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stoowart

Joined: 7/19/2005

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error message Posted: 10/6/2009 8:19:59 AM
What is it now? how many hrs later and still not working? That's with allowing for the time it took anyone to post.... and debsy here has even pasted in the whole page, pretty much too! What i've noticed is...you can still view profiles and send new mail to them as you view, you can still go to the 'viewed me' section the two main culprits for this error seem to be favourites and inbox....oh and let's not forget the 'contact pof' option to report or complain too....

stoowart

Joined: 7/19/2005

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Cant cum through sex? Posted: 8/11/2009 9:15:09 AM
How about asking someone who has a 'professional' clue and not refer to this very limited, opinionated and issue loaded place? Hell I bet even wikipedia would be more useful than most anything you'll hear here.... It's all about the difference between objective and subjective and not one of the posters here including me can be truly objective for you or truly subjective to your own situation...(cos they aint you) just a thought :)

stoowart

Joined: 7/19/2005

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Are Irish Women Very Shallow Posted: 5/29/2009 5:21:04 PM
Depends how deep you need to 'probe' i guess ^^ on a side note (and more importantly) where the f is grundy?????

stoowart

Joined: 7/19/2005

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do you'se wonder why you'se are single girls? Posted: 2/27/2009 11:44:44 AM
yes, perhaps a lil premmy there op but this thread has raised a couple of points which are of note in my lil corner of pofworld.... For instance op's topic....now the 3 or 4 messages stage is a bit ambitious for getting the hump i'll admit..but what of when this kind of thing happens after days of messaging and much time spent on say msn or even the fone to each other? Sometimes weeks of communication even? Surely there is a stage where it is completely out of line to just cut off and in effect 'disapppear' permanently for no obvious reason? or none at all, or something lame right out of the pages of 'jackie' or sim as an excuse.... Also the um 'tribal network' thing does this perhaps extend itself to this group of contacts serially attracting then cutting off a person one after another to for instance? and why would they do this?

stoowart

Joined: 7/19/2005

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Hands up and all say 'aye' if you are Irish and believe that means we are a unique race .. Posted: 2/18/2009 1:53:59 AM
Scary......I like it! fe fi fo whatnow? I believe I may have had an invite...

stoowart

Joined: 7/19/2005

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Hands up and all say 'aye' if you are Irish and believe that means we are a unique race .. Posted: 2/16/2009 6:48:16 AM
Think before you type? Where's the spontaneity in that? huh? HUH? ^^ Meh! I spend a lot of time in an online browser based game as leader of a spammy bunch of spartan tribesmen and women who comm through a multi-topic forum page . I quit trying to regulate them and their manners and spam levels on forums a long time ago, find it much easier to watch, laff and join in really :) Also, with it being a global game (750k+ ppl worldwide) it's actually built into the rules not to flame people for 'ropey grammar' and spelling etc as long as they can get their idea across then it's tolerated. Ahem, so ye, don't always get back in time to edit the smaller points on my posts or bother myself with some of the errors, and sometimes 'gor blimey!' I actually make deliberate ones for conversational tone and effect...

stoowart

Joined: 7/19/2005

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HAPPY just another saturday :p Posted: 2/15/2009 10:19:24 AM
:) mr shot we all are of course completely free to opine... However I doubt my personal opinion in a less than 3 page thread in a free dating site is really going to be a cause for mass hysteria or bulk non purchasing of somewhat tarnished by greed dreams....besides that halmark were my initial target that I expressed was my hope for bankruptcy in a somewhat cavalier and humourous manner i felt and they do have a heck of a lot to answer for...that IS a widely held opinion by many...pffft! anyhoo nuff o that dry stick stuff :) and onto angel will you marry me? let's make it feb 14th next year I hear that's just the romanticest day ever for such things and we might even get on the telly....

stoowart

Joined: 7/19/2005

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Hands up and all say 'aye' if you are Irish and believe that means we are a unique race .. Posted: 2/15/2009 10:06:56 AM
Now i've heard all about this 'oirish art of courtship' many times... Aaaaaah! Finally! and what a joy to see it in probably one of it's highest and most refined forms, ten out of ten grundy and average (where did the rest of the band go by the way? They were ok in the 70's i think) I propose we all attend the wedding ceremony forthwith and without further ado so these lovebirds can get that knot tied asap and banter joyously forevermore in the privacy of the bridal bedroom....hopefully with the lights out Honestly tho A man who knows how to hold a guitar really shouldn't show himselflup with a bad case of premature typulation like that it's just plain messy...sing to us baby, something with soul.

stoowart

Joined: 7/19/2005

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HAPPY just another saturday :p Posted: 2/15/2009 2:15:58 AM
malethingy I think that about any cynical manipulation of peoples emotions for material gain so i'd have to say yes, yes I would, and i'm sure many caterers out there simply tweaked the wording on thier regular menu's to charge more because of the 'special night' for much the same outlay as any other night they cater for...so that would fall into this category too.

stoowart

Joined: 7/19/2005

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HAPPY just another saturday :p Posted: 2/14/2009 4:02:08 PM
ye well i'm not au fait with the fine art of working the forum and prolly not wanting to be either so there ya harridan.. whaddya mean been done? 'sniff' I don't think I shall bother then 'flounce' so theres been mention of a 'subbys are easy' t-shirt before has there? hmmm? just a for instance i'm sure subbys have high standards just like anyone else of course...

stoowart

Joined: 7/19/2005

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HAPPY just another saturday :p Posted: 2/14/2009 2:31:59 PM
ooh hello um all, not allowed to of curse converse directly as i seem to remember in can we? not that i am by saying that either um um bout time someone i'm not having a conversation with at all showed up tho me cutty well i was just pondering the whole bdsm thing and had a few ideas for 'slogan t-shirts' ya think that would um 'threadable' ? oh blah blah I see they still do the 2 out of 10 posts ball ix too....'sigh' where are ya wife? gone again already?

stoowart

Joined: 7/19/2005

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HAPPY just another saturday :p Posted: 2/14/2009 2:17:34 PM
Attention whatnow? hhhhheeell no! bored maybe i can give you that ;) but um no, i've been lurking round these halls way too long to be seeking anything but the way out really ^^ I just figured there might be a bunch of/few ppl in who weren't all that bothered by 'out there' and um 'popped a thread' ooer

stoowart

Joined: 7/19/2005

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HAPPY just another saturday :p Posted: 2/14/2009 1:35:23 PM
In complete disregard for for all those people out there splitting up tonight Ijust wanted to wish anyone who is listening.. A happy just another saturday night :) That's right, just a regular day, nothing goin on here boss Quite sorted not having to be sheeplike following the herd to the florists or chocolatiers etc etc hallamrk won't be getting one red cent out of me and I hope they go bankrupt for it. hello :)

stoowart

Joined: 7/19/2005

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Self esteem and injured pride... Posted: 2/9/2009 3:42:50 AM
Have to agree with sev of the posts about having built things up over time online and then when reality ends up biting it's a bit of a blow, been there a few times myself :) I've come to the conclusion on that, that no amount of 'virtual time' and 'sweet' tex messages and fone chats etc etc are a replacement for actually sitting in the same 'actual' place and interracting just like we all used to in the 'good old days' ....spending real time and getting to know each other is the only real way to success in these things. Even then of course you still run the risk of 'hurt' at a later date but at least you aren't building something up like a house of cards to have it come tumbling down first time you meet...funny thing is I think that if you actually do spend time with a person getting along for real then the 'letdown' aspect if one comes is probably easier to deal with because the whole thing was real and in front of you not some 'virtual dreamscape' 'shrugs' :) it's a funny old game eh? ^^

stoowart

Joined: 7/19/2005

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Self esteem and injured pride... Posted: 2/7/2009 3:21:29 AM
Yay! I can post again! thank you for the rapid response guys :) No! this is not me i'm talking about lol god no! but i was waiting for something to go on before expanding...hang on lemme read over what you've all said... Yes, good replies...what it is it really isn't me if i'm unwanted then i'm unwanted...you can lead a horse to water etc etc...maybe i'll hurt breifly and maybe even feel like lashing out if it's me in such a situation but you limit the time you give yourself to wallow...that's if you even feel the need to, then you close that box and put it way huh? I just happen to know of someone who has been put in a situation where the guy can't seem to let go and thought peoples thoughts on such could be helpful for both parties involved...again, thank you for the rapid and well said replies here stu :)

stoowart

Joined: 7/19/2005

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Self esteem and injured pride... Posted: 2/7/2009 1:15:07 AM
Where exactly is the line on this kind of thing? I mean, for example....A guy meets a girl they see each other for about a week then one realises it's not really for them and breaks it off... Perhaps this breakpoint wasn't made as gently as it could have been but sometimes these things aren't easy to do gently, are they? Anyhoo point in question is..ok, you may be hurt by it, you may suffer from a sudden drop in self-esteem, your pride may be hurt and you may harbour thoughts of 'payback' for your 'imagined injuries' etc but where do you draw the line on this and your 'crazy thoughts? Discuss ^^

stoowart

Joined: 7/19/2005

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Thursday's Leeds Singles Meet - Feedback Posted: 2/6/2009 11:02:56 AM
Crikey! Ye that would be offputting mate sorry to hear that :( I don't think we actually spoke on the evening perhaps now I know why lol As I said in my hard hitting 'critique' ^^ no probs with the evening itself just the venue really ....good luck with the new/next one, sounding good :)

stoowart

Joined: 7/19/2005

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Thursday's Leeds Singles Meet - Feedback Posted: 2/4/2009 8:56:34 AM
mmmmm, drinks deffo silly money...only way to get a pint was all the way back downstairs (all 3 flights of them) which turned out marginally less 'wallet-rending' than a single bottle from the bar in the room itself...dunno really seemed to me there was too many people for such a small room making it like a sauna in there and preventing easy mingling...piped music wasn't exactly to my taste either and it seemed as soon as conversations started to pick up they turned it up... All in all the event itself turned out ok for me but this was more down to random chance than anything else^^ but the venue? pffft naaaaaah mate! not good mate sorry There's a pub called spencers next to the scarborough which is in short and easy distance of the railway station and thusly buses and taxis too and a pint of 'reassuringly expensive' my personal fave pint is 2.50 in there so not all town centre places are taking the mick and tbh the layout of spencers is good too the building being a large circle with a round bar in the middle and also balcony sections too.. I mean if ppl preffered the living room because they know the place i'd imagine they were a bit surprised to be shoved out of sight in that wee black dungeon where you had to shove ya coats in a pile behind a curtain where the bar stools had been stashed. All in all for what I guess is meant to be an 'upmarket' venue the facilities were a bit primitive in our area of 'activity'....and the toilets? designed by midgets for midgets or what? That turbo hand drier jobby was entertaining tho.. Don't take offence this is my opinion as asked for, like I said I ended up having a good night but don't think i'd be rushing back to a do in that place again soz :)

stoowart

Joined: 7/19/2005

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Thursday 29th Jan - Leeds Singles Meet @ Henrys Café Bar Posted: 1/22/2009 6:43:53 AM
Ummm...well...after what seems an epoch in this place mebbe will see what's lurking in the bottom of my 'rainy day sock' and actually do one of these things....^^

stoowart

Joined: 7/19/2005

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whats his problem? Posted: 1/28/2008 8:56:47 AM
I haven't read all the posts but out of interest....and this may seem a strange question.... however as I noticed all the first few posts are knocking the guy and nobody seemed to be going this way with it.....one thing that springs to mind is that maybe your mate isn't noticeably appreciative during the act? I mean, not every woman squirms like a bag of eels and moans like 'ho' to coin a phrase lol is it possible he was used to a bit more life in his previous partners and felt he had to ask because from the way she was in the act he had no idea whether she liked it or not? A non-responsive partner can be very disconcerting doncha know..... aaah! scrolls back a few posts someone else did ask the same kinda thing lol

stoowart

Joined: 7/19/2005

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Star Signs Posted: 12/15/2007 7:24:47 AM
ya gotta laff at all these folk who say 'my ex was etc etc so obviously it's wrong' erm HELLO? you married them din't you? duh!

stoowart

Joined: 7/19/2005

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Is it wrong for a Lady to be offended when called WOMAN? Posted: 10/16/2007 1:58:52 PM
smacks of weakness and extreme insecurity to even care about titles that aren't actually harmful in any way whatsoever.....prozac any1?

stoowart

Joined: 7/19/2005

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Why don't men write anything/much in their profiles? Posted: 1/20/2007 1:44:08 AM
ye right, cos there isn't a plethora of womens' profiles that just have pics and very little else on at all.....try trawling both sexes in order to be informed eh?

stoowart

Joined: 7/19/2005

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Do homosexuals need to be protected from religious bigotry? Posted: 1/12/2007 6:06:05 AM
erm isn't there a lil thing along the lines of "the management reserve the right to refuse etc etc" with which they don't really have to explain themselves as it's their choice and on the subject of choice why is it that people feel they can take other people to court for not making the same choices as them? aren't rights supposed to be equal for all? just to make a point including single white straight males? who it seems to me from the perspective of being one have the least rights of anyone in this 'oi, i'm being hard done by, protect me at great cost" society we seem to be living in....

stoowart

Joined: 7/19/2005

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Harrassing... not taking NO for an answer... Posted: 12/24/2006 9:34:08 AM
you didn't steal his white stick did you?

stoowart

Joined: 7/19/2005

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Easy going or not willing to learn? Posted: 12/1/2006 8:01:41 AM
sorry, not getting it, what's the point/question? was it something about a framework of conversational causality developing from association and understanding over the fullness of time from what was initailly instinctive and true? nope, missed it completely i think...

stoowart

Joined: 7/19/2005

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Electronic tagging Posted: 10/12/2006 3:12:23 AM
i wouldn't worry about it too much we're all gonna be 'tagged' soon anyway......oh...as in these great new i.d. cards that are going to be forced on us

stoowart

Joined: 7/19/2005

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Boot Camp for teenage thugs Posted: 10/11/2006 3:12:29 AM
Isn't a lot of the problem about example and disillusion? how can you expect young (or any to a degree) people to understand how to behave when they see people such as politicians, sportsmen and sportswomen, police officers, pop, t.v. and, movie stars "getting away with it" on a regular basis? It's not all kids or all our leaders but as the saying goes "s.h.i.t rolls downhill" and if those "at the top can do what they please without due recourse why can't we/I? We seem to living in a world where accountability and responsibilty are invisible and there must be something wrong with you if you have a problem with that....I dunno I suppose like all schemes you'd get some positive results and some that fall through the net I can't help feeling that any "solution" at the root will be a bit like trying to nail jelly to the ceiling whilst those in prominence continue to do as they please without due recourse tho :)

stoowart

Joined: 7/19/2005

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why are all the goodones so far away!! Posted: 9/30/2006 10:46:07 AM
Maybe it's a security thing? I've messaged quite a few people who are local to me and most of them don't even bother to reply, however those 'halfway across the country' seem much happier to reply and have a chat, perhaps people are scared that if they talk to someone from thier own town they will cross paths at the shops or sim and shatter the whole safe 'fantasy at a distance' aspect that the net offers?

stoowart

Joined: 7/19/2005

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Boot Camp for teenage thugs Posted: 9/30/2006 7:55:10 AM
Although at first this idea appears to have some merit and i'm not about to offer an alternative solution, it seems to me that putting the 'little darlings' all together in an environment where they could swop tips on how to be even more obnoxious and where the regime will also be making them harder, stronger and, faster physically could have a downside? just a thought....

stoowart

Joined: 7/19/2005

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Loyalty to friends Posted: 9/28/2006 2:38:34 PM
oh goodness, it's like ya very own version of eastenders innit? i'm welling up as i type really i am.....did i say eastenders???? naaaaah mate naaaah! jerry springfield is sooo much more like it, bless you all etc etc ad infinitum

stoowart

Joined: 7/19/2005

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What do you girls think about guys with guns? Posted: 9/27/2006 10:23:59 AM
can't be bothered to troll through all 10 pages to see if this has been mentioned but isn't this like the "big car syndrome"?

stoowart

Joined: 7/19/2005

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Odd how no one replied to my last post Posted: 9/27/2006 10:21:01 AM
hmmm, how many miles away can sharks "smell" blood in the water again?..............

stoowart

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What hurts more............ Posted: 9/26/2006 5:51:53 PM
look i dunno, i've just spent 4 days fighting wiv me pc to resurrect after it died for no apparent reason on saturday, then a mutual acquaintance to some of the posters on this thread led me in this direction and encouraged me, so there ya go, sorry but it was never my intention to be relevant or make sense IS THAT SUCH A CRIME????? oh hang on, are you referring to the goddess of agriculture comment? well all i can say is she's here and probably knows who she is otherwise why choose the name?? huh? HUH? Hmmmm, how much more do i need to write to beat the 2 post rule? yep, that worked

stoowart

Joined: 7/19/2005

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What hurts more............ Posted: 9/26/2006 5:30:53 PM
i suppose it would depend which one was heavier and how high it fell from before hitting you....goddess of agriculture eh? ....looks down who me? didn't say a thing, ok ok i knew the name from somewhere and it bugged me so i looked it up.....oh hang on isn't this the point i shouldv lied.....hmmm, like i said i didn't say a thing......lookout! herd of charging wildebeast (now that WOULD hurt) oh sorry i thought the thread was which hurts more mice or geese my mistake....can i go yet?

stoowart

Joined: 7/19/2005

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What hurts more............ Posted: 9/26/2006 4:06:14 PM
well there was that time i rode me yamaha into the back of a car on xch by-pass the big hole they stitched up in me knee was pretty bad but it was the snidey doctor who said "just lift your arm as high as you can" then when it was hurtin like heck whammied me dislocated shoulder back in and escaped b4 i could see again....so i guess it was the shoulder in that case and it wasn't even cold! y'know it was 3 yrs b4 i could sleep on that side without discomfort, nasty it was!

stoowart

Joined: 7/19/2005

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The meaning of life Posted: 7/10/2006 1:15:25 PM
soliwhat? you can just tell by the length of his posts he's not from round here cant you? i'd love to help you along with arguments such as, god? how come every culture has one? which one are you referring to? and how plenty of species of animal have proven themselves capable of "evil acts" whilst others show themselves capable of love and spirit so where do you get such a comment from? but to be honest if i wanted a sermon i'd go to a church, soz

stoowart

Joined: 7/19/2005

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The meaning of life Posted: 7/7/2006 8:03:02 AM
is it me? or isn't there something a tad sinister about a god who says he?...she?...is the only one and all the others are just evil and trying to lead you astray??? why does 2 plus 2 equal 4? (allegedly) now that's a real mystery......

stoowart

Joined: 7/19/2005

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Sonic mood swings of multiple indifference Posted: 7/4/2006 11:32:47 AM
surely that's SELF-justification isn't it? after all the enjoyment of the finer things in life is often at the expense of the masses and therefore needs certain pre-requiste adjustments of your value system in order to clarify a personalised state of psuedo guilt-free enjoyment of same.... oh excuse me a mo i seem to have a strange variety of bug creeping up me leg, get off ya bugger! damn that visitor from porlock i've forgotten the rest now 'sigh'

stoowart

Joined: 7/19/2005

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No one likes the gothic evil guy aka Me Posted: 7/1/2006 12:07:46 PM
y'know it might make you a bit more credible in your attempts at raking broadsides about ppls appearance if you actually had one clf....mobile? is that a place or justa trailer?

stoowart

Joined: 7/19/2005

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The commune Posted: 6/26/2006 9:56:56 AM
firestarter methinx, and i'd have to say the west country somewhere, good summers, mild winters and crops grow good there, plus of course the moors and nearby coastline on 2 sides for huntin and fishin....

stoowart

Joined: 7/19/2005

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What do you think of a peron committing suicide over a broken heart?? Posted: 6/26/2006 9:18:01 AM
sure it hurts it hurts like hell, ya feel like ya gonna die for a spell but suicide is just plain nasty, selfish and a tad narcissistic and vengeful you aint doin it to escape, ya doin it to lay blame at the other persons door and it shows a complete lack of concern for the feelings of everyone else who has ever been a part of your life, i just can't see how it shows any feelings to inflict such a thing as that on those around you, it's totally not clever and it's probably true that most who "attempt" do it in such a way theyl be found saved and made a fuss of and that's just sick and twisted, erm got a bit carried away there but it's how i see it soz :)

stoowart

Joined: 7/19/2005

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No one likes the gothic evil guy aka Me Posted: 6/26/2006 9:09:09 AM
have you tried gothicmatch? just a thought....

stoowart

Joined: 7/19/2005

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How do you break an obsession with someone? Posted: 6/18/2006 5:35:36 AM
to be honest i havent read every single post here so i may be repeating somebody else's thoughts.....but one thing to think on is that the only one hurting or doing this thinking is you so it's a form of self hurting, the other person is blithely carrying on with oblivious to all this torture you are inflicting on yourself, this gives you the thought to use that "they don't give a damn why should i?" hmmm, i think i'm probably gonna make this one about little thoughts to arm yourself with, anyway i digress, little mantra's or acts or self discipline do help "i'm going to get over this some time, what's wrong with now?" fpr instance, another one is whenever you catch yourself having these thoughts to clamp down on yourself and drive them away again using thoughts like the aforementioned (or even a little anger) it wont happen in an instant but you can to a degree "condition" yourself away from it, it will take an amount of fortitude and patience tho , and one day you will wake up and realise "hey, my head's clear!" this may only last a few minutes but from then on you're on the way forwards, goodluck :)

stoowart

Joined: 7/19/2005

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Good Luck England, We're ALL behind you ALL the Way!!!! Posted: 6/15/2006 11:19:05 AM
OMG! has sven actually got a strategy for a change??? keep growing into it boys kin excellent!

stoowart

Joined: 7/19/2005

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The truth may hurt, but I'll try to be gentle - promise! Posted: 6/7/2006 6:46:53 AM
and there was me thinking that the general rule with "comma's" to put them after all conjunctions, and, to give pronunciational emphasis.....

stoowart

Joined: 7/19/2005

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Messy Hair Styles Posted: 6/7/2006 2:34:27 AM
erm....oh...sorry, wrong page....;)

stoowart

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What would you do? Posted: 6/3/2006 2:45:02 PM
reminds me of a game myself and a mate played many yrs ago we'd get a couple bunches of flowers and waltz up to (well, approach) girls passing by and give them one of the flowers explaining that they we're the girl of the day/moment passing us by and the flower was a free gift in theyr honour that and nothing else, no chat up attempt, no askin for a date a simple gift for passing by, was a nice game and made the world a smilier place somehow we thought.....anyway back to the question if the person showed enough savvy that it was a thought out ploy (and they weren't blatantly mental) then that's kinda flattering and after a few minutes chat to assess if they were approximately stable or not i might well take em up on it if it turned out to be an originality thing....after all theyv made the effort what's there to lose?

stoowart

Joined: 7/19/2005

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Auctions Posted: 6/2/2006 6:59:10 AM
gazuntheid! that sounds a bit nasty bob you bin snogging geese again?

stoowart

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1st meeting after break up Posted: 6/2/2006 3:44:24 AM
perhaps you should invest in a crystal ball? or see a medium? both of which are excellent ways to get glimpses into the future without actually having to be there......ern.....so i'm told....

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