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spendyourtimewell

Joined: 3/11/2008

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Things aren't that bad Posted: 7/8/2009 9:36:15 PM
[lose the eeyore attitude] src=http://www.plentyoffish.com/smiles/icon_204.gif border=0> Priceless. "Fall 7x get up 8"

spendyourtimewell

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Since all the cool kids are doing it... Posted: 7/8/2009 9:24:06 PM
1. post pic with a smile Im a teeth guy, jacked up teeth are a big oh-no, so no smile leads me to assume the worst 2. be specific, i.e fav movies / genres ,music , books, what do you craft its a way for people to connect with you You've get plenty of personality, just show more of it, people like quirks, show yours off. Good Luck - D

spendyourtimewell

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Do guys like it when u call them daddy in bed? Posted: 6/23/2009 8:18:33 PM
It depends on the tone of voice, if its an aggro deep "DADDY" could be good. But if she pretends to have just downed a balloon and uses her midget poltergeist voice, well it would be extremly disturbing. I've dated a few latin woman and was married to one , the papi thing aint bad, especially if it is repeated several hundred times in quick seccession with a a few groans thrown in for good measure. If it ever really made me feel uncomfortable though, I would pause, look her in the eyes, then continue while yelling "oh grandma" at the top of my lungs.

spendyourtimewell

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women as pure sexual objects Posted: 6/23/2009 8:00:24 PM
It seems you are the common denominator in this equation. 5 mins of conversation + your personality= sexual objectification, Basically they could care less about your personality and existence as an individual because it is not that appealing to them. So the cut their losses and see you as a mere instrument of pleasure. As for the cheap slut, as opposed to the expensive one? The one who holds out for several wine & dines before she unwinds? Like many women have pointed out, lighten up. Life is short, enjoy it while you can.

spendyourtimewell

Joined: 3/11/2008

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NBA Posted: 6/15/2009 4:19:35 PM
Kobe was def the MVP,, why is that a question? Hopefully this same team stays in tact to give us another shot at a dynasty. I see back-to-back as long as everyone is healthy and hopefully more. Next year I want the pay back on a healhty celts. Hopefully they can rise to the occasion. Hedo was damn impressive, that guy is lights out shooter. For their sake they better sign him.D12 had a mental breakdown, where did rashard lewis who used to kill LA go? It will be interesting to see if hedo gets paid, or maybe goes to play with james? Cavs/ james needs help in order to get past a healthy Celts. I hope shaq goes to the cavs and helps them the way he helped the suns become a contender. Anyone hear what Van Gundy had to say? La best in the league, and DAMN GOOD . See you guys next year in the finals.

spendyourtimewell

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NBA Playoffs Posted: 6/11/2009 10:09:01 PM
3 down 1 to go enjoy laker haters. The ghost of brick anderson lives!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I'm callin game 5 for LA. I think it will be close, with La pullin away late in the 3rd

spendyourtimewell

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NBA Playoffs Posted: 6/7/2009 9:04:30 PM
2 down 2 to go.. good games from lewis , turk and howard... still not enough to beat la throw in the towel magic..

spendyourtimewell

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NBA Playoffs Posted: 6/5/2009 5:55:02 PM
SLEEPLESS, apparently it is harder than you or the magic or any laker haters thought. Nerves ??? Really, I wonder what kind of nerves they will have after they go down 0-2 to la or when its 1-3 La or possibly even 0-3 La ? If that is the best the eastern conf has to offer, blah. Your beloved celtics got taken out by this team, at home, I guess they got more nerves than the celts. Well balanced team? Its been said time and time again, I guess you must have your head in the sand since bean town went down, that LA is the most balanced in the league. Their question has been heart and toughness, question it no more. LA IS HERE TO STAY. Any of the top 3 teams from the Eastern Conf. can beat the Lakers? just not the celtics or the cavs and apparantly not the magic (in the finals) The best team will win, LA.

spendyourtimewell

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NBA Playoffs Posted: 6/4/2009 9:46:34 PM
sleepless: get some sleep man, its affecting your brain function orlando in 5 or 6 ??? comicbook: grow up Everyone thinking orland was going to take this just got a rude awakening, KOBE style. The mamba is loose. Kobe closed this game in the third, expect more of the same. I originally called this in 6 but after tonight, if they play like this every-night, they will take it in 5, and a very slim chance in 4. Keep hating laker haters, well keep winnin to give you just cause. Did anyone catch David Arquette's shirt. YOU CANT BEAT LA kind catchie ain't it?

spendyourtimewell

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NBA Playoffs Posted: 5/30/2009 5:53:08 PM
Lakers only have Kobe / Gasol "Repeat a lie one thousand times and it becomes the truth" PLAYOFF STATS http://www.nba.com/lakers/stats/ KOBE + Gasol Stats Vs Team Stats ppg team PPG 47.8 /////// 102.9 ( less than half???? conspiracy I say) RPG team RPG 16.6 /////// 42.4 (less than 40%) APG team APG 7.8 /////// 20.2 (less than 40%) on.and on and on and on Kobe and Gasol are the SUPERSTARS of course they will carry the majority of the load. Problem with that theory is that it isn't worth a velvet painting of whale and a dolphin gettin it on. The lakers get production from SOMEWHERE every night, that is why they are dangerous, ariza in foul trouble? oh damn where did luke walton come from ? "1-12 best team in the League " -Kenny "the jet" Smith **2Rings what about the cavs? 3 active players combine for 2pts a night, 3 players for 2 pts.. damn that is awesome production http://www.nba.com/cavaliers/stats/ what about the magic? howard & lewis combine for more than 50% total rebounds, more than 50% !! http://www.nba.com/magic/stats/ whos balanced now?? lakers are even shoooting freethrows better, fg %, even the 3-ball marginally better than orlando as of this writing,and that is orlandos, hook,line & sinker La over orlando in 7 Im goin to the parade this year, already requested 1 off-schedule day in june. http://www.nba.com/magic/stats/

spendyourtimewell

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NBA Playoffs Posted: 5/29/2009 9:06:20 PM
andrew, I wouldn't say the nuggets have no heart, they were just outplayed. LA finally showed up, and just in time for the finals. I actually was impressed by both houston and denver this year by not giving up and letting La just steam roll them. Heart has to be matched by skill and denver doesn't cut it. I think they are one or two players away from being a contender. As much as J.R contributes I think he takes away more. You also need some scoring off the bench. broncs: I like stan van gundy a lot :see previous post, and to Jeff van gundy said in this game that LA hasn't been beat when they play their A game; hmmmm.. that sounds familiar. rickyxyz /// fake account : Great Call about game 6 !!!! Cry somemore. all the haters can suck a fat one!!! “Hate is too great a burden to bear. It injures the hater more than it injures the hated.” KOBE vs SUPERMAN !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! up next

spendyourtimewell

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NBA Playoffs Posted: 5/29/2009 7:30:48 AM
monarch you make me laugh kid, if I am a fool in your eyes I consider that a compliment. Broncs I already answered your request in a previous post, you don't like it , TS Your nuggets are on their way out of the playoffs tonight.

spendyourtimewell

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NBA Playoffs Posted: 5/28/2009 7:03:14 PM
broncsbuff; whining about kobe taking to the officials really? Thats your slip showing buddy. Its called being a team captain, here is a beginners lesson for you. Each team has a captain, usually they also have a co-captain. For La its Kobe-Fish. If a foul is called on a player and they sit there debating, they can get a T, it is the job of the captains to speak on their behalf as to why and how the game is being called and let the rest of the team know. All team leaders do it, not just Kobe, watch a hornets game and see how much Chris paul talks to the refs. Sorry if your captains have the basketball IQ of a monkey on acid. Yeah you clearly know the game better than me. I'm pourin a little of my beer out for the nuggets, cause they are dead. Dude stick to the PIGSKIN cause the Hoop aint for you. monarch; every message you post is queerer than a 3 dollar bill. HERE IS YOUR ENLIGHTENMENT msg159: called nuggets in 6 or 7 ::: WRONG msg164: anderson best player on nuggets ::; WRONG msg166: trade melo,hes a b-player:: WRONG msg174; nuggets ring::::: WRONG and PROBABLY NEVER msg186: la goin out/ orlando stepping up (they are the best team right now) :: WRONG msg194: cryin about officiating ::WRONG and LAME

spendyourtimewell

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NBA Playoffs Posted: 5/27/2009 9:00:47 PM
nuggets in six that must be your dyslexia, you mean LA in six Kenyon Martin where art thou???? Melo looked like a jedi tonight, kept tryin to use the force, someone should have told him its a movie. Kobe only had 20 tonight, where is your excuse now??????? looks like LA vs Orlando, if LA plays how they did in the 3rd and 4th of game 5, everyone is in for a good match. stan van gundy is my new favorite coach, the man doesn't play the PC game. If we had him or Byron I think we would be more consistant in our play. monarch: do you ever get tired of being wrong?

spendyourtimewell

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NBA Playoffs Posted: 5/26/2009 11:03:07 PM
I know I have played more ball than you. But why would I be soo stupid to give out personal information on the net as to where and when, damn dude think. I don't have shit to prove to you or anyone else. I STATED MY OPINION THATS ALL. And I still don't give 2 shits about people's opinion who can't ball, don't like it too bad. Am I more qualified, no, but I understand the game better than you . Am I correct about Denver losing the series and you looking like an upset Fanboy , yes. The comment about andrew was taken out of context, it was commentary about playing the what if game, I see it flew over your head though. Denver in 6 now??? Oh because someone called you out on a forum the nuggets are going to get way better, man thats some funny shit. GO MAGIC: Magic in 5 hopefully, def by 6 Lebron hit a crazy shot at the end , too bad he forced the previous 5 shots and tossed the ball away in crunch time. Howard is a monster. As said before in MSG 105 Lakers in 6 hopefully, def in 7

spendyourtimewell

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NBA Playoffs Posted: 5/26/2009 8:04:26 PM
monarch: on the way to lookin at your first title??? Damn dude, its puff puff pass, not puff,puff,puff,puff,puff,puff,puff,puff,puff,puff pass out. No way denver beats LA, laker will take the next one and hopefully close em out in 6 if not then in game 7. Sleepless: maybe you should get some sleep, if if if ifififififififififif If frogs had wings they wouldn't bump their butts when they jump. If paul "I broke my leg, not" pierce self -proclaimed best player in the game were worth his weight in talk , boston might still be playing. might. If andrew bynum hadn't gotten hurt this season, LA would have swept through. anyone can play the what if game. its pointless As far as being a Laker hater, everyone is fine with that, wherever there are successful people there will be jealous people not far behind. I only hope after we (LA )gets a ring this year, jesus shuttlesworth and crew can make it passed dwight and lebron, so la can take revenge on you leprechauns. I have to tip my hat to the nuggets for playing the lakers hard, this will prep them for the finals. Go magic broncs: I can play, and have hit a few, few are far between, but a few nonetheless, Thats why I don't accept opinions of people who have never played. I can see from your post that you are not the sterotypical Kobe hater, which is actually pretty rare. While I don't agree with your assements I see where you are coming from. By the way shaq has to share those rings with kobe too, because he sure didn't do a helluva lot for miami when they took it.

spendyourtimewell

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Do animals have emotions? Posted: 5/23/2009 11:42:58 PM
no, they have flavors.

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NBA Playoffs Posted: 5/23/2009 11:02:12 AM
andrew: i agree to those terms , thanks for keeping it civil. Let the best team win. bronco fan: you don't know the NBA , and you look like you've never hit a shot with someones hand in your face from 27 feet out, so I'll take your opinions with a bucket of salt. You don't need to stop melo in order to beat denver, just outrebound and outrun them. Thats what the Lakers need to do to beat denver and they will. Gasol>Kmart , by a country mile Bynum = Nene, right now, if he gets back to how he was playing pre-injury, diff story KoBE > everyone in the league Fisher < billups lamar<Melo , lamar needs to step up and play as he is capable brown>your 2nd stringer farmer>same as above cavs are better,and LBJ can shut down melo magic are better hell, even garnett-less celtics are better Lakers are a better team and will prevail, you up for a wager, bronco fan?

spendyourtimewell

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NBA Playoffs Posted: 5/22/2009 8:26:40 PM
I never said Denver has no shot of beating LA or that they are weak, in fact if you use your literary skills you might be able to find the part where I paid them a compliment. They are in a series with LA, so there is always that chance, however astronomical it may be , that denver wins the series. La is in it for a ring, denver is a sidenote, sorry. Truth hurts. If your certain of your conviction as I am then you woudn't mind placing a friendly wager on the outcome of the series? Nothing monetary, but something of entertainment value? I'll let you chose the terms.

spendyourtimewell

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Kobe Bryant and Tim Tebow thread Posted: 5/22/2009 8:15:49 PM
yeswho. and how many rings did shaq win before kobe? he was dominant in the league from day one, got to the finals with penny, but couldn't get the job done. after kobe, he had dwade (who dominated dallas . see finals mvp ) and a decent supporting cast in a weak league, dallas came out of the west. sheesh. bottom line is Kobe is the most fundamentally sound player of this era, he can hit any shot anywhere, anytime, can lockdown opponents (when he wants), splits dbl and tripple teams like they were ghosts, has the best footwork of anyone EVER ,is the basketball equivelant of einstein mixed with davinci ,is MR CLUTCH, and everyone and their mother in the league talks about the guys work ethic. I am not gonna do the MJ comparo because its absurd, different players, different eras,different teams, and kobe's career is far from over.

spendyourtimewell

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NBA Playoffs Posted: 5/22/2009 7:46:23 PM
j.r smith is okay, melo is finally playing to his ability, chauncy is the difference between also-ran and contender, best move denver has made regardless , la in 7, hopefully 6 though as far as denver being the best team??? Garbage. Did you follow the NBA this year? If denver is so grand they will have no problem dispatching LA. La biggest opponent is themselves, they get complacent and stop playing. Which is very disturbing as a fan, but when you wake the sleeping giant they drop a 40point bomb on you. Kobe dropped 2 treys in melos goofy face, he should have had last shot and it would have gone to OT then another La win. oh well looks like La is gonna have to drop a bomb on Nugget fans in denver.

spendyourtimewell

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What do you expect him or her to be by the age of 30. Posted: 5/2/2009 4:13:37 PM
If you're going to quote me, the very least you can do is be accurate. I didn't say that you had ZERO requirements, I actually listed the ones that you stated you did not have. I like discussion, and an exchange of opposing ideas, if that makes me argumentative, so be it. I am not try to infer anything about your posts, sorry you got so offended. I never said you in particular had no requirements, but thanks for telling me what I meant. I respect that you can accept different lifestyles, but quite honestly it doesn't affect me either way. Yours is one opinion, as is mine, it has no more weight than the next. As far as seeing what I want to see, everyone has selective vision. Why not try some of your reasoning on yourself and re-read the entirity of my post before picking it apart. I see you didn't adress the 5 prior post with no requirements, pretty selective about how you take down my post. Edit: To all others reading these I apologize, apparently everytime I speak my mind, someone has to take great offense at what and how I say it. In the hopes of furthering the topic, a question. Do you expect him/her to be spiritual or religious in some shape or form? Why or why not?

spendyourtimewell

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What do you expect him or her to be by the age of 30. Posted: 5/2/2009 2:06:40 PM
annie: "No one has said that. You are only saying this because you are reading what you want to read and trying to be argumentative. Everyone wants someone by the age of 30 to at least be financially responsible. No one wants to date a man or woman who by the age of 30 is still unable to pay their bills or know how to put any away towards savings." Do you speak for everyone on plentyoffish? Because there are at least 5 posts that I count prior to your statements that are quite contrary to what your saying, isn't that being argumentative? One post in particular states that they have no expectations. Your previous post in particular did not have a requirement for job , education, or permanent housing. I am really not into one-upsmanship over who is "right". The topic is expectations and from all the post I have read many have none. I think that is a good thing. Maybe someone might want to date someone who is unable to pay their own bills because they do missionary work for a religious or human rights organization, I certainly woulnd't mind.

spendyourtimewell

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what is everyones opin on tattoos? Posted: 5/1/2009 11:31:04 PM
I like em', they are a turn on for me unless they are my definition of "stupid". Have 2, and will have more, possibly sleeved, but not without carefull consideration. Whatever floats your boat as long as it doesn't sink my battleship. I was in traffic school a year ago, bored out of my soul, and wrote this little dittie. ©Dan Fernandez 08'© UN-ORIGINAL ------------ Nice Tat,very original No one else has a tribal Spiderwebs are for spiders Jesus doesn't want to be on your bicep, or chest or back. Butterflies are dime a dozen Wings, are 2 for 5 You cant male a trampstamp Dragons and Demons don't make you a badass. Old english does make you a suspect Your tit is not a way to profess your love. Why not just get a tattoo that says "un-original" On your forehead That would be something new ©Dan Fernandez 08'© And no, any or all of these on the right person wouldn't be a dealbreaker. mayoroftempe: awesome posts !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

spendyourtimewell

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What do you expect him or her to be by the age of 30. Posted: 5/1/2009 10:26:07 PM
I opened this thread looking to find some insight as to how accomplished I should be in a few years and yet I found something greater. Apparently, I don't have to accomplish anything by 30 for a woman to consider me a resonable suitor. It seems a little too altruistic though. If no one has any expectations by 30, then its a matter of personal chemisty, physical attraction and being "sane". That seems a bit oversimplified, and doesn't ring true. There would be no 30 somethings who were single on here.

spendyourtimewell

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Everyone Wants a Cougar Posted: 4/30/2009 4:17:36 PM
trailgirl: if you took the time to read and analyze my profile, and the only detractor you found was my want for offspring, then thanks. If that is the only obstacle standing between me and my dream cougar, consider it changed. I wasn't only talking about 40 yr + cougars but older woman in general. In all seriousness, I would like someone closer to my age, but have yet to find all of those qualities in someone.

SPENDYOURTIMEWELL

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Everyone Wants a Cougar Posted: 4/29/2009 8:05:36 PM
There are 100 reasons why I am atracted to older women, but for everyone's benefit I'll only hit the high points. My top ten reasons to date older woman. I am 24 and divorced btw. 10. Have their act together: hygenically, physically, spiritually, financially,emotionally 9. Good conversationalists, I hope 8. Don't have to explain themselves to friends / family 7. Hopefully they read, and no : cosmo, us weekly, and star don't count. 6. Taste in Music: just better on average 5. Ability to speak their mind and communicate 4. Like to dance: I'm not talking just grinding hips together, but they aren't too shabby at it either 3. Willingness to "try new things" 2. Sexual Prowess 1. KNOWS WANTS AND NEEDS AND EXPRESSES THEM VERBALLY While all those traits are great, I apparently am not cougar material, yet. Any takers??

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Does the position matter? Posted: 4/29/2009 7:44:10 PM
I call bs on it all being simply about dom & sub , unless its super kinky dom or sub. Its more about how comfortable people are with their own sexuality and with their partner, and partners prefs. I dont pick one position, I have a different batting order every night, depending on how the catcher is. Everyone needs to experiment with every position they feel comfortable with and maybe try a few they are not, who knows you might like it. Do you eat only 1 kind of jellybean?

spendyourtimewell

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Why do I get little reaction. Posted: 4/28/2009 8:34:58 PM
Cmon phil, for someone who "wants to be in love again" that is very defeatest. Love is not rational, so if you want to get back there, you have to act irrational. Open up, give some strong statements about yourself , what you believe or what you want out of life. You can't be that vanilla can you ? You like anime ? Why ? Artwork, romanticised stories? Direction? Horesback riding? Really? How often ? Where? Where do you want to take your prospective SO? You like good food ? What kind? Where are some of your haunts? If you want someone to get to know you, you have to give them a chance to.

spendyourtimewell

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Relationships not based on sex Posted: 4/28/2009 8:05:27 PM
OP: ok i'll bite. Say you met your match, she talks the talk and walks the walk. Everything is going good , then you spend your first night together and its horrible. No biggie, mulligan. The second attempt is no better than the first. Now where does this leave you? Ignoring sex can be as detrimental as overemphasising it.

spendyourtimewell

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What's the point of fishing when we dont get any bites? something wrong with my bait? come look. Posted: 4/28/2009 7:33:12 PM
Im going to agree with cynthiaM on this one. I remember reading the profile of that woman, aka , my dream woman. Is she still on here? Anyways, yeah your douche is definatly showing. Anyone who says they are ready to settle down into a relationship wont quip about "gettin more asses than a toilet seat". Do you know what toilets are full of? Awesome comparision !!! No one should ever lol, anything that comes out of their own mouth, ever, no exceptions, !!!! My advice, write your own profile. Then submit for review. PS: Under hobbies list plagarism.

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Miss California Posted: 4/27/2009 7:51:13 PM
To say whoever appoints the judges didn't think perez hilton was going to push his own agenda is ridiculous. The tard is always running his mouth with unparalleled idiocracy spewing out. Miss ca spoke what she believed, I don't fault her for that. However, if you've seen the clip, its easy to see how she stumbled. Knowing the "winning" answer and starting to give a pc answer then realizing it was at the cost of her beliefs.

spendyourtimewell

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HE BLOWS HIS LOAD IN MY MOUTH WITH NO ORGASM ALERT! Posted: 4/23/2009 6:57:14 PM
yelling "I'm cumming" during beej is like yelling "I'm getting away with it" right before the jury hands over the verdict. Its a game changer, which is usually followed by her slowing down and trying some out of mouth hand nonsense. Iif a woman can't follow the clues, I'm prone to not let her even try. I don't ask for a heads up even if my jaw is getting numb. Whatever rocks your socks it should be discussed before hand, because when penis enters mouth, all brain activity ceases.

spendyourtimewell

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What do you think about a first date at the cemetery? Posted: 4/22/2009 2:33:04 PM
sounds like a great idea. As an added bous you know he had noble intentions, no one gets laid in a cemetary. He would have taken you to a morgue if all he wanted was in your pants.

spendyourtimewell

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If someone emails you with misspelled words and bad grammar, do you respond? Posted: 4/21/2009 8:37:44 PM
naw dwag of itz like dis den i wunder wat hud dey fram i lice profyls dat spel wit da best gremer I usually don't get replies as such, because I require a high level of intelligence when I approach someone on here. Likewise, I am not attractive enough for the dumb hot girls to seek me out. But I do chuckle at the ridiculous profiles.

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Leaving occupation blank. Posted: 4/21/2009 8:18:32 PM
to miss elaneous, at 57 pornography embarasses you, really? Wow, I've never heard of such a sheltered view from someone of your age. While it may conflict with your politcal beliefs, ie: no sex out of wedlock, what about 2 naked adults engaging in sexual intercourse is embarassing?

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Leaving occupation blank. Posted: 4/21/2009 8:08:42 PM
cheecky I agree with what you say about a job not determining the person. If I told people flat out what I did for a living explaining nothing they would expect A, what they would soon realize is that they got Z. What i mean by this is , I've done a few different things, nothing of which I am ashamed of , each of which has afforded me a decent living, but none of which is inclined to explain any of my habits, beliefs, interests (maybe 1), or future opportunities. I could go into any field, some at entry level, and work my way up, but some things your just not gonna like. I've had some very decent offers at doing some things that I know for fact that I would hate or slow down my progress of my dream occupation, which I am on course for. I turned down those offers after reviewing the pros and cons. While all of this is very interesting, other than knowing that I am gainfully employed WTF buisness is this of all potential dates? While women claim to be open-minded and level -headed, they are anything but.As proof of this, I am part of another dating site, which I won't name here. And get many offers from very attractive women, on average about 1-2 per day, but it has a spot for income level 10-20,20-30,30-50,50-100,100+ and I selected the appropiate field. Basically the same profile , worse pics(i know I've made several inquiries), and yet I get 10x as many responses, many from people who are specifially what my profile states that I wont get along with. I've had jobs where I worked 40+,50+,60+ hrs a wk and I never let it affect previous relationships, because I always made the best use of time together. So I fail to see in any aspect what your job has to do with your datability.And thus being said I pose a ? to all those who would detract from my statements. Would you rather date the jr Dr. with -300k in student loans and low earnings for many yrs or the janitor who makes 30k, health, dental. etc....

spendyourtimewell

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How I want to die Posted: 4/12/2009 1:00:18 PM
Stop Start, 1st rushes by, sideways,switchback 2nd, ease throttle in, clutch out off gas, ass slides spin the wheel left , gas on hard right,hold the gas, then spin back left, clutch punch, hard right ,gas on , drops a wheel, close straights, 3rd, gas on , corn coming fast, hard brake, clutch in 2nd, bouncing off red, hold it out, 3rd gas on , 4th, 5th, corner coming fast close my eyes, I am home, let go air, freedom, malibu canyon it was always to end here

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Msg: 143 (view)

Practicing Celibacy am I alone! Posted: 12/31/2008 5:54:22 PM
Reading through this has been very entertaining. It has made me come to a few conclusions of my own. A. celibacy is a choice of priorities rather than sex People chose other things to fill their life with other than sex, goals/career/faith/raisin chilins'. I am assuming if GOD were to grant all the celibate people their perfect mate, they would chose to marry/hitch/ attach themselves without reservation because no one really wants to give up sex. They just do it to save time and energy. I have pondered this much this year, how many things could I have already accomplished in life had I not been preoccupied myself with getting my****wet? This is mainly because I chose to not put much effort into dating/ tricking girls into sleeping with me. It did help me get my life straightened out, and stopping drinking for a year also played a huge role into that. Mainly because without booze, the uglies, stay ugly. It's not just that, but I am super effing picky with women. If they are hot but no brain, i get bored, and give up. Been there done that. If they have a brain and are interesting but not in the least bit attractive, I can't bring myself to take one for the team either. I have had plenty of sex in my years and going a yr + without, isn't as hard as I thought it would be, sadly. Do I miss it? Hell yeah? Is it by choice? Yes and NO. If you sat my perfect mate in front of me, or something 60% there, would I ravage her, you bet. But have I lowered my standards? Not yet. Its not for lack of opportunity either, for some reason, I get hit on alot by 18-19yr olds. Seeing as I am not a hit it and quit it type of guy, I just shrug them off. I don't want to have to teach some kid, all my tricks. So I stay celebate. Will my standards lower, more than likely. Is it wearing me down not compromising my ideals? You bet. I have accomplished what I needed to this year and have re-dedicated myself to giving dating another shot in the upcoming one. Good luck to all the celibates out there,God help you . And hopefully I wont be among you in 09.

SPENDYOURTIMEWELL

Joined: 3/11/2008

Msg: 12 (view)

Do you guage physical attraction on..... Posted: 12/31/2008 9:46:34 AM
I think physical attraction and "general beauty" are two completly different worlds. I find many different types of woman attractive for different reasons. Ideally I would like to find a woman with jennifer love hewitt's body , the mind of a writer/philanthropist, and the sexual prowess of jenna jameson. Good luck to me. That being said I like many different types, thick, thin, athletic, goth,indy,business, hip-hop, high fashion. It all depends on if they are comfortable in their own skin. That is what is sexy / attractive to me. Also intelligence, that is my biggest turn on. A 5 with a brain becomes a 7 or 8 . A 7 with a brain is like a 9. I think too many people focus on physical characteristics / stats.

SPENDYOURTIMEWELL

Joined: 3/11/2008

Msg: 5 (view)

PLEASE REVIEW MY PROFILE Posted: 12/31/2008 9:21:25 AM
You really shouldn't be on dating site after recently ending a marriage. I am just speaking from personal experience, but the next couple of girls you go after will probably not be what you are really looking for. My advice is get to know who you are outside of dating/relationships, which will give you a better understanding of what you want from one. Just my opinion, from one divorced guy to the next.

spendyourtimewell

Joined: 3/11/2008

Msg: 2 (view)

A little help please? Posted: 12/30/2008 2:57:00 PM
Quite honestly? Its a wee bit myspace-y, especially "the angles" pic set you chose. Kinda like your trying to convince me that you are cool, instead of being cool. Also , aren't you in a part of the country where being a tree-huggin hipee is akin to being a leper?

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