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Has being online toughened you up emotionally or made you more sensitive? Posted: 7/10/2008 4:03:58 PM
It hasn't toughened me up at all but it has opened my eyes, primarily to the fact that women using online dating sites seem to have to put up with a whole load of crap from "men" (deliberate quotes). Now maybe I'm old-fashioned and naive and inexperienced but what is the point of giving women so much hassle, if they say no (or don't reply at all) then move on to the next one. And as for contacting them to tell them they're ugly or they'll always be single, FFS get a life that means you don't have to compensate for your own insecurities and whilst you're at it please go away because you make life hard for all the genuine, sensitive, caring, honest guys here. No wonder women are cautious when there are so many people here with the wrong motives. If I don't get a reply from someone I message (a frequent occurence ) I just move on to the next one with an ever so slightly bruised ego. Lets face it its far less scary then walking up to a woman in a bar and saying hi and it hasn't cost you anything.

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Would you date a woman with hair on her chest? Posted: 4/6/2008 3:38:13 PM
Strange thread. I'm old enough and European enough to remember when it was quite normal for women to be "naturally" hairy. Whilst in general I think British sexual preferences have found armpit hair unattractive it was extremely commonplace in "mainland" Europe up to the mid-80s. I certainly remember a big deal being made of women who shaved everywhere. Personally I don't find it unattractive although if a woman was as hairy as I am I'm not so sure. All a bit shallow to judge attractiveness on one physical attribute but what really surprises/disappoints me is the nausea people report - the hairy = unclean = disgusting thing.

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Are men turned off by politically involved women? Posted: 3/31/2008 2:54:38 PM
I'm not, in fact quite the opposite as long as we're not polar opposites. No way I could be with a fascist/racist (unless I thought I could make her see the light!). I think commitment to a cause and principles are to be admired, and a spot of intelligent conversation/argument is always healthy. Great fun for spicing up dinner parties as well.

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