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 Author Thread: emailing others.
 moonray1969
Joined: 7/23/2005
Msg: 6 (view)
 
emailing others.
Posted: 6/16/2006 5:05:26 AM
The best thing to do i find is to tell them what caught you're attention in their profile, it's a good starting point. Hopefully it leads to them reading you're profile and emailing back!

if that doesn't work, resort to the naked pictures.........lol
 moonray1969
Joined: 7/23/2005
Msg: 85 (view)
 
As Inspired by the BC forums: Where'd You Go to Highschool?
Posted: 6/11/2006 5:37:03 AM
Looks like i'm the first posting from Simonds High School, class of "87"
 moonray1969
Joined: 7/23/2005
Msg: 6 (view)
 
How about something fun???
Posted: 1/4/2006 9:49:02 AM
^^^

You have an awesome smile!
 moonray1969
Joined: 7/23/2005
Msg: 45 (view)
 
Is there anything wrong with dating several people at the same time?
Posted: 11/23/2005 2:52:47 AM
I don't think there's anything wrong with dating more than one person at a time but then i guess it depends on the person's idea of what "dating" means.

I think dating means meeting people (be it one person or several) and going out several times to learn more about them.

I find it especially hard to know if someone i've met for the very first time could "be the one" after just one evening together. First of all they are usually on their best behaviour and so you're not always getting to see the real person. Yes you can tell some things from phone calls and emails but spending time together is important to see how they react to everyday life. I chose not to go further than kissing ('') when dating someone, i let them know that i need to get to know them before going further.

If i go out with someone i've known for awhile as a friend or i know alot about them already from mutal friends, i don't feel that need to "date them" so i have usually gone with the "whatever feels good at the time" attitude.

I think it mostly comes down to a personal decision and what's right for yourself because you're the one who has to live with you're choices! If i am past the dating stage then personally i keep it to one person at a time and i would expect the same!
 moonray1969
Joined: 7/23/2005
Msg: 13 (view)
 
Cold, lonely nights....and sleeping alone
Posted: 11/21/2005 8:05:42 PM
Well it helps to spend the money and make a few changes!

Indulge in a new set of satin sheets or flannel if you need the warmth. Just make sure it's something that you'll look forward to climbing into! A nice cozy blanket helps too for those nights when you sleep on the couch because the bed feels lonely. We've all done it!

It still won't be easy for awhile but by making a few changes at least it won't have as many memories.
 moonray1969
Joined: 7/23/2005
Msg: 12 (view)
 
Quiz time ?
Posted: 10/4/2005 11:04:44 AM
~~Coke~~
 moonray1969
Joined: 7/23/2005
Msg: 28 (view)
 
Do women judge a person from the vehicle they drive?
Posted: 10/4/2005 11:00:04 AM
It doesn't matter to me...........

I've recently upgraded myself from a 1990 Jetta to a 1992 Jetta. If someone wouldn't date me because my car isn't new then i couldn't care less. I would rather have an older vehicle and a few bucks in my wallet than a shiny new car i can't afford to drive anywhere's.
 moonray1969
Joined: 7/23/2005
Msg: 116 (view)
 
What floats your boat... Non Sexually?
Posted: 9/15/2005 3:09:44 AM
~~Comfortable Silence~~

There's nothing better than snuggling with the one you love and not having to say a word.
 moonray1969
Joined: 7/23/2005
Msg: 8 (view)
 
when do you finally grow up?
Posted: 8/25/2005 1:32:56 PM
I think kids help you mature because you're the responsible adult but as far as growing up i'm not sure how to define that?

I'm turning 36 in a few days but i still think i'm more about 25 when it comes to my attitude. I don't care if i look silly when i'm playing with the kids on the monkey bars, it's fun so i'm going to do it. I don't mind trying new things, i have found out that i can't roller blade although i did master stand in one spot without falling down!!!

I think people shouldn't take themselves too seriously, i'm not sure i could ever be with someone who doesn't know how to be a kid at least some of the time. What fun is life if you always afraid to do something because you'll look silly!
 moonray1969
Joined: 7/23/2005
Msg: 23 (view)
 
How long before you PUT OUT when your dating?
Posted: 8/25/2005 1:09:03 PM
Well i have never had "sex" on the first date but if both people are feeling the same attraction i don't find anything wrong with exploring each other right away!

I think every situation is different, as long as you're making a descision that is right for you then i don't think it really affects the chances of turning a date into a relationship.

What if you think you've found someone who's perfect in every way so you hold off for 2 or 3 months before doing "IT". Then it happens and it really sucks.......lol, what do you do then?
 moonray1969
Joined: 7/23/2005
Msg: 12 (view)
 
Most horrendous blind/internet date ever?
Posted: 8/25/2005 12:27:20 PM
Ouch, i have to ask RiogarD; is that person still you're friend..........?

Sorry i don't have any good stories, my only blind date was just a nice walk with some good conversation.
 moonray1969
Joined: 7/23/2005
Msg: 27 (view)
 
The First Kiss
Posted: 8/11/2005 10:06:22 AM
I think the first kiss tells alot.............!

I don't think it matters so much what type it was, a peck, short & sweet, long & hot......i think you need to go with you're gut and if it feels good definatly explore further!
 moonray1969
Joined: 7/23/2005
Msg: 6 (view)
 
How do you let someone know you're interested?
Posted: 8/7/2005 12:55:46 PM
Well i have dated a few people at work (there are over a thousand people). My advice is to send an email letting them know something paticular you like about them. It could be as simple as letting them know that you find yourself looking forward to seeing them each day and state why. Just make sure you keep it light and fun. Everyone loves compliments and it's an easy way to start a conversation.

Best of luck!!
 
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