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hadenuff

Joined: 7/16/2005

Msg: 6 (view)

the curb...leave her there Posted: 6/26/2006 6:53:42 AM
If that's all the better you are to her, LEAVE HER at the curb...the minute her ex bf and her have a tangle, who do ya think she's gonna call...you got yer towel ready, or are you ready to move on? Good Luck, Ace!

hadenuff

Joined: 7/16/2005

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...And your point is??? Posted: 4/5/2006 6:19:25 PM
WHO???????.......CARES!!!

hadenuff

Joined: 7/16/2005

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Hey..What's The diff?? Posted: 3/19/2006 11:26:03 PM
"Nice Guy" Bad Boy" "Loser"....on and on ad naseum...who gives a flyin frick? Be who the h*** you are and if she doesn't like you, find another...DONT let yourself be "labeled" by ANYBODY....I'm ME...and I LIKE Me....try that for a motto and see what happens...just be yourself

hadenuff

Joined: 7/16/2005

Msg: 49 (view)

Need Your Opinion Posted: 3/12/2006 12:28:49 PM
Well, about the same as a woman who says it....they're F***ed! Stay away, at all costa do NOT get involved with ANY of that sort...THINK ABOUT IT...that could be YOU in a short time....once a cheater, always a cheater....clear enuff?

hadenuff

Joined: 7/16/2005

Msg: 168 (view)

8 Types Of Guys Women Avoid Posted: 3/2/2006 9:48:54 PM
OK, that lets most of us out...LOL...but the guy that says he's none of the above is either a liar or jus not a guy...we all have some of those tendencies in all of us...I try to just keep my mouth shut and let HER do the talkin initially...then see where it goes. Hell, it's all good...

hadenuff

Joined: 7/16/2005

Msg: 28 (view)

I'll Take Ohio Head Posted: 2/24/2006 1:26:05 PM
....at least she's REAL...Great profile, Girl!!

hadenuff

Joined: 7/16/2005

Msg: 73 (view)

HelLOOOOOOOOOOOO......... Posted: 2/23/2006 9:38:20 AM
This isn't even something you should have to think about...seeing him again? Come on.... When I divorced, that was IT....don't know, don't care.......they are obviously both sickos, if you want to play a "third wheel" in that sick scenario, go for it. You're a nice girl. You don't need that shit. It wasn't your fault. You didn't know. Now you do. If you continue seeing him, you'll get what you deserve. Nuff said.

hadenuff

Joined: 7/16/2005

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You need to get real, Girl Posted: 2/22/2006 8:45:10 AM
I am hearing you never actually MET this person? Welcome to the Fantasy World of online romance...if you've never met how could you actually know who you're talking to? The dude may be a 12 year old, or 80 fer pete's sake...On here, if you're really serious, you need to kiss the frogs QUICK, then move on...don't fantasize about something you don't even know anything about...keep it real, you'll find someone...

hadenuff

Joined: 7/16/2005

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EHarmony Bites, totally...Save Your $50 Posted: 2/19/2006 10:59:22 AM
I totally agree...by far biggest waste of time and money...I thought about emailing them to see if they would pay me to go on there and say how happy I am....only way I'll ever recoup my monies...LOLOLOL

hadenuff

Joined: 7/16/2005

Msg: 219 (view)

Have you ever paid to use a dating site? Posted: 2/19/2006 10:56:39 AM
Yes, it's a waste...if you DO find someone on there, they usually only flirt with you, many are not paid, can't fully communicate...save your money.

hadenuff

Joined: 7/16/2005

Msg: 38 (view)

Beware of Russian bride scams Posted: 2/1/2006 8:41:53 PM
I got a Nigerian wanting the same thing...wanted me to send her money so she could keep accessing the Net from a "cafe"...said she hadn't eaten for 2 days yet she somehow had the money to access the 'Net....gimme a break....for 2450.00 I could've gotten her here...and I'll take any Nigerian credit card too.....She came onto Messenger as well.....sad thing is, some rube will actually give her the money....and she's still on Messenger....softlucy02 I PASS THAT...lol

hadenuff

Joined: 7/16/2005

Msg: 1090 (view)

Will all the nice guys stop asking why we dont want them! Posted: 1/25/2006 8:00:00 AM
Confidence...that keeps comin up...that's the bottom line. Also, why lie to anyone? You don't like em, TELL EM! You're not for me....you're not for me You're not for me....you're not for me...you're not for me You're not for me....you're not for me...You're not for me....you're not for me You're not for me....you're not for me...you're not for me You're not for me....you're not for me....you're not for me You're not for me....you're not for me...you're not for me You're not for me....you're not for me...You're not for me....you're not for me You're not for me....you're not for me...you're not for me You're not for me....you're not for me....Keep saying that until you believe it....she WILL understand... Or, let her say that to you....rejection IS part of life...don't sweat it...and this HAS gone on too long....LOL

hadenuff

Joined: 7/16/2005

Msg: 22 (view)

is anyone looking for a real honest man? Posted: 1/23/2006 7:18:49 AM
Damn, veedub447, you've got the best profile I've read....an honest liar....don't know what more they'd want...scratch everything else and go for #8...I second that emotion...LOL....good luck!

hadenuff

Joined: 7/16/2005

Msg: 129 (view)

I Made Mistake of marrying one Posted: 12/16/2005 6:08:14 AM
I can understand where you are coming from, but you also have to understand that if someone does not get help and refuses to do anything about it then supporting them and standing by them is only submitting yourself to abuse. Didn't know it at the time, she would not get help. Such a helpless feeling, nothing you can do but move on or suffer constant (and it is) abuse. If they are willing to get/are getting help, and admit to you their disorder, I'd say give them a chance...I only wish my ex would've... Good Luck to you!

hadenuff

Joined: 7/16/2005

Msg: 20 (view)

The Right Guy; The Wrong Time Posted: 12/14/2005 7:58:35 AM
Hi; You do have a situation...HOWEVER...there is a lot more involved than just you two. There is a child in the picture, as well as the mother of that child. You need to back off, like the others are telling you, if you two really are meant to be together you will be...but don't get in the middle of that situation right now! He needs to decide as well as do the right thing by his child. The child is the most important person in the equation....wrong time? I think so... Just my .02

hadenuff

Joined: 7/16/2005

Msg: 39 (view)

10 or 15 Emails? Wow, you're really rockin' Posted: 11/30/2005 9:07:03 AM
What did you think was gonna happen? Post after you've sent out 500-1000 emails...lol This takes time, and frankly may never happen...but if 10 or 15 emails is all the patience you've got, you'd best quit now. I've met some very nice people on here, why not try looking at it on the basis of making new friends? Try to ENJOY the experience, fer chrissakes... Good Luck

hadenuff

Joined: 7/16/2005

Msg: 25 (view)

I broke her heart then she broke mine... Posted: 11/20/2005 10:32:54 AM
Reminds me of the old Spooky Tooth album.... YOU BROKE MY HEART SO I BUSTED YOUR JAW One of Ya end it, and move on...or move back in...and DEAL with it...Jeesh!!

hadenuff

Joined: 7/16/2005

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Depression or Loneliness...sometimes its hard to tell them apart. Posted: 11/18/2005 10:53:26 AM
Sometimes I think they actually meld together...very powerful. This is the shittiest time of year here in IL, it's depressin enough w/o all the other stuff. Something about freezin rain and sleet on an all too dreary day just amplifies it. I'm thinkin about catchin a "red eye" to Vegas, that'll help some. At least the weather will be better, and that's a start! Happy Holidays to All on here!

hadenuff

Joined: 7/16/2005

Msg: 63 (view)

Cant Americans speak gooder English on this sight? Posted: 11/15/2005 10:37:11 AM
aim frem ellenois us dunt tauk much eenlish here but we luv thes SIGHT...lol

hadenuff

Joined: 7/16/2005

Msg: 103 (view)

Would you leave him if he didn't go down on you? Posted: 11/12/2005 12:22:42 PM
Any (man?) who has a problem like that isn't worth dealing with any further...I don't know about others, but it excites me as much as it does HER. Is he afraid it may bite or what?...LOL...Hey, I had one that DID...Yummy!...Have a great weekend!

hadenuff

Joined: 7/16/2005

Msg: 71 (view)

Most....arrogant...person....ever... Posted: 8/31/2005 2:45:05 PM
I'd rather read profiles like that than some of the others I've read on here...at least she's tellin it like it is...you either deal with it or not...but she's not arrogant. Sounds more like a real person (what a concept)...lol Good Luck!

hadenuff

Joined: 7/16/2005

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whu whan a man is really in love the woman is not? Posted: 8/30/2005 2:51:04 PM
He's clingin and desparate...if she loved him he wouldnt want anything to do w/her...some guys only cling tighter after it's long over (yes, I learned from experience) Lesson learned. There really ARE plenty of fish in the Sea! Maybe even one for you, Leroy Boy

hadenuff

Joined: 7/16/2005

Msg: 283 (view)

I thought I found love and ended up with pain. Posted: 8/29/2005 10:52:36 AM
My .02: Love is a DECISION....NOT a FEELING!! When you get married yo promise to love unconditionally...work thru whatever, "In Love" is what a lotta people here are confusing...I heard it said God made "In Love", so when it comes time for marriage we wouldn't go screaming off into the night! I just married an immature person who had no concept of love beyond Gone with the Wind. My fault, I accept that, and take responsibility for it. I also disagree with some who says you don't have to love yourself first...WRONG! Love yourself, only THEN can you understand and love another...

hadenuff

Joined: 7/16/2005

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Pics And The Future Posted: 8/26/2005 1:20:59 PM
Oh, forgot to add...why not just put the pic up and leave it up, you ask...well, im my case at least when doing that most if not all emails are from "Aunt B" types...(I AM 51) Sorry, I'm old but not THAT old yet...so better for me to pick mine. Of course, If someone emails and asks I will certainly reply and recriprocate. If only to tell them appreciate it.

hadenuff

Joined: 7/16/2005

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Pics And The Future Posted: 8/26/2005 1:15:40 PM
Hi Bud; This site is rather unique in that it'll let you SEND a pic with your initial and later contact emails. If I email someone I send my pic then, hoping she'll feel moved enough to do same. If not, politely ask for it...seen the line on here, "after all, it's only fair".....USE IT! If she does not, move on...why waste time with someone that won't reveal who they are? P.S. If I were you I'd go make babies with SIcutie...she's totally hot IMHO...LOL Good Luck!

hadenuff

Joined: 7/16/2005

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Advice for Nice Guys Posted: 8/24/2005 11:33:46 AM
I've been told I am "too good hearted"....I don't think I'm a "nice" guy, not by these standards...My Question is: What's the difference to you between too good hearted and nice guy.

hadenuff

Joined: 7/16/2005

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she left and doesnt come back Posted: 8/24/2005 8:00:08 AM
You got ta be careful of that "L" word...that's a red flag said that early. I had a woman tell me she loved me on the 3rd date. Unfortunately I married her. But I'm MUCH better now...LOL Chalk it up and move on...she ain't worth talkin abouit or wastin any more time on, JMHO

hadenuff

Joined: 7/16/2005

Msg: 109 (view)

GAS PRICES!!! Posted: 8/21/2005 10:53:42 AM
Guess I picked the wrong week to buy a V-10 Dodge...lol

hadenuff

Joined: 7/16/2005

Msg: 22 (view)

Strained phone conversations Posted: 8/20/2005 8:53:03 AM
You know sometimes that just happens...Why I have no idea...but I won't throw one out just because our initial phone conversation didnt go well...after 2-3 more, then I'll decide...like has been said, if you have to "pu;;" the words out of them, probably won't go any better in person...hell, who knows tho...we'll all guessin aren't we? There is no set rule that always applies...

hadenuff

Joined: 7/16/2005

Msg: 11 (view)

why are men such lying pigs!!! Posted: 8/14/2005 4:34:09 PM
What did this dude do (or not do) that makes you say this? Mind lettin us in on it?

hadenuff

Joined: 7/16/2005

Msg: 11 (view)

Dating vs. Marriage Posted: 8/11/2005 10:13:02 PM
Compromise is what it's all about my dear, but if you marry the wrong person who SAYS they can compromise yet cannot you are screwed (not literally) I had a 4 yr marriage that was sexless for the last 2 1/2 years...should have gotten out sooner. Live and learn, and 4 years is just too long to go w/o, hon.

hadenuff

Joined: 7/16/2005

Msg: 64 (view)

What ever happened to honesty, morals and trusting people Posted: 8/11/2005 9:56:43 PM
Blastkist: There you go, Ontario. About says it all, folks....You DO have the courage. Bravo to you!!

hadenuff

Joined: 7/16/2005

Msg: 63 (view)

What ever happened to honesty, morals and trusting people Posted: 8/11/2005 9:51:38 PM
You got ta sift thru the chaff dude...(No I aint Homer Simpson but sometimes I FEEL like him!) There are people here that will email and chat till they're blue in the face, then ...gone...all that time wasted. Hey i want to make friends but you got to remember this is fantasy land for a ton of 'em. My opinion on the online stuff is the longer 2 people talk (for friends or whatever reason) the more they get an idea of what the other person is, or what they THINK they are, or what they HOPE they are. And what I've found out, if you hope long enough, it becomes real (in their mind) Trouble is, lot of times the person when finally (if ever) met is not even the one in their mind. We all do it. We are human. It's ok. So what I'm sayin is people should try to at least meet in person as soon as they are comfortable that their safety isn't compromised. Then either move on as friends or whatever they're lookin for, or part company. You got ta make the call as early as possible if you can. If you just wanna email and chat all day more power to ya. Good Luck!

hadenuff

Joined: 7/16/2005

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friends?????? Posted: 8/2/2005 7:51:37 PM
IMHO, you've met her family, stayed up till 4 AM, and got drunk w/her. Friends? Maybe, but you obviously want more. Just put it to her (IF that's what u want) tell her how you're feeling, and if she stickes to the "just friends" story, move on. There are PLENTY of women out there that are looking for more...yeah, friends first, but personally I wouldn't invest any more time in a relationship goin nowhere (or a marriage for that matter...if the other person doesn't want to be w/you, or just wants to be "friends", tell 'em sorry ta hear that, and keep on truckin...you'll be dead in 20-40 years, man...

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