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sweet lady Lori

Joined: 3/19/2008

Msg: 31 (view)

Would you cheat on SO for alot of money? Posted: 11/23/2009 9:27:01 AM
Heck no! Once the check cleared and the money was spent, no amount of money could get your self respect back...that alone makes it a no brainer for me!

sweet lady Lori

Joined: 3/19/2008

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Doing it in the car/automobile - Do's, Don'ts, How to, etc. Posted: 11/23/2009 3:52:35 AM
Nothing like going at it in or on an automobile....as an adult, it's the flash back of the excitment and rush of the teenage years! Er....not that I ever did that

sweet lady Lori

Joined: 3/19/2008

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Wants to know about past realationship Posted: 11/20/2009 9:27:15 AM
The past is just that...the past. I am not sure why he thinks you NEED to tell him anything about any past relationship. Kind of sounds like he has some (trust) issues because of his past! Unless you feel like talking about that, it really shouldn't matter.

sweet lady Lori

Joined: 3/19/2008

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Is being yourself really good advice? Posted: 11/18/2009 9:25:51 AM
I am not sure why anyone would spend the energy/time "pretending" to be someone they are not....eventually one gets busted and/or caught up in their lies. The best way to get dumped is to show your true colors after you came off as someone else. To me, it's best to be yourself - always!

sweet lady Lori

Joined: 3/19/2008

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Masturbation=cheating Posted: 11/17/2009 9:28:07 AM
Cheating is having sex with someone other than the person you are commited to...while masterbation can be considered a form of sex, it's with yourself, so not sure how that could even be clasified as cheating. As for your sister ~ does she really think her husband DOESN'T do this because she "does not let" him? LOL!! She must be quite naive!

sweet lady Lori

Joined: 3/19/2008

Msg: 59 (view)

do ladies get turned on by strong hands and fingers.. Posted: 11/17/2009 4:51:32 AM
Well, I am the type of woman who is attracted to a man who works hard...the blue collar worker type is all I go for - if two men passed me on a street and one was in an Armani suit w/ a briefcase and nice watch and one was wearing jeans, a flannel shirt and work boots, my eyes would immediately go to the jeans man...every time! I am weird I guess, because I always look at a mans hands ~ I get turned on by strong hands that reflect a "true" working man

sweet lady Lori

Joined: 3/19/2008

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No-one likes him except me Posted: 11/17/2009 4:47:24 AM
Well, maybe I am not a good one to ask, as I never allow others to decide for me - I follow my own heart and deal w/ the good or bad that may come with my choices. I am a leader of one - - - myself! It is up to you to weigh to good against the bad to decide for yourself...does he have any desire to try to find a job? If he is making attempts but has not found a job, than he can't be considered lazy, just unlucky. If he is just lazy and enjoys living off you, then it is only you who can decide what you will allow.

sweet lady Lori

Joined: 3/19/2008

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Best friend was hitting on your spouse. What would you do? Posted: 10/29/2009 9:05:32 AM
If any friend was stupid enough to try that, I would be smart enough to tell...though I am not sure if he would be more afraid of my SO or me!!

sweet lady Lori

Joined: 3/19/2008

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Should I stay or should I go... Posted: 10/27/2009 2:37:18 PM
Wow! That was way too long!! I lost interest after the first paragraph -sorry!! However, I read enough to know if you are questioning anything, time to step back and think it over. Whether you stay or go is a decision that only you can make so I won't give you my two cents.

sweet lady Lori

Joined: 3/19/2008

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How do you tell her Posted: 10/22/2009 9:26:19 AM
Sorry - no slack being cut on this one. At his age? Either he is a troll, was bored or just looking to get things stirred up a bit. I have seen quite a few really good threads get deleted and some really silly ones stay...for this sex/sexuality forum I find it annoying sometimes to see so many silly topics. However, this is just my opinion!

sweet lady Lori

Joined: 3/19/2008

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How do you tell her Posted: 10/22/2009 4:26:41 AM
I think the "delete "police" fall asleep once in awhile.......

sweet lady Lori

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divorce verses affair...isnt it about time we accepted affairs.. Posted: 10/21/2009 9:03:29 AM
OP - have someone cheat on you and let us know how you feel after... ...this is one of the most inane questions I have ever seen.

sweet lady Lori

Joined: 3/19/2008

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what would you do? Posted: 10/9/2009 4:54:17 AM
Wow! At least he was honest & told you! While I can't tell you what to do, for me, his honesty would be a big plus. Sex does not have to be a factor in the beginning and that could allow you to see if you really like him once you meet. If so, there are options, (condoms), and medical advice that can help you if you decide to take that step. I wish you all the best!

sweet lady Lori

Joined: 3/19/2008

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Declining Sex Drive, Normal? Posted: 10/6/2009 6:03:08 PM
It's only "normal" to those who get complacent, lazy or "comfortable" with their partner. Keep it interesting & use your imagination ... the word "declining" will disappear

sweet lady Lori

Joined: 3/19/2008

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The selling of one's self Posted: 10/6/2009 5:55:25 PM
WTH? Another VERY redundant topic missed by the "thread police" No need to send your resume...

sweet lady Lori

Joined: 3/19/2008

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Very long hair on a woman is very femine and sexy, but few women have long hair Posted: 10/6/2009 4:10:08 PM
I sometimes miss the very long hair I had. However, short can be sexy too... ...it's all in the confidence and how one carries them self. Own the look and you WILL be sexy

sweet lady Lori

Joined: 3/19/2008

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A (different) woman's views on sex/Sorry it's so long, but worth it, sooo worth it! Posted: 10/6/2009 4:07:04 PM
My good gawd...this thing is still going? And I came back? I am obviously bored tonight

sweet lady Lori

Joined: 3/19/2008

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What to do when someone keeps canceling plans ? Posted: 10/6/2009 3:57:09 PM
Why not tell him to call/text you when he isn't busy and is available and if/when he finally decides he's ready, then you can tell him if YOU ARE avaialable1 What the heck is he "harvesting'?

sweet lady Lori

Joined: 3/19/2008

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Trying to work through my feelings on casual sex Posted: 10/3/2009 8:23:39 AM
Perhaps I'm not communicating very well Perhaps some people just like to hear themselves talk....

sweet lady Lori

Joined: 3/19/2008

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need a second opinion please Posted: 10/3/2009 8:18:32 AM
She wants to just be friends with you in order to give her ex another chance but continues to seek out other men, but also string you along? Why in the heck are you sticking around? So she is in some classes....move on. A woman like that is not worth your time!!

sweet lady Lori

Joined: 3/19/2008

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For the women, how would you feel dating a guy who...Frequently visited prostitutes Posted: 10/1/2009 6:35:46 PM
It wouldn't be an issue because I wouldn't date a man like that. Anyone who pays for sex just seems a little pathetic to me. Plus, all I would visualize is him getting it on with some nasty prostitute, like the ones I have seen on Cops, and that would be the end of that!!

sweet lady Lori

Joined: 3/19/2008

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Looking for perfection? Posted: 9/29/2009 6:21:02 PM
I don't know anyone who is looking for perfection and I am certainly not, as it does not exist. Now, if you were talking about compatibility, mutual respect & love, then yes, I am looking for that! Perfect is only thought of and looked for by the dreamers...

sweet lady Lori

Joined: 3/19/2008

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Good Girl/Bad Girl, What's the difference? Posted: 9/29/2009 5:19:43 PM
I am always a lady.... ...until I don't want to be. The best of the best just know when to switch

sweet lady Lori

Joined: 3/19/2008

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Trying to work through my feelings on casual sex Posted: 9/29/2009 5:12:45 PM
OP-I think I know where you are coming from and I think I understand some of the things you've mentioned. However, you kind of lost me with your whole, "casual sex is fraught with issues of depersonalization, misrepresentation, and not treating others with respect"... ... as this is your view and you have every right to it. But, not everyone who succumbs to casual sex is going to experience that. If two consenting adults decide to "hook up" and they both know where they stand before & after, they are not going to be distraught. I hope the "soap box" you set up will not give way to all of us ~ but I'll get down now anyway

sweet lady Lori

Joined: 3/19/2008

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How much money does a man need to make to keep you interested in him? Posted: 9/29/2009 2:05:38 PM
A man's wallet, and how much is in it, does not matter to me. Not all women care about the $ but there are still too many who do. Just, as you mentioned, some men base a woman on their looks. Too bad this exists as I am sure many people have lost out on a great person due to these two very reasons. It's just the way it goes sometimes.

sweet lady Lori

Joined: 3/19/2008

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Is it worthwhile paying a woman to be arm-candy, so I can more easily meet other women? Posted: 9/25/2009 3:57:06 AM
Dear gawd...are you for real? Seriously, you would pay a woman to accompany you to try and meet ather women? I am trying to understand your mentality on this. After all, if I saw a man with a woman I would NOT approach him!! Hmmmm.....I thought the days of the cavemea thinking were long gone

sweet lady Lori

Joined: 3/19/2008

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why do men always have to look at other women!! Posted: 9/24/2009 3:56:01 AM
OP ~ First of all, you should have said why do SOME men... Because not all men are like this. And don't forget, some women look too. And, that's part of life so the sooner you accept it, the better off you are. Just because someone looks at a member of the opposite sex does not indicate they are not happy with you. We are simply "wired" to appreciate beauty, in what ever form it is...flowers, clothes, homes, food and, my gawd, other people! Try not to over think this situation or you can drive yourself crazy

sweet lady Lori

Joined: 3/19/2008

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Why would a lady post a prego pic on a dating site? Posted: 9/24/2009 3:50:15 AM
Why? Because she can! Pregnant women are beautiful ~ simply for the fact that a human being is living/growing inside a woman makes her beautiful. And... ... many men find pregnant women attractive. If you don't, or are not interested in a pregnant woman, you can simply move on to the next profile. EVERYONE deserves to find love, no matter what their situation

sweet lady Lori

Joined: 3/19/2008

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Do Big Trucks turn on the Ladies??? Posted: 9/22/2009 5:41:54 PM
Um....no. For me, it has nothing to do with the vehicle ~ it's who is behind the wheel After all - a man w/ a big truck makes some of us wonder if he is trying to make up for his lacking elsewhere

sweet lady Lori

Joined: 3/19/2008

Msg: 59 (view)

why woman get mad!!!!!!!!!! Posted: 9/22/2009 5:34:48 PM
OMG! This thread is hilarious...I haven't had this good a laugh in quite some time! I will not add insult to injury like some of the politically incorrect responses, but I will say I do not get mad if a man/men take a peek here & there. I do not find it insulting in the least. We are programmed to be attracted to things and the body is one of those things...why get upset? Just know not all women freak out over such things

sweet lady Lori

Joined: 3/19/2008

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Is it ok to date the friend of an ex Posted: 9/22/2009 9:27:01 AM
While no one is "owned" by anyone, I would never, ever date the ex of a friend. If this is something you are contemplating, I guess you need to ask yourself just how important is your friendship...

sweet lady Lori

Joined: 3/19/2008

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A little scared, I think I have contacted a weirdo Posted: 9/18/2009 6:58:31 PM
Dude - you blew her off and she still sent you suggestive texts? Yet your scared? Of what? I would have been scared of YOU the minute you started talking about your POF haircut??????? I think I smell a troll............

sweet lady Lori

Joined: 3/19/2008

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People who just write how are you Posted: 9/18/2009 4:49:32 AM
I used to write back to everyone who contacted me, whether I was interested or not, as I felt it was the polite thing to do... ...not any more. If someone contacts me but doesn't even bother saying anything other than 'Hi" or "How are you"? I don't waste my time to respond....there is nothing to respond to. It makes me think they are sending out 20 "Hi" emails at a time, hoping to get at least 1-2 responses. Not my kind of guy!!

sweet lady Lori

Joined: 3/19/2008

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A lot of women don't like sex? Posted: 9/17/2009 6:45:16 PM
Huh? I don't recall hearing too much of this... ...but then again, I live in Maine and we have a LONG fall/winter season...cold nights so we like to snuggle to keep warm. That usually leads to other things...

sweet lady Lori

Joined: 3/19/2008

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what makes women feel insecure about themselves? Posted: 9/17/2009 6:31:56 PM
Congratulations, but at what point in life did you learn that lesson? I seem to sense a little sarcasm (?) and if so, that's Ok because I don't really owe anyone an answer, but I will respond. I learned this the moment my identical twin daughters were born 25 years ago. I realized what a huge responsibility I had before me to raise them the best I could so they could avoid a lot of hang ups that can come in life. I do not have any sons - I am the proud mother of 4 amazing, loving,kind,giving,unselfish and very confident daughters. They are who they are in part of the way I raised them. Thankyouverymuch

sweet lady Lori

Joined: 3/19/2008

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He dumped me over the net. Not sure what happend. Posted: 9/17/2009 6:17:47 PM
You are asking us to answer why he dumped you? We aren't the ones you should be asking. Did he just use me for sex? You answered your own question. This is part of the crap that comes with life and living & learning... ...please learn from this. Good luck to you.

sweet lady Lori

Joined: 3/19/2008

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A (different) woman's views on sex/Sorry it's so long, but worth it, sooo worth it! Posted: 9/17/2009 4:58:38 PM
WTF???????????? I have NO idea what your point was/is! Sorry - not being mean but you seriously went ADHD and confused me. Now my head hurts... ...where is my Patron?

sweet lady Lori

Joined: 3/19/2008

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Exesive Flirting. Should we stop? Posted: 9/17/2009 4:53:06 PM
Just remember this ~ your flirting, and you admit it can be explicit, could be over heard by a co-worker who gets offended. That right there could land you & him in the HR office with a pink slip handed to you! I would stop....it's rarely a good thing and obviously not in the best interest of your employer!

sweet lady Lori

Joined: 3/19/2008

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being good in bed Posted: 9/17/2009 4:26:01 PM
I got wicked excited when I saw this title, so obviously clicked on it to get on board with some awesome conversations... ...but saw that is was yet another thread regarding why do women - blah, blah, blah...... I mean no disrespect but this is so redundant - I have come across at least a dozen of these in the last few months but most don't get past the "DELETE police"

sweet lady Lori

Joined: 3/19/2008

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what makes women feel insecure about themselves? Posted: 9/16/2009 4:59:35 PM
Same old, same old... ...media, air brushed models, a gazillion infomercials to help you look fit, etc.... blah, blah, blah... One can only feel insecure if they allow anyone or anything to make them feel that way. Best thing I ever did was to change MY thinking and to learn to accept myself just the way I am. That alone got rid of a lot of baggage and I am better off because of it!

sweet lady Lori

Joined: 3/19/2008

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Tattoos and Chivalry?? Posted: 9/16/2009 4:51:42 PM
I am still a gentleman and respectful.(if that's the definition of chivalry Yes. Yes it is! I have no idea how anyone could correlate tattoos and chivalry either! They have about as much in common (to me) as Big Foot & a guppy

sweet lady Lori

Joined: 3/19/2008

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Do men really like submissive women? Posted: 9/16/2009 4:16:46 PM
Do men really like submissive women? Holy crap! I hope not! I am not about to let a man hog tie me....that is MY job!

sweet lady Lori

Joined: 3/19/2008

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How many women would admit to this???? Posted: 9/16/2009 4:11:06 PM
It kind of seems you purposely pick men who aren't available to you much...that way you don't have to make a commitment and can still have a variety. I wouldn't invest time into a relationship w/ a man who I could only see 1-2 times a week so I have nothing else to contribute to this conversation because I sense this is what you like.

sweet lady Lori

Joined: 3/19/2008

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How important .... Posted: 9/16/2009 4:02:19 PM
I mean I love him....I just can't seem to say it This is something I just can't understand and never have. I have known many people over the years who would die for someone yet could never say "I love you". No one should be left to assume the other feels that way - we (most) tend to want to hear it from time to time.

sweet lady Lori

Joined: 3/19/2008

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Does the opinion of others .... Posted: 9/16/2009 2:32:49 PM
Mary! How are you!! Good question!! My answer: Absolutely not! I live my life for me and not anyone else, so I never let the opinion of someone else interfere what my heart says to me. I am the only one who knows my heart so I would be a fool to have someone else influence me. I am the only captain on my ship!

sweet lady Lori

Joined: 3/19/2008

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Why is it ok to do him if you think you`ll never see him again? Posted: 9/16/2009 2:25:17 PM
Sorry, I mean no disrespect, but this just makes me laugh... ...because I thought I went back in time and was at recess!! Are you seriously asking this at your age? Do you know how many other threads are on here regarding this stereotype of women & money?

sweet lady Lori

Joined: 3/19/2008

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Dating is all about income Posted: 9/16/2009 2:19:32 PM
Love does not cost a thing for women, however, for men it does Open microwave & put in bag. Dump pop corn in a bowl. Sit in a favorite chair and get ready for the show... Please do explain the cost ratio between men/women. An itemized list would be great! I'll just sit here and wait...

sweet lady Lori

Joined: 3/19/2008

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Dating is all about income Posted: 9/16/2009 4:45:06 AM
Huh? Seriously, huh? I work full time AND am the sole provider for my daughter & I - I make my own money and take care of my own bills & our living expenses. I DO NOT need a man to pay my way. I could care less how much money a man makes and I would not have an issue dating a man who makes less money then me. As far as the women who asked you why you don't work overtime ~ she was an idiot. As for the women who wanted a steak - what the heck is wrong with that? Unless you had brought her to Burger King or McDonald's ** Not all people are centered around the mighty $

sweet lady Lori

Joined: 3/19/2008

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Exploring relationship, okay to mesage others? Posted: 9/16/2009 3:59:08 AM
I am not judging you - just asking: If you are in a relationship that you hope will blossom into long term, why is there a need to explore other options? If you are looking for something better, best to end the current relationship now, as it would not be fair to her.

sweet lady Lori

Joined: 3/19/2008

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what do women want in bed??????????? Posted: 9/15/2009 4:19:34 PM
1) He must be breathing. 2) He must know what the heck he is doing. 3) He must continue breathing.... ....so he can get me a snack after we are done

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