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thewrongdossier

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Basically, is this equivalent? Posted: 11/14/2008 1:57:10 PM
lostgirl, i guess baically all I am saying is when certain girls grab my arm it makes me feel warm and tingly inside, whereas when others do it it makes me feel bad. you know theres a difference between feeling my arm and touching my arm.im just saying that a man would probably get into big trouble if he "felt" a woman's arm at work who he thought he had a familiar repor with .

thewrongdossier

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Basically, is this equivalent? Posted: 11/14/2008 11:13:53 AM
A girl (at work or in a social setting) seems to be attracted to you and you have something of a repor with her...if she likes to grab your arms is that equivalent to a man grabbing a boob? Or is that wrong. BEcause seriously, I feel like I have been sexually molested at work. Women grabbing a man's arm is equivalent to men grabbing a girl's butt or boob. That is my stance. Disagree or agree and share your opinion.

thewrongdossier

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write a song of sixpence Posted: 11/4/2008 7:58:27 PM
two wolves and lamb vote on dinner

thewrongdossier

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write a song of sixpence Posted: 11/4/2008 2:52:41 PM
Obama and Mccain are NWO puppets

thewrongdossier

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Once Upon A Time.... write minimum of 2 sentences, maximum of 4. Posted: 10/17/2008 3:11:09 PM
The wind, especially when those evil large Dutch windmills get involved. They have been known to promulgate the creatures' need for death and destruction.

thewrongdossier

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What do i do if she ends up unattractive? Posted: 10/14/2008 6:16:17 PM
None of the girls I've met from this site have looked like their pictures. They looked good on the pictures but in real life they were all overweight. No joke.

thewrongdossier

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In The Morning When The Makeup Is Gone ... Posted: 10/13/2008 6:52:18 AM
I don't dig women who need makeup to look good.

thewrongdossier

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Need your oppinion on a story I wrote Posted: 10/12/2008 12:49:59 PM
Very good control of the english language...good use of descriptors to envoke sensory stimulation in the reader...the characters lack depth...you need to view your characters as individuals existing apart from you....even though you create the characters, you need them to be real characters and have exclusive attributes from your own mind.

thewrongdossier

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Do men try to confuse women? Posted: 10/12/2008 12:43:37 PM
no. ----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------

thewrongdossier

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write a song of sixpence Posted: 10/9/2008 7:27:06 PM
yom kipour yeah, if you spell it backwards it says love and peace to all humans, regardless of their race, religion or nationality

thewrongdossier

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In a club if a woman grabs my arm and asks for a dance is she interested in more? Posted: 10/8/2008 3:22:40 PM
I've had this happena few times, sometimes it means she likes you and sometimes it means she just wants to dance....women are unpredictabl sometimes.

thewrongdossier

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Do they always let you know when they like you? Posted: 10/7/2008 7:26:29 PM
yeah. only if they really like you though.

thewrongdossier

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Do you really know what petite means? Posted: 10/6/2008 8:42:07 PM
petite means short and not overweight

thewrongdossier

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Once Upon A Time.... write minimum of 2 sentences, maximum of 4. Posted: 10/5/2008 1:56:03 PM
Then I remember, how one day a man made a wooden wheel. IF this man knew the evil destiny that this wheel would manifest into would he still make that wheel? Surely, no...but if he didn't make it some other man would have would he not? Man is destined for self-implosion. Today, the earth shakes her very foundations in apparent indignation as we wait like ants for the efficiency curve to explode...

thewrongdossier

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WHY DO GUYS ACT INTERESTED THEN NOT FOLLOW THROUGH? Posted: 10/5/2008 1:06:03 PM
Why are we here in this reality? Why do humans have consciousness?

thewrongdossier

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Becoming a Musician Posted: 10/2/2008 3:18:29 PM
I don't want to be signed. I don't want to make money from playing music per se. I feel music isa free thing, not something to be commoditized. I rather despise people who see music as a profit-making device. A musician needs to get money for his efforts if he's doing it full--time, his entertainment has a value which should be rewrded. I can play guitar quite well. I can learn any song as far as the chords by ear. I can solo over any backing music. I understand scales and structure of music quite well. I can sing on key for every song you can think of except songs that are very vocal intensive like rnb sigers woh can control their voice very well. I've been playing part time since I was 17 I'm 28 now. The last 2 years I've been playing mch more frequently and I began learning by ear many songs, any song I want to learn I just learn it. LIke I learnt tears in heaven . The fact is that just because you learn a song doesn't mean you can play it, you hacve to practice a lot to be able to play it and sing it properly. The learning of the songs I can do but I hate practicinsing, I get sick of repearting things over and over again. Overall I do want to start performing and playing with others very much. I would rather be in a band than be solo though, I'm not ready to do that just yet, but I love playing music.

thewrongdossier

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write a song of sixpence Posted: 10/2/2008 3:06:34 PM
then he dropped his last tab of acid

thewrongdossier

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write a song of sixpence Posted: 10/1/2008 7:20:45 PM
Then he heard that horrible raspy voice which he knew so well..."Chiiiiiiild....chiiiiild" it croaked "---come upstairrrrrs".

thewrongdossier

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T-bone steak.. Posted: 10/1/2008 6:30:45 PM
not the best way to cook a "grilling steak", a tboner is a definite bbq material...it's a denser cut so your best bet when cooking in a frying pan is too have the heat on med-med low...and have the pan covered with some sort of heat-trapping device, like a lid with little holes... this way it can cook from all angles instead of just from the bottom of the pan up... the key to cooking steak on the frying pan is to gradually heat the meat up slowly and keep flipping it I clicked on this forum because I was hungry and it had a good title haha

thewrongdossier

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Have you ever denied being in love? Posted: 10/1/2008 6:25:10 PM
..........yeah...

thewrongdossier

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What is chemistry to a guy? Posted: 9/25/2008 4:42:59 PM
It's basically that feeling where you are never bored with the person. You laugh at things they say and you both have the same sense of humor...Not infatuated but just happy to be around them since they make you feel right. "Chemisty is just a term thrown around for someone to be physically attracted to someone without trying to come across as saying "Wow if I could have I would have jumped him/her on the spot" without sounding creepy Chemisty=Crush=Lust Its all the same term" Majorly disagree with this statement. I can have chemistry without being attracted physically. Would I want to have an intimate relationship with this person? , no. Would I want to see amovie some time or go to a concert with them? yeah....cause they're cool!

thewrongdossier

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are you happy with the Leafs offseason so far? Posted: 9/25/2008 3:28:25 PM
Pogge sucks large, he has major flaws that need to be corrected. I think he's too big to play goal personally. The guy looks like chewbacca with skates on in there.

thewrongdossier

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Why do I get so nervous around him? Posted: 9/24/2008 1:05:58 PM
Drink beer......... .

thewrongdossier

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Becoming a Musician Posted: 9/22/2008 7:06:05 AM
i sing and play guitar, these are good pieces of advice you have given THANK YOU

thewrongdossier

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WHERED THE POLITICS FORUMS GO? [Closed Thread] Posted: 9/21/2008 8:45:15 PM
Is the trial over or what?...

thewrongdossier

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Becoming a Musician Posted: 9/21/2008 2:02:28 PM
I am having a fork in the road right now regarding my career. I hazve an accounting degree and am in line to become a business man, yet I also favor becoming a musician, except I am having trouble weighing the benefits versus the advantages of practising music full-time versus practising business. I mean it's not that clear cut of course..but. It's like I am at a crossroads, I don't want to be a rockstar, I just like music and manipulating it yet I have never been the "guy who starts a band" or been the guy who seeks attention.....I do seriously crave attention but only if it provides the observer with a positive dfeeling, an enlightened feeling...I would like to perform for people nd make them feel positive through music but I also don't have an ego with respect to that... I don't like being in control of others...I want to be in control of myself.... I have a serious fear of people and I have a lot of anxiety when speaking to a lot of people in a presentation etc. but once I am doing it I totally relax and I am ok with it... I have always had a major fear of rejection...I fear being rejected for my ideas, by women, by listeners of my own music and I amat the point where I just don't think that I can be fearful any more...In the movie "Batman Begins" , it is said that You must become your fear... Hopefully I can get some kind of decent advice on here, seriously I am being serious

thewrongdossier

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How to turn first contact into first meeting? Posted: 9/21/2008 12:00:18 PM
"Where my approach seems to fall down is when I do get a conversation started, we find common interests over e-mail, but after a few replies it's obvious all comments are staying above board and no interest in meeting each other is being exchanged. This is where my modernity falls down, but I'd like to think if I made first contact, then the guy should know I'm interested and be the first to suggest "let's go for coffee"." Maybe you should let men contact you first instead then since the men you are contacting first don't seem to be interested in asnything but a surface relatoinshop

thewrongdossier

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Where do you get your inspiration for your creatvity.? Posted: 9/19/2008 6:53:52 AM
"This is an example of some person trying to be artistic . Going out of their way to be classified as a writer. this is everything you must not be. " You're an example of a person I would never want to be around as you reek of evil and negativity. I don't tryto be artisitc...I just am. Unlike others who care more about getting attention than feeling the flow. I'm not a writer. I don't know what your problem is but leave me alone with your comments. If you want to attack me I will report you to the moderators. Thanks have a nice day.

thewrongdossier

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Anyone heard the new Metallica song yet? Posted: 9/18/2008 6:09:41 PM
Yeah I heard it, Metallica sucks big time, those corporate babies.

thewrongdossier

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Where do you get your inspiration for your creatvity.? Posted: 9/18/2008 6:05:39 PM
I usually don't try to force ideas out of me. THey just come from the 4th dimension by their own volition and I crystallize them in the 3rd. And women can make a good song always especially when they break your heart. I think I have intentiaonlly gotten my heart broken just for the inspiration...haha...no not really...

thewrongdossier

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His friend made a pass at me Posted: 9/17/2008 6:30:23 AM
the point is you deceived him...you were not trustworthy, you kept somethign of importance from him because you deemed it to be unimportant...that's not healthy...especially when you're dealing with a man who appears to be someone who values trust based on his reaction

thewrongdossier

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His friend made a pass at me Posted: 9/16/2008 5:12:07 PM
you got to tell me that so i can take it up with my alleged friend, doesn't sound like too much of a friend to me any way

thewrongdossier

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Being stood up or was I just unlucky? Posted: 9/13/2008 7:55:09 AM
Move on dude. If she cancels once, then let it slide, if she cancels twice in a row, it's a no go. Rule number 1 in the dating handbook.

thewrongdossier

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please ladies is my ex dillusional??? Posted: 9/11/2008 7:02:01 AM
"The perfect relationship doesn't require perfect people, " Actually yes it does. By perfect I mean whole...and for this ex to be saying she deservs perfect when she is being displyed as being far from it she is delusional. By perfect I mean whole(both in mind and body). If you aren't whole then you will be compromising yourself in a relatoinship. An imperfect person should not get into relattionships. Our society would be much better if they didn't.

thewrongdossier

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Women hardwired for change Posted: 9/9/2008 9:54:53 PM
"Ok so you gave her a set-up, a verbal clue as to what you would like to hear her say to you, " No Clue...I just said it... I hope that helps you :)

thewrongdossier

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Women hardwired for change Posted: 9/9/2008 9:11:49 PM
"So lemme get this straight. She shouldn't want to change you, but you'll change yourself to get her attention? I don't get it." mmmm...no not exactly... i don't like the women I attract right now...so I feel i need to change something I'm doing in order to be whole...any women that come my way as a result of that are the women I want...

thewrongdossier

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Women hardwired for change Posted: 9/9/2008 7:50:38 PM
"You will evolve as the years go on and you certainly will change and be changed by loving and living. << this is different than someone trying to change you... " Yes.

thewrongdossier

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Women hardwired for change Posted: 9/9/2008 2:45:44 PM
"Oh, so she did not give you the answer you were fishing for or wanted? And she did not do it? The nerve of her, being her own person! How controlling is it, to want someone to say something to make you feel better?" It's not controlling at all?...how is that controlling? I just wishd she reacted differently so after that night I haven't seen her since and don't plan on it...I'm not in any way being controlling by hoping that she isn't controlling...If I was trying to control her I would tell her she is an idiot for not answering my qyuestionn correctly and then trying to make her behave the way I want... I am totally entitled to seek a woman who is more passive then controlling. I have gotten some positive replies from women on here that were not filled with personal accusations of character at all. THey're just answering my question, or trying to which I appreciate very much. I think that you mominamatrix are just projecting a bit since you don't know me in real life but you've continued to be negative or attack my character in every response you've made..it's like you are trying to get my attention by attacking me.....I've tried to ignore your jabs pshychological slander but I think at this point it warrants peoples' attention. "So, you set a trap for her and when she did not fall into it, you acted like a big baby. " I don't see how that's a trap....I just wanted her to have a different personality than the one that manifested itself...I didn't like the way she reacted to my question so I cut it loose...maybe I should have just kept seeing her despite my didslike of her personality? I don't think there's anything that could please you mominammatrix sbut I don't have to worry about pleasing you so I'm not worried..:0...I do appreciate your advice I just don't appreciate the attacks on my character or trying to tell my I need a shrink...You probably need one too, we all probably do for something or other...I wouldn't waste my money one though. "You are somehow incorrectly assuming that the compromise always bad and that your desires are always 100% realistic. The chances of you meeting someone that wants to cater to your unrealistic desires on a 24/7 basis are pretty much slim and none. You don't want a woman, you want a robot. " I don't want someone who caters to my every need...once again I think you are projecting yourself onto your response to me. I just want someone who when I meet them they see me and they think in their head "WOW, this guy is my perfect guy, there is nothing I would want to change about him..." and then she actually follows through with that...maybe that is unrealistic I don't know, but I have a lot of time to test out my assumption. \The thing is that I know I have to not want to change myself any more for that happen. I have to be totally whole and happy with myself and I am not right now. I really don't think I am ready for a relationship right now...oh well, who cares, I don't see why that is the greatest goal of everything...I think you mominmatrix try to pshychologically prey on men who are just trying to get some honest answers in h these forums ...like you derive some sort of satisfaction out of typing public comments that infer a man's faulty charcter based on his idiosynchratic expereinces...experiences which I don't feel are involving me being an ***hole in a ny way...I mean if you were on this date with me at my place, would you prefer it if I had just ignored your response to my question which I secretly didn't like inside and just kept on seeing you? Maybe you're that type of woman who would like her man to keep his inner anxieties bottled up until he explodes inevitably in the future. But this isn't about you and your issues it's about women trying to change men...and I have gotten some very good insight about the reality of these situations. Even from you I picked out the positive input from the plethora of slanderous personal attacks you have been typing into here. I already said I am not perfect, I know that...I just needed to test my assumption . "If you cannot modify your expectations on an ongoing basis, you are not only not relationship material, you are not employable either. " You may be right...I might not be relationship material right now.

thewrongdossier

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Women hardwired for change Posted: 9/9/2008 9:14:57 AM
"That has nothing to do with being controlling. She probably thought you were capable (& maybe even desiring) of doing better than a 7 & that might be why you asked, so you could learn. Most people don't consider offering helpful advice as being controlling." But I wasn't desiring her advice per se. I was hoping for her to say something like.."You want me to rate your cleanliness?!! WTF? haha...you're a big nerd..." And then laughingly do like a fake inspection or something...you know that would be like a very passive fun kind of way to respond. Instead taking it very seriously and actually rating me...which is exactly what she did. I know my bathroom was acceptably clean, it is a new condo and I had just scrubbed it a few weeks ago. That's why I asked her. I actually did thank her for "the tip" as I was letting her out. albeit my gratitude was a a minute fraction insincere. "Both partners in a relationship try to "change" each other. Its called compromise." Compromise!!! Ahh. What is with this compromise thing you talk of. And why are severl responses saying that your correct.? I guess that's a differing opinion...which seems to be somewhat accepted albeit the sample size is small. here's the definition of the word compromise: com·pro·mise [ kómpr? m?z ] noun (plural com·pro·mis·es) Definition: 1. agreement: a settlement of a dispute in which two or more sides agree to accept less than they originally wanted After hours of negotiations a compromise was reached. 2. something accepted rather than wanted: something that somebody accepts because what was wanted is unattainable 3. potential danger or disgrace: exposure to danger or disgrace verb (past and past participle com·pro·mised, present participle com·pro·mis·ing, 3rd person present singular com·pro·mis·es) Definition: 1. intransitive verb agree by conceding: to settle a dispute by agreeing to accept less than what was originally wanted 2. transitive verb lessen value of somebody or something: to undermine or devalue somebody or something by making concessions -Don't compromise your integrity by telling half-truths. 3. transitive verb expose somebody or something to danger: to expose somebody or something to danger or disgrace -This scandal could compromise his chances for reelection. -drugs that can compromise the immune system Well, I don't see anywhere in any of those definitions the notion of compromise as being something I want to have going on in a relatoinship... I don't want each of us to settle for something less than we originally bargained for.!! I want us both to be mutually better off as the relationship proceeds.

thewrongdossier

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Women hardwired for change Posted: 9/8/2008 7:20:03 PM
"But you're the one who said you wanted to change" I never said I wanted to change. I may have indicated that I am not perfect. But I'm not looking for someone else to change anything. "The women I know don't think in those terms at all. They like a guy, overlook his flaws because they're infatuated, commit to him, the infatuation fades while the flaws don't. So they start trying to tweak him to get rid of the flaws since they irritate her when they didn't before. It's a sad thing to watch, which is why I try never to allow my optimism to accept men with flaws that will inevitably drive me insane." Hmm yeah...that's a good insight...I will have to watch out for that one too on the flip side of the coin.

thewrongdossier

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Women hardwired for change Posted: 9/8/2008 5:41:46 PM
"In what way are these women trying to change you? Can you offer examples?" After a date with a girl...we were both at my place...I decided to ask her what she thought of how clean my bathroom was...? (after she used it). On a scale of 1/10? And I even said rate me on a guys version of being clean, so it would be a less strict system ...and she took a moment...then said 7. And then she proceeded to tell me I should be doing this and doing that with bleach and other cleaning alternatives...It was like a discertation. And I'm thinking, "but you gave me a 7..." I mean that's pretty good... so then I decided that she was being controlling, like it was a sign of being very controlling in the future...Because these types of personality issues manifest exponentially. "Unfortunately in order to find a woman who doesn't want to change you, you have to be perfect to start with" Yeah, that's a great point. I guess being perfect for me is being whole. I am definitely not whole... Very profound statement I think I learned something. :D

thewrongdossier

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Women hardwired for change Posted: 9/8/2008 3:31:16 PM
"OP so at what point do you want to change them??" I don't have a point like that. That's what I'm saying...I don't try and change women whenI'm in a relationship...maybe if anything I do it subconsicously but definiteyl not consciously... "And if you keep getting with the same type of women what is the common denominator? YOU. Just because YOU keep finding yourself with the same kind of women does not mean ALL women are like this - just the ones YOU are attracted to. JMO. "" Well, I just wanted to literally see that these type C women are out there. I guess. I would like to date these types of women..how do I accomplish that? How can I change something I'm doing so I can start getting the types of women that don't want to change me? I mean maybe I am secretly attracted to the "controlling" type of women...I don't think i like that though...ahhh I don't what to say...

thewrongdossier

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Women hardwired for change Posted: 9/8/2008 3:21:54 PM
"I am sure it would stun you to know that many women do not really want to be intimate with someone whom they are not in a committed relationship with." I agree there are and I would want that too if it felt right. I don't have a problem being friends with a girl for a long time and then becoming commited. It's just that you would have to know that the intimicay would be there somehow...You are telling me that you would spend 8 months getting to know a man just as friends and then one day BAMMMM!, you just go into a comitted relationship with them? That sounds a bit unrealistic... "You are either seeking out these women, or you are an insufferable jerk that is screaming out that you are exceedingly attractive as a work project for the codependent among us. " Well I'm not seeking them out always, you know women seek me out too sometimes... I'm definitely not an insufferable jerk... I'm not codependent hence my earlier statment that I think relationships should be viewed as 3 entities: the man, the woman, and the relationship. I mean I don't think I am co-dependent...maybe I am a bit but who isn't in some obtuse way. As far as being a work project..yeah...I could definitely use some work on understanding relationships...that's why I am in this forum trying to get some ladies' advice...

thewrongdossier

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Women hardwired for change Posted: 9/8/2008 2:09:02 PM
"Perhaps you should stop placing women into one of your three categories. Acknowledge each one as an individual and learn to communicate." I don't place them into categories the women just fall into them like plinko when ever I am with them at this stage of the relationship...it's like plinko. Maybe I just attract these types of women only when it's get's to that point... I have been with women where we never reach the point of entering into a relationship...in fact I can think of two women right now that actually didn't want to even get past the dating + intimacy part..I didn't want to change them at that point when it was obvious they didn't even want to move from regular intimacy to a commited relationship...I mean I would have probably gotten into a committed relationship if they wanted to...well...actually I dont know.... Actually all I'm saying is that I have never tried to change a woman into wanting a relationship by continuing to be intimate with them and hope that they would become in a committed relatoinship...because I know I can't change them...but with women it is different it's like there's type A abd type B. Type A is cool, if the man resists the change she will just go away...but she would have still TRIED to make that movement for change.... Shit, I', starting to sound like OBAMA. Type C women as far (as my experiential knowledge goes) just don't, and have never existed.

thewrongdossier

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Women hardwired for change Posted: 9/8/2008 1:58:21 PM
"(Relationships are fluid. They never remain as they were when they started.)" Yeah everything is changing always I know.... Except why do women seem to have a thought process that thinks that there is man and then woman and then when they get in this committed relationship that the man has to change with the woman...? THere should be the idea of a 3rd entity apart from man and woman. This is the relationship entity. The relationship entitiy is what changes not the man. There's some food for thought for you.

thewrongdossier

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Women hardwired for change Posted: 9/8/2008 1:55:09 PM
"Well Op, maybe the fact that you seem to see a relationship as 'someone you have regular sex with' s part of the reason that you're mystified." I don't see that as a relatoinship...actually I don't see it as FOB either...for me either I am dating someone but not having intimacy..or I am dating them and having intimacy...or I am friends...or I am in a relationship. fully... I am talking about the transition that happens in between dating while being intimate...and being in a committed relationship... At that point is where I'm talking about. Because you can't have a relationship without becoming intimate within your mind as well as your eyes. SO up until then you're either friends (with no intimacy) and then you get into a relationship.. etc. Or, you are dating (with intimcay) and then you get into a relationship. In my opinion there is not such thing as FOB, it's either your dating with intimacy or your friends...FOB just means literally mutual prostitution with no $ being exchanged. "A lot of men, when in a relationship, want the regular sex, but baxically want to carry on their lives as if they were still single.. they dont want to make any changes or amendments in ther life at all, to accomodate the other person who they are now in a relationship with." Yeah I can see how a woman might think that is a problem. "To me, a relationship IS going to change your life in some respects.. " Yeah I guess so, it's just the forced change I'm talking about. Like I feel that the majority of women honestly are hard-wired to change their significant other. Like they might make it more subtle maybe but they are still doing it gradually. I don't understand because so far some of the responses have said that change is expected..."?? what? what the hell is that? Why would change be expected. Change is totally sopntaneous and random and it shouldnt be the intention of women to try and consciously change a man or think that they should both be changing into something just because they'[re together...it should just happen naturally.

thewrongdossier

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Women hardwired for change Posted: 9/8/2008 12:24:00 PM
... Once women find a man they like having regular sex with they (after a while) start trying to change him.... If he resists change, woman A moves on, no more sex for man...woman B psychopathically keeps trying to change him...man likes sex...woman keeps trying to change him...man likes sex...until the man must finally end it. If he doesn't resist change, woman A is happy and man, it would appear, is also happy...woman B now has man exactly where she wants him, completely mesmerized. The reason I state these facts is because men never try to change women, it's always inevitably the women changing the men. Except for Woman C, who by my estimation comprises about .003% of the populatoin who doesn't have the innate need to change man to suit her relationship needs. So why do you have to try and change men once you start "giving" them regular intimacy and decide it's relationship material? I don't understand this inevitability. PLease

thewrongdossier

Joined: 3/21/2008

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When a woman finds a man attractive she will first look at his shoes.?. Posted: 9/7/2008 7:13:33 AM
If by shoes you mean penis then yeah that's what they do. They prefer size 12.

thewrongdossier

Joined: 3/21/2008

Msg: 699 (view)

The Republican Convention 08 Posted: 9/5/2008 3:12:51 PM
"They were citizens of a country that was making war with South Vietnam. IF you are against that bombing, then you would also have to be against the Allies bombing of Germany and Japan in WWII." Ahhhhhh....rolls up my sleeves... The thing I would advise any American to do when thinking about his/her country's foreign militaristic affairs is this... Think first about the origin of that war and not about the effect of that "war" on your psyche. Once you can think critically enough to question the war's origin then you can start to peel away the layers of shit that your government and media thrusts on you...how do even know there is a war going on without media. side note: origin of the word government....first part = GOVERN 1297, from O.Fr. governer "govern," from L. gubernare "to direct, rule, guide," originally "to steer," from Gk. kybernan "to steer or pilot a ship, direct" (the root of cybernetics). reference http://www.etymonline.com/index.php?l=g&p=8 and the last part MENTE, well I think we all know roughly what that translates to...YOUR MIND... you think that this word isn't chosen for a reason? 911 was a fresh reminder of the "danger" that foreign enemies pose wasn't it?...(extremely sarcastic) While I fully respect all the lives that were lost in any war, you have to again ask why there ever weas a war inthe first place.

thewrongdossier

Joined: 3/21/2008

Msg: 674 (view)

The Republican Convention 08 Posted: 9/5/2008 12:30:46 PM
http://ca.youtube.com/watch?v=jczHV50BYgs I hope you enjoyed carpet bombing millions of innocent people in Hanoi before you got shot down Senator. ** Obama ** Mccain

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