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 Author Thread: Men don't like TALL women
 TheStrickalator
Joined: 3/7/2008
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Men don't like TALL women
Posted: 8/8/2009 7:29:22 AM
I am actually seeking a girl who is taller than me! And I am 6 feet tall so you can imagine how hard that is going to be. As far as men not being attracted to tall women, this is a misnomer really, a conditioned response from your parents and their parents. Truth be told it should only be a matter of preference, not because society makes some generalization about it.
 TheStrickalator
Joined: 3/7/2008
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My Birthdate got changed by 1 day, I never changed it.
Posted: 7/3/2009 9:06:58 AM
hehe well in a way its kinda funny, because it turns me into a fool being as it is april fools day LOL

 TheStrickalator
Joined: 3/7/2008
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My Birthdate got changed by 1 day, I never changed it.
Posted: 7/2/2009 10:15:09 PM
I was Born on April 2nd 1972, and that is the date I entered when I 1st registered, but somehow now It shows April 1st 1972

Why did it do that? Can anyone help?
 TheStrickalator
Joined: 3/7/2008
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has anyone ever used subliminal messages?
Posted: 10/1/2008 3:46:49 AM
yes, well i have a few bad habits I want to get rid of, so maybe hypnosis is the way to go? I just wonder how much the sub concious can actually benefit the concious mind if stimulated properly
 TheStrickalator
Joined: 3/7/2008
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has anyone ever used subliminal messages?
Posted: 9/30/2008 10:06:16 PM
I have heard of subliminal tapes that people use to change or influence behavior in people. Has anyone used this on themselves or someone else? If you have tell me why you did so and if it had a positive or negative effect.
 TheStrickalator
Joined: 3/7/2008
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HELP Required!
Posted: 9/30/2008 10:12:55 AM
well you need more information about what you like to eat and do, and what your looking for in a mate.
 TheStrickalator
Joined: 3/7/2008
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Feast for the sharks and wolves...
Posted: 9/30/2008 9:29:36 AM
its good but you go a little far , you should save some of those things for when you start messaging someone.
 TheStrickalator
Joined: 3/7/2008
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Please review my profile..how does it look?
Posted: 9/30/2008 9:17:47 AM
Hi again I need some reviews from guys and gals please. Tell me what I am missing or if anything seems like it needs to be edited or changed. I will take all opinions so I can judge for myself, tbanks!
 TheStrickalator
Joined: 3/7/2008
Msg: 101 (view)
 
Straightforward Women...
Posted: 9/29/2008 2:21:32 PM
im a real man and i like straight forward women
 TheStrickalator
Joined: 3/7/2008
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fish acting fishy just now
Posted: 9/29/2008 2:13:55 PM
i got a server is buzy message, plus off and on connectivity, im guessing too much traffic?
 TheStrickalator
Joined: 3/7/2008
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View Similar Users
Posted: 9/29/2008 11:15:39 AM
its working for me sort of, im seeing woman who are just about the same height and body type, but thats about it.
 TheStrickalator
Joined: 3/7/2008
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my sent messages are all of the sudden not showing up
Posted: 9/29/2008 10:09:07 AM
More than (40) Forty 'First Contact' E-Mails per Day.

yeah thats gotta be it
 TheStrickalator
Joined: 3/7/2008
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Alot more than Vanilla
Posted: 9/29/2008 9:44:33 AM
what exactly does this term mean , does it mean naive in bed sexually?
 TheStrickalator
Joined: 3/7/2008
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SUGGESTION: change to 'redundant' thread rule
Posted: 9/29/2008 9:40:44 AM
I agree, some threads have been around since 2005 and no one posts in there.
 TheStrickalator
Joined: 3/7/2008
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my sent messages are all of the sudden not showing up
Posted: 9/29/2008 9:10:38 AM
I have been sending messages to people and had no problems until just 2 days ago
and I get the large text that says message sent. But They do not show up in my sent message folder. Is there a problem with the mail folder or?
 TheStrickalator
Joined: 3/7/2008
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Does anyone have a clue about this behavior?
Posted: 9/28/2008 11:59:18 AM
maybe, during the time he was flirting he was not with someone, and then he met someone and stopped flirting, it didn't work out, and then hes back to flirting with you again. Thats a possible scenario.
 TheStrickalator
Joined: 3/7/2008
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Im looking for a good herbal/multi-vitamin supplement
Posted: 9/27/2008 7:58:30 PM
I have tried a few things in the past but I am seeking a all in one product. I need something that covers the guantlet of what a man age 36 needs as far as herbs,vitamins,electrolites,amino acids and such. I need a real good one that I can get at a store here in greenville Texas
 TheStrickalator
Joined: 3/7/2008
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How long can you go without sex or masturbation?
Posted: 9/26/2008 11:17:34 PM
I have officially gone 6 months without sex or masturbation. I was testing myself to see what happens to you if you just don't do anything, to see if the body takes care of itself even if you don't My doctor said your body will adjust if you don't. And guess what he was right! I gave in after that though. but not sex.

I have actually gone 7 years without sex, because i have only had sex 3 times in my life and I am 36 now.
 TheStrickalator
Joined: 3/7/2008
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Do men have a 'biological clock'?
Posted: 9/26/2008 12:53:50 PM
I think how men were treated by thier parents and especially thier mothers will have a big affects on whether they want children. i was abused by both my parents and told That having children was a mistake. I grew up hearing that all the time. Its only now at age 36 where I have finally started to heal and feel that I might be ready for children.
 TheStrickalator
Joined: 3/7/2008
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I want an ambitious/successful/goal driven/motivated man
Posted: 9/26/2008 10:06:59 AM
So what is a woman supposed to say then??

"I want an lazy/unsuccessful/mammas boy/sloth"?

Dude, look as long as your not giving up, and each day you try to do something, women will like you. If you sit in your house and watch tv all day and drink beer, forget it.


Women like confidence and find it sexy, its not the money, its the passion.
 TheStrickalator
Joined: 3/7/2008
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Do guys really care about the wedding day?
Posted: 9/26/2008 6:52:50 AM
Yes, In fact I have some plans of my own for my future wedding:

I would be wearing a clark kent suit with glasses and the fedora:

she would wear the same gown as lois lane might wear (but that could be just about anything)

under my suit I would have another suit, and once I kissed the bride, I would bust open my clothes and out comes Super Man , carrying his bride or maybe flying down the aisle.

Thats just a small part of what I had thought about
 TheStrickalator
Joined: 3/7/2008
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Why would anyone want to date you?
Posted: 9/24/2008 8:27:13 PM
Because I am a goofball
 TheStrickalator
Joined: 3/7/2008
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Hey Thunderstorm lovers, make your own storm!
Posted: 9/24/2008 6:21:58 PM
I found a simple applet that lets you make a virtual thunderstorm. I wish there was one better but this ones not bad. I have been actually searching for a virtual weather software but i cannot find one

http://www.wcmsolutions.com/products/thestorm/thestorm.html
 TheStrickalator
Joined: 3/7/2008
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Best Friends with the opposite sex
Posted: 9/24/2008 5:25:24 PM
well I tend to have alot more female friends that are older than me like 55 and up. because then i don't feel any sexual things getting in the way. I look at them like aunts and moms and grandmas

Its a bit harder to have female friends that are your type and also around your age.
 TheStrickalator
Joined: 3/7/2008
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Christian Men
Posted: 9/24/2008 4:55:22 PM
Before I was a "real" christian and really had a change in my heart, my life was empty and I messed up in a big way. The only difference between me now and me 10 years ago is the way I treat people and the way I treat myself.
 TheStrickalator
Joined: 3/7/2008
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Have you slept with a partner's parent??????
Posted: 9/23/2008 6:19:42 PM


what a horrible thing...just eww and no
 TheStrickalator
Joined: 3/7/2008
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Why do most men prefer domineering women??
Posted: 9/23/2008 1:13:59 PM
I dont want a dominating woman, however I do want a aggressive and spicy and adventuerous woman who still has a soft heart and likes to cuddle.
 TheStrickalator
Joined: 3/7/2008
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Question for men: the height issue
Posted: 9/23/2008 1:12:06 PM
Well the thing about height and men and height and women. Society in general seems to stare more at tall women vs short men. In fact alot of women are told at a young age that It is shameful to be tall. I am 6 feet tall exactly. So I am in between being taller than average and on the tall side. In the past when I dated women I never looked at height, but now I am attracted to tall and ample women. Short women are still pretty and sexy but something in my brain click on like a trigger when i see a tall woman. As for short guys? Well you could always have this scenario here:

http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/26741641/?GT1=43001
 TheStrickalator
Joined: 3/7/2008
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~~ What do you SEE when you look in their *EYES* ? ~~
Posted: 9/22/2008 9:30:51 PM
Yep , I will sometimes pass up a profile simply because of someones eyes, even if i find them attractive. Its not juding anyone its simply just a feeling when i see the eyes. Could I stare into that persons eyes for 1 hour and not feel creeped out?

It is easier in person because then you can see if someone is paying attention to you with thier eyes .
 TheStrickalator
Joined: 3/7/2008
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Waiting for Marriage for SEX...
Posted: 9/22/2008 9:21:27 PM
Proverbs 5 18 May your fountain be blessed, and may you rejoice in the wife of your youth. 19 A loving doe, a graceful deer- may her breasts satisfy you always, may you ever be captivated by her love.

These lines come from Proverbs, a book of the Bible that we've already examined. Why include them here? They point at a few key points that are covered about sex in Song of Solomon (Song of Songs).

1. Sex is NOT what we see on tv--sleep with anyone anywhere and forget about the possible consequences. Bed someone on the first date and then search for your next "conquest". Feelings have been taken out of it completely, so sex does not always equal love anymore. Sex for the most part has been reduced to what dogs in heat do. It's a sad state of affairs that shows no sign of turning back anytime soon.

2. "...may you rejoice in THE wife"--THE means singular. One. This speaks to a monogamous relationship--one man and one woman who are MARRIED (therefore the use of the word "wife"). God intends that sex be a wonderful gift for a married couple. It is a union of their bodies, just as they have been linked mentally, emotionally, and spiritually through marriage (which is what marriage means after all--a "bringing together"). If sex happens before marriage, then our whole concept of marriage and of "waiting for the right person" becomes tainted, warped, and weakened--just like our values today, unfortunately. Isn't it unfortunate that it is now a rarity to find young people who wait to have sex until they are married? It has become the exception instead of the rule.

3. "loving doe, a graceful deer". Several of the images of sex and a sexual partner refer to grace, love, and beauty--Contrast that to the "pick someone up in a bar and go at it in a washroom" view of many movies out there today. Again, the Bible contains views of how beautiful sex can be--between committed partners who love each other!

4. "may her breasts satisfy you always" God doesn't mean for sex to be some mechanical act of reproduction. He says to take pleasure in sex. Look at the word "always" also. This is talking about sex with one person for forever--again, pointing to a single committed relationship.

5. "may you ever be captivated by her love" We can clearly see how sex and love are intertwined here. Again, the word "ever" points us to a lasting, loving relationship--marriage.

6.My point in showing this passage is to reveal that even Solomon was aware of what sex SHOULD be. Yet, the more he enjoyed success, the more he enjoyed the fruits of that success, and by the end of his reign, he had 700 wives and 300 concubines--hardly the loving, sexual relationship between man and wife that he describes in Song of Solomon.

Why did he write this book, then? Possibly to lament his poor decisions. It's estimated that this was written fairly early on in Solomon's reign, when he had approximately 60 wives and 40 concubines. Perhaps he was beginning to see what he was missing. Maybe the love of his life slipped away because of his many partners. And that can be a slippery slope--just as he didn't follow the wise words he gave in Proverbs and experienced a "meaningless life" in Ecclesiastes, Solomon here may be trying to teach us a lesson--avoid the mistakes he has made.

In any case, sex in this book of the Bible clearly points the way to sex in a committed, one-to-one relationship bonded through marriage between man and wife. Let's keep that in mind as we experience the beauty and passion of Song of Solomon!
 TheStrickalator
Joined: 3/7/2008
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~~ What do you SEE when you look in their *EYES* ? ~~
Posted: 9/22/2008 8:43:35 PM
I see someones very soul...the eyes tell a story

of course body language can too,

then theres the voice I pick up on that as well, listen for tones that suggest
interest in me.

 TheStrickalator
Joined: 3/7/2008
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would guys date a female cop?
Posted: 9/22/2008 8:41:30 PM
yes i would date a female officer, a female fire fighter, a female security guard

After all I consider those women to be super hero types anyways :)
 TheStrickalator
Joined: 3/7/2008
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wow Plenty of fish has 100,000 people or more?
Posted: 9/22/2008 7:27:58 PM
Tonight theres about 94,000 or so people online atm

How many actual members are there?
 TheStrickalator
Joined: 3/7/2008
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Dildos [ To buy or not to buy]
Posted: 9/22/2008 7:11:56 PM
You know they have what they call a double dildo strap on for women, it er um well pushes into her while she is pushing into a guy...they make all sorts of stuff



Interesting thread lol
 TheStrickalator
Joined: 3/7/2008
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Waiting for Marriage for SEX...
Posted: 9/22/2008 5:49:46 PM
well let me see how i can help you:

1 ... Jesus ... went to the territory of Judea on the other side of the Jordan River. 2 Large crowds followed him, and he healed them there.

3 Some Pharisees came to him and tried to trap him by asking, "Does our Law allow a man to divorce his wife for whatever reason he wishes?"

4 Jesus answered, "Haven't you read the scripture that says that in the beginning the Creator made people male and female? 5 And God said, "For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and unite with his wife, and the two will become one.' 6 So they are no longer two, but one. No human being must separate, then, what God has joined together."

7 The Pharisees asked him, "Why, then, did Moses give the law for a man to hand his wife a divorce notice and send her away?" 8 Jesus answered, "Moses gave you permission to divorce your wives because you are so hard to teach. But it was not like that at the time of creation. 9 I tell you, then, that any man who divorces his wife for any cause other than her unfaithfulness, commits adultery if he marries some other woman."
 TheStrickalator
Joined: 3/7/2008
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Waiting for Marriage for SEX...
Posted: 9/22/2008 3:37:16 PM

It pleases God if people obtain a legal document before having sex? Does that mean God was pretty pissed at everybody for the thousands of years before county clerks existed?


The document is not what is important. It is the witnesses (your friends and family)
and the ultimate witness (God). You come before all of them in holy matrimony, with a promise to follow God's law and love each other and never cheat on one another. When you have sex you become bonded to that person. This is just one of those matters you have to either accept by faith that God designed it this way, or just do whatever you want to and see what happens.
 TheStrickalator
Joined: 3/7/2008
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Waiting for Marriage for SEX...
Posted: 9/22/2008 2:47:54 PM
I am waiting, but in the past i did not, I choose to obey God and have a sanctified relationship. Its not that difficult for me to wait, but i can't wait forever however
 TheStrickalator
Joined: 3/7/2008
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Please review my profile..how does it look?
Posted: 9/21/2008 7:22:20 PM
Thanks for your input
 TheStrickalator
Joined: 3/7/2008
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Back with a revamped profile--feedback please
Posted: 9/21/2008 6:22:26 PM
Don't get rid of your glasses, If a guy wont like you because you wear glasses , then He is not the one for you

 TheStrickalator
Joined: 3/7/2008
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Please review my profile..how does it look?
Posted: 9/21/2008 6:14:13 PM
yay I have September 2008 Pictures now that I have a webcam

So I need some profile reviews again, how are the new pics and how does my whole ad look overall now?
 TheStrickalator
Joined: 3/7/2008
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Having Children and the Biological Clock
Posted: 9/21/2008 4:58:04 PM
I never had dolls, but I did have a strawberry shortcake easy bake oven :)
 TheStrickalator
Joined: 3/7/2008
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Having Children and the Biological Clock
Posted: 9/21/2008 4:46:48 PM


What causes women to suddenly want childen? Or is it something you have thought about for a long time? Can men feel the desire to have children like women do?

I am still unsure about whether I would like to have children or not. I pray about it often and when i see other couples having children and recieving so much joy from it, I wonder why my heart can't leap up and have the same inner joy to go on the journey to have a child.

Do women really have something extra that men can never feel in order to really want to procreate? Or is it simply just something that happens when it happens and you go from being unsure to a resounding yes.
 TheStrickalator
Joined: 3/7/2008
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Women Turned On By Smell?
Posted: 9/21/2008 4:44:40 AM
hmm well I am turned on by a woman's smell, but part of that im sure is pheremones and the other part is perfumes,lotions,shampoo ect

I love the smell of mint chocolate, and if she smelled like a yorkshire peppermint patty I would go crazy.

And I am quite sure that women like guys to smell good with colonge ect

I think a small amount of sweat smells good, and a small amount of natural smell gets you stimulated because of the pheremones, well they come out in high doses when you sweat.
 TheStrickalator
Joined: 3/7/2008
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Do you need to have everything in common with a guy?
Posted: 9/20/2008 7:43:17 PM
yeah it would be boring! and morals values are definatley to me the most important thing to have in common.

But I have dated women before that would not date me again because they were simply not into certain foods and activities. I'm just wondering how many people have missed that special someone all because they saw having thing not in common as a sign of thats not who i should be with.
 TheStrickalator
Joined: 3/7/2008
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Do you need to have everything in common with a guy?
Posted: 9/20/2008 7:10:09 PM
Hi there!

Well I am asking this question because I wonder how many of you think that a relationship will still work and blossom and be fruitful even if there are a few things that you don't have in common with that person.

For instance you like seafood, and they hate it
You Like Soda Pop, They prefer Coffee

Or something like: They like to watch thunderstorms and you can't stand em.

Do you think a couple can be good and have a good marriage even with quite a few things not in common?
 TheStrickalator
Joined: 3/7/2008
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What's The Point?
Posted: 9/19/2008 8:48:53 PM
The point of life is to find your purpose....trust me on this one.
 TheStrickalator
Joined: 3/7/2008
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how often should boyfriends and girlfriends see each other?
Posted: 9/19/2008 7:48:53 PM
Maried: at least 5 times a week
Dating: at least 1 time a week

4 weeks is an awful long time to not see someone
 TheStrickalator
Joined: 3/7/2008
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What do U think about men that paint their toenails?
Posted: 9/19/2008 7:47:00 PM
well guys get manicures and pedicures, but pink? Hmm well i could do the goth thing and go for black, but pink only if i was dressing up as the easter bunny, which I would do then.
 TheStrickalator
Joined: 3/7/2008
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Quotes from the Garden
Posted: 9/19/2008 6:55:00 PM
One of my passions is gardening and planting and watching melons and flowers grow. So Im starting a garden quote thread. I will start with one of my favorites. It can be any quote that has to do with plants.



Gardening is an active participation in The deepest mysteries of the universe.

Thomas Berry
 TheStrickalator
Joined: 3/7/2008
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Girl that loves man dominated things.. turn on or off?
Posted: 9/19/2008 6:21:14 PM
Tomboys are the new sexy
 
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