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Joined: 3/8/2008

Msg: 151 (view)

Does this sound weird to anybody else? Recently he's become somewhat distant. Posted: 6/29/2008 4:36:25 AM
He is either not willing or not able to maintain a healthy relationship. He disappears for a week without warning, contact or explanation. Selfish and immature at best. At the least, I'd say he's trying to end the relationship without doing all the heavy lifting; acting strangely until she finally gives him the boot. Hope she wakes up soon.

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Does this sound weird to anybody else? Posted: 6/28/2008 5:51:19 PM
Wait a minute....... How come SHE didn't call the police to file a missing person report? If he was gone for a week and she was that concerned? Anyone who thought she was living in denial was right.

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Sex/playing around in the shower Posted: 6/23/2008 2:40:45 PM
I've done the shower sex thing and was was ok but not great. However.... If a woman should take a shower before climbing into bed, the scent drives me wild. I will put my tongue on every inch of her body. She WILL need a shower in the morning but it'll be worth it.

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Does this sound weird to anybody else? Posted: 6/21/2008 9:31:13 AM
Uh, Tiger........ baby........... I just checked your profile (please forgive my invasion of your privacy) and here's what it says in your "About Me" section: "I need to be around people who aren't afraid to "show their true colors" and be themselves around others. I don't care to spend my time with people who need to pretend to be something they're not to make others like them." Did you write that or did he? Cuz either way it's funny as hell!

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Msg: 112 (view)

Does this sound weird to anybody else? Posted: 6/21/2008 9:20:47 AM
He was working? 24/7 for an entire week and couldn't find the time for ONE phone call? And there was no way for you to call his office or his supervisor or one of his co-workers to ask what was going on? He doesn't have a cell phone? For all we know, he was sneaking out for some good old-fashioned Man-On-Man and didn't feel like letting you in on the secret. The "Large Decision" you need to make now is to get out. By the time you're 30 this could well be just an unpleasant memory while you enjoy a quality relationship with a normal person. But don't listen to any of us; what would we know about relationships.................?

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Sex/playing around in the shower Posted: 6/21/2008 4:57:31 AM
If there was a little more room in there it would be a lot more fun. I need some sort of mat to keep my feet from slipping, though. A hot tub is a better bet.

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Msg: 71 (view)

Locked out, and wondering... Guys, help! Posted: 6/21/2008 4:52:02 AM
A key in its "usual" hiding place is usually pretty easy to find. You can stash one occasionally but if it's ALWAYS there it's almost a guarantee that the wrong peson will find it someday. Maybe he's just being careful. Or maybe he still needs to maintain boundaries around his space and belongings. If you're planning to drop by his place it wouldn't be wrong to call him ahead of time and remind him to leave the key.

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Dating a Separated Guy Posted: 6/20/2008 6:05:10 PM
I'm there right now. He can't give you as much as you need from him. Accept it or move on. You can't force anyone to change, it has to come from within him.

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What is the bumble bee technique Posted: 6/20/2008 3:23:44 PM
After you pull out your "stinger" you die.

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sex with the devil Posted: 6/19/2008 1:15:03 PM
Any chance this happened shortly before her period? Years ago I dated a girl who got absolutely WILD a day or two before. No possession, as near as I could tell.

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Msg: 473 (view)

Are there ANY women who don't CHEAT? Posted: 6/15/2008 10:06:31 AM
Hah! This is a question that should been answered in about 5 seconds. There are women who don't cheat and there are men who don't cheat. Wanna hear a funny story about why I'm here on POF? Because I found out my wife had an account. The rest is history........

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Chasity Belts...What Do You Think Posted: 3/31/2008 2:44:40 PM
Dumb idea. If she has to force him into a chastity belt, she may as well do them both a favor and cut him loose.

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People that say they have sex 4 or more times a day... Posted: 3/30/2008 12:29:04 PM
If you pace yourself and you have enough time through the day and if nothing goes significantly wrong throughout the day to throw everything off....you can do it. But even in a perfect world, 4+ every day wouldn't last long. Life has a way of intruding.

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Msg: 133 (view)

For those of you who enjoy rough sex: Posted: 3/24/2008 5:05:34 PM
For a second I thought it said "roof sex." Does it count if I like it on the roof?

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Pubic Hair on Guys Posted: 3/22/2008 7:22:41 PM
I shave from time to time. A smooth teabag gets more attention than a hairy one, in my experience. Heh!

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Men in diapers Posted: 3/22/2008 3:49:55 PM
"...can anyone tell me if this is or isnt a sexual thing?" I'd say it's an emotional or psychological thing, but both of these lead easily into sexual things. I could never do something like that because I'd look and feel really stupid. Don't mind playing a little but there's limits.......

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Msg: 37 (view)

To the guys..... Posted: 3/22/2008 7:16:34 AM
I'd let him take her for half that if he promised to keep her

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Spitting? Posted: 3/22/2008 7:14:32 AM
Never done it, never had it done and I'm not much interested, since there are other ways to lube things up. But if a woman was going down on me and she spit in order to finish the job I'm sure I wouldn't complain :)

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Msg: 162 (view)

Ever have a crush on a cartoon? Posted: 3/16/2008 1:05:45 PM
YES! Blondie Bumstead. With a babe like her, it's no wonder Dagwood was such a goofball....... WOO-HOO!

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sex crying Posted: 3/16/2008 1:02:21 PM
I've never cried after or during, never known a woman who did, either. I think I'd find it a little disturbing..........

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