AM
Actually Herpes lives in your nerve tissue. Sorry for the bogus classification.

CSUGuy

Joined: 7/12/2005

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What If: now this is a serious thought and I really want serious In put. Posted: 12/25/2005 6:01:48 AM
I wouldn't. I would leave them on their death bed. I don't like people that lie about such matters, nor would I have enough respect for them to waste my time watching them die. Perhaps they should have learned somewhere in life that honesty is the best policy. If they had given me the opportunity to make that decision then maybe I would have chose to stick around on my own accord.

CSUGuy

Joined: 7/12/2005

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What If: now this is a serious thought and I really want serious In put. Posted: 12/25/2005 5:42:03 AM
What if your roles were reversed? Well, that's simple. I would tell the person right off the bat. It would be selfish of me not to. I like how you claim that it's selfish for you to expect someone to be honest with you, especially about matters that are extremely relevant to your decision about whether or not you would like to form any emotional bonds to them. By your logic, it would be selfish of me to expect someone with AIDS, Herpes, HPV, Hepatitis or any other blood born pathegen to tell me the truth about something that affects me directly. Sorry, but that is bullsh*t.

CSUGuy

Joined: 7/12/2005

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What If: now this is a serious thought and I really want serious In put. Posted: 12/25/2005 5:14:51 AM
I am nothing if I am not honest.

CSUGuy

Joined: 7/12/2005

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What If: now this is a serious thought and I really want serious In put. Posted: 12/25/2005 5:02:43 AM
Would you be mad that they did not tell you at the beginning ? Yes, if they themselves knew. Would you upset that you were already attached to them ? Probably.

CSUGuy

Joined: 7/12/2005

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Character beats Beauty, every time Posted: 12/25/2005 5:01:00 AM
Think of me what you will darling. You may pretend to know me, but you haven't the slightest.

CSUGuy

Joined: 7/12/2005

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A Response to Some Criticism and a Rough Draft for a Christmas Present Posted: 12/25/2005 4:50:02 AM
Because of something I posted about myself and my previous relationship I have been getting a lot of criticism from others. Not that I care what anyone thinks, but I feel that I should clarify my position on this matter that happens to be of the utmost importance to me. Not only for those misinformed and unthinking buffoons out there, but for the one that this is actually of consequence to. The following is what helped to spawn the work below. Great you have a girl that you walked all over and she came back to you... but see.. here's the hitch... I see you different... you and I both know.. you aren't gonna stay with her... And if you say you prefer a " woman with a mind of her own and a strong will", well, then, thank you. You may know it, but it's news to me. This isn't a relationship were I walked over some chick and "played her like a violin". This is a relationship were every once in a while I would let her in and I would show her exactly what I am capable of when it comes to love. My logical reasoning, mainly driven by empirical data generated from past experience and what I knew about myself at the time dictated that I should pull back. It was clear to me that I should be fair to somebody that I have a tremendous amount of respect for. I knew that I was going to have one of the toughest years of my life ahead of me. I also knew that it would be unfair to ask for someone I had just met to accept this and work with me through it all. In reality, I thought I was doing what was best for the both of us when I would try to let her go and live her life free of the complexities that I had to offer her at that time. She fought me every step of the way. She knew what she wanted and she wasn't shy about getting it. Having a heart, I would agree to continue to try and make things work. Every time, I would feel a tremendous amount of guilt for allowing somebody to put up with my life events. I could see the frustration that this was causing, and I was highly conflicted about my selfish interest to keep somebody with me that made me feel good, and my general concern for her well-being. I would fret and try to cut and run, because sometimes its easier for me to hang with people I only share superficial interests with, especially when I can tell that a person’s love for me is hurting them. Every time, she would refuse, and demand that I stick it out. She was always there for me comforting me when I was struggling to get through everything. I felt guilty, because all the other stuff I was doing left very little for me to give to her in return for her love. This guilt is largely what inspired me to move in with her when I wasn't ready. When I looked around and saw myself settling in with this woman, and my life still hadn't stabilized, I freaked again. I told myself that these superficial relationships would be enough for me, and that I was actually doing her a favor, so I lied. I didn't know that I was lying, because I was lying to myself. I broke the news to her that this was it, and I wanted to finish what I started in terms of stabilizing everything, and that I couldn’t do it with her there. Subconsciously, I knew that the only way that she would leave is if I betrayed her feelings. I had to convince myself that she wasn't what I wanted and I wanted to fck everyone else but the girl who I was already having great sex with on a nightly basis. I convinced both of us that there was no possible way to make it work. Funny thing is, I had myself convinced on the night she left me, and for quite some time afterwards that it was for the best. Understand, I shared a deep connection with this woman, and although I was trying to remain strong in my decision to leave, I thought about how badly she must be hurting all of the time. I didn't want to never speak to her again, and I truly had the intention of remaining her friend. Therefore, I would call her to see how she was doing. Every time, I was hoping that she would be okay. Every time, I could tell that she had been crying. Fck, I didn't know what else to do but to try to comfort her. Every time, tears would be welling up in my eyes on the other end of the line, as I would remain calm and speak as if I didn't feel the pain I was directly responsible for causing. I lied to myself again. I told myself that I was right from the get go and I knew that this is how it would end. I had been wrong in allowing her to stay, because this is all I was capable doing for somebody who stuck with me through the largest obstacles that I have had faced. This is somebody who had stood by my side and would continue to stand by my side. If only things were different, if only I could risk losing control of myself for long enough to get caught up in the love I felt for this girl. She knew it all along, but had lost the toughest battle of her life, and the thing that she had fought for the hardest. The whole time she would say, "I'm a stupid girl. I swore I would never be one of those. But here I find myself incapable of acting any differently towards you." I used to assure her that she wasn’t a stupid girl, but man, I guess I made it all seem pretty damn stupid. I still wanted to help this person who had demonstrated such compassion for me. For a while, I quit calling her, hoping that time would heal her wounds and eventually she would be cool with keeping me as a good friend. She was always so upset with me when I would eventually call her. I would ask her if she wanted me to refrain from calling. Her reply was always no. And I could tell that talking to me made her feel better, so I would tell her about my job and my life and ask her about hers. Then one night she dialed me when she was drunk and left me a message. It was like somebody had given her truth serum or something. That air of anger was gone and she told me exactly how she felt about everything. Later we agreed to meet. I expected our meeting to be nothing more than a pity sex, but I couldn’t let myself do it if it was going to destroy her, so we talked about the implications. She was horny and that is supposedly all that she cared about. I knew it was bullsh*t, and I looked at her in that moment and thought about the relationship that I had thrown away out, for what seemed like valid reasons, long ago. In that moment, I couldn’t seem to justify any of them. I discarded them, and in the blink of an eye I made the decision to be with her once and for all. It was passionate, it was beautiful, it was some of the best sex I have ever had. Later that night, I traced her shoulder blades with my finger and looked at her with a contentment that I had never had before. Since then, I have wanted nothing else. The only other time this has happened to me, my love wasn’t as trivial as some may suggest. It was the most powerful emotion that I have ever felt and I have conditioned myself to be very cautious of it. I feel that same momentum building again. What frightens me the most, is the fact that I find myself not caring. It’s as if someone has given me the most powerful opiate imaginable and I am sitting beside myself dumbfounded and incapable of doing anything to put the breaks on it. It’s a run-away freight train. It’s an avalanche. It’s an ICBM. Now I am helpless when it comes to stopping it. I’m either in for a great adventure or a very bumpy ride. I guess all I can do now is try not to make some of the mistakes that I have made before. I guess I viewed love as a mistake and I tried desperately to avoid repeating it, but perhaps my thinking was wrong. I guess it’s hard to contain and tame the power of chemistry. I should have known. That is my forte.

CSUGuy

Joined: 7/12/2005

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Character beats Beauty, every time Posted: 12/25/2005 4:19:27 AM
My longest was 11 years. Just curious. Seeing if you had actually ever had a relationship of substance and length to speak of and use as a metric against what I have told you here. Easy dude... where did I root for your relationship to fail? Excuse me, but it seemed like you were serving up some snide remarks about my relationship failing. I stand behind that assumption. You can try to dress it up now if you like, but I'm not stupid.

CSUGuy

Joined: 7/12/2005

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Define cheating Posted: 12/25/2005 3:13:29 AM
Easier said than done. Perhaps this is just one reason that I am wary of love. I have seen what it can do to me when it goes wrong. You are absolutely right, I would get rid of her, but in that initial moment my passion for that person would be driven to an extreme that I don't care to revisit. I seriously doubt I would assault a guy over something that is, on the surface, truly innocent, but I would get rid of her. However, if the situation were to become cheating, then there is no telling what I may be capable of. I have no desire to be put in that position, so if she were to start throwing red flags, such as hanging out with other guys, I would drop her. My previous statements were a little over the top in terms of a plutonic friendship between my girlfriend/wife and some "dude". What I have said here is more in line with what was going through my mind at the time.

CSUGuy

Joined: 7/12/2005

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Character beats Beauty, every time Posted: 12/25/2005 2:58:41 AM
CSU....I dont dislike you... understand the difference... I see what you say, which is all I have to go on... should you care for me or anyone else to see you in another light, (which I doubt you do) then let us see it! As a woman, I am telling you, although you have your "girl that worships you" thing going on, we all know, or at least I do, that isn't going to last. why do you prefer to put out an arrogant attitude? I'd like to say "you're beautiful", but I can't, cause as deep as you are in your convictions here... you still dont want anyone to see "the beauty" you claim to possess. No hate CSU, only questions. Don't be afraid of a woman that doesn't DROP at your feet and actually has a mind of her own. Fair enough. I am glad to see that you are rooting for me to fail in my relationship. Let me ask you something. What's the longest relationship you have had? How do you know that my relationship is doomed to fail? And for the record, I prefer a woman with a mind of her own and a strong will. That much should be apparent from what you do know about me.

CSUGuy

Joined: 7/12/2005

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What is going slow in regards to a relationship? Posted: 12/25/2005 2:53:14 AM
adj4u you should stop by one of these nights Please..Some of us are trying to eat over here, and this is not inspiring very good visuals.

CSUGuy

Joined: 7/12/2005

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Is romance dead? Posted: 12/25/2005 2:51:16 AM
Romance was invented by Knights and the Crusaders during the Middle Ages. Before that, no one knew what to call those feelings. People just did what they were told to do before that. The concept and the word, Romance, gave us freedom to choose our lovers. Disagree. The romantic tales that were popularized in France during the middle ages were heavily dependent on tales of chivalry and courtship in love. These were concepts that weren't invented by Knights and Crusaders, but borrowed from the cultures of the Middle East. Ironically, chivalry and courtship came from a culture that is now obsessed with treating women no better than domesticated animals. It came from the Islamic cultures they sought to conquer.

CSUGuy

Joined: 7/12/2005

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Character beats Beauty, every time Posted: 12/25/2005 2:37:21 AM
who's to really know what your compensating for No need to compensate for anything. Your dislike for me doesn't matter to me. To each their own. Sorry, but I don't think impressing you, or anyone for that matter, is my goal for posting on these forums.

CSUGuy

Joined: 7/12/2005

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Funny things to do to fast food workers Posted: 12/25/2005 2:30:06 AM
A friend of mine worked at a Tim Horton's bakery on night shift. He told me that one is his co-workers, who hated his job, used to spit and blow his nose into the batter. He also added his own "cream" to a Boston cream donut. Mmmmmmm.. People who do sh*t like that ought to face the firing squad. Just a thought, but the punishment should fit the crime, and these people's crime is to endanger the health and well-being of the general public. Yeah, I would kill a person if I found out they did something like that to my food. Seriously, I would go vigilante on their ass in a second.

CSUGuy

Joined: 7/12/2005

Msg: 59 (view)

Funny things to do to fast food workers Posted: 12/25/2005 2:26:20 AM
Funny Things To do To Fast Food Workers? Show them a little respect, unless they've proven unworthy of it. Yeah, that would be funny. We can't all aspire to be someone that stuffs envelopes at home (or whatever) who fancies looking down on people who are slightly beneath us.

CSUGuy

Joined: 7/12/2005

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Just a pet peeve of mine. Posted: 12/25/2005 2:22:58 AM
I hate people that seem to be addicted to emotocons. Often times they have nothing decent or thoughtful to add. You are lucky if they can complete a sentence, and then they hit you with that blasted emotocon that lets you know that at least they are cracking themselves up with their lack of wit and idiotic banter. I just had to get that off my chest. It was eating me up inside.

CSUGuy

Joined: 7/12/2005

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Question for all you players! Posted: 12/25/2005 2:11:27 AM
Very true. Maybe she deserved to get played before reading all of this stuff. It seems to me like she understood full on what she was in for. It is rather hard to feel sympathetic when that is clearly the case.

CSUGuy

Joined: 7/12/2005

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Character beats Beauty, every time Posted: 12/25/2005 2:06:33 AM
@ CSU, Squirrly and Carib Why was that directed my way?

CSUGuy

Joined: 7/12/2005

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What is going slow in regards to a relationship? Posted: 12/25/2005 1:41:28 AM
he told me of how LITTLE he really know about her and all the problems that had surfaced in the marriage because he didn't take the time to really get to know her and the person she had become I hate to admit it, but I think that story is kind of laughable. It does demonstrate what kind of problems desperation can cause. What fools. mortalez, congrats to your parents. But in this day and age, I highly doubt that anyone getting married after only a few months of dating will be celebrating 50 yrs of marriage in the year 2055. I wouldn't discount it.

CSUGuy

Joined: 7/12/2005

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new relationship & xmas Posted: 12/25/2005 1:37:53 AM
am I wrong for expecting him to communicate since he is away Yes.

CSUGuy

Joined: 7/12/2005

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Question for all you players! Posted: 12/25/2005 1:36:15 AM
of course i ended up beating the shit out of him, so lets just say players are nothing but a waste of our society And violent criminals aren't?

CSUGuy

Joined: 7/12/2005

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Perpetual Virgin Posted: 12/25/2005 1:32:43 AM
I am really glad I took the time to read your post. Very good advice. You should listen to this woman. She knows what she is talking about.

CSUGuy

Joined: 7/12/2005

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Character beats Beauty, every time Posted: 12/25/2005 1:28:34 AM
I have met many manipulators that also have that quality as well.

CSUGuy

Joined: 7/12/2005

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What Do You Think... Posted: 12/25/2005 1:23:03 AM
I am proud to admit that I have never been low-class enough to send anyone a picture of my c*ck.

CSUGuy

Joined: 7/12/2005

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Dads..do you miss your children ? Posted: 12/25/2005 1:19:36 AM
How did you get f'd over so bad. Any court should have a problem with a devoted father being alienated from his kids like you describe. What's your story?

CSUGuy

Joined: 7/12/2005

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Is romance dead? Posted: 12/25/2005 1:17:55 AM
Well considering that I went out and bought two dozen roses, an expensive watch, and have plans to draft up a letter to this girl describing exactly what she means to me (I know it sounds trite), I would have to say no. I am feeling quite romantic. My only regret is telling her I would see her tomorrow and that I didn't want to impose when she invited me to go hang with her family on Christmas Eve. Thus, I find myself on this site writing to complete strangers instead of drafting that letter to her or writing my book, you know, doing something useful. I guess my desire for human contact is stronger than I am willing to admit sometimes.

CSUGuy

Joined: 7/12/2005

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Character beats Beauty, every time Posted: 12/25/2005 1:11:35 AM
@CSU... modest aren't ya? Actually, in some respects, yes.

CSUGuy

Joined: 7/12/2005

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Character beats Beauty, every time Posted: 12/25/2005 1:04:55 AM
Strength of character is very attractive...and not that easy to find these days. Very true.

CSUGuy

Joined: 7/12/2005

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Character beats Beauty, every time Posted: 12/25/2005 1:02:45 AM
This all boils down to the age old question of substance over forms. If I had my choice in the matter, no doubt I would choose both. However, if I had to pick betweem the two, I would choose substance hands down. Forms can deceive. Forms can fade. Substance is a far better indicator and happens to be longer lasting. When I go out, sure I get eye-fcked by some good looking women. Many times I fck them right back. However, when I approach them if there personality stinks, or they are dumb as a post it's like walking up to a girl and noticing she's got a really funky face. Furthermore, after I sit down and talk to a girl it's what I have said to her that keeps her intrigued and leaves an impression and keeps her wanting to know more. I leave my impression on people around me through my thoughts, my actions, my perspective of life, and my unique and sexy style. Some girls like me because of what's on the outside, but the ones that matter to me appreciate everything on the inside that I have to offer the world. They recognize my greatness in all of its forms tangible and intangible.

CSUGuy

Joined: 7/12/2005

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Perpetual Virgin Posted: 12/25/2005 12:52:23 AM
What is it? Don't tell me too much, but give me something to go on here.

CSUGuy

Joined: 7/12/2005

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are both sexs here looking for perfection in a mate Posted: 12/25/2005 12:50:28 AM
Kiss my ass. I have posted countless thoughtful and expressive thoughts. If you disagree with the message, that's your problem. It seems to me, like I was attacked for telling a very personal story about myself to people that don't understand what it's like to enjoy life or have sex (I think the two are mutually dependent), so they saw fit to attack me to the point that my post got deleted from existence. Quite frankly, this is a discussion board. If you can't handle frank discussion, then perhaps you should go play checkers or something.

CSUGuy

Joined: 7/12/2005

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sex with the ex- everyweek Posted: 12/25/2005 12:47:19 AM
usually after you break up with someone and still have sex with them it never works Now, let's be fair to sex after break-up. I think that some of us are being a little harsh. In all actuallity, I have had some of the best sex of my life with women after breaking up. Maybe it's the finality of it all. Maybe its the lack of pressure. Maybe its the grudge that one party seems to be holding against the other. I don't know what it is, but I like it. I am not about to tell anyone that they shouldn't do it. I think that they would be missing out. However, there is such a thing as having sex with your ex and keeping your dignity. I would say try that first, and then master the art of sex after breakup.

CSUGuy

Joined: 7/12/2005

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Perpetual Virgin Posted: 12/25/2005 12:38:25 AM
In general, women don't appreciate drunk guys drooling on them as they are slurring their speech. The previous advice is poor advice. You should never drink to help loosen you up to talk to women. Most of them will just make fun of you later with their girlfriends when they leave the bar and go home to their boyfriends. If you go out with a girl that you are comfortable with and happen to get drunk, then sloppy sex is always fun. Sloppy sex with a complete stranger might land you in the intensive care ward when you are dying of Bronchitus, because your AIDS infection has gone full blown 10 years down the road.

CSUGuy

Joined: 7/12/2005

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I just don't get it... Posted: 12/25/2005 12:28:44 AM
What makes gay adoption so bad then? I don't get it? I don't understand how two responsible loving gay parents could be any worse than the heterosexual nut cases having kids. I didn't think this was a discussion about gay adoption, but what the hell, I'll bite. Let's see, if an adoption agency is faced with the prospect of putting a child in a normal two parent, two gender household vs. a gay household, I think the logical choice is the two gender household, hands down. Fact of the matter, adopting children is a very competitive business and there seems to be a shortage of children for the scores of heterosexual couples that want to adopt and have the ability to provide healthy, normal, stable environments for children. I guess this is yet another case where I think that children's interests ought to come before the political agenda and personal motives of the gay lobby. Call me crazy.

CSUGuy

Joined: 7/12/2005

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Wanna track SANTA???? Posted: 12/25/2005 12:23:53 AM
Norad is great. Special thanks to the guys and girls that are keeping our skies safe.

CSUGuy

Joined: 7/12/2005

Msg: 47 (view)

Define cheating Posted: 12/25/2005 12:22:36 AM
No, not controlling, just tough on the competition. That's all.

CSUGuy

Joined: 7/12/2005

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are both sexs here looking for perfection in a mate Posted: 12/25/2005 12:19:58 AM
CSU, i think i've seen most of your posts tonight, you're cracking me up; too many people take things too seriously...... Yeah, I had a really good one going in the broken hearts forum. However, someone saw fit to delete my hard work. I am a little pissed off about that. Erasing people's posts seems ridiculous to me. At the very least they should just lock them out, unless is is complete garbage, which it wasn't. Thanks for the compliment though. You are one of the few who is actually brave enough to say that. It means a lot to me. I know that I am more appreciated than some people would like to pretend.

CSUGuy

Joined: 7/12/2005

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are both sexs here looking for perfection in a mate Posted: 12/25/2005 12:15:08 AM
No. When I was inspired to really look at it, they didn't. What I have is damn near close to perfection, I am baffled about my reluctance to enjoy it for what it is.

CSUGuy

Joined: 7/12/2005

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When you least expect it Posted: 12/25/2005 12:12:36 AM
Also how about the other tired one, "you'll meet someone when you stop looking". BAH-LONEY! Alright then, kathy, I won't blow smoke up your ass. To be perfectly honest with you, you probably won't ever meet a guy that will accept you and you will die alone in a house filled with cats and a Democratic banner in your front yard.

CSUGuy

Joined: 7/12/2005

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are both sexs here looking for perfection in a mate Posted: 12/25/2005 12:05:52 AM
I think I am looking for perfection. I recently did the cost benefit analysis on this relationship that I am in. Based on the positive aspects versus the negative, it is hard for me to understand why I am having such a dillema when it comes to this girl. Perhaps it all boils down to me being a perfectionist.

CSUGuy

Joined: 7/12/2005

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Christmas presents when beginning dating ? Posted: 12/24/2005 11:59:26 PM
Not a good idea.

CSUGuy

Joined: 7/12/2005

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Woman should answer all e-mails Posted: 12/24/2005 11:58:25 PM
I THINK THAT WHEN SOMEBODY SENDS AN E-MAIL TO SOMEBODY THEY SHOULD GET A RESPONSE EVEN IF THE PERSON IS NOT INTERESTED Yeah, we should hire some sort of thought police to enforce this little rule. If someone fails to reply to an e-mail we sould send somebody over to their house and bash their computer. Ever heard of free will? Nobody owes you anything, including a reply to what you think is a great e-mail. If your tactics aren't working change them. Trial in error is a crude way to learn, but it's learning nevertheless.

CSUGuy

Joined: 7/12/2005

Msg: 52 (view)

18 year old girl marries a 40 year old man? Posted: 12/24/2005 11:41:46 PM
You should watch a Twilight Zone episode called "A Drink From a Certain Fountain".

CSUGuy

Joined: 7/12/2005

Msg: 180 (view)

My Weight and My Boyfriend Posted: 12/24/2005 11:29:30 PM
Do what makes you happy and what is important to you. If your boyfriend keeps making rude remarks, find someone else. He knew your size when he got with you.

CSUGuy

Joined: 7/12/2005

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My son is 3 today! Posted: 12/24/2005 11:28:04 PM
he doesnt need his waste of space sperm giver. Question..Do you view all males as sperm givers, or just the worthless pieces of sh*t that abandon their kids?

CSUGuy

Joined: 7/12/2005

Msg: 48 (view)

How can I get my son to stop biting? Posted: 12/24/2005 11:25:33 PM
My son is just over 14 months old and his first instinct in most situations is to bite and I can't get him to stop any suggestions? I know lots of people are putting their children on leashes these days. Perhaps you should consider buying a muzzle.

CSUGuy

Joined: 7/12/2005

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My son is 3 today! Posted: 12/24/2005 11:17:55 PM
I would like for my ex to have a relationship with his children but I can't force him to. Somebody ought to give him a kick in the ass though.

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