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hilltop70

Joined: 3/4/2008

Msg: 146 (view)

Why Are Men Over 30 Drama Shy? Posted: 8/5/2009 3:00:20 PM
to me it means that you will not bring your past in the realtionship with or the need to consiciously or unconsiciously compare me to your last relationship good or bad if i can get the same clean slate that i ma willing to give you i dont want to be bothered

hilltop70

Joined: 3/4/2008

Msg: 109 (view)

Too picky? Just don't want to settle Posted: 8/5/2009 1:59:36 PM
dont settle they wont why should you

hilltop70

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wanting to start as friends doesnt mean someone is a player Posted: 8/5/2009 1:52:13 PM
there is nothing wrong with wanting to be friends first women can be crazy pyscho stalkers just like men and it would behove you to find that out BEFORE you invole yourself not after besides they have no problems telling you they want to be friends when it suits their needs

hilltop70

Joined: 3/4/2008

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Still on the market? Posted: 8/5/2009 1:48:34 PM
i wait till im exclusive before i annouce anything i would hate to put all my money on a maybe

hilltop70

Joined: 3/4/2008

Msg: 116 (view)

who recovers faster after a breakup men or women? Posted: 8/5/2009 1:45:14 PM
i have no problem moving on regradless of how i felt about you but then again i have also been called a an emotionless robot anyway

hilltop70

Joined: 3/4/2008

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Can men deal with NOT getting blowjobs? Posted: 7/6/2009 11:00:58 AM
sure if you can deal with not geting oral sex for the rest the relationship

hilltop70

Joined: 3/4/2008

Msg: 195 (view)

What's your deal breaker? (re profiles first glance) Posted: 7/6/2009 10:55:46 AM
anyone who implicity or subtly states that they dont accept a person for who they are anyone who has a long list of what they dont like and people who are arrogant if you read between the lines you can tell who they are

hilltop70

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Msg: 105 (view)

Why men prefer prostitutes to wife/gf Posted: 7/6/2009 9:39:59 AM
there are serval reason men pay for sex 1. you want her gone when are finished 2.you want sex without the drama of a relationship 3.there is no question as to you can get all your desires fullfilled 4. she is not going to complain about a headache or says she doesnt feel like it 5.wining and dining is paying for it howeever indirectly and at least you dont have to wonder if u are going to score for all the cash u shelled out a female who uses her body to make money is going to take care of it so the myth that she carries diseases and the like is not true she is more conscius of her body than the female who is sleeping around for free

hilltop70

Joined: 3/4/2008

Msg: 131 (view)

Get rid of new Puppy or Else... Posted: 7/6/2009 9:26:58 AM
never deal with people who give ultimatiums they are burgioning control freaks sirst the puppy who knows whats next if there is no compromise there is no relationship am i right

hilltop70

Joined: 3/4/2008

Msg: 103 (view)

I am getting used to being SINGLE, which scares hell out of me. Posted: 7/6/2009 9:22:28 AM
nobody wants to be alone but to be in a bad relationship because u dont want to be alone is a very bad thing to do if you are comfortable with yourself run with it you will meet someone eventually

hilltop70

Joined: 3/4/2008

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Would you date a man with a Vasectomy? Posted: 5/27/2009 9:36:14 PM
i want to get one myself i have all the kids im going to have for now

hilltop70

Joined: 3/4/2008

Msg: 258 (view)

Hottest Movie Scenes Posted: 4/1/2009 5:45:32 PM
the puppets in team america man that was hot i dont care u are

hilltop70

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no sex = no dating? Posted: 1/8/2009 8:35:41 AM
how bout this no sex till marriage i dont spend any money on you till marriage i think thats fair

hilltop70

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Children - the double standard Posted: 9/19/2008 6:35:25 AM
If she is that selfish a person then you know what your next move sholud be. I make it plain if or when you meet my child you must understand that you guys do except each other YOU will definitely be the one to go i grew up watching my parents putting my sibilings and myself second string and i would never do that to my child for anyone

hilltop70

Joined: 3/4/2008

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are you really happy being single? Posted: 9/19/2008 6:22:27 AM
listening to someone gripe boring, doing something u dont want to do for relationship sake dull, giving her the remote out of the kindness of your heart uhhhh, being able to watch football sat, sun, mon uninteruppted priceless p.s. my favorite pharse "im going home"

hilltop70

Joined: 3/4/2008

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What changed after 30? Posted: 7/24/2008 1:33:29 PM
i got comfortable in my own skin, no more sucking up to women cause i thought i couldnt handle being alone now its not a problem

hilltop70

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expectations Posted: 7/24/2008 1:30:01 PM
i would never lower my standards thats asking for trouble

hilltop70

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Did you lose the filter between your brain and your mouth? Posted: 7/16/2008 5:31:07 AM
being pc sucks being pc sucks being pc sucks keep it real truth only hurts once

hilltop70

Joined: 3/4/2008

Msg: 47 (view)

lonely in public?? Posted: 7/16/2008 5:25:07 AM
i take my daughter out with me just so i dont look like im alone of course its limits my activities but better than going solo

hilltop70

Joined: 3/4/2008

Msg: 51 (view)

When you msg someone who doesnt reply..... Posted: 7/12/2008 8:56:16 PM
i rarely get a reply to any message i send so i tend not to bother with that person again their loss not mine

hilltop70

Joined: 3/4/2008

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Who lies better--men or women? Posted: 7/10/2008 6:33:16 AM
as chirs rock so eloquently put in bigger and blacker "women are the masters of the lie" i have four sisters in age from 40's to mid 20's so i had a firsthand insight to how women operate and they are amusing to behold

hilltop70

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Msg: 125 (view)

When someone tells you , you look young Posted: 7/1/2008 6:38:32 PM
i never felt like being told i long young was an insult i like it

hilltop70

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Do You Feel Stuck In The Middle? Posted: 7/1/2008 6:27:03 PM
37, single, one kid, never been married i feel u all the way

hilltop70

Joined: 3/4/2008

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Do you ever get bored with dating, sex, and everything else? Posted: 7/1/2008 6:14:42 PM
i get bored with the process because more often then not i find myself giving more than im getting and i find myself not wanting to be bothered and im also tired of trying to get some females attetion.

hilltop70

Joined: 3/4/2008

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Any men over 35 seriously looking to get married? Posted: 7/1/2008 5:58:30 PM
i would hope to meet someone that i could marry one day

hilltop70

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Is it getting to expensive to continue to live single? Posted: 7/1/2008 5:28:06 PM
after my last relationship i took the tact that i am not goign to sacrifice anything i enjoy for the sake of cuttin cost if anything the trick is to live cheaper so u are no overwhelemed

hilltop70

Joined: 3/4/2008

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Are you a pack or a soliatary creature? Posted: 6/4/2008 5:16:44 PM
im a solitary creature but for some reason i feel the need to interact with others from time to time however seeing how i get treated when im trying to be respectful when introducing myself to ladies on this site i might just go back into my shell

hilltop70

Joined: 3/4/2008

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Guys don't want to be just friends, but girls do, why is that? Posted: 3/26/2008 7:18:09 AM
having been a "professional friend" through most of my life i agree with the sentiment that there is some hidden agenda and also if you are a "friend" why is there a need to comment on my dating habits if u are afriend unless u hada hidden agenda.

hilltop70

Joined: 3/4/2008

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does the single life get you down sometimes? Posted: 3/23/2008 6:38:15 PM
having been single for a while now i feel that id rather be with someone but because of my last relationship i also know that im not going to just settle for the first thing that comes along been there and done that and wont do it again

hilltop70

Joined: 3/4/2008

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Is is normal to feel great alone? Posted: 3/23/2008 1:14:39 PM
im with u mm after anasty breakup and a long recovery i like being alone to the point that it definetly makes me scrutinize ladies i meet very closely and u also think very clear when your head is not clouded with the i must have sex bug

hilltop70

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what defines an aquired taste Posted: 3/20/2008 11:30:31 PM
i will say that the needs and chemesrty assesments test define me better than i could describe myself

hilltop70

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what defines an aquired taste Posted: 3/20/2008 10:00:19 PM
maybe a little background would help, im a brutally honest guy (low pc filter) speak my mind (no promblems settling issuses) observant (im always watchng) insighful(always thinking) independant (want rather than need) not a sex hound (if i wanted sex that bad spitzers idea is not a bad one) a good friend to all (doctor phil of my set) loyal to a fault to those that desevere it im not picky cause id rather just talk to u to see how u are as a person cause lets face it i was duped by a crazy stalkerchick and i have learned my lessons but it still bothers me that i cant wap my mind around that comment

hilltop70

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what defines an aquired taste Posted: 3/20/2008 9:09:10 PM
having just returned to the dating scene after a long sabbatical from a couple of lousy relationships i have been told that my attitude now is an aquired taste becaue that is a new term for me im just curious as to wheather i should be insulted or not. i mean im a good guy so i really dont get what that means. a little help would be great

hilltop70

Joined: 3/4/2008

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threesome etiquette Posted: 3/18/2008 7:03:52 PM
to me it dont really matter having done it both ways as long as everyone is down what does it matter of course thats just me i even have a wingman for the ladies who like to try 2 guys

hilltop70

Joined: 3/4/2008

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single men in their 30s living alone with a dog Posted: 3/10/2008 9:56:07 PM
i live alone pay my bills clean my clothes cook my food (cant have a dog in my building otherwise) and look after my daughter i guess im the biggest loser ever huh

hilltop70

Joined: 3/4/2008

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The what do you think tests women throw at guys Posted: 3/8/2008 7:16:06 PM
say yes then say im going home see u

hilltop70

Joined: 3/4/2008

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need a little help Posted: 3/8/2008 9:52:28 AM
i am not much of put yourself out there kind of guy but in trying to find the right tone that will draw someones attention i have come up with a total blank so can please get some folks out there to with experience in doing this sort thing help out a newbie who is totally frustrated with trying to come up with nice things to say to draw a females attention all respones will be given equal air time thank you community for your participation

hilltop70

Joined: 3/4/2008

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Needed or Wanted? Posted: 3/7/2008 9:16:51 PM
id rather be wanted being needed makes me feel like im filling some emtional void as opposed to someonne whose feels like a relationship is somethig they must have

hilltop70

Joined: 3/4/2008

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Any men over 35 seriously looking to get married? Posted: 3/7/2008 7:42:09 PM
i wold settle for meeting someone i would consider marrying that seems to be the biggest hurdle

hilltop70

Joined: 3/4/2008

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30 and never married? Posted: 3/7/2008 7:36:53 PM
im waitng for ms right

hilltop70

Joined: 3/4/2008

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Why do guys feelings not get heard? Now don`t laugh. Posted: 3/7/2008 7:28:46 PM
vurnability is sometimes seenas a sign of weakness to women and some female treat it like blood in the water

hilltop70

Joined: 3/4/2008

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Why do men not ask a woman out in person? Posted: 3/7/2008 6:36:38 PM
if i dont see body language that says approch me i wont do it

hilltop70

Joined: 3/4/2008

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How does online dating compared to real life? Posted: 3/7/2008 2:50:42 PM
the true difference is seeing them when u talk to them thast the only difference to me inperson the conversation is not as controlled as it is in a chat window

hilltop70

Joined: 3/4/2008

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The one thing you miss most when you are single Posted: 3/7/2008 2:46:06 PM
companionship

hilltop70

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What Do You Bring To The Table In A Relationship? Posted: 3/7/2008 2:44:05 PM
honesty loyalty a security someone who is comfortable in their own skin communicatin domesticality responsibilty growth compassion understanding can cook and clean the fact that i WANT to be u rather than the NEED to be with you

hilltop70

Joined: 3/4/2008

Msg: 162 (view)

if a woman says that sex is not of prime importance Posted: 3/7/2008 2:29:54 PM
speaking as someone who has this conversation frequntly with every female i meet sex is not the motovating factor for me in a relationship because the truth is that no matter how much sex u have or how good it is you still have deal with that person outside the bedroom and if you dont know them as an individual what happens if you guys have an accident you will not be equiped to deal with as a couple besides as crass as this might sound if u just want sex you can go to your local redlight district and get anyact you desire for the right price

hilltop70

Joined: 3/4/2008

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Why do men ruin relationships with video games? Posted: 3/7/2008 2:13:21 PM
if all i have to look forward too is what u want to do then a video game is defintely where im going to go but remeber the alternitive hanging out with the fellas or running the streets pick your poison

hilltop70

Joined: 3/4/2008

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Does Friends first ever really work? Posted: 3/7/2008 2:03:01 PM
sometimes it works sometimes it doesnt it usally depends on where the people are in there lives

hilltop70

Joined: 3/4/2008

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Sorry Hun, I'm Pregnant... Posted: 3/7/2008 1:56:31 PM
your friend was bamboozeled hoodwinked and got but dont worry he will be back and much more jaded because of it (full discloser) it happened to me my only child was the result of shady practices and as a result i have learned the pharse substance over style if u are not trying to sleep with a female they will become who they really are u can only wear the mask for so long

hilltop70

Joined: 3/4/2008

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Am i wasting my time here? Posted: 3/7/2008 1:47:26 PM
having went through something similar i can tell if it wlks like a duck quacks like one it probally is one

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