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xxlosingfaithxx

Joined: 7/13/2005

Msg: 492 (view)

is it rape if... Posted: 12/6/2008 4:06:28 PM
As a victim of rape I would say no in this circumstance. I was in a SOMEWHAT similar circumstance about 2 years ago. I was at a bar with a friend on her birthday. We were drinking and shooting pool. Hot guy hit on me...we flirted, etc. It got late and my friend wanted to go home, so I took her home and went back to the bar. That was my mistake, and I take full responsibility for that. I wasn't drunk when i left the bar, so i wasn't when i came back. However, after my first drink after arriving BACK to the bar I blacked out. I remember very little about the rest of the night. And when I woke up in a cheap hotel room the next morning I knew what had happened. I battle with with myself whether on not this was rape. The fact that I do not conciously remember making the decision to sleep with him maked me believe it was rape. Either way, I have learned from it, and you should learn from this situation. Don't go to bars alone. If you're being pursued by someone you do not want to sleep with...LEAVE. It's pretty simple. Be smart. Make wise decisions. And good luck in your future quests for love. Audrey

xxlosingfaithxx

Joined: 7/13/2005

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Why are so many people having sex without using CONDOMS? Posted: 11/3/2008 6:53:34 PM
#1 reason why men don't use condoms: They're d o u c h e bags. :-D

xxlosingfaithxx

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Unusual Compliments Posted: 11/3/2008 6:49:52 PM
I've been complimented on my eyebrows as well.....since i was a baby actually. lol Men usually say something about me teeth....which makes me a little uncomfortable, because i'm self concious about them. they're small....but guys seem to think they're cute. lol

xxlosingfaithxx

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whats the farthest you have traveled to get laid? Posted: 3/3/2007 6:23:08 PM
From Dallas to Oklahoma City....about 5 hours. From Dallas to San Marcos....about 3 1/2...then 45 extra minutes down to San Antonio for a girl. :-p Don't hate the player, hate the game. lmao

xxlosingfaithxx

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Msg: 116 (view)

Sex during thunderstorms Posted: 3/3/2007 3:14:37 PM
Once, an ex and I were laying in bed, reading before bed, and the lights went out from the storm outside. We ran outside, got soaked in the rain, came back in, lit some candles, and had absolutely amazing sex. It was wonderful. I don't know why...but rain is hott.

xxlosingfaithxx

Joined: 7/13/2005

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World's Funniest Climax/Orgasm Stories Posted: 2/18/2007 4:36:27 PM
I was with a guy who sounded like he was growling when he climaxed. It was pretty hott actually. :-/

xxlosingfaithxx

Joined: 7/13/2005

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Laughing Orgasm Posted: 2/18/2007 3:53:28 PM
This is awesome. I giggle during sex a lot. And most guys think it's weird, or that I'm laughing AT them. Glad to know I'm not the only one. I think it's just extreme happiness. And as far as "Are we wrong?"....NO! You're never wrong if it's something you both enjoy. Like it would matter what any of us say anyway...obviously you were enjoying yourself.

xxlosingfaithxx

Joined: 7/13/2005

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What the Hell man? Posted: 2/17/2007 2:54:28 PM
It sounds like a dandy evening to me. What exactly are you complaining about?

xxlosingfaithxx

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Is oral sex cheating? Posted: 2/17/2007 2:18:48 PM
yes............................... yes......this is a dumb question.

xxlosingfaithxx

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Msg: 64 (view)

Metrosexuals - Do women really want to sleep with them? Posted: 2/16/2007 6:54:37 PM
Metrosexual is just a label that straight guys gave to guys who ACTUALLY TAKE CARE OF THEMSELVES! I don't think there's anything wrong with a man who keeps himself looking/smelling nice. In fact it's EXTREMELY hot. So yeah....I'd jump a metro. :-p

xxlosingfaithxx

Joined: 7/13/2005

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have you ever fallen in love with a gay guy/girl? Posted: 2/9/2007 4:36:04 PM
Yeah, I was actually in love with my best friend for a long time. Now we're just really close. I would have boyfriends, and truly care about them...all the while still being in love with her. Didn't make straight relationships very easy.

xxlosingfaithxx

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Valentines Bash, Yeah, yeah, yeah, another DFW Party!!!! Posted: 2/8/2007 8:45:44 PM
This will be my first POF party. hooray I'll be the one in the corner that looks like this.... I'm shy

xxlosingfaithxx

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~ Do You Remember Your First Kiss? ~ Posted: 10/26/2006 6:21:48 PM
I think I have everybody beat. I was 5!!! lol I was in kindergarden...and the 'bad' kid who had his own little desk next to the teacher's also happened to be right by the crayon sharpener. Well, I asked him to 'peel my crayon'....in an obviously non-dirty way (I was 5!)....he grabbed my crayon peeled the wrapper off of it for me, and kissed my on the cheek. I was so freaked out I started crying. HAHA

xxlosingfaithxx

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What have you NOT grown out of? Posted: 10/23/2006 1:31:08 AM
apparently when i was a tiny baby I would grab my mom's hair and put it in my ear. gross? maybe. Growing up i did it with my own hair. Since I was 16 I've had short hair. And for the last few years it's been so short i haven't been able to do that. But I'm growing my hair out now, and I've found myself doing it again when i'm trying to go to sleep. lol

xxlosingfaithxx

Joined: 7/13/2005

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older/younger sex... tell us about it... what was your experience like? Posted: 10/23/2006 1:12:57 AM
I was 19, and he was 28...not a HUGE difference, but still. It was the best sex i've ever had.

xxlosingfaithxx

Joined: 7/13/2005

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What kind of person are you intimidated by, afraid to date? Posted: 10/22/2006 10:59:06 PM
Personally I find women with followings intimidating; 1. big boobs 2. tatooes on their back side 3. blonde hair 4. slim waist 5. moderately big round rear 6. soft smooth and tanned skin 7. thong sticking out of tight lowcut jean 8. gentle "Spring" smelling shampoo from her hair 9. pretty smile 10. green eyes 11. women who like to touch people ... ok, generally most women just scare me. lmao....THAT is funny.

xxlosingfaithxx

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Msg: 73 (view)

What kind of person are you intimidated by, afraid to date? Posted: 10/22/2006 10:57:34 PM
lmao....THAT is funny.

xxlosingfaithxx

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Oral Posted: 11/4/2005 10:30:48 PM
I don't like to be asked. If I want to, I will. Don't bother me. lol

xxlosingfaithxx

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what side of the bed would you sleep on Posted: 8/27/2005 7:26:45 PM
Whichever side i pass out on......unless i completely miss the bed.

xxlosingfaithxx

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no orgasm Posted: 8/27/2005 4:51:44 PM
haha. 9 by 6? I'm scared.

xxlosingfaithxx

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no orgasm Posted: 8/27/2005 4:00:42 PM
I've only been able to orgasm with one guy....my ex. I've been with others, but no one could do what he did. I'm looking now for someone BETTER than him. I wonder where he is....

xxlosingfaithxx

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Do you regret loosing your virginity? Posted: 8/25/2005 3:12:55 PM
Most definately. 100% pure jerk.

xxlosingfaithxx

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What were you told about the birds and the bees growing up? Posted: 8/24/2005 7:34:45 PM
I distinctly remember asking my parents where babies came from. We were at the dinner table. My dad was about to leave to go to a Masonic Lodge meeting, so she told me to wait until he left....and then she went into this LONG DETAILED discription of what happened...where stuff went....blah blah blah. I was like 7! It was really funny though. I can still remember the look on my dad's face. And because I thought it was so funny, I asked him one time when my mom wasn't home. He told me to ask my mother. tehehe.

xxlosingfaithxx

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who calls first Posted: 8/13/2005 8:24:25 PM
I say offer your number to the girl...if she wants to talk to you, she'll call. Personally, I don't like leaving the ball in his court. I like to have the control.

xxlosingfaithxx

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where are female tattoo's sexy? Posted: 8/12/2005 5:22:35 PM
I have a butterfly on the outer thigh, right below my hip......

xxlosingfaithxx

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on t-shirts Posted: 8/10/2005 7:30:28 PM
"Never underestimate the power of stupid people in large groups" "My imaginary friend thinks you have serious issues" "Are you stalking me? Cuz that would be super" "I'd love to have a battle of wits with you, but you appear unarmed" "Rock is dead. Long live Paper and Scissors" tehehe

xxlosingfaithxx

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I Got Drooled On Posted: 8/9/2005 6:40:23 PM
I got drooled on once before. But I thought it was funny. My boyfriend at the time had just helped me move into my new apartment. We were hanging out at his place watching tv, and he layed his head on my chest and we fell asleep. He woke me up freaking out. He was embarassed cuz he drooled on me. I couldn't help but laugh.

xxlosingfaithxx

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Is this rude? Posted: 8/5/2005 5:52:57 PM
That's horrible dude. I can't see why you'd ask someone to come stay with you, and then ignore them the entire time. Maybe she's trying to get your attention or something. Get you all jealous so you'll get back with her? I don't know. Just a random thought. But if she does go out, I wouldn't stay there and wait for her to bring some guy home. I'd make other plans in advance.

xxlosingfaithxx

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Living Together Posted: 7/31/2005 4:12:02 AM
Truthfully....you said it. You're being Selfish (not to be rude). Learning to be accountable to you partner is part of being in a relationship. Living together is a great thing if you're in love and plan on marrying anyway. But if you're unhappy living with him now, who's to say you wont be unhappy living with him when you get married. I don't know...just something to think about. I hope everything works out for you. ~Audrey

xxlosingfaithxx

Joined: 7/13/2005

Msg: 138 (view)

So how many of you have met someone and had sex the same day? Posted: 7/28/2005 8:33:24 PM
Yes, and dear God i regret it so much. My friend set us up. We got tegether, had some drinks. Those drinks turned into a few more, and well, i stayed at his place that night. It last for about 3 weeks....then he stopped calling. stupid f***er

xxlosingfaithxx

Joined: 7/13/2005

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God Is Dead Posted: 7/23/2005 4:51:24 PM
hahaha....crumpets. Us believers give God a lot of work, so i can understand him wanting to have brunch by himself.

xxlosingfaithxx

Joined: 7/13/2005

Msg: 175 (view)

Why do girls like morning sex sooo much? Posted: 7/21/2005 6:44:34 PM
morning sex is awesome. it's a nice surprise in those wee hours of the morning. ;-) ~Audrey

xxlosingfaithxx

Joined: 7/13/2005

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Fun One Liners Posted: 7/14/2005 3:36:58 AM
I finally got it all together, but i forgot where i put it. I'm confused, are you an idiot or a moron? And that's all i can think of right now. :)

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