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CrystalLinda

Joined: 7/13/2005

Msg: 104 (view)

Vegas Fun Get Together 2008 Posted: 1/18/2008 9:39:17 AM
Im booked for the last week in May-not too cold and not too hot yet

CrystalLinda

Joined: 7/13/2005

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OK .. let me have it Posted: 4/4/2007 3:41:20 PM
lol, i dont think that is bad at all, nothing wrong w/knowing what you want and not wasting your time on what you dont. Mine profile is "worse" than yours!

CrystalLinda

Joined: 7/13/2005

Msg: 62 (view)

Port Hueneme Pier Singles Beach Party Nov 11th Posted: 11/13/2006 3:39:17 PM
I showed up, but it was soooo windy i did not stay and could not see anyone.

CrystalLinda

Joined: 7/13/2005

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is this bein a Whore? Posted: 11/15/2005 3:59:29 PM
Well, hopefully your name out here is just a joke, right? When i was raising my daughter, going out and drinking was the last thing i wanted to do. Since you dont have custody of your kids anyway, i dont see what harm going out a couple of nites a week would do-unless, of course, you have a drinking problem and/or are trying to get custody of them. If that is true, maybe you should really take a look at your situation and see what you have to offer your kids, and take care of yourself first, ie, eating right, limit drinking, maybe continued education, etc.

CrystalLinda

Joined: 7/13/2005

Msg: 16 (view)

Being A single Woman Posted: 11/15/2005 3:55:02 PM
I have not been able to find what i am looking for, some say i am too picky, but i am happy with who i am and what i have. I think, from what i hear, you will find someone when you least expect and are not really looking for it. Guys are lucky, there are so many great women, young and old, like us to choose from!

CrystalLinda

Joined: 7/13/2005

Msg: 22 (view)

dating Posted: 11/15/2005 3:51:41 PM
Her body, her choice and you have know her for such a short time, what would you have done anyway? Married her? Paid child support? Get real w/your badself.

CrystalLinda

Joined: 7/13/2005

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Scared of what???? Posted: 11/15/2005 3:49:27 PM
Sounds like he wants his cake and eat it too. If you are looking for something exclusive, dump him, because he cant give that to you.

CrystalLinda

Joined: 7/13/2005

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The best that I can do Posted: 10/6/2005 1:20:23 PM
lyny, Your post is really moving, i had to fight off the tears (maybe hormones?) I agree w/you 100%!

CrystalLinda

Joined: 7/13/2005

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I need my POF gang - Advice for the love lorn... Posted: 10/4/2005 4:40:38 PM
"So guy accidently says that he still loves the spouse" Girl should have run from this guy right then and make sure the next guy she dates is single BEFORE she starts dating him and, if divorced, the divorce has been final for at least one year.

CrystalLinda

Joined: 7/13/2005

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How about if you got prego and went against his wishes to terminate/put up for adoption? Posted: 10/4/2005 4:35:30 PM
Same thing happend to me over 18 years ago-he wanted me to terminate it-but I was 27 and felt ready for motherhood. So glad I stuck to my convictions. I never hit him up for anything and we never saw each other after that. Fortunatly, I was lucky enough to find employment and make enough $ to support us both. If you feel that you will need the financial help, you are entitled to it. Just remember, if he did not want the kid in the first place, his hostility toward you and your baby might not be worth the extra couple of hundred bucks a month.

CrystalLinda

Joined: 7/13/2005

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VC Singles at Bombay's Thurs. 10/6 Posted: 10/4/2005 3:13:19 PM
From 6 onward get together at Bombays on CA st in ventura. Special drink prices and some free munchies. Local DJ gives away CD's and concert tickets from 8-9 and band starts at 9-no cover!

CrystalLinda

Joined: 7/13/2005

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Ventura County Singles at Bombay's Posted: 10/4/2005 11:10:28 AM
This coming Thurs. 10/6/05, will be a singles get together starting at 6pm at Bombay's Bar and Grill on California St. in Ventura. There will be special drink prices and I think some free munchies. From 6-8 is the mixer, 8-9 a local DJ will be giving away CD's, concerts and other stuff and the band begins at 9pm-no cover! Hope to see you all there.

CrystalLinda

Joined: 7/13/2005

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dating a recently divorced person? Posted: 9/29/2005 4:33:16 PM
I have heard shrinks say that you should wait at least one full year from the time you are divorced to start dating. You also probably would not want to date a guy who is recently divorced. I never worry about divorced guys i date going back to their wives, although it has happend to me a couple of times b/4 i starting living by this one full year rule.

CrystalLinda

Joined: 7/13/2005

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Sounds good to me...now if only it wasn't this hard! Posted: 9/29/2005 4:26:32 PM
Yes, arent we all looking for that?

CrystalLinda

Joined: 7/13/2005

Msg: 7 (view)

A question...Is it dating or a 'relationship'? Posted: 9/29/2005 4:20:47 PM
Maybe its just bootie call.

CrystalLinda

Joined: 7/13/2005

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A question for all who read this. Posted: 9/15/2005 4:32:14 PM
Supermarkets, we all got to eat, and volunteering is a way to meet nice people, try your local Habitat for Huminity or some other charity.

CrystalLinda

Joined: 7/13/2005

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What's your ideal size... Posted: 9/12/2005 3:16:09 PM
I would still only want one-genetic replacement. Even if money of the family is not an issue, there are still limited resources in the world and why not adopt a kid that is already here.

CrystalLinda

Joined: 7/13/2005

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Do men get off on crazy women? Posted: 9/6/2005 10:35:00 AM
ruthless: I totally agree w/you and have had similar experiences. An ex BF was married to a psyco-bit** for 10 years before we starting dating during his divorce. She treated him like crap and he was afraid to sleep, he said he slept w/one eye open-Im sure she had borderline personality disorder, she was a drunk and made many lame attempts at sucide just to get his attention. I think men like the excietment of those women, and their unperdectibility factor. It might also be the need to be needed is why these men stay w/them. Many men have a really strong need to be needed, and hey, i hear the sex can be pretty wild w/a psyco too.

CrystalLinda

Joined: 7/13/2005

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Business Card Approach - no luck with women replying Posted: 8/31/2005 9:43:57 AM
I agree w/barry, its cheesy, and you have given out 100! Maybe you should be more picky and get to know someone a little better, than ask for her number. What next, handing out flyers?

CrystalLinda

Joined: 7/13/2005

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Mr. Nice Guy Posted: 8/31/2005 9:35:01 AM
I think a guy can be nice and not borning, the two arent mutually exclusive, never was attracted to bad boys myself, would always perfer the nerd engineer-type (they can fix my computer)

CrystalLinda

Joined: 7/13/2005

Msg: 36 (view)

Mr. Nice Guy Posted: 8/30/2005 4:27:03 PM
This is similar to another post, no such thing as too nice, but too borning...

CrystalLinda

Joined: 7/13/2005

Msg: 41 (view)

Woman are you kidding us Posted: 8/30/2005 4:22:14 PM
Hey! I have met plenty of middle-aged average or below average looking guys still holding out for the super model, goes both ways.

CrystalLinda

Joined: 7/13/2005

Msg: 41 (view)

She asked me to pee on her....... uggggggg Posted: 8/30/2005 4:20:19 PM
Never was into the golden shower thing myself, i always thought that it was a bit degrading.

CrystalLinda

Joined: 7/13/2005

Msg: 78 (view)

Is This Wrong? Posted: 8/30/2005 4:13:32 PM
I would love to find a guy who would do that!

CrystalLinda

Joined: 7/13/2005

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Why can't I keep a man Posted: 8/30/2005 4:12:42 PM
You are a pretty girl, do you know it? Maybe you need to work on your self esteem. Let the guys know what a great catch they have in you and how wonderful you are, and you need to really feel/belive it yourself-they will stick around.

CrystalLinda

Joined: 7/13/2005

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WHY ISNT HE ASKING ME OUT???? Posted: 8/30/2005 4:09:25 PM
I was just going to say the same thing, hey, its the 21st century women are allowed to ask men out. If he says no, you have your answer and you can move on.

CrystalLinda

Joined: 7/13/2005

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how long is long enough?? Posted: 8/30/2005 4:02:59 PM
I actually know the answer to this because most shrinks/counslers recommend that you do not even think about dating untill your divorce has been final for at least one full year.

CrystalLinda

Joined: 7/13/2005

Msg: 78 (view)

3 dates and no kiss? Posted: 8/30/2005 4:01:24 PM
Sounds like the guy really respects you and does not want to blow it. If he was not into you, he would not have asked you out 3 times-maybe he feels something deeper than just the mere physical, be patient.

CrystalLinda

Joined: 7/13/2005

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Would a man in his 40s marry a woman in her 50s? Posted: 8/30/2005 3:59:09 PM
I know what you mean, because I look and feel younger than my 46 years, i am attracted to younger guys, like in their 30's. Most guys my age or slightly older are in walkers, but some look as young as I do.

CrystalLinda

Joined: 7/13/2005

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do women really want a man who is totally honest ?? Posted: 8/30/2005 3:57:08 PM
I think if you met the right women you would feel comfortable enough to tell her everything. I am not sure I would want the men I date to know all of my deep dark secrets either, but that does not mean I lie to them, I just may tell them that some things are none of their business. You dont need to devulge everything that has ever happend to you in the past, but if you think it is something that she would want to know, you should tell her, ie criminal record, etc. If she really liked you she would understand.

Crystallinda

Joined: 7/13/2005

Msg: 43 (view)

why are people afraid to date single parents.....? Posted: 8/19/2005 1:54:28 PM
Since i consider kids to be an asset rather then a liability, i would rather date a guy w/kids!

Crystallinda

Joined: 7/13/2005

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Why are Woman so scared to date a guy with A baby on the way!! Posted: 8/19/2005 10:01:59 AM
I think they are right, you really should hold off seeking another relationship right now, it just looks bad and you probably should take care of your current situation/responsibility before looking for another.

Crystallinda

Joined: 7/13/2005

Msg: 41 (view)

why are people afraid to date single parents.....? Posted: 8/19/2005 9:55:56 AM
Most single guys my age are parents too, and have one or more divorces under their belt. I think maybe only selfish people are afraid to date single parents so they dont have to have any attention taken away from them. If a guy does not want to date you cuz you have a kid, you probably would not want him anyway.

Crystallinda

Joined: 7/13/2005

Msg: 26 (view)

child birth Posted: 8/19/2005 9:53:01 AM
I still remember the pain, eventho is was over 17 years ago, probably why i only have one kid, but she is a beautiful, kind, talented person, so i was lucky. I do think that less is more as far as medical intervention in child birth and I am all for any natural alternatives to the hospital thing

Crystallinda

Joined: 7/13/2005

Msg: 28 (view)

A HONEST females opinion please!!!!! Posted: 8/17/2005 9:51:20 AM
Aaron, I dont think less of you for wanting to know for sure. It seems that you could compel her to get the kid tested thru a court-ordered paternity test. Have you tried that?

Crystallinda

Joined: 7/13/2005

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Single parents and casual sex Posted: 8/17/2005 9:45:49 AM
No, i think you are doing the right thing. Just because an adult does something, does not mean a kid should-kids should not drink, smoke, gamble and they should not have sex either, causual or not. I do not bring a guy home to meet my daughter unless he is someone special and i know will be around a while. I do agree w/you that you should not bring guys to your home just to bang w/your kid there-go to a hotel or his place, that last thing you want is your daughter to lose respect for you.

Crystallinda

Joined: 7/13/2005

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How is this supposed to attract someone? Posted: 8/17/2005 9:38:22 AM
I just heard a factoid yesterday the women, on average, speak 7000 words a day, where men only speak 2000-maybe that will give you some insight!

Crystallinda

Joined: 7/13/2005

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would u date a person who didnt dress right? Posted: 8/17/2005 9:36:07 AM
I dated a guy for 3 years who wore nothing but jeans and t-shirts-even to his own 2 marriages-no wonder they ended in divorce! Once you get to know him better, take him out for a mini-makeover and shopping spree-just make sure you pick out the cloths.

Crystallinda

Joined: 7/13/2005

Msg: 28 (view)

Why cant a nice guy get a break!!!!! Posted: 8/16/2005 3:23:10 PM
Nothing wrong with nice, but boring, now thats a sin! Update your profile to make it more interesting.

Crystallinda

Joined: 7/13/2005

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Newbie here...just curious about something. Posted: 8/16/2005 3:20:11 PM
I dont smoke :-) and I hear ya!

Crystallinda

Joined: 7/13/2005

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Anyone singles meeting up in vegas this weekend Posted: 8/15/2005 3:25:28 PM
Im leaving for Vegas this monday from 8/22 to 8/25

Crystallinda

Joined: 7/13/2005

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To be, or NOT to be... Posted: 8/11/2005 10:46:42 AM
You know what, i totally agree w/you on this. If someone is not honest enough to show their picture, what else are they leaving out? I do not even answer people on this site if they do not have a pic-I am not really into mystory men.

Crystallinda

Joined: 7/13/2005

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behind the orange curtin Posted: 8/4/2005 3:00:44 PM
I can't live in the OC, they have zoning laws against liberals like me.

Crystallinda

Joined: 7/13/2005

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give me some advice........ Posted: 8/4/2005 2:57:51 PM
Be honest w/her, but most importantly, be honest w/yourself. For instance, i, myself, would not approach a totally hot, young, buff dude that I fell is totally out of my league, you get less rejections that way.

Crystallinda

Joined: 7/13/2005

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BIG.........or small........... What is really better? Posted: 8/4/2005 2:52:48 PM
People who live in a germ-free environment may actually be more susceptible to catching various deseases/conditions. Especially when a young child is not exposed to germs, he/she grows up w/an inmature immune system and allergies and asthma problems may result. Exposing yourself to a certain amount of germs may help keep your immune system healthy and keep it from being board. Food for thought, Mr. Howard Hughes aka Hermit.

Crystallinda

Joined: 7/13/2005

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has anyone actually gotten a get together going before ? Posted: 8/4/2005 2:36:33 PM
We got a Ventura County singles group going where we meet at various places. I got an invite from a guy on another dating website, thats how it got started. I am not sure if you can send out mass emails on PoF, I think that is how he contacted me.

Crystallinda

Joined: 7/13/2005

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pics of kids Posted: 8/3/2005 4:09:51 PM
That does sound tacky. My daughter is a model and has her own site, i would not think about putting her pic on a site like this, but to have your kids pic next to a raunchy one of you, complete bad taste...but then again, this is the internet and not may have good taste out here. Maybe its a hint that this lady is wanting to get preggers again.

Crystallinda

Joined: 7/13/2005

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letting children date, when is a good time... Posted: 8/2/2005 4:19:49 PM
My daughter is 17 and does not even show an interest in dating. Sure, she goes to the shown w/her 3 male friends, but that is all they are to her-she is like her mama, too picky. I think it depends on the maturity level of the teen, but no younger than 16 for dating, thats what i think anyway.

Crystallinda

Joined: 7/13/2005

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Nice guys finish last. Posted: 8/2/2005 4:15:13 PM
That is why you dont want to do the long term stuff. To be honest, she just was not that into you, to play you like that. Most women like and look for nice guys. There are some out there who like the "bad boys" but those are few and far between. My advise to you would be to find more local girls to date and make sure you meet them in person before investing too much time on the phone or internet. Its human nature to fill in the blanks w/the things we want in a person when we dont know what they really are. And as far as wnen a girl says you are too nice, she may just be saying she wants a guy w/some backbone, you know, someone who has their belief system and does not agree w/everything she says, because there is nothing wrong w/being nice.

CrystalLinda

Joined: 7/13/2005

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Just looking for constructive feedback... Posted: 7/29/2005 11:11:00 AM
I think your profile is wonderful. It shows a sweet kid who is humble and a little innocent, perhaps vunerable-chicks dig that (sorry, i came of age in the 70's)

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