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Joined: 7/18/2005

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ladies any advice for men on meeting in real life? Posted: 1/19/2006 9:44:21 AM
Brian...you must be retarded then. Personally, I am no supermodel. However, I dont like picking up women in bars or clubs. And I am nice enough not to want to intrude on there everyday lives. Especially when ninety percent of them are where ever it is i see them for a specific reason. Im happy with who I am. I have alot of friends. When ever I go out people like me instantly. Im a nice guy. I have friends who could be models and they are on here just for the same reason. One freind hates clubs and bars. He is currently in a relationship with a psycho girl he met in everyday life. But when hes not he gets on here generally to find dates. Hes a smart, laid back, funny guy. He just doesnt like doing things the conventional way. Alot of girls i find are very busy with everyday life and dont have time to sit around and pick up guys. Or vice versa. Me personally..yea I definitly have more time on my hands then i know what to do with but thats my choice. Just because your online doesnt mean there is something wrong with you and Ill bet my 130 pt IQ against yours anyday. Think before you speak. And besides....what are you doing on here anyways if your perfect.

Joined: 7/18/2005

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Could someone please tell me the time? Posted: 1/14/2006 4:39:07 PM
1439 hours in Dayton, ohio and im bored out of my mind.

Joined: 7/18/2005

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Why to women cheat!? Posted: 11/1/2005 4:54:51 AM
THERE IS NO **ING EXCUSE TO CHEAT!!!...I dont care how good the person looked or how right it felt or how bored you were. Talk it over with your partner and if everything and I do mean everything and all else fails....leave the relationship, but ladies and gents please, please never cheat on your loved ones. THAT SHIT ING HURTS. And if your going to do it anyways, and this is especially geared towards women....if your gonna cheat on your guy, then when he finds out dont say somthing like y are you being like this or what cant you be more mature. We arent gonna be happy about it. Me personally ....im gonna be an hole about it. I definitely wont be mature about it. Ill probably dump your ass faster than a leper with one left nut. It hurts. What did you expect? You just ripped out my heart. So ladies ...And gents please dont cheat. Its a stupid, and i reiterate stupid ***ing thing to do. Thanx.

Joined: 7/18/2005

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dreamgirl was just that.......... Posted: 10/28/2005 6:18:15 AM
knightrd....try it....I want you to think of your most coveted item...no matter what it is...your lifes goal..a car....a girl....whatever it is. Now imagine someone puts it right into your hands.....on a silver platter. Now imagine your the happiest person in the world. Your in love. Your heart beats a thousand times faster at the very mention of it. BANG!!....Its gone. Now tell me how that feels. Dont give me that better to have loved and lost then to never have loved at all bullshit. It hurts like only the worst kind of pain can. Like having someone rip your heart from your chest with no anesthetic. I dont care who you are..it hurts and if it doesnt your not human. Dude...if you think it was meant to be then you go back and fight for her. For all your worth. If you dont and you lose her you may find another some day but it will never be the same. Its like lightning its your body ..the moment you see her for the first time. I know. And to have that ripped from your hand hurts like nothing else in the world. Good luck and best wishes on getting her back.

Joined: 7/18/2005

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is there no hope for large guys Posted: 10/27/2005 2:25:17 PM
Dude...this may sound cruel and uncaring but trust me...its honesty in all its glory. Get off the "Im big" thing. Im 6 foot and 280 lbs. I dropped thirty five pounds this summer but dropping my calorie intake to a thousand or less. But i ate healthy when i ate. I drank juice and kept my vitamins up. Its all about...and anybody who knows what they are talking about will tell you this....SELF CONFIDENCE. Which granted, here lately mines feeling shot. It seems like everygirl ive come across wants to be friends. Ive been stood up on dates on the last eight that ive set up. ..and yes i have witnesses. How pathetic is that. Im happy with myself though. Im a nice guy. I work at a hospital helping people who cant do for themselves. If a girl can even find a fault with me i dont know what it is. I cook. I clean. I worship my girlfriends and im fiercly loyal to my friends and family and loved ones. Im always willing to put others first. Im funny and ill even laugh at myself to get people laughing. If a girl doesnt wanna date me then oh well. If someone has a problem with the fact im a big guy then i have a few choice words for them.Otherwise, be happy with yourself. Screw what others think. Keep going. Youll find someone. Just walk around with your head high like your the biggest baddest man on the face of Gods green earth. Things will turn around for you.

Joined: 7/18/2005

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Why are older women not into younger guys??? Posted: 10/9/2005 9:41:46 PM
Ok you all have very good points....But..the man is correct. I am only 25 and granted thats only like five years older but i am definitly down for dating an older woman. Im charming, romantic, and extremely polite. I work in a hospital where i work with mostly girls. Ninety percent of which are 35 or older. I have absolutely no problem with this. In fact ive even dated two or three of these smart older more experianced women. I wont necessarily date someone over 40 unless given special circumstances. I was forced to grow up early in life. My parents left me at home by myself when i was eight and i never got to do the immature, party all night, get arrested thing. I learned to cook, clean and generally live life on my own. I have spent my entire life growing up around beautiful women older than me and in fact find it easier to approach an older women than some little girl who has no clue what shes doing. So ladies .....please, please, before you pass up a guy whos younger at least say hi and give him a chance. Some of us are not all snot nosed brats who just crawled out of the diaper. We are younger mature men who know what we are doing. Im 25 and dont date often. Im looking for a girl to settle down with myself. I actually kinda want a kid. They are cute and aside from the smells and body fluids they arent too bad. So like i said ...at least say hi and give a guy a chance. Have a nice day.

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