However, you don't cut off someone you love; you try to keep the friendship at least.

What happens when you`re sexually compatible with someone but share no commonality otherwise?

I gotta ask,,,is this how women of today are trying to gain the "power" or "control" you think you deserved or owed?????? You paint ALL men with a generic stroke of the paint brush with these types of statements making you what????? Feel better?????? Making US men "aware"????? Just WHAT do YOU think this statement does for the people (us MEN) that you are trying to educate???? Tell me,,,,,,,,,,and all those that are sitting here reading. Go ahead, I'm waiting.

I think girls with tattos are a total f*ckin turnoff. Only two words come to mind, filthy and dirty.


And I think guys who pump iron and eat steroids until they have biceps as big as my a** are grotesque and un-natural looking. The only words that come to mind are "small" followed by penis and/or brain.

I figure that my first thing to do is get that job - temp or otherwise

Hm, I think I'm just going to stop dating.

OK -- how do you ladies (or gentlemen) handle this? I have rejected some profiles or just looked at the profiles and not bothered with the emails, etc. and I get nasty emails in my box sometimes from men as though I OWE then an acceptance and by not showing interest I'm shallow, etc. the responses go on and on.

You're probably not as attractive as you think you are and you are attracting what you are "worth".

OP. You start the thread with the thought that even though he doesn't like to go out you are still compatible. You have friends to go out with and don't need to be with him 24/7.

Then you come back with you thought that going to concerts, comedy shows, restaurants, the park would be nice alternatives.

So which is it? It's ok for him to not want to go out or you are hoping to change him?

The fact that you want him to call or text you at least once a day pretty much proves that your one of them nagging clingy kind of type women.