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Joined: 7/17/2005

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HELP PLEASE???!! Posted: 3/22/2006 3:09:18 PM
I'm honetly looking for a relationship, even though I get propositioned a lot for hook-ups. points to hair being primary cause. Just keep your profile honest, check your grammar/wording and don't feel like you have to hide anything. Don't be dreamy with what you expect out of others. Keeping a realistic approach is the best thing in my experience. Also, it's a well known fact that having kids does scare away most guys, myself included. For me it's because I feel I'm too young to deal with that kind of attachment. Breaking up with the girl is also breaking up with the kid and it makes it harder and more emotionally strainful. My advice for meeting people, start small and in a public place. Starbucks works great, or a common diner (Denny's, I-HOP, etc.). You reduce the risk of being embarassed and abducted or something... Save bigger dates for at least the third meeting, you don't want to get stuck with a bill or something. Hope that's something helpful. Good luck!

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I hope someone can answere this Posted: 3/22/2006 2:58:01 PM
I think it's a matter of expectations. From my views, if you're looking for a long term relationship then it's assumed you want to date exclusively and try to develop a relationship with that one person. If you're looking to date, then it would be assumed that he/she would be dating you and others until he/she finds the one he/she likes. If they're not looking for a long term relationship, I would imagine that it's not their primary focus here. They're looking to date and whatever happens from there, happens.

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Can you spell J-E-R-K ? Posted: 2/25/2006 11:04:24 AM
I say we stop providing information to those that shouldn't use it. I mean, if we teach these jerks/lamers e-sexgods what to really do, they're going to abuse it. Let them chase away the women so guys that do know what they're doing can benefit. Stop teaching the competition! :P

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How can tell these days if a man is just looking for sex or really likes you? Posted: 2/25/2006 10:58:02 AM
I can honestly say I'm not looking for just sex. I'd rather make friends, and if a relationship develops beyond that in any ways, then cool, otherwise I've at least made a friend. :)

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Boozing for Booty Posted: 2/1/2006 8:51:59 PM
Agreed, I'd rather have fun sober. Shouldn't need the liquor to get off the right way!

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Boozing for Booty Posted: 2/1/2006 8:33:09 PM
Alcohol raises testosterone levels in women, which makes them more sexually aggressive. That's why alcohol makes most women horny. However, guys have a more negative affect, and it actually weakens their sex drive and performance. So, it happens. Some women feel they need to drink in order to unleash themselves.

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women orgasms real or fake how can a guy tell Posted: 2/1/2006 8:26:01 PM
Few things I've noticed: Tightening, though this can be faked easily... Neck becomes flustered in most cases... Clit becomes too sensitive, sometimes painful to touch for a while. Toes curl up during. The way she breathes, hearing a good gasp is a nice sign. Her legs may tremble after... Really depends on the woman though. Best bet is to ask her and be open about it, if it's not working for her, ask what does and work with her to bring her to orgasm. :)

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Why dont women like long haired guys.....or are there any?? Posted: 2/1/2006 5:51:12 PM
This thread makes me feel loved. :)

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Part 2 of the sex survey...take it if you dare. Posted: 1/20/2006 5:07:19 PM
What sexual aspects are you into?(X Check all that apply) __S&M _X_Submissive _X_Domination __Bisexuality _X_Voyeurism _X_Exhibitionism __Golden Showers __Greek/Anal _X_French/Oral __Foot Fetish __Humiliation _X_Masturbation __Pain __Swinging __Threesomes __Orgies _X_Public Sex _X_Role-Playing _X_Talking Dirty In what way do you feel the Internet contributes to sex? (check all that apply) __No value at all _X_Encourages perversion _X_Promotes safe-sex __It has helped my marriage _X_It has improved my sex-life __It has damaged my sex-life _X_It has made me more open-minded __It belittles the sanctity of the act __Discourages adultry __Encourages adultry _X_Promotes honest communication __Promotes deception _X_It is a benign outlet for sexual frustration What level of experience have you had with sex on the Net? (X check all that apply) __None, newbie __I see very little sexual content on the net _X_Exchanged erotic e-mail _X_Talked dirty in aol chat/msn chat _X_Downloaded erotic pictures _X_Posted erotic pictures _X_Masturbated while online _X_Masturbated to material downloaded _X_Had sex with someone met online _X_Watched erotic webcam broadcasts __Transmitted erotic webcam video _X_Erotic internet voice communication _X_Read online sex stories __Posted sex stories _X_Responded to an online personal ad _X_Placed an online personal ad __Purchased a sex-related product advertised on the net _X_Sex on the net? Where & When? _X_Meet off line and had sex

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So hard for Houston get togethers? Posted: 11/27/2005 3:24:45 PM
Part of it has to do with how big Houston is, personally I'm 30-45 minutes from downtown. So to have any fun I would have to add an additional two hours to whatever I schedule for fun, just because of transportation. Just think of the pour souls that have to deal with the Katy freeway. :( I'm glad I live South, but it's not much better on certain days.

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What is it with men N freaking condoms!!!!!!!!!!! Posted: 11/21/2005 12:54:11 AM
Many guys are selfish and prude, they really don't think about the consequences of their actions. I had a discussion with good friend of mine a while back and she had some important things to say about it. You should never rely on your partner to protect you, only yourself. If you're worried about not having condoms, make sure you buy them yourself. Make sure you take your pill on time. Do whatever it takes to protect yourself. Guys will do things like forget, purposely "forget", put them on wrong so they have an excuse when it comes off during sex, cause them break them by opening packages with their teeth. There are a million things that can go wrong on your partner's end. Take responsibility for your body and learn to protect yourself, and don't put up with a guys bullshit.

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Class action against Yahoo Personals and Match.com for fraud Posted: 11/19/2005 5:36:52 PM
I've never paid for any personals service, and never plan to. I'm certain Yahoo is guilty because a while back when they did their little "upgrade" to their personals, I was sent three winks on the same day. One was from an actual friend of mine who denied the act and had winks from random people as well. And the other two were from profiles that were shown as being inactive for over a month? Yeah... something was up there. I haven't used Match.com in years though, so can't say much on that. But there are a ton of online services that try and do this. Amusingly I believe many of them allow bots to do most of the work just to try and hook people, but a trained eye can spot those profiles easily.

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Good Places to eat, and good places to take a date Posted: 11/18/2005 7:13:45 PM
South East Houston (Clear Lake region) here, and from my experiences with friends, dating, and work I propose many of the following! Mexican/Tex-Mex: El Mariachis (used to be La Familia) Johnny Tamalies Los Ramierez Arandas (One past the beltway) Italian: Zio's Olive Garden BBQ/Steakhouses: Sweet Mesquite Perry's Steak House Chinese: Sashuean Garden (I'm quite sure I slaughtered the name) Japanese: Ichibons Osaka (in Downtown) Miakos Thai: Thai Cottage Thai Seafood Indian: Moguls If I can remember more then I'll make another post. :)

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South East Houston! Posted: 11/17/2005 7:17:20 PM
I'm 21, male, single, and a full time college student that just started a successful career. Not really sure what I'm looking for in a person, but someone stable and dedicated. Being independent is always a plus. I guess that's good enough for an introduction. More can be found on my profile. :)

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Sex in the workplace? Posted: 11/7/2005 9:19:23 PM
It's generally a bad idea, especially where sex and teachers are getting a lot of public attention, heh.

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How do get rid of him? Posted: 11/6/2005 7:56:06 PM
Try warning him that this is turning into harrassment, and if it continues you will follow up with legal actions. Restraining orders work nicely. But you have to be willing to actually do the legal part.

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Who wants their profile rated? Posted: 11/6/2005 5:17:27 PM
Thanks! :) And don't worry, the hair envy is a common infection related to my pictures. hands you a brush

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Let me rate your profile... Posted: 11/6/2005 5:14:18 PM
You're welcome to inspect mine. :)

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Who wants their profile rated? Posted: 11/6/2005 5:10:59 PM
I'm curious, so feel free to rate mine. :)

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Whats A Gloryhole ? Posted: 11/6/2005 4:54:53 PM
Do you people not know how to use google yet? :P

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Hello HOUSTON!!! Posted: 11/6/2005 4:48:44 PM
League City / SE Houston here!

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HOUSTON - GET TOGETHER Posted: 11/6/2005 4:33:50 PM
Sounds like fun... Too bad I won't have any free time to meet people until after Dec. 5th... Ah well, college first. :)

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MySpace Users Beware... Posted: 7/20/2005 5:34:16 PM
Well, lucky for you, webhosting companies often do what is known is 'backups', so the 'ethically corrupt' company still has your information and can sell it to whomever they want and the new owners also still have your information so they can use it to send the SS to your home and arrest you for exercising your free speech. I'm well aware that companies do backups. I'm not a web idiot at all. I do hosting, network security, and web application development for a living. :P I am also quite aware of the history of the two companies, while MySpace in the past has had issues regarding their Spyware settlements... I can only see News Corp. doing worse, and getting away with it. Overall, it's cause enough for me to wipe my profile there.

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MySpace Users Beware... Posted: 7/18/2005 11:51:48 PM
Assuming they plan to clean the company up... You've got what was a rather liberal, though ethically corrupt company (given the spyware settlement), is now owned by a highly political, conservative and marketing driven company... I personally wiped my blogs and stuff, I'll go back to keeping my journals on my own private webserver. :)

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MySpace Users Beware... Posted: 7/18/2005 11:15:34 PM
Intermix Media Inc. owner of MySpace has been bought by News Corp, owner of Fox for $580 million. Don't believe me? Go search google news for "News Corp Myspace" and you will turn up several news reports on the issue. Personally it scares me that News Corp./Fox will now own a massive database of personal information. There is a quote in the Yahoo! news article that says the following: "The thing about MySpace is that it's a growing audience," said Jupiter Research analyst David Card. "Its users are pretty loyal. They get a lot of time spent on their pages. And the personal information they get from users is pretty reliable because they want to meet people. One would think this information would be pretty useful to advertisers." This type of thing personally bothers the hell out of me...

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No sex before marriage Posted: 7/18/2005 4:51:25 PM
I'm against the idea personally. I don't have any religious or conservative upbringing either. I was brought up with a rather open mind, and have developed into a rather sensual person. Before I would commit to something like marriage, I would have to be sure I'm compatible on all levels... Mental, physical, emotional, sexual, etc. Just my opinion though...

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~ The Craziest Pick Up Lines You Know ~ Posted: 7/18/2005 3:49:36 PM
I was at a local pool hall with a girl friend of mine (not girlfriend), and some guy came up to me, telling me there was a woman that wanted to meet me. So I went over and said hello, and the conversation went like this... Her: "I love your hair, it's so long..." Me: "Thanks, I get that a lot." smile Her: "So, what kind of freak in bed are you? Do you like anal sex?" Me: "Wa? Wow... that was upfront..." Her: "What about pain? Bondage?" Me: "Not much for pain, bondage is ok though, gotta have the trust though." (moved onto a lot of other topics) She wasn't very attractive, and the fact that she was smoking heavily wasn't helping... I eventually said I had to get back to my friends but it was nice meeting her. And that was that...

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Why Men Don't Dance? Posted: 7/18/2005 3:37:41 PM
I can't dance in the modern party/rave/club style dancing, I just don't have the mood for it. I can learn dances though, I've learned enough martial arts katas to know that I could do a tango or something if I took the time and learned it. Get me enough alcohol and I won't care about trying the club stuff though.

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What do guys really expect/want? Posted: 7/18/2005 3:28:31 PM
I think I'd go with a five date rule... Three successful dates to establish that you're "dating" Fifth date if all is going well, can probably be considered a couple. As for expectations... I recommend losing them. If she's got the hots for you so bad that you get some action on the first date, congrats. Nothing wrong with it really. For some people it works and others it does not.

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Some suggestions from a web developer... Posted: 7/18/2005 1:51:10 PM
I hope I don't come off as a jerk... but there is a lot of non-standard compliant code here... Especially with the forums. The result is > 100 errors... You can validate your code at w3.org using their HTML and CSS validators. Thought I would just point this out, because it renders quite poorly on standard compliant browsers such as Opera, Mozilla, Firefox, and Konqueror. Some of the errors I've seen are two closings of the body and html tags at the bottom. Having {script LANGUAGE="JavaScript"} without defining the type="text/javascript" with it Improper use of attributes, basically adding attributes to tags that do not exist, one example: {body bgColor='#E6EFF4' leftMargin='0' topMargin='10' marginwidth='0' .... Margins should be defined with CSS, the attributes are non-existant. Hope this helps, or something... :)

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Hmmm... Posted: 7/18/2005 1:41:20 PM
Well, this is my third site to be on, wonder how this one will go. I've been on OKCupid and MySpace for a good while, this one still seems to be going through a lot of development... Could use some HTML rendering work under the Gecko engine (Firefox/Mozilla), but other than that it seems to be a decent site.

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Do you have any daily fitness routine? Posted: 7/18/2005 12:57:18 PM
I'm not a weightlifter or anything, but I have a routine to keep me limber for martial arts. I stretch out throughout the day... When I wake up, I stretch out to about 3/5th splits... And make sure all my joints are loose. I do about 50 crunches, as well as about 50 leg lefts to work the stomach. I also do about 30 pushups, slowly working on my upper body. Sometimes I run or go swimming, depends on the day. I also teach and train karate for three hours every Tuesday and Thursday.

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