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 Author Thread: Why is McCain getting $58,000 a year in disability income?
 silver fox 007
Joined: 3/25/2008
Msg: 149 (view)
 
Why is McCain getting $58,000 a year in disability income?
Posted: 7/20/2008 8:41:48 AM
"Why is McCain getting $58,000 a year in disability income?" Do you have to ask??? Just listen to him!
 silver fox 007
Joined: 3/25/2008
Msg: 52 (view)
 
I cant seem to let go of my cheating wife..Y??
Posted: 7/20/2008 8:18:33 AM
Men always want what they can't have. Same goes for women. Don't be so eager or available.
 silver fox 007
Joined: 3/25/2008
Msg: 30 (view)
 
Need advice on insecurity due to bad past relationships
Posted: 7/13/2008 2:39:14 PM
Yes, Satingirl5 the pain does go away, if you let it. First you need to accept things just the way they are. Life is a process. There is no guarantee that we will always have what we want or always be happy, no matter how hard we work or how good we are to others. As harsh as that sounds, that's reality. The best way to deal with the uncertainties of life is to always love yourself and be secure in who you are. If you can do this you will feel pain from time to time, but it won't devastate you. You sound like a very giving, loving, caring person. You need to give that same love to yourself.
If you aren't able to do that on your own then I would suggest you get counseling. Your mental health and well being is just as important as your physical health. If you were having chest pain you would go see a doctor. You heart appears to be aching, see a doctor. Death is never the answer.
 silver fox 007
Joined: 3/25/2008
Msg: 45 (view)
 
What to do When He Comes Back?
Posted: 7/13/2008 11:52:40 AM
Tell him you'll consider taking him back after he has had a job and a place of his own for a year. Period!!
 silver fox 007
Joined: 3/25/2008
Msg: 466 (view)
 
Why do guys always do this to me? Does anyone else have this problem?...
Posted: 7/13/2008 11:35:39 AM
You will drive yourself crazy trying to figure out why someone else treats you badly.
In your case, any one who treats you like this guy has doesn't deserve a second thought. No matter if he is just confused...yah right, scared, playing hard to get, joking with you......IT ISN"T mature, funny or cute and hopefully you have enough self-worth that you wouldn't want him back even if he came crawling on all fours. I think you need to read "Why Men Love B_____s" and work on your self-esteem before you look for anyone else. Unfortunately, guys like the one you ran into feed their egos off of gals with low self-esteem because they know you will let them walk all over you. You deserve better.
 silver fox 007
Joined: 3/25/2008
Msg: 314 (view)
 
How can men stop having feelings so quickly?
Posted: 5/27/2008 11:37:24 AM
I read somewhere that when a man says he loves you, especially early on in a relationship, what he really means is that he wants to have sex with you. I think some people are just able to say, I love you easier then others and there isn't a lot of true emotion behind the words. I also believe men and women show their emotions differently and protect themselves emotionally in different ways.
 silver fox 007
Joined: 3/25/2008
Msg: 27 (view)
 
Hurt games men play on this site, any other women experienced this?
Posted: 5/27/2008 11:17:31 AM
I've heard that there is a game going on to see which man can get the most favorites. Also, guys in their 50s and up have told me that they fear younger women are just out to get into their wallet and take advantage of all that they have accummulated over the years. If they are on here many in that age group are probably divorced and already had to share their wealth and don't want to go down that road again. Just a thought.
 silver fox 007
Joined: 3/25/2008
Msg: 37 (view)
 
Dinner then a HOTEL? Does this happen a lot?
Posted: 4/23/2008 5:58:43 AM
It shouldn't matter whose car you were in. Men who want sex on a first date are only interested in their own agenda. They don't even pay attention to what you say or do.
I'm not saying all men are the same, but it has been my experience that 99 % of the guys on dating sites are looking for sex. They play a game they call push and pull, but in my day it was called cat and mouse. They give you lots of attention until they get what they want, then they back off. They do this on and off game to keep you guessing about their real intentions or to keep you around until they need you again. Have you ever looked at the topics listed below an email note, on here, as to the top subjects that men like to talk about. Sex is high on the list. I think there are a lot of sexually frustrated men out there. Please don't blame yourself. Just do whatever you have to do to be safe. Some guys, even supposedly upstanding, nice guys don't like to take "no" for an answer.
 silver fox 007
Joined: 3/25/2008
Msg: 26 (view)
 
Lakeland Winter Haven get together
Posted: 4/21/2008 8:59:30 AM
I would love to attend a gathering of singles from the Winter Haven, Lakeland and surrounding areas. I like the idea of a picnic type get-together. Perhaps everyone could bring a dish of food. There is a new park with nice facilities on Lake Hartridge just off Havendale Blvd. Joyce
 
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