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Thread: Titties: real or fake?
litefoot77
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Titties: real or fake?
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6/20/2009 12:39:42 PM
As real if possible :)
If a woman is really flat and gets implants they look good but dont have enough natural breast on top of the implants and they feel too fake... i guess if that makes u feel good about yourself then if might be a good thing...
If your going for a pick me up i dont think you can loose :)
litefoot77
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Self-Conscious about Lips down there~
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6/20/2009 12:04:10 PM
here is a great resorce for the inquiring minds....
http://www.the-clitoris.com/n_html/c_size.htm
verity is the spice of life.. u r beautiful the way you are :)
litefoot77
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Men Shaving...
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6/20/2009 11:51:05 AM
shave or use a hair remover? how close can you get to tender tissue? is there a health issue here?
litefoot77
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How to you get your man to like giving oral sex
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6/20/2009 11:43:55 AM
If he does you first he will enjoy it more and will be more likely to say yes if u ask...
make sure you let him know that it may take a little while to recover,
so he doesn't feel cheated or anxious if you don't return the favor immediately.
communicate
litefoot77
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DOES THE G-POINT REALLY EXIST
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6/20/2009 11:19:27 AM
[An average night means between 8 and 15 giant "O's". A marathon brings between 35 and 50 !!!]
Dave this is good stuff!! Try adding a variable speed vibration to clit by starting with a humming and going to a high/ low pitch ... like blowing a trumpet or spiting raspberries with the tong slightly out.
This, with g-spot is a near death experience and Ive never had anyone that could endure more then 3 main "O"s in a given love making session....Now it is true that there is a quivering in-between and for hrs after....great way to start the day if you can stay in bed...
litefoot77
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How long should good sex last?
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4/10/2009 10:47:17 AM
cant imagine reading a text book and following all the steps... this really kills it for me... making love is a new creation every time... chemistry changes w/ even the smallest thing in your environment... this is what makes it so wonderful... time is not an issue as much as being complete... i ask the question " is it finished?" "is it it perfect in what it is?" sometime adding to what has already been great or trying to reproduce the same sean takes away from the greatness of that moment...wait a little while and create a new love story :)
litefoot77
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Your destiny...
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2/18/2009 12:04:18 PM
so true
brings us right back to, who do u want to be when u grow up
litefoot77
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How Many Positions Have You Tried?
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2/12/2009 11:04:10 AM
This is the fun part... cant count all the ways, but it seems that i do about 3 or 4 what work, until shes not screaming as loud, then we discover something new or rediscover something old...
it always help to change up the place... w/ a little danger... the most memorable was on the picnic table in the light of the camp fire in a campground full of sleeping people... then on a tree by someone else s tent... the tree was a little ruff on the back....
driving and doing it is very fun too...
litefoot77
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Waters Edge...
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12/18/2008 3:06:38 PM
subbimesoul what do think of this one?
litefoot77
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help me improve on this poem
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12/18/2008 3:04:10 PM
bravo bravo
i like your impovements.. it give a softer feel.... thank you:)
so funny how words belong to the creator and come from there own experiences...
when i wrote this, it was morning and light was casting shadows across her beautiful form as we lay naked on the bed.. :bow;
litefoot77
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help me improve on this poem
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12/15/2008 2:13:38 PM
Lost within a moment
Within an hour, within my arms
Lay sleeping by my side
A precious jewel arrayed in beauty
My eyes are opened wide
Without a word like burning fire
A message from within
Awake my love, the kiss of dawn
My lips as sweetened gin
Then lost within the songs of love
The world does flee away
A moment of our life is spent
The words do fail to say
Though time stands still, yet still we breathe
Lost the hours as they flee
Still memories of that morning kiss
throughout eternity....
litefoot77 12/15/08
litefoot77
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Guys Have You Contemplated or Had a Vastectomey
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10/24/2008 5:45:00 AM
she didn't want any more kids. if i would have known i was going to be single again i prob wouldn't have done it. because i love having little ones around.
yes it hurts like somebody kicks u in the balls when he clips it...and yes i had pain during orgasm for about ten yrs after. 80 % of men do have after pain for an unspecified period, but it was a good sort of pain and it required having orgasm two times a day to clear the way... or id get sore...
that wasn't so bad....
all in all if you r sure u dont want kids, u prob shouldn't have them because it takes two to raise them and that is a life time commitment.
litefoot77
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Am I doing something wrong here?
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10/23/2008 6:17:46 PM
yes i have experienced this... some women are very irritated when touched on g-spot if it has not been fully aroused..... even if it is well lubed.... slow down and build up... once it is fully aroused u can poke it w/ a fork and it will feel good...
naaa just kidding but u get the tdea....
litefoot77
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favourite paintings
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10/23/2008 2:20:50 PM
steve hanks is my all time favorite artist... he leave u with a story https://www.artifactsgallery.com/art.asp?!=W&ID=13060 touching the surface is one of many
litefoot77
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i just can't reach orgasm :(
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10/23/2008 12:41:22 PM
Along w/ all the other really good comments.
For small clits, i would suggest trying a position that makes it easier for the man to find and stay on it. Try straddling over the top of him. Let him gently find and play.. this makes it so your blood can engorge your clit so he can find it easier. Plus his hands r free...
An added tip to those of u that enjoy a little over the top action. when she is almost there. blow like your blowing on a trumpet.... the vibration can vary so be attentive to what she likes at the time and hang on for the ride....
litefoot77
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i just can't reach orgasm :(
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10/21/2008 9:11:37 PM
no pressure from yourself or your boyfriend is the first thing id tell u.... it will cum in time.... most will not admit to this but even men can have a hard time when under pressure.... relax and play... not every person works the same so enjoy how u work....
kagals can help tremendously.... u may be tight but your pelvic floor may not be firm .... they will help, but still dont expect anything just have fun...
litefoot77
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Huge sexual issues!
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10/16/2008 2:16:35 PM
The best thing to do for an overly sensitive penis... is the desensitization program
no seriously... it will take all u have, to do it... you may even think ur going to die... but just keep rubbing that head on and over her clit and poky hair till she cums...do it every day for one wk at the end of that wk you wont know if your in or out....
u can also wear no underwear w/ scratchy jeans... but its not as much fun
litefoot77
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If you make her cum orally shouldn't she return the favor?
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10/16/2008 1:53:36 PM
plus how could u enjoy yourself if u know that your partner who is giving, is not enjoying themselves, and is just doing it because he or she owes u.... that is way wrong ... get a whore!!!
litefoot77
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If you make her cum orally shouldn't she return the favor?
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10/16/2008 1:44:44 PM
i agree w/ u atnena82 ....
just relax...what going around cums around... enjoy the journey...
litefoot77
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why do men that get it two to three times a day still cheat?
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10/16/2008 11:44:43 AM
Get up to speed, I personally know the pain of being cheated on.... we would like to think that they were just beasts of the worst kind... not all men or women cheat for the same reason.... the want for something different, revenge, lust, emotional dissatisfaction, something new...
new study show us that men's ...
59% marital dissatisfaction was emotional
29% marital dissatisfaction was sexual
12% they just cheated because they could... no reason
ref: "The truth about Cheating" Ch 2
This is far different then we have heard over the yrs, men r way more emotional then we thought...
we can go on saying that is was the beast that did it or we can... do something about keeping that early conection alive...
litefoot77
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Interesting fact about orgasms
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10/15/2008 3:59:22 PM
suzanne36, i knew u were going to ask me that:)
If u study the real the counterfeit is easy to detect... lol
Honestly most people wont lie if they r excepted and loved if they tell the truth....
I didn't say that every time I've been w/ a women she had an orgasm... but i can say that every time I've been w/ a woman she has felt comfortable enough be herself...
I think it is good to love without expecting a big or little orgasim from either... just love and be who u r... :)
maybe i have just been lucky.... suzanne36 thanks for asking
litefoot77
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Interesting fact about orgasms
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10/15/2008 3:33:32 PM
Sometimes it takes longer then others but, I have never been with a women that had to fake orgasm.... and if her mouth is cold should call her a lier?
litefoot77
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why do men that get it two to three times a day still cheat?
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10/15/2008 3:19:12 PM
According to a twenty yr study done by M.Gary Neuman who gives his finding and advice to women w/ potentially cheating men....
only 12 % of men cheat because they lack sex... that means ladies if your putting out because u dont want your guy to cheat.... u have an 88% chance that your climbing up the wrong tree
read the book: The truth about cheating, by Neuman. It may save u some pain...
litefoot77
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Finding the courage to talk to someone I like
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10/15/2008 1:02:10 AM
if you r comfortable w/ talking on line but not in person.... then u may have the same problem as i have had.... my father always told me i was ugly and i believed it.... maybe u dont feel confident about the way u look... if this is true :) the best thing to realize is that we all have been given something that is beautiful to that someone... and who knows if it isn't the one person that draws us in.....
when all is said and done it is not how u look but who u r inside that makes u attractive.....
so get out there and start fishin for that one that finds u irresistible!!!
litefoot77
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What IS intimacy, emotional intimacy?
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10/15/2008 12:47:14 AM
For me emotional intimacy is everything tho at times it is short.... it carries u though the deserts of relationships... like sexual intimacy no two happening are exactly alike...
the ingredients? two people willing to trust the other enough to be naked... and comfortable with who u r and who u have been.... to know and be known....
DANGER!!! be careful, know the heart of the one u love.....
litefoot77
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To love, honor, and... OBEY?!?
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10/15/2008 12:30:17 AM
mountaingirlee .... if this is true, i could see how that "oboedire" (To Hear) could follow the natural path of love...
how many of Hear our own bodies when they r in need of attn.
litefoot77
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all guys wants from me is sex.. but not a relationship... why is that?
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10/4/2008 12:02:00 AM
History seems to repeat itself.... i wonder if there may be a confused message that u r giving these guys, that u r ok with casual sex...
u may not be ok with this.... but r afraid to stickup for this somewhat unpopular view of having one partner for life.
litefoot77
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alcoholic behavior.... can that change?
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10/3/2008 11:47:13 PM
my dear girl....
The only change that u can be sure of is the change that needs to take place in your own life... let him figure out his own change...
u seem like a sweet girl, but more then anything u need support from a counselor that will open up to u why u r drawn to an abusive relationship...
get out and get well and then maybe u can truly love him...
be safe... and god be with u
litefoot77
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beautiful people, ugly genitals...
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9/22/2008 8:10:34 PM
sineadeebaybee, u tell ur friend that there r men out there that would love to play w/ those dangling wings...
litefoot77
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beautiful people, ugly genitals...
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9/22/2008 3:04:11 PM
[ Maybe there is more of a difference in women?]
Prissymae, clitoris dot com, has more pic then u would care to see of real normal people for those that don't want to ask there friends or think they don't measure up... they r all different and beautiful
thats not to say we don't have our preferences
litefoot77
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Victims of child sex abuse.How does it affect your dating and relationships?
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9/19/2008 9:11:52 AM
some reason like a magnet women who have been sexual abuse as children have connected with me... maybe because i was a safe place for my foster sister to go when we were growing up...
i married into a family that had 3 girls, all violated by step dad....
all 3 related to men differently, and differently as they went through there forties.... my wife was caring and loving most of our 30 yr marrige but totally fliped out at age 43... and took all of her past anger for her dad out on me and our boys....
i think it is interesting how that while they were adolescence they played different roles in relating to this creep ( one resistant, one completely shut down the other wanting to always please. ) but all i think were doing what they could to survive...
my heart go out to anyone that has had to go through forced abuse... it is the abusers fault and problem, give it back to them!!!!
may u find healing...
litefoot77
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My boyfriend is addicted to strip clubs
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9/17/2008 8:07:14 AM
my sister in law was a stripper and ive talked to her and her friends and i also have a friend that is an addict. i've gone a few times and honestly its interesting but can't say that it does much for me.
they don't love u....
soooo this is my take
99% of these girls dont give a hoot about the men that r paying them to act like they like them... they just want to get through collage...
the funny thing is that most of the men know that these girls dont like them... but they r willing to pay money to believe for the time it takes to play a song... that this girl would just do anything to have him...
sooo maybe u can strip for him.... but make sure he pays u.... lol
or better yet go to club on amature night and see how he likes that....
if u dont like him the way he is, leave him, because it will only get worse....
addictions like this dont go away when u show disapproval, they just go in hiding...
litefoot77
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Honeymoon stage
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9/16/2008 10:10:57 PM
the honey moon stage can last as long as u both want it to.... don't ever let those early affections go away... it takes work but it is worth it....
the key is before the honey moon know ur partner as a friend....
litefoot77
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Being with 1 partner for life
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9/16/2008 10:05:01 PM
yes, without a doubt this is the best, if u r and stay connected.... the longer u r together the better it should be in all parts of marriage...
but does it always work that way? no! and there is little u can do to save it if your partner wants to move on....
people go thru different phases in there life and have to let them...
litefoot77
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Performing oral on circumcised penis
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9/16/2008 11:59:00 AM
I love oral but but have rarely cum that way. I was with someone for too many yrs that didnt like that part of it.... soooo i just never did. i think that could be reversed if my partner just absolutely enjoyed it... talk to him maybe theres something he likes more then another.... sometimes i set silent goals in my head and say when she does this or that i will explode.... listen to his body ...
litefoot77
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HOW TO LOOK GOOD NAKED
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9/11/2008 1:58:35 PM
one : u should never be ashamed or bring shame on anyone else for how they look... we all have different metabolisms. and have gone thru different things in life to bring us where we r... this is not to say that we should not in a reasonable way try to stay fit... just don't put that on someone else...
two: no society will not ever accept the bulge, as a good thing... unless ur society includes nudest societies. they r pretty much down with anything.... in my opinion a heavy person looks less heavy in the nude....
litefoot77
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fourplay or sex. Which ones better if you had to choose
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9/2/2008 11:41:08 PM
I can enjoy foreplay without sex, but sex without foreplay just doesn't do much for me.... love da journey...
litefoot77
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do I cheat after almost 20 years?
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8/25/2008 4:28:37 PM
cheating is like,
getting drunk when your depressed over not having a job!
life only gets worse after cheating. i have never heard anyone tell me they were sooo glad they did...
when kids r involved cheating is the biggest mistake u will ever make and it never goes away...
do something good for family go to a counselor and never talk to or call your cheating partner again. if u think u will make a life with him u r wrong, u will never trust him, he is not worth it...
do the right thing. do what u would want him or your girl to do for u...
litefoot77
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Is it silly these days to have old fashioned standards regarding sex when dating?
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7/25/2008 8:49:09 AM
Im with u on this one brighteyes
Enjoy every stage of courtship... there is only once the first time... u can never go back...
litefoot77
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Pre Nups
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7/25/2008 8:26:56 AM
There is one thing we can be sure of.... people change!
The worst can bring out the worst.
29 yrs and 3 mo ago i never imagened till death do u part ment the killing of the heart and soul. The deeper the love
the stronger the hate.
I look at it this way; pre nups safegard u from the bitterness that could come from a bad divorce. And may even make it possible to be best friends afterwards.
It also takes the money out of the attorneys hands
litefoot77
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feeling insecure naked......
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7/22/2008 12:56:20 AM
i dont know what other men do, but... i enjoy the differences of one body to another... u r who u r and that is what makes u special... :) some women have labled me as butt ass gorgeous. but a body is only beautiful as it is different....
being naked and comfortable is a step u dont want to miss...
litefoot77
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Is it time?
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6/7/2008 7:36:52 PM
why would u want to be with someone u fight with?
is your ticket round trip?
do u have friends near by that dont know him?
does he go to a church or a place of work that u can talk to someone that knows him for who he is?
i would talk to someone that he knows that there was no possible way he could prep them....
hook up with a church or org prior to going they will be your safety net..
God be with u..
litefoot77
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Squirting...can this be learned?
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6/7/2008 2:58:46 PM
yes it can be learned
http://www.the-clitoris.com/ is the a non porno but most informitive on every level for this and many more subjects.. gook luck..
litefoot77
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Finding out if a woman likes sex
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6/5/2008 11:25:46 PM
cgy121..... do you have any intimacy issues with friends or a significant other both emotionally and physically?
this will only work if the person is in place where they can see that they have issues.... i have found that most see there former partner as the one that had the issue.... and that you as there new partner is the key to there vindication...
try and ask all the right questions it may give u a clue, but dont hold them to the answers or u may be let down....
kindness goes a long way....
"A brused reed He will not break...."
litefoot77
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Finding out if a woman likes sex
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6/5/2008 9:59:25 AM
many times the abused person doesnt know how deeply they have been damaged.... and if u were to ask them they really couldnt tell u if they liked sex or not.... they certainly want too....
they know they didnt like being used and abused... and r hoping for a normal relationship, not really even knowing what that feels like...
i have personaly helped someone thru this, and found it very rewarding, but it takes a constant unpressured effort to make them feel safe.
show effection in ways they are comfortable, let them know u are happy with just this..... and u will be suprized at the progress that can be made.... never not even one make them feel like they owe u some sexual favor...
good luck....
litefoot77
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What Makes You Feel Great?
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5/24/2008 11:20:43 AM
being a family........ looking into my lovers eyes and knowing that someone special loves me... when one of my kids talks heart to heart w/ me...
litefoot77
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Why do some women stay in abusive relationships?
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5/20/2008 11:59:41 AM
kittenshere41, im sorry to hear about those 6 yrs no one should ever have to go thru that.
In general most men r stronger then women, however if that man was raised with respect for all women.
strength no longer becomes a factor.
The man may walk away as the women is beating on him. but what about the children he leaves behind with this out of control person.
There is only one time that i have ever restrained a women, she was unharmed . I would do it again too.
In a rage this mother was holding the boy by the hair and with her fist beating this 5yr old boy for farting, Yelling at him that he was not going to be like his dad. I went over to her and asked her to stop, her reply was." hes my child i can do whatever the hell i want to." I took her down and held her till she was safe.
weather man or women we should always protect the week, if we are able.
kitten why didn't u move away? i do understand fear but to blame him for staying there, is giving him more power then he has.
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Why do some women stay in abusive relationships?
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5/19/2008 10:05:14 PM
Because they r programmed as a child to think that the abuse doesn’t hurt them. They r desensitized by fathers and mothers who manipulate there children into doing good or bad things. With tools like guilt, shame, and belittling.... Is it any wonder that we accept this sort of behavior from our spouse?.....
At 44 a councilor asked me why I laugh when my wife poked fun at me in a demeaning way.. The first time I told her those things weren’t true was very hard... From that time on she didn’t belittle me in front of the kids... and started to pull away from me. She had lost her control......
Take back the life and respect that God has given u and say i am a child of the King, u will not talk down to me....
Give them no power....
litefoot77
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Sexual Routine
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5/19/2008 9:12:15 PM
I was with the same women for 28 yrs and very active... it seemed like the love making as a whole was never the same as was before.... but there were little bits and pieces that worked, so we would repeat those notes, but in a different sequence... thus a new song every time
litefoot77
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Ok, how serious of a drug problem is marijuana???
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5/19/2008 6:22:54 PM
its not matter of weather i would date a crack user or pot smoker.... i wouldnt do either!!!!
pot smokers in general have good ideas but cant follow though....drinking has its mood changing effects too....for the most part, i like to enjoy life as it is.... and i like women who do too...
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