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The amount of women drinkers is unbelievable Posted: 7/25/2008 8:01:32 AM
Thanks colourconcept thats a positive answer, that makes me think I may be getting things wrong. And thanks nortyraskull, thats the type of answers I was asking for. And thanks curlyb136 for the advice, not the slapper bit the advanced search, never tried it, my fault.

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The amount of women drinkers is unbelievable Posted: 7/25/2008 7:47:28 AM
I am sorry krusty1 I did not wnat an agreement or disagreement with anyone. There was nothing to disagree in my first question. My question was does anyone else find it frustrating doing a search for a partner who does not enjoy going out drinking. All I was looking for was peoples answers to yes I do find it frustrating or no I do not find it frustrating. Did not think people would take the simple question to heart. I know people enjoy nights out, I know some people enjoy days out in pubs, this wasnt my question. I do not feel victamised, I just dont think people are understanding, maybe I am not very good at making myself clear in type. Please understand I am not having a go at anyone who drinks. Infact tommorow night I am having a right good boozup at somones party.

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The amount of women drinkers is unbelievable Posted: 7/25/2008 7:33:32 AM
There is one person I feel who understands my question so far, that is Alma, although she hasnt really stated if she finds it frustrating in searching , she has stated that she lives near a pub which is frustrating and has not had a go at me for asking just a simple question.

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The amount of women drinkers is unbelievable Posted: 7/25/2008 7:28:24 AM
I am definatley not a couch potato as my profile shows i am a very active person, Did not want this to look like I am putting people down for going out drinking, Its none of my business.

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The amount of women drinkers is unbelievable Posted: 7/25/2008 7:21:54 AM
I had a feeling this might get a few people riled up, thought they would misunderstand what i am sayng. What I am asking is how many find it frustrating when doing a search, I am not saying people should not go out and enjoy themselves drinking thats upto them, as many times as they want I dont care. I have not put on my profile that I do not want a partner who goes drinking, because I do not think this makes a bad person, I would happily go with a woman who does this if we like each other, doesnt mean i have to go, prob would sometimes. But when I do a search I specifically look for ones that do not say enjoys nights out, but it is frustrating trying to find one. All I am doing is asking if others get frustrated by this Sorry if I have not made this clear.

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The amount of women drinkers is unbelievable Posted: 7/25/2008 6:59:54 AM
Sorry just notice the picture of me is taken in a pub, it was a realtions birthday, please no one say i am calling kettle black, there was a reason to be in pub. lol.

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The amount of women drinkers is unbelievable Posted: 7/25/2008 6:57:53 AM
I agree with you, im not saying they shouldnt drink, like you say its upto them, but just wondering if other people find it frustrating to find a partner who doesnt want to go out boozing all the time. Suppose if I did go out on a regular basis then probably wouldnt need to come on here, like you say.

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The amount of women drinkers is unbelievable Posted: 7/25/2008 6:39:58 AM
How many people on here get frustrated at the amount of people that say they enjoy nights out drinking. Ok don't get me wrong I dont mind a pint every now and then, but only at home I have a pint once in a blue moon. I am looking for a woman who does not say "enjoy nights out or go to gym", this seems a regular statement on profiles, seems that most women are doing the same thing , drinking then going to the gym to work it off. I will go for a drink for a celebration and thats it, but find it frustrating to find a partner who does not want to spend most nights partying. I do like to go out and be active, but there are plenty more places than just the pub, or nightclub. I wouldnt mind going out to celebrate xmas and new year, but too say I would enjoy drinking on a regular basis making it a must would be a lie. Okay a nice hot sunny day having a drink outside the pub aint that bad, but only with a limit. So is there anyone else feels the same or just me.

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Is it just a guy thing or am i being a prude????? Posted: 4/25/2008 12:29:13 PM
I certainly wouldnt talk to mates about a partner like that, what you do with your partner in that department is private too just you and him/her. To talk about a woman as though she is just a piece of meat is degrading, If you loved a woman/man that much then you shouldnt talk about them like that. I have had mates talk about great p**sy, and to tell you the truth found it embarrising, so I change the subject as quickly as possible. So answer is no, we do not all talk like that, just the shallow ones I think.

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Boyfriend won't tell me he loves me... Posted: 4/25/2008 12:20:35 PM
Was with my ex for 8 years and cannot ever remember her saying she loves me, and always had the feeling she didnt because she never said it. I told her I loved her constantly and was always hoping for the same reply. I think maybe she never truly loved me and that is why she never said it, maybe your boyfriend is the same, if he cant say it now, then will he ever. Dont go through years of a relationship with a partner who never says he loves you, because you will always want him too say it, and it hurts because they dont. I love you is a great few words, and means a lot.

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HAVE YOU EVER DATED YOUR OWN SIGN? Posted: 4/25/2008 12:13:48 PM
I never bother with signs, as my ex and me had the same, in fact her birthday was the day before mine, but we couldnt have been much more different if we tried. This is why I do not belive in your birthsign says this and that about you, we were both aries , so why did we not have the same personality, if all aries are supposed to be the same. My personal belief is it is hokum, you look at your stars and it says you will be lucky in love today, how many other people will be lucky in love today with a different sign. But if you found love on the day it says in your stars, you believe they are right. But how many with your sign has not found love this day. Just my thoughts, suppose it gives some people something too believe in , but not me.

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I cant BREATH!!! Posted: 4/22/2008 2:24:34 PM
When you say he calls, do you mean phone, if so change your number, but tell him your doing this because of him, he might get the message if he knows youll go that far and actually do it, if he persists. But you keep taking him back so he is going to think you still want him, you have to be strong, get that restraining order, their is no point if love is only one way, he needs too see this. The fact that you are on here, asking for help shows that you are not happy, get rid, sounds like you still have friends too keep you company till mr right comes along. Talking of friends ask them for help, They could get together and see him off for you.

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He told me his ex gf was hot. Posted: 4/22/2008 2:08:10 PM
If he is saying this to you now after knowing him for just a while, then what type of things is he going to say when he has more confidence in you, when hes drunk or even maybe when he is sober. He obviously hasnt got over her yet.

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I cant BREATH!!! Posted: 4/22/2008 2:03:31 PM
I say its best too finish with him, I can talk from experience, because I used too be one of those jelouse clingy type, till I got my thinking cap on and realised how stupid it is too pull others down with you. One of my exes left me I think, although she didnt say, because of this I didnt realise I was doing it till we finished and I had time too think, made me a different person. You have to have trust and I feel this is what he dosnt have in you and that is why he is clingy, He also has no confidence in himself it seems and thinks he is going to lose you, but yep he will lose you anyway, if he gives you no space. Ok it hurt me bad when I split up with her, but like I said after thinking time, realised I was being clingy aswell, and I am pleased she did finish with me for this reason, if it was the reason?. So best to tell him now rather than later, and it might change him, if you tell him the reason why you are finishing, he will maybe think twice about being clingy in his next relationship.

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the sleep issue Posted: 4/14/2008 5:34:26 PM
I get a lot better sleep if I have somone to cuddle upto, Find it hard too go to bed on my own, fall to sleep on the sofa a lot, and stay up till all hours in the morning before going to sleep. When I had a partner I could happily go to bed early with her and get a good nights sleep, now Im not sleeping much, I think its making me a bit ill. Need to try harder, just felt that when I used to huddle up to my ex I felt like I was protecting her through the night with my arms around her, and was content, so sleep was easy. But now I just think whats the point.

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Tattoos on women turn on or turn off? just curious Posted: 4/14/2008 5:28:00 PM
Tattoos yuk, what ever happened too drawing on paper. Dont want too look at a drawing on the woman I am making love too, would probably put me off.

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Do you believe friends are more important than lovers? Posted: 4/11/2008 3:57:08 PM
I made a mistake in saying the partner will have to go , I meant the friend would.

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Would you leave the dating sites if you got in a serious relationship? Posted: 4/10/2008 5:37:08 PM
I would definately leave the dating sites if I got a new partner, why would I want to keep them, unless it was for still checking out more women. I would remove any trace on my computer, because I would have found what I was looking for.

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Girlfriend wants to maintain friendship with ex-boyfriend Posted: 4/10/2008 5:05:19 PM
My ex girlfriend was phoned daily by her ex, it caused lots of arguments, she used to say it was too keep in touch with his kids, but he phoned while they were at school or silly times like 2 in the morning because he was drunk, and she never did anything about it, found out she was shopping for him one day, this went on for 8 years, and I know it would never have stopped, just wondering if her new partner has got fed up of it yet. So all I am saying is if she is still in contact, will it last years, it did for me, and caused rows. she never could tell me why she put up with him phoning, maybe secretly she still had something for him, and I do know for definate he still wanted her.

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Do you believe friends are more important than lovers? Posted: 4/10/2008 4:56:04 PM
I dont think friends are more important than lovers, friends come and go, you find new friends easy, it is a lot harder to find a new lover thats why most of us are on here. and friends cannot give you the same type of love and closness a lover can. If I had a choice between a friend or a partner then I am afraid the partner will have too go, because they are not the ones you want too spend your whole life with and settle down with and grow old together. I know I sound harsh but when I have a partner then she has my 100% attension. not my mates, who have their own lives and I can still see them every now and then.

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Can you make love to someone you are not in love with? Posted: 4/6/2008 3:55:35 PM
You can have sex with someone yes, but to call any of it love if you feel no attraction to that person is pointless. What I am trying too say is I personally cannot have sex with a woman unless I find her attractive, and also have some bondness too her, this I feel is why I have never cheated on a woman, because I need to know the person well and also feel and have fallen in love with her, I could not go with a woman just to get my end away so too speak. So you have too be in love too make love, any other is getting your end away or just plain having sex, like a person in a porno you wouldnt say they are making love would you. Love is a word of bonding with something, if you have a very good friend of many years, and you ended up in bed with them this I suppose would be making love, because you have always loved this person, however if you have known someone for a few weeks and ended up in bed with them, it is sex until you have known and grown to love this person then it becomes making love. I written this as I am thinking about it so do not know if it makes sense too anyone, but its how I feel and only my opinion.

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no luck Posted: 3/28/2008 3:35:23 PM
Ive been on here about 3 weeks and only had one, woman talk too me, maybe I should talk first but, prefer the woman to make the move then at least I know she has read my profile and seen my pics.

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Guys: at what age did you give up on the grey Posted: 3/27/2008 4:26:47 PM
I shave my head, to hide the grey. Less be say your bald than their is what say "god your going grey."

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Missing Kissing? Posted: 3/24/2008 3:40:47 PM
I miss the hugging, and cuddling up in bed on a cold night, and also all the usual things like, having a laugh together, going out together, making a cuppa for each other etc. But the hugging is very missed.

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Bald v shaven heads - and is bald beautiful? Posted: 3/15/2008 8:48:21 AM
Hey some of us have no choice if we want too look that little bit younger. Maybe a new thread should be started, bald or grey.

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Are there any men looking for true love for a lifetime? Posted: 3/15/2008 8:42:56 AM
Hey Leah, I think it is not just men that promise they are different. I have had the same experience with women, the one I belived most was my last partner, I thought she was different and she said she was, thought I had found my soulmate and would be with her forever, but guess what she was just like the others, no matter how hard you try too please, you just cannot win. I know there will be someone somewhere who is perfect, and will be true too their word when they say they are different, but its taking a long bloody time to find that person. So its not just men.

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