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ang65

Joined: 3/23/2008

Msg: 306 (view)

Money spent on dinner dates Posted: 8/29/2008 4:59:47 PM
I have given up on serious dating, been there, been hurt too many times. Now I just date for fun. Had a great date yesterday, dinner and shopping, spent 800 of his money in an hour. There are no men my age that are serious or if they are they have too many kids or ex wives. I have also become an empty vesical and feel like plastic most of the time. I am incapable of human emotions any more. I just feel nothing for anyone and my best friend is cash

ang65

Joined: 3/23/2008

Msg: 61 (view)

goldigger vs easy Posted: 8/20/2008 8:32:29 AM
any woman who has sex with anyone but her husband is a whore because it is sex outside of marriage, giving it away for free doesn't make it any more respectable.

ang65

Joined: 3/23/2008

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goldigger vs easy Posted: 8/19/2008 10:28:52 PM
I agree that just because a guy makes alot of money doesn't mean he will spend it and there are alot of poor guys out there that would spend their last dime on you but there is only so much they can do, despite their kind heart. Give me a man with cash anyday, love only hurts you, money can buy stuff that lasts. I am proud to be a golddigger spending my days finding a new conquest and now that I am unemployed I need me a guy to pay the bills. Got 6 potentials for this coming week.

ang65

Joined: 3/23/2008

Msg: 304 (view)

Money spent on dinner dates Posted: 8/19/2008 10:25:08 PM
I have a date friday night with another potential sugardaddy. My last one moved out of state. Who is paying for dinner? What kind of question is that? HE IS PAYING I will have the lobster, if the gentlemen is good and generous, I will give him the catfish later. Hoooray for golddiggers

ang65

Joined: 3/23/2008

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Sugardaddy offer Posted: 6/29/2008 4:45:54 PM
I have met many men who are decent respectable people who have good marriages but they are not happy with their sex lives. Most of these men provide very well for their wives but the wives don't appreciate it . I have no problem seeing a married man because I honestly think they are more sane than some of the single guys on these sites. After all when a married man wants to meet a woman, he can't do it through family and friends or just go up to someone in the street, whereas all these single men who claim to be so social and popular can't seem to find a woman through other channels and have to online date. If a man finds a nice woman on the side and gets what he is missing from his marriage and he gives the lady what she needs financially, it's a win win situation and the marriage stays in tact.

ang65

Joined: 3/23/2008

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Hi just had a date from hell....again Posted: 6/29/2008 4:37:17 PM
Where are you ladies getting these men? I guess it's because I haven't been meeting guys on these sites in a couple years, but I have never been in a situation where the guy didn't pay when we went to dinner. A gentleman always pays. I have had some guys that I met at a coffee shop and they didn't even offer coffee, and needlesstosay their fate was sealed. I cannot respect a man who expects me to pay half on a date. That's what I do with girlfriends which is fine because I am not trying to court my girlfriends. Next time excuse yourself to go to the ladies room, leave the restaraunt and leave him with the entire bill afterall you don't want to see him again anyway.

ang65

Joined: 3/23/2008

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Sugardaddy offer Posted: 6/28/2008 3:51:17 PM
Well I'm over 40 and my sugardaddy offers have been mostly men in their 30's. Some men want young immature women for sugarbabies and some want a more mature woman closer to their age that they can relate to and work out an arrangement that suits both parties rather than the younger ones give me give me attitude. A real arrangement is talked about ande agreed upon in a mature way. Most men in my age range looking for relationship are either single and wanting to marry a much younger woman to have children or they are divorced with small children, which I am not interested in. I will spend my time with a sugardaddy and when I get too old to have one, the other guys my age will still be single (because no one seems to commit to anyone nowday anyway) and their kids will have grown up.

ang65

Joined: 3/23/2008

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Sugardaddy offer Posted: 6/27/2008 7:35:47 PM
plentyof milk duds on POF. I would never consider anyone one here. There are quality sites for that kind of thing and the men don't worry about who pays for dinner,etc, It's actually a class act.

ang65

Joined: 3/23/2008

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Misrepresentation Posted: 6/27/2008 7:08:17 PM
I don't have a picture because I'm not looking to meet anyone on here. As far as the heart being important, I don't care about that as I have had mine broken many times but I hear people say that the heart is the most important thing, then it should be, even if the person is fat, after all you can live fat, but you can't live without money. lol

ang65

Joined: 3/23/2008

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Misrepresentation Posted: 6/27/2008 7:06:11 PM
I agree if they have ex wives and children, but these men where either single, not married, or their kids were grown. They dont' make the money they claim they do, simple.

ang65

Joined: 3/23/2008

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Misrepresentation Posted: 6/27/2008 6:58:53 PM
a few extra pounds would be about 3 or 4 pounds, not 20-100 extra. lol

ang65

Joined: 3/23/2008

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Misrepresentation Posted: 6/27/2008 6:56:55 PM
I agree but the guy who lies about his income is still quick to judge the woman who lied about her weight. I have been on these dates and listened to guys tell me about the women that had lied to them and then I look at their teeth and cars and it's obvious they dont' make 100k so it kind of evens out. I personally have never had to lie as I weigh less than 100 lbs but I have had so many guys tell me this stuff

ang65

Joined: 3/23/2008

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Misrepresentation Posted: 6/27/2008 6:51:09 PM
I don't believe in lying on a profile because after all if you actually meet someone, you can't hide behind a lie. I just meet so many guys who mention they make 100K and it is obvious that they don't. The same guys will say a woman lyed about her weight. It seems ok for a man to lie as women are being shallow if it bothers us that their income is not what they said it was BUT if a woman's body is not what she said it was, a man gets all critical.

ang65

Joined: 3/23/2008

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Misrepresentation Posted: 6/27/2008 6:32:49 PM
what makes me mad is how many guys complain about women lying about their weight on their profiles. I have had guys tell me that the met some woman who was average and weighed 200 lbs. I can understand men being ticked off by the deception but then again men lie about their income all the time. If a woman says something about that, well then we are gold diggers because it shouldnt' matter how much a guy makes. Well then, the guy should leave it off his profile or say under 25k (many dating sites have this detail on their profiles) and the guys shouldn't get mad when a woman is fat because after all isn't her "heart" all that matters. Lying is double standard on these sites.

ang65

Joined: 3/23/2008

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Sugardaddy offer Posted: 6/27/2008 6:28:02 PM
A woman can give herself up to countless "relationships" with men who care nothing about her and even make her pay on dates, and then he moves onto someone else (he had no intention of ever marrying her ) OR she can find a sugardaddy to indulge her with the same expectations in return as a traditional "relationship" and have fun, be treated, and profit for it. Sex has nothing to do with love in today's society (does anyone really believe that all the welfare mothers with numerous kids by different fathers, actually was "loved" by all these guys? No, she was used and she let herself be used. If I give you the benefits of being a husband, I want something in return, either a ring and committment or material goods.

ang65

Joined: 3/23/2008

Msg: 91 (view)

Sugardaddy offer Posted: 6/27/2008 6:16:12 PM
Yes I have a job but the pay sucks. I work very hard but my employer doesn't appreciate it. It is never enough even though I sometimes do the work of 2 people (when a coworker decides to call in or stays out all night and can't come to work the next day). Hours are sparce though and my schedule is always different each week, plus with no car and living in a bad area, I have to work close to home. I do not plan to move to a better place because I might find myself not being able to afford the rent when my sugardaddy days are over, I stay at the cheapest place I can. I can get more from my sugardaddy in a short time than I make in 2 weeks at work.

ang65

Joined: 3/23/2008

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do you ignore homeless people Posted: 6/27/2008 5:50:52 PM
no I can't say that I do anything because some of them can be aggresive but I feel for them as any of us could be that way. It makes me mad though when I see homeless americans (drug addicts, drunks, etc) on the street while people from other countries who have herds of kids, live in free apartments, free food, and everything).

ang65

Joined: 3/23/2008

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Who Pays???? Posted: 6/27/2008 5:46:32 PM
the man ALWAYS pays. This is why I don't waste my time trying to meet anyone on here, I use the sugardaddy site to get what I want, sugardaddies don't worry about paying

ang65

Joined: 3/23/2008

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Why do women put dollar amounts on everything Posted: 6/27/2008 5:45:19 PM
I keep a chart on my email notepad listing each date and how much they spent, have regular file set up for each sugardaddy or boyfriend I have had. The more you spend on me, the nicer I will be

ang65

Joined: 3/23/2008

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Sugardaddy offer Posted: 6/27/2008 5:43:00 PM
Anyone out there have an out of town sugardaddy that they see when he is in town? How is it working out? I have a potential sugardaddy that is coming to my town soon and we want to set up an arrangement. Do you stay at his hotel, etc?

ang65

Joined: 3/23/2008

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Does anyone use Paid dating sites? Posted: 6/27/2008 9:05:57 AM
didn't see a post on this but what happened to people letting the other person know what they will be wearing before meeting? I think it is alot easier to say I will be wearing a white shirt and black pants or a blue polo shirt than just looking for a guy with brown hair and blue eyes, especially in a crowd. It seems like guys will say, I'm not sure what I am wearing yet, etc. It would make it alot easier to me to find the guy by what he is wearing than rather he has blue or brown eyes.

ang65

Joined: 3/23/2008

Msg: 63 (view)

she doesn't like me spending money on her Posted: 6/21/2008 7:04:18 PM
Any woman who doesn't want to spend a man's money needs her head examined. I have no problem spending guys money. Just pick it up and put it in the shopping cart, I need that 40 dollar shampoo.

ang65

Joined: 3/23/2008

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Women and Guys Shoes Posted: 6/21/2008 7:01:32 PM
Nothing sick about liking shoes. I have about 60 pair but really need a dozen more pairs. I sometimes wish I had more feet so I could wear several pairs at once.

ang65

Joined: 3/23/2008

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Met a girl for the first time on here Posted: 6/21/2008 5:26:12 PM
On one first date with a man I met online (not on this site) that I ended up dating for several months, he took me to dinner and paid, bought me lingerie and perfume and gave me some cash. Very nice first date and I was very impressed and obliged.

ang65

Joined: 3/23/2008

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women who overlook single guys for married, attached ones... Posted: 6/21/2008 5:09:02 PM
I have found from experience that married men are more accommindating and will do more than single men. After all the married men are taken, so there has to be something to it. I have a married lover that thinks nothing of driving a great distance to see me, and always finds time no matter how busy his schedule whereas I have tried dating various single men who were always too busy or thought an hour drive once a week to see me was to demanding.

ang65

Joined: 3/23/2008

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why do you go on 1st date so casual... Posted: 6/21/2008 5:04:24 PM
Personally I hate a slob. A man looks much more attractive in a nice dress shirt, dresspants and a nice tie, preferably pink or blue. Jeans are ok for washing the car of a picnic, not a first meeting. I hate met several men who show up in shorts (shorts should be banned from public food places as I do not want to look at someone's legs while I'm eating, that includes those overweight people with nasty legs, and men with really hairy legs). Men, please wear a nice dress shirt and tie, please. I personally dress up all the time, even to go to the laundry. I have my clothing lined up for the week, cordinated with matching shoes, handbag, etc and wear it accordingly on schedule regardless of circumstances. If it is 100 tuesday and a I have a sweater scheduled to be worn that day, I will wear the sweater regardless. Wearing nice clothing is one of the most important things in life.

ang65

Joined: 3/23/2008

Msg: 532 (view)

Invited a woman to drive 60 miles to meet for a cup of coffee !! Posted: 6/21/2008 4:04:35 PM
I once had a man who wouldn't meet me at the starbucks close to my home because it meant he would have to park outside the shopping center and walk across the parking lot in the hot sun and he didn't like that. He preferred to meet at a location where he could park right up at the coffee shop. He didn't consider that I don't have a car and would have to take a bus, get off and walk half a mile along the freeway (sidewalks long gone with construction of roads going on nonstop) to get to where he wanted to meet in the hot sun. I blew him off. If I can walk to the bustop ( a block) wait in the sun for a bus, and then walk from the busstop to the coffee place (one block, he could have certainly walked the short distance from the parking lot to the coffee place. If a man is a gentlemen he will come to you after all you should meet in a place that you are familiar for your own safety

ang65

Joined: 3/23/2008

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Sugardaddy offer Posted: 6/20/2008 2:47:32 PM
Guys just have no clue what a sugardaddy is, especially these young ones under 50. Geesh ! Why do they worry about driving 50 miles and gas when they are suppposed to be worth 1 million and make 500K a year? And these single ones are so unwilling to bend when the married ones don't worry about driving and time, the poser sugar daddies do everything they can to be cheap.

ang65

Joined: 3/23/2008

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Guys that us POF chat....... Posted: 6/19/2008 2:29:09 PM
I dont' like chat. I like to have time to read and ask questions when I am first making contact with a guy so I don't want to be constantly typing stupid stuff like, Hi, how are you, good, ok , yes, etc. Also there will be several guys that want to chat at the same time, who wants that, I don't. And some people don't know when to stop, there comes a point where a person wants to sign off.

ang65

Joined: 3/23/2008

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Sugardaddy offer Posted: 6/19/2008 10:44:00 AM
It's funny I get messages from guys on a sugardaddy website. We trade emails, and he asks me what i'm looking for. I tell him what I'm looking for , friendship, etc but when I say I'm looking for financial assistance too, they stop emailing. What are these men doing on a sugardady website if they are willing to give the woman money? They don't know what a sugar daddy is.

ang65

Joined: 3/23/2008

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Not enough time........ Posted: 6/19/2008 8:20:13 AM
I met a guy on another site and we dated for about 4 and half months. At first, he was calling me constantly and we seen each other 2 or 3 times a week. Then he got really busy and couldn't even email me. He used every excuse there was, he was working hard, had to drive his grown daughter to the airport (this happened several times and the daughter had a husband that could have taken her), he had to babysit for his grandkids (again the parents could have gotten a sitter so that my boyfriend could have taken me out for valentine's day) he used every excuse in the book, too busy house hunting and running errands, etc. He sent me several emails listing why he couldn't date anymore. This man was almost 60 so it wasn't like he was just starting out in life, he could have found time.

ang65

Joined: 3/23/2008

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Do women ever wear garters and stockings anymore? Posted: 6/17/2008 6:58:34 PM
I do. Summer or winter

ang65

Joined: 3/23/2008

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Why do women who show cleavage get upset when a guy stares at their breasts? Posted: 6/17/2008 6:55:42 PM
I guess it's the same as when a guy puts a photo of his expensive car in his profile and then complains women are after his money.

ang65

Joined: 3/23/2008

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Gold digger and 4,151 emails Posted: 6/16/2008 9:48:49 PM
The funny thing is that most men who worry about gold diggers have no money to dig. First if the lady expects you to pay for the date, she is not a gold digger, it is your duty if you are a gentleman. I've given up on men and got me a sugardaddy. I gotta have that shopping money and I don't want to work hard for it. Also some men don't know the meaning of the term "sugardaddy" If you buy a woman drinks or lunch , that's not a sugar daddy thing, that's a date. You gotta put out some cash and gifts to be a sugar daddy. I don't want to be spoiled with kisses or affection, I want to be spoiled with money and nice dinners.

ang65

Joined: 3/23/2008

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3rd date Sex then the guy disappears Posted: 6/11/2008 7:34:11 PM
I met a guy online, we went out 3 times, just dates, nice ones however. Kept in touch 4 months, started dating, became intimate 2 weeks later, had good relationship for several months, and then all of a sudden he can no longer date because his grown daughter and grandchild have moved in with him. I would say the guy you met was just after sex.

ang65

Joined: 3/23/2008

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What is a Real Man? Posted: 6/11/2008 6:58:33 PM
A real man holds his woman in high regard. Respects her, treats her as he treats himself, takes care of her (provides for her if they are married so that she can stay home and take care of the kids). Is faithful, trustworthy, and can be friends with females too. Not afraid of what his friends say, puts his woman first. And a real man ALWAYS pays on dates.

ang65

Joined: 3/23/2008

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One for the girls.... Oral sex after intercourse Posted: 6/11/2008 4:57:03 PM
my married lover always goes down on me after we have intercourse.

ang65

Joined: 3/23/2008

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If you're independant, why R U here? Posted: 6/11/2008 8:57:49 AM
I'm not independent. I enjoy time alone and making my own decisions but I need other people on a daily basis. I find people who say they don't need anyone to be very cold. I do need people. I need passion, love, conversation, friendship.

ang65

Joined: 3/23/2008

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ice ice baby Posted: 6/11/2008 8:36:43 AM
My married lover used to use ice everytime we did it. I hated it because I went numb and I don't think you are supposed to go numb. I keep the ice away from him now though.

ang65

Joined: 3/23/2008

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anal YIPPPIE SKIPPPE Posted: 6/11/2008 8:35:07 AM
I have read that you can rip the spot in between your poop shute and your vagina and end up pooping through your vagina. To each his own, but personally I find anything to do with the poopshute very unsexual. The male point I can understand because their prostate gland is accessible there, but what a woman would want with that, I don't understand. An enlarged anal opening is not a good look.

ang65

Joined: 3/23/2008

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Clean-Up afterwards...disturbing???!!!!??? Posted: 6/9/2008 5:57:24 PM
I couldn't post a response on the other thread but after reading your profile , a couple looking for other couples, I had to say that your lifestyle has some controversy in it too.

ang65

Joined: 3/23/2008

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Clean-Up afterwards...disturbing???!!!!??? Posted: 6/9/2008 5:22:59 PM
If it is nighttime then it isn't necessary but if it is in the middle of the day and you have places to go, etc it is a good idea to shower and clean up. I have no problem with a guy showering after wards as I am used to it as my married lover always does it, gotta make sure I have some guy's bodywash though as it wouldn't be good for him to go out smelling like victoria's secret. lol

ang65

Joined: 3/23/2008

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How did your parents find out that you were having sex? Posted: 6/8/2008 6:48:24 PM
they never did because I didn't have sex till I was an adult.

ang65

Joined: 3/23/2008

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new car vs old car Posted: 6/8/2008 6:47:33 PM
the key is to date a man who has a nice car and makes a good wage $$$$. My ex had a mercedes and still had plenty of money to take care of me and buy my 40 dollar shampoo.

ang65

Joined: 3/23/2008

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Anyone else into hugging? Posted: 6/8/2008 6:44:49 PM
I love hugging. Even though I can't really stand to sleep with anyone I have to have my huggy pillow with me or I can't sleep. I named him Billie Joe armstrong after the guy in greenday, oooh I'd love to hug him.

ang65

Joined: 3/23/2008

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Does anyone use Paid dating sites? Posted: 6/8/2008 3:56:30 PM
True.com is a scam. They send out random winks from women to men to get the men to join. I got so many guys winking back at me that I had never even contacted. I had a 90 day free membership but the kept me on for free for 2 years. I used match and was a member for about a year (had some family issues at first so I was slow to get into it) I didn't meet anyone that led to anything but made a profit because I got more back from the guys in dinners and financial help than I spent out. I joined another site after that for 6 months, met a guy and got alot out of him, so I really profited from it and had a good relationship with him for 6 months. Got nothing but emails from POF and then joined a sugardaddy site, payed a reasonable amount, met a sugardaddy on first date. A sugardaddy site is your best bet because at least you won't have to worry about whether he is going to pay for dinner.

ang65

Joined: 3/23/2008

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new car vs old car Posted: 6/8/2008 3:13:47 PM
the car makes the man. That was what attracted me to my last boyfriend, his mercedes. Some cars make a man sexy, now personally I dont go in for trucks or motorcycles. I can be friends with those guys but just can't feel anything sexy towards them not even Hummers. Mercedes , BMW, and Jaquars get my attention. Not into guys who drive 2 seater sports cars either. I once had a guy ask me out that owned a new Corvette and his obsession with that car turned me off.

ang65

Joined: 3/23/2008

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perfume Posted: 6/8/2008 2:25:28 PM
I have had this experience with men wearing to much cologne. And a few times I have met a guy who was trying to hide the fact that he was a heavy smoker (although he said he didn't smoke) by wearing a bunch of cologne. Nothing grosser than cigarette breath through heavy cologne.

ang65

Joined: 3/23/2008

Msg: 23 (view)

Virgin at 26? Posted: 6/8/2008 2:23:20 PM
It's nothing to be ashamed of. Just make sure you find a man who is worthy of you or you will end up being used.

ang65

Joined: 3/23/2008

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anal YIPPPIE SKIPPPE Posted: 6/8/2008 2:19:56 PM
I don't take part in gross unnatural acts though. I understand why guys might like it, but why would any woman want to have her body damaged that way?

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