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leagueofextraordinarymen

Joined: 3/24/2008

Msg: 96 (view)

Men and self esteem Posted: 11/21/2009 4:01:46 AM
It's definitely some what culture based, I have lived in many countries and yes the problems are similar but not as prevalent as in our industrial worlds, for obvious reasons; TV,magazines,appearance is everything, etc... I think comes down to, most men don't care, and those that do, well we see "it" everyday in the news. Someone was/or is smart enough to realise they will never win over the plenitude of men to buy into this stereotype (must have been a woman), and most women easily fall victims to this, media speaks for itself. We as an industrial country/ies are programmed for wants and needs, other countries don't look at it this way, they don't have or want the things we do so there really is nothing to fail at, they are married, happy, have children, live in there hut,a few chickens and kick a soccer ball around and are very content as was their fathers. There's not much to aspire to(there) as here in our industrial worlds. I'm now retired and have started watching TV, and Soaps, now my self esteem is taking a shiit kickin lol...I never knew men could be made to look so "PRETTY", people actually watch that stuff. Now I know why they use these soaps as a means of torture in Guantanamo.

leagueofextraordinarymen

Joined: 3/24/2008

Msg: 74 (view)

whats the most orgasms you've had in one day? Posted: 11/20/2009 9:30:27 AM
People only keep count if it's less than "1"

leagueofextraordinarymen

Joined: 3/24/2008

Msg: 44 (view)

Wants to know about past realationship Posted: 11/20/2009 9:12:45 AM
^^^^^Is this the advice you would give your daughter!!! I think not. and at what point would it be his business....wouldn't you like to know your friends BF had been in jail and charged with sex related offences and she is bringing him around your children..."Oh but its only been 5 weeks"

leagueofextraordinarymen

Joined: 3/24/2008

Msg: 41 (view)

Wants to know about past realationship Posted: 11/20/2009 8:50:43 AM
If he's in jail I would like to know why....if you feel the jail bird could be a threat,ya you better tell your new BF....many years ago I was jumped outside of my GF house, it was her ex....fresh out of jail....he was a nut bar....I wear those scars every day...she still regrets not telling me. Remember there are pedophiles on every street corner, I'm sure you people would like to know that....ahead of time. If it's one cause for concern ,it's a person that is in jail no matter what the circumstances are. People that say its none of the new BF business,you don't know just how ridiculous that argument sounds. Any Police Officer will tell you different. Once you live it's too late to change it, why not side with caution. I'm sure Fathers and Mothers would tell their children differently if they came to them with this problem....Right!!!!

leagueofextraordinarymen

Joined: 3/24/2008

Msg: 94 (view)

He's banged his open-relationship roomie.... Posted: 11/20/2009 5:46:41 AM
First of all I would have never told you I had slept with my room mate.....it's none of your business.....I don't care how honest that sounds on his part, he's just admitting to the lesser crime as most do...then when it happens again, he has all ready set the stage for, it's not like I was hiding it from you". Do your boyfriends always walk you down the street and point out every woman they have slept with !!!! He's an idiot, no way in hell would I have been so disrespectful to introduce you to such a low life, It would have been hi this is so and so and that would have been it....and when people say they are in an open relationship, do you really understand what that entails....absolutely "no honesty", the sky is the limit" ... sure it's nice to coin a phrase,"I'm in an honest and open relationship","really" I laugh when I hear that.

leagueofextraordinarymen

Joined: 3/24/2008

Msg: 73 (view)

Is being yourself really good advice? Posted: 11/19/2009 6:17:02 AM
OP; Tell that to a politician, we know they "all" lie, and are always fronting themselves as honest etc..., I just wonder if they turn that off when they go home at night....I wonder how theycan look in the mirror everyday and smile at themselves....no wonder I never vote. As far as relationships, these people who do this are really only cheating themselves from one of life's many great gifts, honesty,integrity etc...they are only fooling themselves and they know they are living a sad pathetic life, "that's the sad part". It must be hard to wake up re invent themselves everyday. It's so much easier to live an honest life.

leagueofextraordinarymen

Joined: 3/24/2008

Msg: 45 (view)

belly button kissing and licking Posted: 11/18/2009 8:39:28 AM
Some one better tell him sheep don't have belly buttons, I read that somewhere, honest!!! Of course some of them do, but obviously not any of the women on this site!!!!

leagueofextraordinarymen

Joined: 3/24/2008

Msg: 37 (view)

whats the most orgasms you've had in one day? Posted: 11/18/2009 8:18:46 AM
I think I had half of one, once. I was traumatised as a child as my mother told me not to play with it because glue would come out and seal it shut forever, I also caught my dad trying to glue my mothers mouth shut one night I was horrified, I told my pastor during a church sermon, the people where just as horrified as I was, some women even fainted... little Johny stood up and said, its ok as long as she swallows it like my mom.....at that time I had to ask little Johnny why do you always have your ass in the fridge in the pastors study room, he piped up and said ,because pastor frank likes a cool one after the Sunday sermon,,,again women started to faint.... when I got older (20 something) I realised my momma was lying because it wouldn't hold my model planes together My momma finally told me the truth and said its takes my glue plus a girls glue to make it bond properly...so I thought to myself I better"stick' with the sheep just like grampy... I always thought he was the smartest man on earth you know!!!!

leagueofextraordinarymen

Joined: 3/24/2008

Msg: 70 (view)

The other side of WTF was he thinking? Posted: 11/18/2009 5:14:09 AM
^^^^That's the problem, we did understand what he said, it's what he didn't say. You even said "you (figure) that was the (gist)". Like he said "shaking the chicken coup" again a feeble attempt to right his wrong.JMO

leagueofextraordinarymen

Joined: 3/24/2008

Msg: 63 (view)

I have zero experience with older men. Posted: 11/18/2009 4:29:27 AM
The thing is "it was spoken over the phone" so you couldn't get a good read on his "BODY" language... or the smile he had on his face...or the twinkle in his eye, nothing has happened "yet" so why all the verbal diarrhea. It's like telling your friends not to leave their socks on the floor because the dog may eat them, it's not an issue until they leave their socks on the floor and the dog eats them. I'm seeing mountains that were once mole hills....

leagueofextraordinarymen

Joined: 3/24/2008

Msg: 26 (view)

How long do you keep fighting? Posted: 11/18/2009 4:04:54 AM
As others have said "STOP" now and have some dignity. I think you were soul mates, as you both think alike!!!!! and can easily connect on that spiritual level, it's just with "other people"! or maybe even on the religious track, you know the words and have probably spoke of him often "Oh God" while in the midst of the battle "Good Versus Evil". I think I see another #1 and another and another etc...

leagueofextraordinarymen

Joined: 3/24/2008

Msg: 47 (view)

I have zero experience with older men. Posted: 11/17/2009 4:19:12 PM
Now wouldn't that be a laugh (maybe not) if you couldn't keep up with him.....just because a woman is in her prime doesn't give her exclusive rights to be a "prima donnas"...I wouldn't even bring it up again, if he does, just tell him not to be so silly...it really is that simple, why do brainy people have to make things so complicated. I think the actual act of intercourse is overrated, if you are just banging, as to making love..."did I just say that outloud" I thought after reading all these forums that most women put foreplay first and foremost... and who can't do that for any length of time, oh ya selfish people, have a nice night....

leagueofextraordinarymen

Joined: 3/24/2008

Msg: 61 (view)

do ladies get turned on by strong hands and fingers.. Posted: 11/17/2009 3:22:15 PM
And just what is it that you can do that others can't.....tell us please, curious minds want to know.....I'm ambidextrous, so I guess I have you beat "hands" down!!!

leagueofextraordinarymen

Joined: 3/24/2008

Msg: 174 (view)

Why Do Men Think All Women Like Their 12 Inchers????? Posted: 11/17/2009 2:26:48 PM
For me it's all about optical illusions; mine just looks bigger because I have very short legs I tried a penis extension one time, the dog had chewed it up a bit before hand, it sure was an ugly site, I really felt sorry for her A woman once told me it was small and cute,I argued the fact about the cute part!!!!

leagueofextraordinarymen

Joined: 3/24/2008

Msg: 57 (view)

Anybody here gone Speed Dating? Posted: 11/17/2009 1:49:50 PM
I have not been myself, but I watched Dateline NBC. if they charge an enormous amount of money and offer coupons for the 2nd and 3rd meetings, they might be set up to rip you off, many pretty ladies but you won't get a date, they work for the dating company. These guys were paying 50-100$ for meeting 10 women. A new grp of men comes in every 1.5hrs, thats quite the haul for a night of idle chit chat.

leagueofextraordinarymen

Joined: 3/24/2008

Msg: 66 (view)

Nose & Ear Hair Posted: 11/17/2009 12:07:55 PM
Women with hairy moles, I swear they come alive and crawl around when you're not looking... I have to let the hairs on my back grow to at least 5 " before I can yank them as I have very short arms

leagueofextraordinarymen

Joined: 3/24/2008

Msg: 43 (view)

No-one likes him except me Posted: 11/17/2009 11:03:59 AM
Why is it that he has to have a job, if she is willing to work to support both of them ,whats the big deal! Not working or contributing does not make someone a bum....women have done it for years....whats wrong with giving emotionally and not financially, maybe she makes enough money, there are many relationships where only one partner works... At least she knows already that he's not working, God forbid he gets hired at McDonald's, because I fear that wouldn't be good enough for the family either!!!! Sure be careful, like others have said, you can see whats in-front of you, and ask more questions of him, "whats worse a guy that lies and works or a guy that lies and doesn't work" .

leagueofextraordinarymen

Joined: 3/24/2008

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The other side of WTF was he thinking? Posted: 11/16/2009 6:46:58 AM
Op , I think "you" should read what you wrote. You left out some key factors and are now mentioning them after the fact....that's called back peddling. I also comment on just the facts, however since they have not come to light until now, I must come to the conclusion that you have posted this just to let her know how you feel, as she now has you blocked without any other forms of communication with her, this is your only means....why are you pissed, you had mentioned that she was not your type...hence this brings me to my conclusion.

leagueofextraordinarymen

Joined: 3/24/2008

Msg: 27 (view)

Do you feel you Do More in a relationship - Or does your SO do more for you? Posted: 11/16/2009 6:25:41 AM
I would have to agree with the first two posts; I love to do things for people, that's just my nature, I also wouldn't say that others are selfish for not giving back. However there is a difference between laziness, not caring and being thoughtful and caring. It's easy to say how much one appreciates what the other does for them, if they cannot fathom that ideology; then they are surely lacking the many people person skills that I desire in a relationship.

leagueofextraordinarymen

Joined: 3/24/2008

Msg: 32 (view)

How long does it take for you to get sick of people? Posted: 11/16/2009 6:01:13 AM
"Some" people can use their best friend as a measuring stick, if you are spending an equal amount of time with your BF/GF as with your best friend, it's probably just the right amount, I say this because, people can balance time with their friends and never get tired or bored of them; phone, going out, and constant forms of communication throughout week etc... For those that bore easily and can't find anything to talk about or do, "you must be very boring people". JMO

leagueofextraordinarymen

Joined: 3/24/2008

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Careers that Drain Your Energy Posted: 11/3/2009 6:36:01 AM
Hence my early retirement (47), I have lived enough for three lifetimes, so it's now time for family and friends. I have worked on two careers at the same time, yes two and refused to slow down, including all my adventures that have taken me around the world, it's nice to get paid for a career that does not feel like work. Then my health became an issue and I was told to slow down, I was actually forced to retire. I was dedicated to one career in particular (a high level readiness unit) which required great sacrifices and I was never home (an empty house is not what I considered home), heck my home was a hotel and a suitcase most of my life, but I loved what I did and would do it all again. My son now wishes to follow in my footsteps, I just hope he realises when it's time to step out of those footsteps, turn around and come home.

leagueofextraordinarymen

Joined: 3/24/2008

Msg: 42 (view)

Saying I love you for the first time Posted: 11/2/2009 4:02:42 PM
You say "you have been dating on and off for a year"....does that mean not exclusive, more time off then on....If you two can't communicate your feelings that you love each other that leaves you with only one option. If you are tired of waiting and are sincere with your intentions, profess your love. Logically a reply from him should not be expected to be reciprocated as he might not be in love with you at this time. Be prepared for an honest answer that might not be in your favour. It should not be a deal breaker, JMO; but I have seen it happen to people who have been together much longer than your relationship.

leagueofextraordinarymen

Joined: 3/24/2008

Msg: 55 (view)

Confused & upset - Why do men do this? Posted: 11/2/2009 3:25:02 PM
OP; You asked and yes you now have a million answers, pick one, they are probably wrong...deal with facts, not assumptions. The fact is you will never know unless he contacts you again. This is a simple as simple gets. Best of luck with your future endeavours.

leagueofextraordinarymen

Joined: 3/24/2008

Msg: 27 (view)

Does exactly what it says on the tin? hmmm doubtful! Posted: 10/30/2009 2:00:08 PM
^^^^I did a search, she's on here lol...just kidding ,maybe I will do a search though...

leagueofextraordinarymen

Joined: 3/24/2008

Msg: 72 (view)

guy/girls who were cheap on date Posted: 10/30/2009 8:22:26 AM
^^^^Have you read some of the posts, they "might" pay for the tip , if it was a good date....so what is considered a "good date". They donot seem to understand how ironic that is, and retributive of their own character, not so flawless after all. You are not bringing anything new to the table, menial and benevolent at best... to some of these ladies it's trivial, nothing they have not experienced. But stating you will pay! hah! what happens if she insists on paying and will not back down, they are out there...you are now shall we say "being new schooled period".

leagueofextraordinarymen

Joined: 3/24/2008

Msg: 68 (view)

guy/girls who were cheap on date Posted: 10/30/2009 7:01:46 AM
Ok some of the ladies are sounding like women of ill repute, you mean all some men have to do is buy you drinks and dinner a few times and they get "some"!!! that's much cheaper than a escort, not that I would know!!! It's so profound to hear some of the people say, "I have never paid for date"!!! You make it sound as though you are special....and there is something wrong with a woman that does.... putting words in your mouth! Honestly, some men don't mind paying for sex no matter what the cost, but I'm sure you have learned that in life nothing is "free". Is there any difference between a cheap date and an expensive date(intellectually), what I'm to take away from this thread is that a man in an Armani suit is not cheap and the lady he dines with is. There's a riddle in there for the wiser.... Some people have stated they don't date cheap men, I would like to know how it is you know this...just by someone taking you out on a date and he pays...does not equate to, them not being cheap....I thought this would be obvious, some have much to learn in life. My dates cost nothing....after a few weekends of hiking and packing your own lunch, and carrying my canoe, ya I will splurge.

leagueofextraordinarymen

Joined: 3/24/2008

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Does exactly what it says on the tin? hmmm doubtful! Posted: 10/30/2009 6:01:22 AM
You are new to the site, just keep refining your profile. You will soon understand what gets the right attention and the wrong. As far as saying one thing and meaning another; if someone has to profess their undying loyalty and trust other than in their profile just sounds off the mark to me, sounds to much like a car salesman/woman. Take the time, let them exhibit these traits, it usually doesn't take long to see that they have the attention span of a piranha, look more meat, ahhh there's meat everywhere!!!!. Good luck on here, it's fun if you want it to be.

leagueofextraordinarymen

Joined: 3/24/2008

Msg: 1099 (view)

I caught my date peeing in the shower!! Posted: 10/29/2009 7:17:28 AM
There are many countries that now promote this function to get rid of your body fluids, it's the "green" thing to do. Or stick with the don't flush it down until it's brown,uggg!peeee(on)uuuuu!no pun intended.

leagueofextraordinarymen

Joined: 3/24/2008

Msg: 856 (view)

Why Are Over 45 Men In Love With Motorcycles? Posted: 10/29/2009 4:59:06 AM
Msg 854 ,I should have said....some women, not all, it was more of a statement to get a rise out of the penis envy women lol...sorry for the pun....and I do realise women dislike motorcycles for many reasons....and yes I even cringe at the noise. Penis extensions, I very impressed with your wit and "friendly" banter....I have never looked at it that way, I mean I have looked at it, just not that way lol....

leagueofextraordinarymen

Joined: 3/24/2008

Msg: 40 (view)

I would like a few opinions on my situation - advice on how to proceed Posted: 10/29/2009 4:16:28 AM
Shmeg2009, excellent post, been there done that; I look back now (Not often) and just shake my head. Some people don't realise the abuse people are willing to put up with when they love someone or maybe they do and are just ignorant of the fact or just ignorant. Yes some call it a "doormat", harsh words, but true. Why, because people just can't see or understand why it's not working, and feel they can make it work because of the fact that they do get along so well. I was the type of person that never failed at anything, I thought I could fix the problem with us. Not realising "us" means two people" and I could not fix her...just hanging on hoping it would work out. I had to break the cycle but I was in love,key word being "I" not us. Well I fixed my problem she just never fixed hers.... As far as the cynicism on here ,what else can be expected from the gallery of online professional shrinks. There are some very good posts and some are as stupid as stupid gets... OP I think in time you will also see how futile it "is" "was", and as they say for good reason "love is blind". As far as one poster stating! you are hopeless, "my friend", very profound words , I think no one would want a friend that offers that kind of advice. and again; great advice from Gump!!!! "poster boy", "wake up"... can't you come up with anything more intelligent.

leagueofextraordinarymen

Joined: 3/24/2008

Msg: 52 (view)

Does the number of people a person has had sex with matter? Posted: 10/28/2009 6:01:08 PM
My cut off point was 250 but I'm finding out that I have to move it up again.... Hey OP those are just the ones that she can remember!!!!

leagueofextraordinarymen

Joined: 3/24/2008

Msg: 853 (view)

Why Are Over 45 Men In Love With Motorcycles? Posted: 10/28/2009 5:46:57 PM
^^^^You've got a point there, I don't think I have a come back for that one, lol...

leagueofextraordinarymen

Joined: 3/24/2008

Msg: 153 (view)

What sign goes good with an aries? Posted: 10/28/2009 5:41:05 PM
All of you astrological gurus do realise it was not that long ago when there were only 8 months in a year and some months were 48 days long or longer....Cesar, everyone's hero!!! had two of the months created after his children Julius and Augustus then he hired some wacko to find some stars that looked like well you get the picture....and had some scribes write a bunch of nonsense to go with the alignment of the stars.... and you also do realise that the Bible considers this a form of satanism!!!! what will we ever do when one of the 12 months are removed from the calendar, because the earths rotation and the ever expanding universe will require it....ya it won't be for another billion yrs, but I'm just saying....who makes this crap up....As far as earth signs, more garbage....that will be the day when I have to wait for her stars to be in alignment in order to have sex lol...I guess this is where the water sign puts out the fire, ok I think I'm getting it now.... back on topic....Budweiser goes great with Aries

leagueofextraordinarymen

Joined: 3/24/2008

Msg: 851 (view)

Why Are Over 45 Men In Love With Motorcycles? Posted: 10/28/2009 4:54:35 PM
What's the difference, women and horses or men and bikes...as far as the women to suggest that men think they are sexy because they ride a motorcycle... I think I sense some penis envy ladies... It's a way of life for some, its no different than a mans love of many things; cars, planes,dogs and yes horses.... Most men over 45 have more time to ride now and as some have suggested ;can now afford to, because their children are grown, it's great way to bond with your son or daughter if they like to ride. Women say they don't want a couch potato, any guy I know that rides, rides quite often and most are involved in charity fund raisers. It's a very large community out there full of bikers, men and women.... I have found the ladies that say they don't like motorcycles are the ones that need their make-up applied every 10 minutes, are scared to get their hair messed up and you can't hide in leathers...every ounce is visible....

leagueofextraordinarymen

Joined: 3/24/2008

Msg: 85 (view)

Do women speak better than men? Posted: 10/28/2009 3:58:14 AM
You must do more research before you post....some countries women are not allowed to speak.....I know not funny, but the truth. There is some truth to the fact "women are better understood as dispatchers, I have dealt with this for over 29yrs and women have this one hands down. Except for a few states where the English language has truly lost the meaning of "phonetics" get it! Have you ever received a phone call from a call center lately

leagueofextraordinarymen

Joined: 3/24/2008

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Is this a date or a job interview? Posted: 10/27/2009 6:13:21 PM
^^^^^^You have answered this question with your own profile, hence why have a profile at all!!!!

leagueofextraordinarymen

Joined: 3/24/2008

Msg: 122 (view)

When should the woman offer to pay? Posted: 10/27/2009 5:56:03 PM
It would be nice for a woman to offer right away....no one should be insulted by this or hold them in contempt of court!, it is 2009 and most have come to an understanding that its a level playing field in today's world. It puts a smile on my face when a date offers to pay, a sweet sentiment and no doubt very sincere. (Even after she has said she will make the apple pie next time....priceless). If two people are getting along it's never an issue, if my date wants to split that's fine, I usually refuse because it's the polite thing to do. But I have never argued the fact, you know that it's all going to even itself out in the long run,most of us understand this fact. And if it's only the one date thingy, you usually don't find that out until the next day, so it all comes down to respect, respect that fact that you are not going on a second date and suck it up buttercup. If it's costing you a fortune, there is obviously a profound character flaw in your judgement and you are not dating the right people.

leagueofextraordinarymen

Joined: 3/24/2008

Msg: 58 (view)

Have any other women experienced this? Posted: 10/27/2009 5:19:48 PM
Once again ,this is why a few phone calls prior to the date are a must....

leagueofextraordinarymen

Joined: 3/24/2008

Msg: 35 (view)

Is this a date or a job interview? Posted: 10/27/2009 5:08:28 PM
I find all this out by a few phone call prior to asking them out on a date and reading ones profile, dates are supposed to be fun and you can relax because you know most of the prelims already. Is this not the only logical way to proceed prior to the date, is it not silly to go out on a date or a meet and no nothing about them, its absolutely asinine. "Oh I didn't know you had 18 children", what fool does this, "oops" obviously many!!!

leagueofextraordinarymen

Joined: 3/24/2008

Msg: 102 (view)

Sweet guy, low income OR abusive guy, high income Posted: 10/27/2009 4:17:11 PM
I didn't read any responses based on the fact that this was a nice guy thread... This is a dating site ...do you expect women or men for that fact to open up and tell you the truth. people think that because I'm retired means a low income, it's been asked...and questioned. We are all programmed to automatically put labels on people based on their income or for that matter "type of employment". Some can see past that level of ideology but yet are "conformers" to the fact that they do care what their friends would think. I would like to surmise that we have evolved to a level of understanding beyond this but like they say " resistance is futile" JMO.

leagueofextraordinarymen

Joined: 3/24/2008

Msg: 59 (view)

Party like they're still in high school and other turn offs Posted: 10/27/2009 3:52:37 PM
I dated a lady a few years ago, who went back to college, she was 37....she just loved going out with the young-ins and acting a fool....and loved the attention, she was the center of attraction ( "the older woman"), so to solve this dilemma, when I went out with her and her college buddies I would act just like them, humping and grinding on the dance floor getting half naked etc... I think she seen the light because "she" "told me to grow up".

leagueofextraordinarymen

Joined: 3/24/2008

Msg: 43 (view)

when did coffee become a first date? Posted: 10/27/2009 3:35:46 PM
If you have emailed and phoned each other and feel you at least connect on an intellectual level, what's wrong with going out on a date...it's better than sitting at home in front of this thing. Who cares about looks, nobodies telling you have to marry them, some of you need to relax a little and enjoy life, you never know you could meet a really nice person, and just not be attracted to them, don't we all have friends that are geeky looking... in many cases all we have to do is " look in the mirror". As far as money I feel sorry for the people that are so worried about wasting a whole pocket full a chump change. Some of you must date every day to be that broke. Don't you know anything of the person you are conversing with , obviously not. As one person stated if they have blatantly lied get some gonads and say see ya...

leagueofextraordinarymen

Joined: 3/24/2008

Msg: 36 (view)

Is different taste in music enough for you to kill the second date? Posted: 10/27/2009 3:11:02 PM
Not only music, but many factors ...like their taste in furniture etc..

leagueofextraordinarymen

Joined: 3/24/2008

Msg: 19 (view)

Astounded by the amt of perverts on here... Posted: 10/27/2009 3:08:12 PM
Protest to POF to have words such as sex etc...to automatically stop messages from being sent, it's a very simple program to install....wait a minute then I wouldn't be able send or receive any messages, cancel last lol.... Yup it happens on here, but I would say most of the time its peeps under 18 looking for some entertainment...

leagueofextraordinarymen

Joined: 3/24/2008

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Why would the Ex be checking me out? Posted: 10/27/2009 2:57:09 PM
Maybe it's his girlfriend checking you out with his profile, wouldn't be the first time....you should be flattered.

leagueofextraordinarymen

Joined: 3/24/2008

Msg: 130 (view)

Ever been asked,Why aren't you married? Posted: 8/4/2009 3:04:57 PM
I would say its been 50/50 at being asked that particular question, that's been my experience. I would respond by saying something like! did you know that at there were only 8 months in a year until Julius and Augustus Cesar where born, then look at them intently, and they should reply, "that still only makes 10 months"! then you look at them intently again and say "that brings me to my next assumption" that some of the months were actually longer than a month, now look at them intently once more and scratch your head a few times adjust your nut sack, and excuse yourself to the bathroom. I would ask you "why do you spend so much time at the beach" lol. Have a nice night everyone...

leagueofextraordinarymen

Joined: 3/24/2008

Msg: 38 (view)

When did we become old fuddy duddies? Posted: 8/4/2009 2:39:31 PM
Remember the good old days, when your friends would come over unannounced, with a case of beer and you would drink till the wee hours in the morning "talking about the good old days". Well now if your friends are phoning to tell you they are coming over, and they show up without a case of beer and your buying, wait a minute that would have made you a fuddy duddie a long time ago, just how old are you When you find yourself going to bed right after supper,and you're to lazy to change your diaper! yup you're a fuddy duddie. Have a nice night everyone

leagueofextraordinarymen

Joined: 3/24/2008

Msg: 19 (view)

How do I let a guy down easy Posted: 8/4/2009 2:12:01 PM
First stop dating guys in high school!!! lol Next; how do you know if he would even care....why do some women automatically think they will be hurting a guys feelings, really most won't lose any sleep over it, so tell him to quit acting like a "dork"(oops just gave away my age) sounds like he's a real catch,chasing around his friends left overs. Not that you are leftovers, just a figure of speech. Have a nice night everyone.

leagueofextraordinarymen

Joined: 3/24/2008

Msg: 21 (view)

favorites list??? Posted: 8/4/2009 2:01:07 PM
Just limit your criteria to men under 60 and you "probably" won't have that problem anymore When a man smiles at you and you smile back, what thought did you just formulate, now draw a conclusion and use a bit of trigonometry and you will have your answer. "I'm kidding of course" about the age thingy. Have a nice night everyone.

leagueofextraordinarymen

Joined: 3/24/2008

Msg: 45 (view)

Heels and shorter guys - advice please! Posted: 7/13/2009 11:43:20 AM
So what happens when you both sit down and you are taller! are you going to bring along a pillow for your date....

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