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missdi123

Joined: 3/19/2008

Msg: 23 (view)

Single Bashing Posted: 11/23/2009 5:00:59 PM
LOL At the last job I was the married girls were all fat, had little kids and never got out. Had no money to buy cool clothes, had no money to go to the stylish hair dresser and never were "allowed to go out with the girls". They couldn't even go to work functions without their husbands being there watching and controlling how much they are drinking and clinging to them. I really felt sorry for them and I was thankful not to be in their situation :) Being single has it's good sites:)

missdi123

Joined: 3/19/2008

Msg: 72 (view)

I don't care that he did, but WHY DID HE HAVE TO LIE? Posted: 11/13/2009 9:44:00 PM
Oh, and I just love it that the people with no picture up have such strong comments.

missdi123

Joined: 3/19/2008

Msg: 68 (view)

I don't care that he did, but WHY DID HE HAVE TO LIE? Posted: 11/13/2009 9:25:42 PM
She can say whatever she want's to. She found out that the man of her interest is keeping his options open; she has every right to voice her opion. It's little, ugly, old guys who can't take it and have a problem to take the opion of a hot, beautiful women who they know they could never score with. I would be pissed too if I was in her shoes; which I was. I totally understand where she is coming from.

missdi123

Joined: 3/19/2008

Msg: 13 (view)

Seeing more than one guy... am I outta line here? Posted: 11/13/2009 9:01:27 PM
It's none of their business if you are going on dates or if you had a date last weekend. It's a dating site, that's what you do..... you go on dates. What kind of question is that to aks someone who you are trying to get to know. ..... Baffeld. .....

missdi123

Joined: 3/19/2008

Msg: 61 (view)

I don't care that he did, but WHY DID HE HAVE TO LIE? Posted: 11/13/2009 8:03:00 PM
@brand new sking: Yup, isn't that the way it goes. I am sure women do the same thing. And as soon as they find out that all the prospects they had aren't really all that they come crawling back LOL I gues we should take it as a learning experience.

missdi123

Joined: 3/19/2008

Msg: 57 (view)

I don't care that he did, but WHY DID HE HAVE TO LIE? Posted: 11/13/2009 7:12:15 PM
Oh, and by the way, I notice that only the old, fat, ugly chicks give you a hard time on here LOL

missdi123

Joined: 3/19/2008

Msg: 56 (view)

I don't care that he did, but WHY DID HE HAVE TO LIE? Posted: 11/13/2009 7:06:56 PM
I am so glad I am not the only one who is going through this. I just called it off with a guy for the same reason. Call it "boy in the candy shop syndrom"? I think that if you see each other for a while and you are intimate then you should delete your on-line profile. I think that they think they are missing out on something. LOL. I had this happen to me before. After like two weeks or so I heard from the dude again because he figured out that all the contacts he had weren't really all that. Just move on. That's interent dating. They all think they are missing out on something better if they don't meet all of the girls who contact them.

missdi123

Joined: 3/19/2008

Msg: 5 (view)

girl i`m seeing-never get invited out Posted: 11/11/2009 11:25:36 AM
Why don't you invite her to meet your friends? Maybe then she will invite you to meet her friends.

missdi123

Joined: 3/19/2008

Msg: 15 (view)

What should I do about this....? Posted: 11/9/2009 11:24:11 AM
I would ask him if he would like for you to go with him.

missdi123

Joined: 3/19/2008

Msg: 5 (view)

feeling odd about this... Posted: 11/5/2009 6:58:07 PM
You are 22, that's what people do in your age. You have "crushes". It's normal.

missdi123

Joined: 3/19/2008

Msg: 19 (view)

Bypassing the phone, is it okay or not? Posted: 11/5/2009 6:52:52 PM
How did our parents date? What did we do before cell phones and computers? It seems the more outlets of connecting with people we have the more weird we get. What's so hard about having a conversation over the phone. I remember when I was a teenager; we had one landline at the house and if you wanted to date you better be on the phone TALKING. There was no texting or anything else. I remember using the payphone to talk to my boyfriend. Times sure have changed. OMG I am old LOL

missdi123

Joined: 3/19/2008

Msg: 16 (view)

Finally Updated My Profile Posted: 11/5/2009 6:29:15 PM
Yeah, I would ease up on the restrictions. A lot of us don't even know if the person we are contacting has contacted people who are looking for an intimate encounter. I bet I am guilty of that. I just don't always read everything in the profile.

missdi123

Joined: 3/19/2008

Msg: 2 (view)

NO ACTION Posted: 11/5/2009 5:07:26 PM
The hair!!!!! You should get a profesional hair cut.

missdi123

Joined: 3/19/2008

Msg: 10 (view)

Bypassing the phone, is it okay or not? Posted: 11/5/2009 4:38:51 PM
I would suggest texting. You have to give the guy your number if you guys plan on meeting up. Just in case something comes up or you can't find him at the meeting place. Wouldn't want you posting on here how you got stood up.

missdi123

Joined: 3/19/2008

Msg: 38 (view)

My life has been turned upside down! Posted: 11/5/2009 10:49:16 AM
It took him six month to figure out he doesn't want to be a dad? Now that it is too late to have an abortion he finally figures that one out. What an idiot. I would take him for everything he has. You are stuck with the baby and he is off enjoying his single life? What an ass. I feel sorry for you.

missdi123

Joined: 3/19/2008

Msg: 12 (view)

How to date?? Posted: 11/4/2009 5:01:12 PM
Well, to be honest; I do not date guys who are full time single parents due to the fact that they don't have time. I didn't date at all when my kids were younger. They are now grown up and I am dating all over the place LOL Maybe you should wait until your kids are older.

missdi123

Joined: 3/19/2008

Msg: 134 (view)

Would you date a man who lost everything? Posted: 11/4/2009 8:51:00 AM
@Vannili What does your little story have to do with the original post?

missdi123

Joined: 3/19/2008

Msg: 132 (view)

Would you date a man who lost everything? Posted: 11/4/2009 8:28:59 AM
Nope, of course not. How is he supposed to wine and dine me? LOL No, seriously, I don't want to have to deal with someone's baggage. I don't have any issues with my own current situation so I don't want to be with someone who is not stable.

missdi123

Joined: 3/19/2008

Msg: 56 (view)

who gets your stuff? Posted: 11/3/2009 5:02:02 PM
Good grief, aren't you too young to have thoughts like that? Wow. That's crazy.

missdi123

Joined: 3/19/2008

Msg: 11 (view)

fighting because of facebook..... Posted: 10/31/2009 8:52:34 AM
It would totally piss me off if my man would add people to his facebook or myspace or whatever account. What's the point of having an account for the puplic to view? Set it to private or close the account; both of you. This way the problem is dealt with. Case closed.

missdi123

Joined: 3/19/2008

Msg: 16 (view)

Successful Coffee Dates? Posted: 10/31/2009 8:30:36 AM
A "real date" can last an eternity when you are with a person you are not attracted to or you can't stand. Coffee dates are just fine in my book.

missdi123

Joined: 3/19/2008

Msg: 33 (view)

seeing guy for 2 months and he still on pof Posted: 10/23/2009 9:25:19 AM
Create a fake profile and start chatting with him. I assure you this way you will find out exactly what he is up to.

missdi123

Joined: 3/19/2008

Msg: 16 (view)

Are you truly free Posted: 10/22/2009 9:26:18 AM
Yes, I do agree, there are a lot of people on here who are in no way shape or form fit to date. They are either still married or just got seperated. They still have issues over finances with their ex. A lot of kid drama going on. A lot of them are on the rebound. It is very frustrating to see that a lot of people bounce from one relationship to another without ever really finishing one.

missdi123

Joined: 3/19/2008

Msg: 14 (view)

eharmony ... Really? I'm a match with a troll? Posted: 10/20/2009 1:38:37 PM
LOL I got rejected from them too:)

missdi123

Joined: 3/19/2008

Msg: 27 (view)

What is with the insults?!?! Posted: 10/10/2009 3:35:56 PM
OMG that happens to me too. Usually within the second e-mail I get requests of nude pictures. Why don't they just go over to AFF? Like I would really send nude pictures of myself to a stranger, right? Idiots.

missdi123

Joined: 3/19/2008

Msg: 11 (view)

How Soon Into Dating Do you Delete Your Profile? Posted: 10/6/2009 2:34:31 PM
I was thinking more about the guy. I have met guys before and thought we things were going very good but saw him on here every day, several times a day. Call it stalking LOL It just puts a damper on things when you see that your man of interest is prowling the dating site all the time.

missdi123

Joined: 3/19/2008

Msg: 8 (view)

How Soon Into Dating Do you Delete Your Profile? Posted: 10/6/2009 1:54:50 PM
Ok, all the answers here are good but how do you concentrate on this one person when you constantly have messages from others coming in? My experience tells me that it just doesn't work if you still communicate with others.

missdi123

Joined: 3/19/2008

Msg: 9 (view)

When to call it quits Posted: 9/26/2009 9:13:10 AM
You are not investing a terrible amount of time each day or money to have your profie up. Why not keep it up? It's free and who know's you might end up making friends. You can read the forums and browse others profiles. I have been on here for about four years. I get a date here and there. It's all good.

missdi123

Joined: 3/19/2008

Msg: 2 (view)

How would you react??? Posted: 9/20/2009 2:30:53 PM
Maybe she wasn't pregnant? It could be that she is just fat around the gut area:)

missdi123

Joined: 3/19/2008

Msg: 16 (view)

Should I confront him? Posted: 9/19/2009 10:26:18 AM
@ 56kingfish: Now why would you assume she was offering a booty call? He wanted to see him and talk, that's all. Don't make her feel bad, she asked for adivse; not be slandered.

missdi123

Joined: 3/19/2008

Msg: 8 (view)

Should I confront him? Posted: 9/19/2009 9:28:07 AM
He might had a chance to log on while at work or he simply never logged off. I have my POF site up all day long. I just minimize the screen and walk away; just checking messages here and there. Don't jump to conclusions. I know it is easily done; I have done that myself. It just pisses me off when I am starting to see someone and I notice he is on-line looking for other girls. I would maybe ask him about it. I know, it sucks to have the feeling that you are beeing lied to. It's a very tricky situation because you don't want to come across as controlling or as a stalker. Good luck with that.

missdi123

Joined: 3/19/2008

Msg: 37 (view)

A bit of a quandry Posted: 9/11/2009 9:15:36 PM
So there is a seperation period in Canada? I am very aware of that. I am from Germany and there too; you have to live one year apart from actually getting the divorce granted.. Hey, just tell here what's going on. I am sure she will understand. Here in America, they split up and one week after that they are back on the market.

missdi123

Joined: 3/19/2008

Msg: 27 (view)

Stingy , tight fisted men /women Posted: 9/11/2009 9:03:32 PM
Well, you did the right thing. You dumped him. Who needs a loser like that?

missdi123

Joined: 3/19/2008

Msg: 7 (view)

Do You Guys Ever Get Excited about a woman and show it? Posted: 9/11/2009 8:52:33 PM
If a man is inerested he will throw all rules in the wind. He will do whatever it takes because he doesn't want you to get away:)

missdi123

Joined: 3/19/2008

Msg: 39 (view)

Do all profiles sound the same to you? Posted: 9/11/2009 7:18:39 PM
LOL I was thinking the same thing the other day. They all say, my kids are my life, My kids are everything to me ; if they are everything to you, why are you on a dating site, is there even room for another person in your life since your kids are everything to you? Candle light dinners; I think it would freak me out if I was invited over for dinner and there weren't any lights on exept for candles, I like to get a good look at the food that I am about to eat LOL Taking walks on the beach. Let's get and keep it real. How many of us, specially where I am from, take walks on the beach? Cuddle on the couch, Looking for my soul mate. Hell, I would be completly happy just to meet someone I would be attracted to, doesn't really have to be my soul mate.

missdi123

Joined: 3/19/2008

Msg: 9 (view)

A little scared, I think I have contacted a weirdo Posted: 9/11/2009 6:58:04 PM
Maybe she didn't know what POF stands for? Give her a break.

missdi123

Joined: 3/19/2008

Msg: 9 (view)

Me too, I'd like a review. Posted: 9/11/2009 6:02:21 PM
Your pictures are good. However you should post some body shots. Guys look at pictures first. They are extremely afraid to meet up with a fat chick.

missdi123

Joined: 3/19/2008

Msg: 25 (view)

is meeting over a cup of coffee the answer? Posted: 9/10/2009 4:43:28 PM
Never do dinner on a first date. It's not supposed to be a date anyway, it's a meet and greet. You are not cheap at all. Why should you pay for dinner and drinks for someone you don't like. Meet for coffee and even then the women should pay her own coffee. Why should you buy coffee for a stranger. I think it is awesome that you are putting yourself out there and trying to meet someone. That's cool.

missdi123

Joined: 3/19/2008

Msg: 4 (view)

taking her to pub/restaurant Posted: 9/10/2009 1:58:47 PM
Is this your first date with her? Dinner is always a big mistake for a first date. Dinner can last an eternety if you are with a person you don't really like.

missdi123

Joined: 3/19/2008

Msg: 32 (view)

Borrowing money after 3 weeks Posted: 9/9/2009 7:19:24 PM
And I just saw that her account is already deleted. She is a scamer.

missdi123

Joined: 3/19/2008

Msg: 31 (view)

Borrowing money after 3 weeks Posted: 9/9/2009 7:17:45 PM
She is a scamer. Any decent women would be to ashamed to ask for money.

missdi123

Joined: 3/19/2008

Msg: 62 (view)

Dating frustration in your 30s? Posted: 9/5/2009 5:44:38 PM
You should loose weight and get a make over.

missdi123

Joined: 3/19/2008

Msg: 3 (view)

My Matches/Personality Matches Posted: 9/3/2009 7:18:34 PM
I hate any kind of personality test and stuff like this. Makes me think of E-Harmony. At least here on POF you don't get rejected. I did the 45min test on E-Harmony (did I spell that right?) just to find out I am being rejected by a dating site. It's not very uplifting.

missdi123

Joined: 3/19/2008

Msg: 66 (view)

They are showing online for hours & says it's not them doing it? It's automatic honey???? Posted: 9/3/2009 11:08:56 AM
You won't see him again because he is on POF for an extendet period of time? So what? He is not comitted to you after one meet and greet. What are you thinking? Are you expecting him to marry you after one meet? Get real.

missdi123

Joined: 3/19/2008

Msg: 18 (view)

First date/meet. Need help please! Posted: 8/30/2009 7:37:49 AM
Ask her out again. If she says yes then she is interested. Don't blow it by not communicating with her. She might be shy, so aks her out.

missdi123

Joined: 3/19/2008

Msg: 20 (view)

Do you reflect on what you attract? Posted: 8/30/2009 7:04:50 AM
LOL I was wondering about that the other day. I attract the guys who would have no chance of ever getting a date in real life. I also attract the players.

missdi123

Joined: 3/19/2008

Msg: 18 (view)

The Night that Didn't End so Well. Posted: 8/30/2009 6:39:49 AM
You are not over reacting. She was rude. Apparently she is not interested and she is not over her ex. If I was interested in someone I would never spend even a second arguing with my ex over a $50.00 playstation. Who uses a PS2 nowadays anyway? LOL Forget her. I hope you made her pay for her own drinks. Hey, is that the same girl you wanted to cook dinner for?

missdi123

Joined: 3/19/2008

Msg: 2 (view)

Does this profile make my butt look big? Posted: 8/29/2009 12:05:15 PM
Your butt looks HUUUUUUGGGGEEE! Just kidding. Your profile is good but the pictures with the girl (s) have got to go.

missdi123

Joined: 3/19/2008

Msg: 7 (view)

OK, I'm fat but how's the rest of my profile? Posted: 8/29/2009 10:27:11 AM
I like your profile. It's really inviting and warm. Your pictures are really good too.

missdi123

Joined: 3/19/2008

Msg: 18 (view)

why are some women so strange Posted: 8/27/2009 1:40:35 PM
Yup, another guy who is on a dating site and isn't really sure if he really wants to date just one person. Make up your mind.

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