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Thread: Barnyard Animals in Bondage 16 - Has Porn Gone Too Far?
sensfaninoh
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Barnyard Animals in Bondage 16 - Has Porn Gone Too Far?
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5/15/2008 12:09:22 PM
Of course it's gone too far. I mean you can do a Google search anymore and find half-a-dozen pages or more of links to these types of websites - both pay and free. A friend of mine even sent me a link to a free YouTube-like website she stumbled across by accident and we got enough people to help get it closed down about 4 months ago when we discovered a child on there as well with animals. Just sick! But this is what happens in our world when political correctness becomes an accepted way of thinking - anything goes.
sensfaninoh
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Men Shaved???
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5/15/2008 12:06:26 PM
I've shaved down there since I was young and never heard a woman complain about it. I keep the hair above the C-n-B area trimmed very short, but not too short that its spiky and pokes a woman - but everything else around there is shaved off. I tried waxes and even that sugary stuff from Australia once on the area above my C-n-B area but it REALLY caused a lot of issues with bleeding so now I keep it short, neat and never have heard a complaint.
sensfaninoh
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Married Women Looking For Sex
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5/15/2008 12:03:00 PM
I tell them to go to somespamsite.com and leave POF because I'd much rather see quality women on here looking for things "besides sex" and keep those types of people on AFF where they actively search for extra marital affairs.
sensfaninoh
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Could you really stop?
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5/15/2008 11:55:02 AM
I guess the question I'd be asking this guy is simple - Is this a fetish or a lifestyle? If it's a lifestyle where he enjoys it on a daily basis or even anytime that he wants to feel "sexy" then I'd bet money he'll not change.
Now if it's a fetish - then change is possible. I have a few fetishes that I enjoy and I think a lot of people do. I even gave up one of mine for a woman because she was just not into it and could not see herself ever liking it. Obviously to me it was no big - I just liked seeing a woman wear skirts. She could not see herself ever wearing one. I have a thing for a woman in hosiery, heels and skirts or dresses - but she was not that kind of a gal. I shelved that and our relationship was pretty good for a while, but other things crept in that killed the relationship and now I'd prefer to find a woman that fits my fetishes.
So if it's a fetish - and he is serious about you - it's possible. But if it's a lifestyle then consider this one dead and move on.
sensfaninoh
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Voyeurism - What Do People Think?
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5/14/2008 12:11:49 PM
maybe it has to do something with my age
Well I don't think your age is a bad thing. But you have to admit there are different trends between different ages. I see more 20-somethings in my office setting wearing these large hoop earrings, but women in their 30's and 40's don't and think they are "weird" or "stupid." But the 20-somethings think they are cool and wear them a lot. Just wondering if this might be another one of those "trends" is all
sensfaninoh
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Does anal sex count?
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5/14/2008 11:56:16 AM
The question is simple: if you have anal sex with a woman, but never vaginal intercourse, does it count as sex, i.e. Is she added to the list of women you've had sex with if you were to keep track of these things?
Your own statement answered it - anal sex. But why people have the need to "brag" about how many people they've had sex with is beyond me unless you're talking to your doctor because you have to diagnose who you've been with for an STD.
sensfaninoh
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Voyeurism - What Do People Think?
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5/14/2008 11:52:44 AM
Usually there is a couple that swings in a public venue i.e. club/bar, etc...and they both pick someone that they BOTH find attractive, they approach and ask them to join in the festivities!
Oh that I knew! There is a local club here called "Club Blendz" that caters to people looking for swingers or easy pick-ups and I hear all the time from friends about going there and getting picked up for MFM, FMF or even more types of get togethers. But there was no "watching" involved - it was active participation.
So you might be right - maybe this is now becoming more "out" in the open
sensfaninoh
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CONDOM? or NO CONDOM?
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5/14/2008 11:49:19 AM
But why would someone talk to you if they only want to get SOME ACTION and not use any protection?
Selfishness, quite possibly. The man obviously likes the feel of "bare sex" and prefers it without condoms. But he's not thinking about you, the fact he could transmit something to you, or possibly get you pregnant. There are a LOT of men out there who are like this. Whenever I've gotten into a relationship that deep where sex is inevitable I always make sure that if she wants things to proceed "bare" that I can and do trust she's clean. Trust is always a HUGE issue and one that takes time to build.
Good luck!
sensfaninoh
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Voyeurism - What Do People Think?
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5/14/2008 11:44:23 AM
OK WELL I LIKE THA WHOLE BEIN WATCHIN THIN IT TURNS ME ON AN I DO CRAZY STUFF
But is this you that likes it ... or is this some sort of a 20-something trend? I saw from your profile you're about her age - hence why I'm asking. I'd just never heard of women my age or there abouts being turned on by this sort of thing.
sensfaninoh
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Voyeurism - What Do People Think?
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5/14/2008 11:42:23 AM
I totally understand what you mean. You are definitely a straight-laced guy and that is fine!!! Not everyone is into every possible scenario out there. I surely am not by any means. There are some that I would NOT consider.
Well I certainly appreciate your answers! I don't know about "straight laced" but I would say a bit more old fashioned as I do believe it should be one man and one woman. I've been part of videos before where I set up a camera and recorded something between myself and an agreeable lover to watch at a later date. I guess to me the "come and watch" thing just threw me for a loop, especially seeing as how the gal is in her mid-20's and I'm going to be 43 soon. I wasn't sure if this was something of a new trend with women or what.
Thanks for coming out of your corner
sensfaninoh
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Voyeurism - What Do People Think?
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5/14/2008 11:29:45 AM
Just Google Voyeurism and it will explain it in depth.
Oh I did, but just can't wrap my brain around the idea of watching some woman having sex with another guy, married or other wise. If that makes me sheltered, then all the better for me I guess. Call it selfish, but I'd rather be the one involved than some peeping Tom that basically allows the woman to get some kind of rush from being watched.
sensfaninoh
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Voyeurism - What Do People Think?
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5/14/2008 11:26:35 AM
Well I knew there had to be one person on this board that likes to think it's "funny" to come in and insult members and try to make accusations of being liars. Guess PlentyOfFish is no different - there's always one individual out there who has to turn anything in reality into someone's "fantasy" and make light of it. Hopefully the moderators will take note of this since I have seen several other "personal attacks" from this person on other threads too.
sensfaninoh
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Friend Found Wife's Strap-On
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5/14/2008 11:23:23 AM
Essentially, she made it sound like a huge percentage of women have strap-ons for this purpose and that it is no big deal.
That's a laugh! Dildos yes - vibrators yes - but not strap-ons! The woman is a cheater plain and simple. Just because a piece of plastic or rubber was used is about as ridiculous as saying that Bill Clinton's oral fun in the White House was not sex.
sensfaninoh
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Voyeurism - What Do People Think?
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5/14/2008 11:14:58 AM
She was opening the door for you to have a little adventure in your life - some guys would say you were a lucky man!
Sorry but it sounds a lot like cybersex to me - there's no real "pleasure" involved between the participants. Well okay there is between the the GF and BF, but it just sounds so odd to me. That's why I was wondering if this is some new trend that I've been missing out on in the sexual scenes. I could not find anything out on the WWW about it taking place except in something called cuckolding or hot wife, which is done between a husband and wife with the hubby watching her with other men.
sensfaninoh
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Voyeurism - What Do People Think?
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5/14/2008 11:11:14 AM
Personally, I would have been insulted.
See, that's exactly how I felt at first. I mean I might have ... and that's a big MIGHT ... have said something had there been a request to video tape it or shoot it with a digital camera, as she does know that I have both and take lots of pics of my cats or of other outdoor things taking place. But this was so out of the blue and without any previous talk about sex in any way!
sensfaninoh
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Sexual performance.........
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5/14/2008 11:07:38 AM
Are men under too much pressure to perform sexually in every aspect of sex?
I don't think it's just men, I think it's all people! Men are always expected to get hard, last long and offer up a huge finish. And women are expected to reach multiple orgasms, be very vocal but not over-bearing or "whorish" and be able to do almost whatever the man asks for. Society as a whole puts this pressure on thanks to unrealistic porn movies where men stand there humping for what seems like hours and women are looking so lustfully at them begging and pleading for more, more, more! Hollyweird really messes everything up - from the 'G-rated' movies all the way to the porn industry.
Also have problems with condoms, show my tackle a condom, it deflates
Sorry but that's a psychological issue and not a physical one. You make it sound like there really is a 'brain' in the 'head' down there and make men who use there God-given brain look ridiculous with statements like this one. Thanks to HIV/AIDS as well as other STDs it's almost become a needed thing to either have one or wear one when the time comes for sex. Just because "bareback" is becoming the new fad in the LGBT community doesn't mean that straight men and women are suddenly going to just turn the clock back to the 60's and 70's and start having unprotected sex with just anyone.
sensfaninoh
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Voyeurism - What Do People Think?
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5/14/2008 10:57:16 AM
Okay this is my first post here and it's a weird one indeed, but I was hoping to get some honest opinions and honest takes on what happened to me the other night. For several months now I've lived next to a single woman who has two children (twins) probably in pre-school or the early years of elementary school. We didn't talk much at first, but over the course of several months now we've talked quite a bit whenever she's heading someplace or I'm coming in from being someplace. Our longest talks are when I am outside on a nice weekend washing my car. But the discussion the other night was one out of left field to be sure!
I was just getting my mail from the box out by the street when she came outside, seemingly to do the very same thing. We started to talk for a bit when out of the blue I got asked this exact question:
"Hey have you ever wanted to watch a woman have sex with another man?" I just looked at her and said that I'd never even thought about such a thing. Then the answer back threw me for an even bigger loop ... "Well I was hoping maybe you were interested because I'd love to have you in my closet watching me and my BF together." I can't even remember how long it was silent between us, but I was left speechless! She then apologized and said it obviously was something I needed to think about as she walked off having checked her mailbox as I stood there still wondering if I was dreaming or this was some kind of candid camera bloopers show.
So is this some kind of "new trend" in sexuality - to have a friend or someone you like come over and watch you have sex with someone else? Or has voyeurism now taken some kind of a new twist from it being a "peeping Tom" thing to an "invited Tom" turn-on?
I don't know what to think nor what to say the next time I see her!
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